Figuring it out

[Lookingforadventure]

I've just started this thread. How did I miss it for so long?

I just read the remote controlled vibrator story. You guys are so much fun!

54321

I'm glad you've found us. I hope you enjoy the rest of the story as well.

[Lookingforadventure]

I had a play date with Adventurer and Sir yesterday. It had been six months since I had seen Sir in person. I posted earlier that I was having mixed feelings about it. He's become a good friend and I genuinely like him, but we've been out of sync in terms of our timing. We haven't chatted much lately and have struggled to find time to play. I wasn't sure how it would feel to get together.

At the same time, I was excited. Adventurer loves kinky sex and has been teasing me about this play date for weeks. I enjoy all the naughty attention, plus I'm fairly kinky myself. So handcuffs, face fucking, ass play, etc are all right up my alley. I was excited to see what an afternoon in the BDSM play space would entail.

I'm pleased to report that being with Sir was not as awkward as I thought it might be. It was probably a little less fluid than our previous play times have been, but generally speaking the play and non-play times went very smoothly. We enjoyed each other's company, had nice wine, and I think everyone left very satisfied. I know that I did

A few highlights from me (perhaps Adventurer will share some of his favourite moments too):
* Adventurer wanted to watch at the beginning. Sir came up behind me to play with my nipples. He roughly groped my breasts and rolled my nipples between his fingers. He also dipped a hand down and began to play with my clit. He smelled good, and having his arms around me as my body experienced those sensations was very enjoyable. I also liked catching Adventurer's eye.

* In a similar experience, I enjoyed bending over the coffee table and making eye contact with Adventurer while Sir spanked and flogged my ass. He later fucked it with a dildo. At one point, I was getting close to an orgasm and I grabbed a dildo from on the table in front of me and began to lick and suck it as I teased Adventurer with my eyes. It only lasted a few seconds before I had to put the dildo down and cum, but I think it surprised him in a very good way. In any case, he soon joined in with the spanking and play.

* Adventurer and I had been talking about suspension play. This rental space has a rigging system set up in the ceiling that can hold several hundred pounds of weight. They also have professional equipment for being suspended. We had tried it once before (me attached to the suspension bar with wrist cuffs) but I didn't last that long because it put too much strain on my wrists and shoulders. Since then, I've been doing pole dancing as a fitness class and I've gained some core strength. I thought I could do better. We opted to use some leather ankle cuffs and rig me upside down instead. I was a bit nervous, but it worked better than expected. Plus, when I was winched up to the right height, I was ideally situated to suck cock as a standing man played with my pussy. Let me just say that I quite enjoyed that. Sirs cock got very hard in my mouth...and I had the excuse of "stability" for grabbing his butt to hold myself steady. Hee Hee.

* The space has a nipple stretcher toy. There is a base that fits along your sternum and then a cross bar that can lift or lower with a turn of a knob. At the end of each side of the cross bar are some clover nipple clamps on chains. We've tried that toy before and I tapped out very quickly. My nipples are sensitive, which is a good thing and normally a bit of nipple play (even pain) heightens other sensations for me, but the stretcher is quite intense. This time, I lasted much longer. I was proud of myself for that accomplishment...and for trying several new toys and experiences.

A few not-so-highlights:

* BDSM play is a cathartic experience for me. I often end up a bit teary by the end of play. It isn't from pain or sadness. I think it is just my body being pushed to its limits and needing to express that. I always find this a bit embarrassing, even though I think it is quite normal. It ends quickly, I just need to stop play and have a moment to collect myself. During this play session, that happened more than once. The men were perfect gentlemen - stopping the play, checking in, adjusting things as necessary. But, in hindsight, I'm disappointed in myself for needing to ask for breaks.

* The space wasn't air conditioned and yesterday was a warm one here in the Toronto area. The apartment was about 82 degrees Fahrenheit and between that and all my exertions, I was quite sweaty. Add to that the fact that the lube Sir used to slide his hand and large toys into my holes, and that Adventurer kept making me squirt, I felt like a mess. The play session ended with Adventurer's cum all over my face and chest as I kneeled on the floor. It was a good thing that there is a large shower so I could look fresh for the drive home.

Maybe I'll end this recap here, except to say that Sir did talk about how busy he's been, and he apologized for not always being as engaged as he could be. He hugged me goodbye and texted me 5 minutes later when we were in the car driving home. He thanked us for the play time and said he looked forward to the next one. He also texted me several more times that evening. So I think things are in a good place with him, even if they aren't what they used to be.

[regular3]

Thank you for your fabulous update. Hopefully there's some images to go with your retelling, although your words paint a thousand pictures.
Particularly descriptive is your sweaty, cum covered body. To me there is nothing sexier than sweaty, slippery sex. You would have been positively glowing.

[Lookingforadventure]

Thank you for your fabulous update. Hopefully there's some images to go with your retelling, although your words paint a thousand pictures.
Particularly descriptive is your sweaty, cum covered body. To me there is nothing sexier than sweaty, slippery sex. You would have been positively glowing.

Thank you Regular3. I see that you found the photos

And thank you for saying that about sweatiness being sexy. I really was a mess, but both men seemed to enjoy that.

[Lookingforadventure]

How was your Monday morning? Mine included a threesome with my husband and my boyfriend

[afagehi7]

How was your Monday morning? Mine included a threesome with my husband and my boyfriend

Share some deets with us! Your Monday was way better than most of us

[Lookingforadventure]

Share some deets with us! Your Monday was way better than most of us

I will, I promise. I just need a bit of time to get it written up. But the short version is that it was bliss!

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Your wonderfully descriptive narrative has placed some beautifully sexy images in my mind. I have no doubt that you looked as magnificent as those images.

[Lookingforadventure]

Before I share details about my Monday morning threesome (which still has my smiling, an it is Thursday!), I realized that I neglected to tell you about a few parts of Friday's BDSM play date.

I had made a mental list of things that I hoped to do while we were together. One of those things was suspension play (which I've already described), but another was to explore suction. At home, Adventurer and I have these small suction toys. I just googled them and apparently they are called "nipple cups". They may be officially designed to help breastfeeding mothers who have flat or inverted nipples, but they have fun other uses too

The technology is pretty simple. You put the base on your nipple, you twist the handle, it seals around your skin and pulls the nipple up. We've experimented with these several times. I enjoy the sensation, but I also enjoy how long and erect my nipples are after the toys are removed...and how sensitive they are to kissing and sucking.

All of which is to say that we have dabbled in some suction play in the past...BUT.... sir has a more industrial strength suction toy. I has asked about it on previous play dates, and he was willing to help me experiment. Unfortunately, when he took it out last time, the machine wasn't working properly. He needed to take it home and tinker. I'm happy to report that the repairs were a success, and we were able to put it to use!

We tried the toy on my breasts and later on my clit. Here is my review:
* The effect was very sexy visually. My skin was pulled up quickly and easily. The toy also sucked blood towards the surface. My breasts (and later my vulva and clit) were red and distended in a way that looked pretty sexy (if you enjoy that sort of thing).
* The toy is WAY more powerful than the small ones we have. I felt it right away. My nipples had just been removed from the nipple stretcher, so they were still very sensitive and I think that made the experience more extreme. I would be curious to try it again with "fresh" nipples and see how it feels.
* As a funny side effect, the toy left a hickey on my breasts

Sir also brought his e-stim machine. I've grown quite fond of it. I think I've described the sensations before, so I won't go into detail except to share one funny anecdote. Sir had inserted a probe into my butt and another in my pussy. The machine was going with two different currents. One would build in intensity as the other waned. I was enjoying the warmth and the pulsing. My orgasm was building.

When I came, it was hard, and the probe in my pussy popped right out!

Here's the thing about electricity: While the probe is inserted it is a pleasurable kind of wave because there is constant contact. If it is removed, there is a gap and the result is a shock. Wowzers that hurt! Sir instinctively reached out his hand to grab the probe and he got a shock too. LOL.

He shut down the machine and we took a breather before trying again. From that point forward, he kept a finger on the probes so that no one would get zapped

[regular3]

Oh wow. Hope it hasn't turned you off this kind of play. Ofcourse a new photo or two would help illustrate the e-stim and the suctioning
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Did you get an opportunity to tie up your breasts? I think you mentioned that was on your list.

[Lookingforadventure]

Oh wow. Hope it hasn't turned you off this kind of play. Ofcourse a new photo or two would help illustrate the e-stim and the suctioning
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Did you get an opportunity to tie up your breasts? I think you mentioned that was on your list.

It was just one, sudden jolt to my labia. It surprised me and pinched, but was more funny in retrospect than painful. It didn't turn me off, but did make me regularly remind Sir to "NOT LET IT SLIP OUT!". LOL

I tried posted a couple of pics to the BDSM forum. They aren't showing up for some reason, but if you click the link it might work. Otherwise I'll try again later.

p.s. No breast binding. I guess we'll have to schedule another play time.

[Lookingforadventure]

After I came back from my time away in Florida, Adventurer asked if he could join G and I for a threesome sometime soon. I think his request may have been inspired by how giddy and happy I was upon my return. He wanted to witness, in person, what it was like when G and I are together. Or maybe Adventurer just knew how much I enjoy having two men, who adore me, be available to pleasure me in every conceivable way. Whatever his reasoning, I was very happy to oblige. We asked G, and he was game as well. Yaaay!

That threesome date took place on Monday. Adventurer and I drove together and met G at the hotel. G actually arrived first, and I suggested that maybe we should walk in together to check in. I could hold each man's hand, and smile sweetly at the desk clerk...but we decided not to ruffle too many feathers first thing in the morning.

Adventurer and I checked in, then texted G the room number. He joined us a few minutes later.

I'm not sure I have words to describe the experience...not because I don't remember it in vivid detail, but because I'm not sure words capture it that well. I loved kissing my husband, as my boyfriend came up behind me and kissed my neck. I loved having four hands roaming my body. I loved pulling my sweater over my head and then smiling at my husband as my boyfriend slid his hand inside my yoga pants and rubbed my clit until I came. The words say what happened, but they miss the nuance of how blissful and wonderful it was.

As one can expect, I did end up with a lot of cock I could switch from sucking one to the other when they were both lying back on the bed. I could suck one while the other fucked me. And I could fuck them in succession when one got tired. It was amazing! I'm not saying that I'm insatiable, but having two men available to meet my needs did seem to work out well for me. LOL

I'm not sure if I had a favourite moment. Truthfully, it might have been during a rest period when I got to lay on the bed between both naked men and cuddle for awhile. (My husband is my person in all aspects of our life. I like that he gets along with my boyfriend and that both are comfortable being with me together). But all the moments were amazing.

After 90 minutes or so, Adventurer got dressed to head to the office. This had been planned because he wanted to give me alone time with G in addition to my threesome. I kissed him goodbye and told him how much I loved him. He winked at me and told me to keep having fun.

The only downside was that we were so caught up in the experience that we forgot to tackle my bucket list. I had wanted to try to straddle G and lean back so that Adventurer could lick my clit as I was getting fucked. I also wanted to try a DP. I guess we'll have to plan another three-way date in the future...oh no

[Long Lurker 34]

LFA - Livin life to the fullest. The envy of many. You go girl.

[ChicagoBWC]

Thanks for the recap of your amazingly hot adventures. Love the pics in the other thread as well. Sounds like what should be the first of many incredible threesomes with G. Reminds me of some old friends of mine. Often after we would indulge in a threesome for a 1-2 hours he would excuse himself from the room and find a reason to leave me alone with his wife to enjoy some one-on-one time. So much fun.

Hope you get to check those items off your bucket list next time you are all together! I find myself curious about how you made G and Adventurer cum during the threesome. So many delicious options and it sounds like you indulged in quite a few them.

Thanks again for sharing your adventures! Long time reader and a big fan of you both.

[54321]

I asked if he’d help undress me for my boyfriend.

I was in the middle with one of my men on each side of me. I turned my head to kiss Adventurer. I told him how much I loved him, as G’s hand slowly stroked my breast and stomach. Then I turned fully onto my side to kiss G. I pulled Adventurer’s arm so that he was spooning me and kissing my neck and shoulders as I made out with my boyfriend.

I got up on my knees and took G’s cock in my mouth... I stopped sucking cock long enough to give my husband a kiss goodbye.

LOVE these details!

54321

[54321]

Post by Lookingforadventure » Thu Sep 22, 2022 8:34 pm

solstice wrote: ↑Wed Sep 21, 2022 4:48 pm
But selfishly, I think I'd prefer one-on-one time with him rather than a gang bang.

I don't see the term selfish in any of it's form applying to you, you think of others to a fault, hot wives can become a little self centred as they become caught up in delights of the new and there guy's needs can be put on the back burner, but you show increasing concern for Adventurer, reading your thread gives me a warm glow, and thank you for keeping us up to date with your exploring the delights of hotwifeing.
Thank you Solstice. True story: I was on a date with my boyfriend, G, and I checked OHWs. I said, "aww...Solstice said the nicest thing to me." G read it and agreed that what you said was true, and that it was nice of you to say. Then I put my phone away and returned to fucking

Yes. There's a lot of love in this thread which is why I enjoy it so much.

54321

[54321]

Then, we had amazing, wonderful, passionate, eager, tender, romantic sex for the next several hours.

Fabulous!

5 minutes after I parked the car in the driveway, a delivery vehicle pulled up, and a nice gentleman wished me a happy anniversary as he handed me flowers.

The card inside read, "Thank you for making the leap to visit that park two years ago today. It was an incredible experience and I have loved every adventure since then. You are an amazing partner and I love everything about you. I look forward to many, many more adventures, whether together or you telling me about them afterward  Happy anniversary"

I have the best husband!

Oh, and he also gave me a necklace with the initial "G" on it to wear whenever I wanted to be reminded that I have multiple men who enjoy having regular sex with me. As I said earlier, he's the best.

You guys have such a wonderful relationship!

54321

[regular3]

Love your beautiful recounting of your trysts. Always a joy to read.
Were you rewarded with a double cream pie?

[Lookingforadventure]

LFA - Livin life to the fullest. The envy of many. You go girl.

Thanks friend. I find it a bit funny that my threesome date and bdsm date were three days apart. But I do love that my husband encouraged me to do both. Becoming a hot wife was not something I ever thought I'd do, but I've really been enjoying all the new and wonderful experiences.

[Lookingforadventure]

Thanks for the recap of your amazingly hot adventures. Love the pics in the other thread as well. Sounds like what should be the first of many incredible threesomes with G. Reminds me of some old friends of mine. Often after we would indulge in a threesome for a 1-2 hours he would excuse himself from the room and find a reason to leave me alone with his wife to enjoy some one-on-one time. So much fun.

Hope you get to check those items off your bucket list next time you are all together! I find myself curious about how you made G and Adventurer cum during the threesome. So many delicious options and it sounds like you indulged in quite a few them.

Thanks again for sharing your adventures! Long time reader and a big fan of you both.

Thank you ChicagoBWC. Sounds like you have some good adventures to share too

As for the threesome, I ended up with several loads of cum inside me. We had talked about both men cumming on my face, but that didn't end up happening. Instead, I went home with massive amounts of semen in my pussy.

It was funny because I had pole dancing class that evening. Even though I had showered before, I felt like I still smelled like sex in my tiny pole shorts.

[Lookingforadventure]

Yes. There's a lot of love in this thread which is why I enjoy it so much.

54321

This means a lot. Thank you.

[Lookingforadventure]

Love your beautiful recounting of your trysts. Always a joy to read.
Were you rewarded with a double cream pie?

Thank you. I always enjoy living and recounting them, so that works out well.

As for the double cream pie, the answer is yes.... plus a few more. G stuck around for a few hours and I did my best to drain him.

[Long Lurker 34]

LFA - Livin life to the fullest. The envy of many. You go girl.

Thanks friend. I find it a bit funny that my threesome date and bdsm date were three days apart. But I do love that my husband encouraged me to do both. Becoming a hot wife was not something I ever thought I'd do, but I've really been enjoying all the new and wonderful experiences.

LFA

Get your motor runnin'
Head out on the highway
Looking for adventure
In whatever comes your way
......

Like a true nature's child
You were born, born to be wild

.......

And we (I think I can speak for many here) are thrilled not only that you are having these adventures but that you take the time and effort to allow us lurkers a little peek under the covers.

Have fun and lots of it.

[Fox]

Shirley very much enjoys the attention of another man and me. She loves one in her mouth while being fucked doggie by the other. She loves DP when the anal starts out slow but she really loves DVP probably the most. I have not had the courage to attempt licking her clit while another guy is fucking her but I would like to try it. We have never discussed that idea but I expect she would enjoy it.

Good for you having your first threesome. It will probably get even better the more the three of you experiment with it.

[Lookingforadventure]

Shirley very much enjoys the attention of another man and me. She loves one in her mouth while being fucked doggie by the other. She loves DP when the anal starts out slow but she really loves DVP probably the most. I have not had the courage to attempt licking her clit while another guy is fucking her but I would like to try it. We have never discussed that idea but I expect she would enjoy it.

Good for you having your first threesome. It will probably get even better the more the three of you experiment with it.

Oh, it wasn't my first threesome. It wasn't even my first with G and Adventurers...but was my first in a long time. I think the last time was almost six months ago.

Shirley sounds a lot like me. If she enjoys DVP, maybe I should put it on my list . In all seriousness, I am pretty sure two cocks wouldn't fit...but the other day Adventurer surprised me by using both ends of a double sided dildo in me. It was really good.

So maybe one day