Wife shocks me with BBC...Ch.2.Admits to more

[Long Lurker 34]

I ended up talking to her. Nice open conversation about it, expressing just how excited I was about the idea since hearing he reached out to rekindle things.

I told her if she's even a bit curious or even just wants to go out for dinner with him to catch up she has my blessing.

I also mentioned I didn't need to be kept in the loop or even hear details, just the knowing she was having a great time being pleasured again by his amazing cock and presence was thrilling beyond measure for me.
I also shared I had zero jealousy or insecurity and had no interest in a " hall pass" for myself.

She said she has no interest at all.
Since then we have joked about it and I let her know just knowing he wanted to again had given me a lot of food for fun masturbatory thought about her and him.

She actually shared a pic of a huge black dick with me yesterday and said he sent it to her as a tease.
I knew she was just playing along with me, and it wasn't true, but was still VERY exciting to receive that.

Who knows what could happen. At least she knows I love and support her either way so perhaps it will lessen her aversion to the idea and she could find herself fantasizing about it sometime.
Hope springs eternal

BF - Think of yourself as a gardener who has planted a seed. Now you have to have the patience to see if it will sprout. Perhaps a tiny bit watering once in a while if you should notice her checking out a guy.

[BBCfan]

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BF - Think of yourself as a gardener who has planted a seed. Now you have to have the patience to see if it will sprout. Perhaps a tiny bit watering once in a while if you should notice her checking out a guy.
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That is the perfect analogy.

The thing is she already does notice if a guy with a huge bulge in his pants walks by and let's me know.

She also has said this guy has the most memorable cock she's ever seen, so there no doubt she admires big dicks.

I think if he continues to pursue her even though she initially turned down his offer, she might just go out for dinner or something if he suggested it.

If he finds out I'm away on business that could very well transpire, but he would have to try and seduce her. She would want to be wooed for sure.

I think that would be the ideal environment for the planted seed to sprout. Just the thought it is closer to reality of happening than I ever is thought possible is exciting beyond measure.

Even if it never does, at least I've had immense pleasure considering it again.

I'm thinking about writing a short story about it happening and my perspective of excitement on it as it unfolds.

[BBCfan]

So small development in my cuckold wannabe situation.

Wife asked yesterday if I've been tempted to get a hooker while I've been away.

I said not even a bit. I said I find it more exciting to think about her and Jeffrey hooking up again and masturbate to that often, which is far more exciting to me right now.

She seemed surprised I still was thinking about it.
She then brought up the movie " Indecent proposal" and said remember how things went in that situation.
I said I didn't think it was at all similar, he is a lover already many times.

She then asked me where I'd want him to come if he was fucking her again.
I said the hottest thought is if he comes deep in your pussy.
She was surprised and I then said I'd want to fuck her right after.

She said, but she'd be all stretched right after from his immense thickness.

I shared that was a huge turn on for me to think about being able to feel the difference.

She asked if I was stroking my cock, which I of course was and felt harder than I've been in ages.

I then said, I know inside is likely too naughty for her, so where would she like him to come?

She said he used to often come on her neck and tits which she liked, so probably that.

I then asked what position would she like to fuck him in again.
She replied, definitely missionary as he is too big for most other ones to be comfortable or maybe on her side too as that was enjoyable with him and he liked it a lot.

I asked if she thought it might be hard to handle him initially again after so long.
She said he would have to go super super slow and only a tiny bit at a time till she was able to stretch out for him again.

She asked if I wanted to guide him in initially.
I said that would be hot but I know he'd not be into that at all, so I would not want to spoil both your fun. I'd rather not be involved.

I said I think it would be better if I wasn't there. I'm fine just knowing your enjoying yourself and you could tell me about it if you wanted. That would be enough for me.

She then had an important call and had to go, I was bursting with excitement anyway and finished very soon after the call ended.

I have since looked up the plot of that movie to see if she was trying to send a message about her reason for hesitation.

I think her reason might be Fear of my possible jealousy and she may enjoy it so much and want to do it more.
I would totally expect her to and I hope it would become ongoing.

Regardless it has given me a way to bring it up again through the movie plot segue.

I know it's not much but it's the most exciting development I've had in years.

[leggysman]

Excellent. Keep those conversations going, whenever she gives you the opportunity!

[elina]

Excellent. Keep those conversations going, whenever she gives you the opportunity!

Yes, agreed.

In addition, I would suggest that the day after, or the next time you see your Wife; Bring Her flowers and tell Her you love Her.
If She pushes for why now; simply tell Her you love Her more than ever, think She is the sexiest Lady alive, and just wants Her to be able to fully realize the sexlife She deserves.

Sincerely
elina

[Wesley Hudson Valley]

Praise and worship her when she is freeing talking about him, show your support

I think it is only a matter of time before she is with him again or maybe even some other man.

Give her love a patience

[BBCfan]

Excellent. Keep those conversations going, whenever she gives you the opportunity!

I agree, when SHE gives me the opportunity.
I think not pushing , kinda letting it come up "naturally" is important.
I know she'll be put off if I try to initiate conversations about it too frequently

[BBCfan]

Excellent. Keep those conversations going, whenever she gives you the opportunity!

Yes, agreed.

In addition, I would suggest that the day after, or the next time you see your Wife; Bring Her flowers and tell Her you love Her.
If She pushes for why now; simply tell Her you love Her more than ever, think She is the sexiest Lady alive, and just wants Her to be able to fully realize the sexlife She deserves.

Sincerely
elina

I appreciate your input, And I love the idea, but I'm not sure but she might be put off from me throwing lavish attention on her because she's humored me with my with my fetish?

[BBCfan]

Praise and worship her when she is freeing talking about him, show your support

I think it is only a matter of time before she is with him again or maybe even some other man.

Give her love a patience

I like that idea as well, Kind of saying you're so awesome talking about this with me.

You sound so sexy when you tell me this.

Kind of a cheesy example but along those lines.

I hope you're right about your assessment.

I definitely could see her being open to reconnecting with him, Because they always had a special physical connection over many years, and he was an absolute stud in bed... but Not so much other guys, but who knows.

[BBCfan]

So I've backed off talking about it for the last little while.
She let it slip a few days ago that he is pursuing her pretty relentlessly.

I'm still away on work but should be coming back soon.
We had some stuff happen recently that caused some talk about potentially separating,
I asked her if we did separate would she hook up with him again.

She said likely she would after a bit.
I Told her I didn't understand why she wouldn't do it with my blessing now, if she would do it later if we separated.

It seems we're both not wanting to separate so we're gonna work through things. It was kind of a minor issue that got blown out of proportion. She thought I'd fooled around on her while I was away, but I did not and so once she realized that was the case it was OK.

But the conversation eventually led to her asking if I was really sure that I wanted her to go through with it.

I said I'm a 100% sure and I think it would actually add a great spark to our relationship and intimacy by sharing this experience.

She then shared what excited her most about the potential about reconnecting with him, we discussed how potentially we might make that happen.

I was masturbating while we talked about it and she enjoyed that...it was super hot.

I shared that her interacting with him again and being pleased and pleasured by Him again and taking his massive dick again, knowing how much she loves his big dick is the hottest thing I can think about.

I told her I want her to make me wait until I'm with her again till I can have an orgasm and she can tell me all about it.

She said I'm very weird but she seemed more turned on by the idea than she had before.
I for one busted the biggest nut I had in ages while we talked about it.

We are supposed to talk again tonight so hopefully it can come up again and we can discuss it further.

[PaNic]

Hey, good luck with your talk tonight. Id suggest you prioritise looking after her, and your relationship for now.
Much as I’m identifying with your story and rooting for Hotwife success, I think you always need to attend to your partner relationship first

[BBCfan]

Hey, good luck with your talk tonight. Id suggest you prioritise looking after her, and your relationship for now.
Much as I’m identifying with your story and rooting for Hotwife success, I think you always need to attend to your partner relationship first

The interesting part is that having some mini drama caused us to evaluate things and created some deep needed conversations and this topic came up quite naturally.

It actually felt like we were bonding somewhat in a fun playful way through the discussion, so it was actually a helpful interlude.

It is a small part of what we discuss and I do try to wait for it to come up fairly naturally as she has brought it up a few times recently herself.

The fact is things had gotten stale over the past few years and this just gives up an opportunity to share some fantasies and spice things up a bit even if it is just playful talk.

Thank you for following along and for your sound advice.

[elina]

Dear BBC Fan

First very glad to see that you resolved the misunderstanding almost leading to a break up with your Wife.
Also very good to see how this may actually lead your Wife to conclude that She can actually have Her Cake and eat it by staying married to you and entering into a FWB relationship to Jerry giving Her the extra icing on the cake...

Hope you will continue supporting Her, looks to me like your Wife really wants to do this, but is also very conscious about the risks involved and is putting Her marriage to you first... What a wonderful WIfe you have and very glad to see that you seriously wants Her to be able to experience this marvelous BBC again and you will just lover Her more if/when it happens.

I really think the critical part of this is how you can make your Wife feel 100% confident that you will be there for Her; before, during, and after She has another fling with Her on-and-off-lover-for-life.

Sincerely
elina

[Open2it]

I can totally understand how excited those conversations were for both of you. The fact that she’s considering it is a good sign. Perhaps her feelings of not wanting you to explore any strange pussy made it hard for her to understand your motivations for wanting her to cuckold you. Good luck and I doubt it will be long before she’s back in bed with her favorite BBC.

[BBCfan]

Dear BBC Fan

First very glad to see that you resolved the misunderstanding almost leading to a break up with your Wife.
Also very good to see how this may actually lead your Wife to conclude that She can actually have Her Cake and eat it by staying married to you and entering into a FWB relationship to Jerry giving Her the extra icing on the cake...

Hope you will continue supporting Her, looks to me like your Wife really wants to do this, but is also very conscious about the risks involved and is putting Her marriage to you first... What a wonderful WIfe you have and very glad to see that you seriously wants Her to be able to experience this marvelous BBC again and you will just lover Her more if/when it happens.

I really think the critical part of this is how you can make your Wife feel 100% confident that you will be there for Her; before, during, and after She has another fling with Her on-and-off-lover-for-life.

Sincerely
elina

Thank you for the kind supportive words.

We talked in great length about it this weekend. Was quite exciting.

Her biggest hurdle in rekindling seems to be that he knows all her best friends and She would be embarrassed to admit how to kinky her husband is I think.

Even though they're past dalliances were kept very secret between them, this one seems to be a little more kinky and risky for her to trust him completely.

She showed me her chats with him, And she certainly wants somewhat flirtacious with his advances, Calling him Mr.BIG in capitals and Suggesting he should send a few pics As well as admitting she was quite tempted.

She said she is open to the idea of hot wife but thinks a stranger on vacation or something would be a much Easier scenario as you never have to see them again.

I suggested she just kind of lay it out to him and say my husband's giving me a hall pass, But I'm nervous as I would never want anyone to find out.

She thought he would sure be on board but still is unsure how much she can trust him and the scenario just makes her feel a bit nervous.

Though we had some unbelievable hot talk about it leading to some wonderful orgasms.

[elina]

I still think you are playing this in the best possible way:

1) Don't push Her,
2) Encourage Her when the opportunity is there
3) patiently wait untill She is ready for the next step.

Please keep us posted.

Sincerely
elina

[BBCfan]

I still think you are playing this in the best possible way:

1) Don't push Her,
2) Encourage Her when the opportunity is there
3) patiently wait untill She is ready for the next step.

Please keep us posted.

Sincerely
elina

Thank you.

It does seem to be our favorite flirty topic as of late.

I will take your advice and not push but I also have to be careful as it can be a fine line between encouraging and pushing.

I know she REALLY likes the idea of a somewhat "surprise" playful "forced" type encounter, with it somewhat out of her control.

I was thinking of suggesting she put him in touch with me, if he is truly interested, and we could set something up to "surprise" her.

I know intially she wouldn't likely go for that, but knowing that scenario is kind of her kryptonite, it may sway her thoughts towards more "maybe" than not likely, especially if she begins get excited by the fantasy.

[BBCfan]

Please keep us posted.

Sincerely
elina

So I was back for a night a couple days ago.
We had amazing sex, which was highlighted by her out of the blue saying , "does my pussy feel looser from Jeffrey fucking me all last night. He stretched me out good. Do you still want this pussy, show me how much, make it yours again!"

I had to stop immediately as I almost came instantaneously from the cuckold rush. It was unbelievable.
It was so difficult to hold off until I made sure she came first, but I was able to after much halting.

I am away again for a week and last night we talked and she said even though she's not interested in playing out my fantasies, if I want to fuck someone else and play out some by myself, I should. I again stressed how I only want her and this thing we have together is 10 times hotter than anything I've experienced before. I love and get off her her embracing her slutty side with me.


Then today I just got a video of her masterbating. She then deleted and said she sent it to wrong person .

I called and she declined the call, saying she was busy having phone sex with Jeffrey.

Once she picked up, she masturbated while telling me how Jeffrey was going to fuck her while I watched but I couldn't come when I watched them, nor can I come till I see her again this weekend.
She came hard telling me details about him fucking her and shooting a big load inside that I could rub my cock on as it oozed out but not come! I'd have to wait a few days cause he beats her pussy up so bad with his huge cock she'll need a break.


It was wild...she's never initiated like that or sent me a vid of her masturbating.
Was hard not to finish myself but worth it to wait till I'm back on weekend.

I asked what got her so amped up and she said nothing really, likely just us reconnecting again. She forgot how much she missed it.

it's got me thinking there's more to it, but regardless of outcome it's been very exciting!!!

[elina]

Hm,

I would not be surprised if your feeling that there may be more to it is correct...

But I think this is what you want so if your Wife is now ready to go for it.... Keep supporting Her and make sure She feels good about whatever She did or want to do.

Very hot story....

Sincerely
elina

[BBCfan]

Hm,

I would not be surprised if your feeling that there may be more to it is correct...

But I think this is what you want so if your Wife is now ready to go for it.... Keep supporting Her and make sure She feels good about whatever She did or want to do.

Very hot story....

Sincerely
elina

Thanks again for your supportive feedback.

In the past few weeks it has now become a regular part of our intimate conversations.
I leave her space for her to initiate it and then we usually have a lot of fun with it.

It has made me hornier than I can recall for a long time.
A couple days ago she admitted to me that while I was away she actually did reconnect with him and gave me some hot details about it.
I knew it was likely 95% made up but I still handled it like it was real and told her I was glad she did it, and I was glad she waited till now to tell me about it because the timing was perfect et cetera.

I also explained to her how much I love her regardless if she does anything.
I also explained that since having this little secret we can share and talk about it has completely reinvigorated our intimacy to which she agreed.
I told her I can't think about her for too long without getting intensely aroused And how exciting it is to think about my wife being sexually free to explore.

I asked for her perspective on it, and she said she mainly enjoys it cause she sees how excited I get from it. She said she must admit having the option to be sexually free and knowing I'll still be there to support her and be excited by it has made her feel a bit liberated to have that new freedom in her mind anyways, which surprised her a bit.

She also seems to be masturbating more regularly or at least sharing it which is new as well.
She says she never thinks about anything while she's doing it, just about the pleasure she feels, but I do question that, as I think These scenarios must be creeping into her fantasy consciousness somewhat.

She also sent me a masturbation video a few days ago, which she has never done before!!

That seems to be a sign she is becoming more open and free with her sexuality and feeling more liberated to share with me.
All great signs for this wannabe!!!

[Long Lurker 34]

Hm,

I would not be surprised if your feeling that there may be more to it is correct...

But I think this is what you want so if your Wife is now ready to go for it.... Keep supporting Her and make sure She feels good about whatever She did or want to do.

Very hot story....

Sincerely
elina

Thanks again for your supportive feedback.

In the past few weeks it has now become a regular part of our intimate conversations.
I leave her space for her to initiate it and then we usually have a lot of fun with it.

It has made me hornier than I can recall for a long time.
A couple days ago she admitted to me that while I was away she actually did reconnect with him and gave me some hot details about it.
I knew it was likely 95% made up but I still handled it like it was real and told her I was glad she did it, and I was glad she waited till now to tell me about it because the timing was perfect et cetera.

I also explained to her how much I love her regardless if she does anything.
I also explained that since having this little secret we can share and talk about it has completely reinvigorated our intimacy to which she agreed.
I told her I can't think about her for too long without getting intensely aroused And how exciting it is to think about my wife being sexually free to explore.

I asked for her perspective on it, and she said she mainly enjoys it cause she sees how excited I get from it. She said she must admit having the option to be sexually free and knowing I'll still be there to support her and be excited by it has made her feel a bit liberated to have that new freedom in her mind anyways, which surprised her a bit.

She also seems to be masturbating more regularly or at least sharing it which is new as well.
She says she never thinks about anything while she's doing it, just about the pleasure she feels, but I do question that, as I think These scenarios must be creeping into her fantasy consciousness somewhat.

She also sent me a masturbation video a few days ago, which she has never done before!!

That seems to be a sign she is becoming more open and free with her sexuality and feeling more liberated to share with me.
All great signs for this wannabe!!!

BBCF - Not sure if I missed it, but is Mr BIG married?

[BBCfan]

BBCF - Not sure if I missed it, but is Mr BIG married?
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No, he has had relationships but single or certainly not married anyway.

Why do you ask?

[Long Lurker 34]

BBCF - Not sure if I missed it, but is Mr BIG married?

No, he has had relationships but single or certainly not married anyway.

Why do you ask?
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BBCF - Has alot to do with both Mr B's and your wife's mind sets and attitude regarding whether anything might happen or not. Lots of people have a thing about a partner being married, cheating and how it affects the partner's spouse, etc. Perspective I guess.

[BBCfan]

That's a good point.
He certainly doesn't care that she is. I think he may have found out I was away on business, and that may be partly why he began pursuing her again?
...but you're right, if he was attached I'm sure that would be a factor for my wife.

[BBCfan]

I still think you are playing this in the best possible way:

1) Don't push Her,
2) Encourage Her when the opportunity is there
3) patiently wait untill She is ready for the next step.

Please keep us posted.

Sincerely
elina

This is biggest update towards no longer being a wannabe. Massive unfolding to share!!!

It's been probably 3 and a half yours since I've started this thread.
Probably another 2 years before that, that I first had my cuckold fantasies emerge after hearing about my wife and Jeffrey.

At 1 point she had said that she could never see herself doing that, And that if I needed it to happen she Probably wasn't the right match for me.

Since Jeffrey reached out to her a few months ago, And she began being more open with me about fantasizing About different scenarios It has completely  Reinvigorated our sex life.

It has now become something she brings up every time we're intimate.  She has also said that she enjoys it and she's been hornier than she has in a long time But maintained that it would still likely stay in fantasy.

Since my last post we have talked about things and I've encouraged her to just share how she would love it to unfold  As her perspective and thoughts  are we most exciting part for me, Rather than trying to think what I might like.

We discussed some scenarios about how we might actually do it Such as having adjoining hotel rooms and I could be in one room while she is  With him in the other and I could hear, With even perhaps a video feed for me to enjoy.

She also has shared scenarios  Where me and him are both inside her at the same time, With me feeling him slide along my dick as he pumps her.   This seems to be the fantasy that arouses her most, us both being inside her at the same time and her sharing the experience with Me in that intimate way.

This is the first time I noticed her orgasming while she Was explaining this scenario and how it would unfold.

Again this was all talk in fantasy and she was always fairly adamant that it would stay that way. Well that all changed last  Night.

I am up for a huge bonus at work if I meet some sales goals,  Which would be a very helpful thing for us right now to perhaps take some vacations we've been dreaming about.

After an amazing session last night where she went into great detail about how it would be having him inside her again  And how much she would love to orgasm on his huge cock while  I was there to witness it all.

It was probably the longest session we've had together fantasizing about it,  As I was able to last longer than usual while she went into Detail with passion and excitement as she came super hard before I did.

I've been sensing that she is more and more aroused by the idea and Perhaps more open to it becoming a reality that she even thought she would ever be , Even if she has denied that when I asked her.

So after the session last night I mentioned that if I was able to get that bonus would She do it then?

She knows it will be difficult for me to do but is also looking to motivate me, so she completely agreed.
She said if I am able to get the bonus, she will definitely do it.
I said I don't want you to do anything you don't want to and I don't want you to feel forced into anything,  and she said she would do it  With  No hesitation or regrets.

She knows she would love it if it happens with him as his cock is amazing once she gets used to it, and really would love to share it with me as she sees how excited I am by it. also she feels this whole scenario has brought us closer together and really  Reinvigorated our intimacy.

She would be clear to him that we are doing it as a couple and she knows he would be okay with that. She said hes a super Kinky guy And feels very confident she could talk him into whatever scenario we desire.

I'm beyond myself with excitement and can't believe it's really evolved into her totally being on board.  I didn't think it was ever possible even 6 months ago.

She has eased into the idea of being A hot wife in this scenario mentally Already, as I can tell by her excitement around it and how much she brings it up.

Obviously I have some work to do to make it happen but it certainly is Very very real likelihood  now.

So all you wannabes out there, It is surprising how things can change very quickly with the right encouragement love and respect along the route.