What are things you have said while horny but instantly regretted?

[ucaneffher]

So many of us cucks have said some extreme things to our women while horny but ended wanting to take back after reaching an orgasm.

God knows that I have said some things that I felt were super hot and I felt that I truly wanted and I really did but didn't have the courage unless I was horny. Long story short, while I said things while horny, I remained a man of my word and watched my girlfriend follow through on doing everything I told her that I was okay with her doing and in fact after a few times of her doing them I ended accepting them and loving them.

For me, it was:

-Telling her to always prioritize her time with other men instead of me. I gave her permission to blow me off and cancel plans if other men requested her. Told her I wanted to experience her making herself unavailable for me because of her being busy with so many dates with other men.

-Telling her to keep pushing her relationship further with her regular lover of years as she had wanted to be his girlfriend and in a relationship with him for a while. Told her that no matter how jealous I got, that I was supportive of her becoming more and more his and didn't want her to stop even if I asked her to, even if I got crabby with her picking him to spend more time with him over me.

-Telling her that she could wear whatever she wanted and then when it came time to watch her go out, she went out in public in something intended only for the bedroom or a strip club but it was too late and she made me eat my words by leaving the house in an outfit that left zero to the imagination.


What have you said?

[PANTIES]

I’ve told her do what you but be safe and come back to me. Currently she goes to her lovers Mexico home from Thursday returning Monday afternoon. When returns she has been well satisfied.

Pauline

[thegoat4321]

I want to hear about people who encouraged their wife to live with another man. It's something I'm interested in.

[PANTIES]

A couple of summers ago, the guy who had became the man in life as a home here where live. He had her move in with him for a month. During the time she was gone, we did not text or call.

I got to see her twice for dinner at his home.because I was the guest I brought flowers and bottle of wine. I wasn’t paying attention at the time but her hair style had changed.

After dinner we were talking and my wife stood and when to take a shower. When she truned she put on fresh makeup, wearing a g-string and a tank top. She sat on his lap drinking from his glass. Her lover whispered in her ear and she smiled and told me they are tired and wanted to go to bed. She walked to the door and simply said, thank you for the flowers and wine. Later in the 30 I returned for dinner and it was the same performance. My female counselor told me he was showing you your place in their relationship.

When she returned she had changed her appearance, make up, hair, perfume and clothes.she was not wearing her wedding rings but a ring he had given her.for all intents she was his.

Pauline

[ucaneffher]

I want to hear about people who encouraged their wife to live with another man. It's something I'm interested in.

I always told her it would be so hot if you lived full time with another man who would have you when ever he wanted without worrying about anything. The few times I brought it up was when I was horny and she would also get super horny talking about it but that was it.

Well, eventually things got serious with her steady lover and one Monday evening after work she told me that she was moving out on Friday and needed my help that weekend because she and her now boyfriend had signed a lease to an apartment.

My heart sank and I wasn't sure how to react. I always found it hot during sex but it was seriously happening now. She had already signed the lease and it was happening, there was definitely no turning back. I sucked it up and accepted.

That weekend I helped her take all her stuff but for some larger items i had two friends come help me with a van. They couldn't understand why she was moving to an apartment if we weren't breaking up but that's a different story. (Hint: few months after helping with the move one of them introduced my gf to a friend of theirs and he eventually started went visiting her place and fucked her)

So the lease was for 12 months but her and the new boyfriend didn't last long, he moved out and she kept the apartment. She was living the single life and absolutely loving it. She had guy friends over several nights a week, overnighters in fact. Parties and get togethers where her girlfriends would bring guys over and the guys had guy friends which would be for my gf to pick from. During the 12 month lease she fucked the most men she ever had in our entire 2 years of our lifestyle relationship.

When it came time to decide to move out or sign a new lease. She surprised me by telling me that she had re extended the lease and was staying another 6 months. I bet the neighbors saw this 21 year old hottie and figured she was a naughty little slut considering how many men came in and out of her apartment at all hours.

To sum it all up, this was all fantasy talk during sex but once it did happen and i couldn't take it back, I quickly learned to love it despite feeling left out. After she moved back, I realized how much I liked the arrangement and asked her if she would like to give it another try and we were actually discussing her going for it with her new boyfriend but we never went further.

[Maddie_Hippychick]

Ucaneffher, I’ve read about your experience in some of your other posts, but I don’t recall if you have shared much about your day-to-day during this period. I would love to know… How much contact did you have with your girlfriend? Did you call/text daily? Did you spend much time at her apartment? Did she come back home to see you? Did you spend any nights together? Did you socialize together with friend and family? Did you go out on dates? Did you date anyone else? Did have sex with her at all? Did she share with you the details of her sex life?

[ucaneffher]

Ucaneffher, I’ve read about your experience in some of your other posts, but I don’t recall if you have shared much about your day-to-day during this period. I would love to know… How much contact did you have with your girlfriend? Did you call/text daily? Did you spend much time at her apartment? Did she come back home to see you? Did you spend any nights together? Did you socialize together with friend and family? Did you go out on dates? Did you date anyone else? Did have sex with her at all? Did she share with you the details of her sex life?

Thanks for your interest Maddie, so I was not allowed to call or text unless she reached out first or it was during work hours. We talked and texted daily, in the beginning it was to see how she was doing living her new life with her new man and her finding out how I was holding up alone but it soon normalized and we began normal conversations including steamed ones about how she was not holding back and giving herself to him like never before. We kept our intimacy alive that way, she would tell me about her life with him and their social outings with our friends. We still went on dates, she came by a handful of times but never to stay over, once she had her place she either only slept at her place or other mens homes. We did socialize with friends and family but after she broke up with him not before. our sex was rather limited until he moved out but eleven after, she was still way too active with many men and it was difficult for me to squeeze some time but we managed as long as I was available when she reached out for a quickie in between men.

We snuck around once maybe twice a week when her boyfriend was working, we'd grab a bite or just spend quality time together but when he called, it was time to say goodbye and she'd have to get back home to be ready to be with him. Most of the time I'd pick her up just to not run the risk of being at her place I'm case he got off work early. Only a couple of times I went in briefly. Her and the boyfriend had a house warming party that I obviously wasn't invited to but our friends and his were there, it was intense and hot to know she was openly dating and living with a new man just weeks after our public "break-up".

This didn't last too long, they clashed as they got to know each other and they were mostly connected by their passionate sex but that soon was not enough as they were trying to actually be a couple. Living together will really test a relationship lol. He packed and moved out. She kept the apartment.

The hottest most intense thing for me was loving her, wanting her, but knowing that i couldn't have her because she now belonged to another man. Lived with him, slept with him, and was completely sexually his. The cherry on top was that she actually wanted it. She wanted to be his and wanted me to let her want to be his and actually let it happen which i did. I learned to love knowing that the woman i loved was very happy giving herself to another man and liked being his.

At this point she refused to come back home and instead gave me a key to the apartment but prohibited me from showing up unannounced. She wanted to live alone and be single. She wanted to be able to have men over at any time of day or night. This is when she grew the most in terms of her sexuality. She started having different guy friends visit her through out the week and she also made new "friends" by meeting friends of MY friends and fucking them, she also started casually having sex with a friend of mine from high school. It was all too intense and looking back, i can confidently say that i would not have had it any other way. Overall, I want to live this type of arrangement again but with the intent to live together with her partner down the road after they've had their privacy living alone.

[Cdncuck]

I didn't tick any of the boxes. I've said some of the things on your list but there's never been any regrets.

[Caribwaters]

Similar to Cdncuck, didn't check some of the boxes thatI have told her on repeated occasions that I don't regret. There are a couple checked that I regret only after being permitted to cum. She would never humiliate me in public or out me as a cuck, but the idea is hot when I am all worked up.

She has fucked a friend at my encouragement and their relationship was fairly short lived and we are still fairly close, but it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable when we are in his presence. He doest know that I know and I have never let on.

[Her number1]

I didn't tick any of the boxes. I've said some of the things on your list but there's never been any regrets.

I agree, Cdncuck.

[Cuckyboy3]

The most regrettable thing I ever did was to tell my wife that I'd like her to make me into a sissy beyond the panties. For a while we were both mutually enjoying my panty fetish, but one time in a moment of extreme arousal, I wanted her to degrade me further. We got around to cuddling in bed. She sensed that I wanted to tell her more, so I started cautiously by suggesting that I'd like it if she made me wear a miniskirt. She found it amusing and went along with it.

Then she asked me if "is that all?" I understood that as permission to reveal more. So I spilled more, but in hindsight, I probably misunderstood her. She wasn't asking me to go deeper because she wanted to degrade me - she was asking me if there was anything else she should know so she could avoid surprises. But in my arousal, I was too deep into my own fantasy. I told her I'd like it if she made me wear heels and stockings, garter belt, a bra, and forced me to wear lipstick and eyeliner, and even to shave off my body hair and hang a purse. I went all-in.

That was a mistake. She felt shocked, and it was a turn-off for her. It took months to recover from this. We agreed to step back and stick to the panty plus miniskirt fetish. I did not ever talk again about the rest of it.

Caution to others... go slowly.

[Carlbiinchicago]

Telling her she could have a boyfriend repeatedly during sex.

She ended up telling her mom, two women friends and a guy she met online.

She has been having an affair with the guy she met online for the past 2 years and i have gone sexless

[shorebird]

Two things..... One, regarding her first guy ...I told her she could meet him without me for her first encounter. She did I was working at the time with a hard on all day. It was hard to hide! She decided not to use the condoms she had brought for him as they were too small and she did him 2 times not just once. He finally convinced her to call me to the hotel after he left and I did get to reclaim her but missed her first time. Afterwards I asked her to rate the encounter on a scale of1-10 and she said 12 emphatically with a huge smile! She was hooked and so was I! I missed her first time. Even thought we usual play together I told her she could meet with her now long term BF - lover at his place for her birthday. She took me up on it. I drove her there and they fucked for hours as I was dying waiting all that time. She was soaked when I got there but she did send me a short video of them kissing and her offering him her married pussy for as long as he wanted that evening. On the video he promised me he would leave me a special treat, which he did. It was exquisite agony waiting for the call to return to her to pick her up at his place and retrieve my gift!

[mrdnrm]

I checked two boxes, Pegging and other. Otherwise I have no regrets allow me to explain. In a hot moment while in a sex shop, looking at toys my wife was looking at strap ons , my wife suggested that she wanted to try pegging me and I got turned on by the idea so we purchased a strap on and had one hell of a night. I was so turned on and came several times and she really got into it. But a week later she asked me if I was really on the gay side of the spectrum. I said no way, so we never talked about it and never did it again, that was 25 years ago. I don't want to do it and have lost any and all desire to have it happen again. I never felt gay or have any desire to be with a man, that aside I have sucked several cocks with her. You figure that out.

The "other box" was checked because one time she went on a 4 night 5 day long weekend trip to New York City with three other girls, all married and all cheated on their husbands. I sort of or had half heartedly gave my wife permission to have fun with some if the opportunity arises thinking she would never act upon it. But it would be months later at a BBQ that I would find out she did two guys and the second one spent two days in her hotel room bed without either of them ever getting dressed, including for room service. I never got much details on that weekend and my regret is I wasn't there to watch and be a part of it. As far as I know since then, she has never had sex with another man without out me being present.

[GGG123]

I told my wonderful wife she could have sex with as many people as she wanted. I love it when she sleeps with her BF coz I know she's safe but saying that in the mad throws of reclaiming her one night sent her off the rails. Don't get me wrong, it does turn me on, but afterwards I feel bad about it & worry what trouble she could get into but she says the thrill & the risk just turns her on even more, & having cum inside her makes her even more horny. For the last 3 sat nights she has gone out drinking & clubbing alone & had sex each time with a complete stranger. Normally I'm really turned on while she is out coz I'm just desperate for her when she returns, but this week she got ready to go out, super sex backless black dress, really short, no underwear & she made me fuck her from behind right before she left. She was so turned on at being this risky she just couldn't wait. So then I felt terrible all the time so it really got me thinking that I shouldn't have said that to her

[troilusand]

I want to hear about people who encouraged their wife to live with another man. It's something I'm interested in.

I didn't have to encourage her...she was the catalyst to breaking up her boyfriend's marriage...and he needed a place to stay...so she helped him with house-hunting. Well, once they found him a home, she moved some of her stuff there so she could live with him a couple of days a week.

But yes, I told her I was all for it! There's nothing hotter than your wife being another man's part-time wife. All his friends knew she was married to me, and so did their neighbors. But they also knew they were in love and made a wonderful couple.

Troilus

[Shadnaster]

Why isn't "Will you marry me" on there? LOL

[UkcuckoldSR]

Telling her to tease me about how much bigger my dad's cock is than mine

[ucaneffher]

Why isn't "Will you marry me" on there? LOL

Sometimes it's hard to have everyone's kink down on point but hey, please share the story with us lol

[WifeKnowsBest]

I want to hear about people who encouraged their wife to live with another man. It's something I'm interested in.

Back in 2020 at the start of Covid. A bit of back ground first, I was considered essential and I knew I would had to go to work everyday. The wife was not working and her boyfriend was going to be working from home.

She was sad about not being able fuck her new boyfriend. I don't member exactly what was said, while we where having so really hot sex, but it was something like.

Wife: “I'm really missing fucking Robert.”
Me: “I wish you could, I know how much you want him.”
Wife: “I really need to fuck Robert.”
In my heightened arousal I said
Me: “I would be kinda hot if you moved in with him.”
Wife: “Yes, it would.” She started getting super hot.
I was getting even more excited thinking about her gone to live with another man for a month or so. That he would be getting her pussy and I would get none.
Wife: “I want to move in with Robert.”
I just fucked even faster and got even hotter.
Wife: “If I got to chose a man to be Isolated with I want Robert's cock.”
A few more strokes.
Wife: “Oh, Baby I want to move in with him.”
I was quite worked up at this point.
Me “OK, OK, do it.”
Wife: “Really? I love you, your so good to me. I'm going to fuck him and fuck him and fuck him...”
With that I exploded in her pussy.

I was holding her, “Robert will be so happy. It will be fun living with him for a while, like a long pajama party.” she said with a long giggled. “Your not really going?” I whimpered. “Yes. Your not going to go back on your word.” she replied “But...I didn't...what about me?” I couldn't say anything more.

The next day she moved in with him, she stayed for about 2 months.

[subguy80]

I've done many of these choices, but the only one I actually regret was telling a guy to ejaculate in her when she was not using protection. We all somethings to things in the heat of passion that we look back on and think it was not the best choice. A couple of times, I was watching her fuck a guy while jacking off myself. In both cases, the guy said he was close and asked Sarah where he should "shoot." She looked at me and I was so turned on I told her I wanted it inside her. She nodded to the guy and the moment he moaned and dumped his load inside her pussy, I shot my own load. After that, I had this queasy feeling. As it turned out, he didn't impregnate her but we had several weeks of worry before she got her period. Looking back, however, I have a completely different view of the event and sometimes I jack off it the idea of him actually getting her pregnant. Still, it was a risk we shouldn't have taken.

[Long Lurker 34]

I want to hear about people who encouraged their wife to live with another man. It's something I'm interested in.

Back in 2020 at the start of Covid. A bit of back ground first, I was considered essential and I knew I would had to go to work everyday. The wife was not working and her boyfriend was going to be working from home.

She was sad about not being able fuck her new boyfriend. I don't member exactly what was said, while we where having so really hot sex, but it was something like.

Wife: “I'm really missing fucking Robert.”
Me: “I wish you could, I know how much you want him.”
Wife: “I really need to fuck Robert.”
In my heightened arousal I said
Me: “I would be kinda hot if you moved in with him.”
Wife: “Yes, it would.” She started getting super hot.
I was getting even more excited thinking about her gone to live with another man for a month or so. That he would be getting her pussy and I would get none.
Wife: “I want to move in with Robert.”
I just fucked even faster and got even hotter.
Wife: “If I got to chose a man to be Isolated with I want Robert's cock.”
A few more strokes.
Wife: “Oh, Baby I want to move in with him.”
I was quite worked up at this point.
Me “OK, OK, do it.”
Wife: “Really? I love you, your so good to me. I'm going to fuck him and fuck him and fuck him...”
With that I exploded in her pussy.

I was holding her, “Robert will be so happy. It will be fun living with him for a while, like a long pajama party.” she said with a long giggled. “Your not really going?” I whimpered. “Yes. Your not going to go back on your word.” she replied “But...I didn't...what about me?” I couldn't say anything more.

The next day she moved in with him, she stayed for about 2 months.

WKB - Anything you are able to share about her two months with her BF?

[PANTIES]

Mine stead with her lover for a month. The change in my wife was dramatic. I only saw her twice when we was invited to dinner during the month she was gone. Both times after dinner he and I were drinking wine she left to shower when she returned she as wearing tank top , g-string, and makeup. She sat pn his lap sharing his glass of wine. She said to me after about 30 minutes they were tired and wanted to go to bed. My wife walked me to the door and said, thanks for the flowers and wine:

My female counselor told me my wifewas showing you she belongs to him.

Pauline

[iloanmywife]

I went through the list and had to check every single option at one point or another. I should make a couple of distinctions.

A couple of those things were just horny drunk talk with each other (e.g., breeding fantasies). I remember one particular night of protracted erotic fantasy talk that was so extreme we both apologized to each other after sex. There's no denying it got us both off in the moment, but we giggled about it the next day at breakfast. Like, "WTF is our problem? "

Our earliest hotwife discussions began with that initial cycle of fantasy discussion followed by regret and denial after sex. I don't regret those things now, but I did when we first started playing. A lot. Back then we'd always reassure ourselves after sex that it was all just hot fantasy talk. Even though we were being very literal and specific with each other during the heat of the moment, afterwards we denounced everything we had just said. Eventually we stopped denouncing our fantasies after sex. One of the turning points in our relationship was when we'd get up from bed and say something like, "That was kinda hot. So maybe..."

We no longer deny fantasies after sex, even the more extreme ones. Denying it afterward would water down any future sex talk. If it's just fantasy then it will remain fantasy. We both understand the line between fantasy and reality, and also that the line shifts over time. For us, sharing fantasies is how that line shifts, and we like that it shifts. It's a fun game, maybe a little dangerous. The first time I suggested that she should have a boyfriend (she was already a hotwife) after I orgasmed I regretted bringing it up and hoped she would forget about it. Then I brought it up again during, of course, because I'm a horny cuck and think with my dick. And afterward I immediately regretted it again. Then a third and fourth and twentieth and hundredth time. Gradually I didn't regret it as much, and eventually it happened.

Just this past week I suggested something that I regretted immediately after I blew my load. Even during the sex talk I was asking myself, "Am I sure I want this?" but if my sex drive was cautiously prudent then my wife wouldn't be fucking other men. The next time we had sex, she renewed and continued this fantasy, and I realized it's already a future reality. I'm still have pangs of regret even as I write this, with that intense arousal that comes from shifting our fantasy-reality line.

[MrStepfordWife]

Telling her she should have a serious bf is one I regretted saying afterward, but one we both kept bringing up. Now I know that is what she she prefers.