Sex restrictions for cuckold husbands

[pixwellguy]

I’m bumping this back up. The subject of denial and how cuck guys deal with that fascinate me. It looks like about 50% of cucks have total or significant penis in vigina denial.

Being caged and unable to fuck, having to watch others fuck while I can't even touch my own cock, much less even jerk off, is super 'hot' for me. And on the rare occasion when, after a long period of being caged and no orgasms, when I finally do get to fuck her I am so horny and want to cum so badly that even though I know it's going to only last a few seconds ..........

Isn't it great when you reach the point where you KNOW it's only going to last a few seconds?

Back when I used to be allowed to fuck my wife, it would be few and far between and then only after another man had satisfied her needs. She'd make it clear to me that my fuck was to be as fast as possible...as if we both didn't know that was exactly what would happen. And this, of course, after she'd spent as much time as possible giving pleasure to the man she'd just been with.

She'd spread her legs and just lie there, telling me to "get it over with." For some reason her disinterest, after what she'd just been doing, turned me on even more. I'd put on a condom (the other men all went bareback), and get my cock in...and even though I wanted it to last longer, usually it would only last a few seconds...sometimes only a couple of strokes! All of this turned me on intensely...it obviously pushed many of my cuckold buttons!

[Ijustloveher]

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She'd spread her legs and just lie there, telling me to "get it over with." For some reason her disinterest, after what she'd just been doing, turned me on even more. I'd put on a condom (the other men all went bareback), and get my cock in...and even though I wanted it to last longer, usually it would only last a few seconds...sometimes only a couple of strokes! All of this turned me on intensely...it obviously pushed many of my cuckold buttons!

Ya, pixwell, that sounds familiar. I was just thinking about such a moment just now. When we still had PIV sex my current wife would sometimes offer me to just have her body. She'd lie back and open her legs and let me have her. She'd turn her head away from me and close her eyes, and completely disconnect. What struck me was that whatever I did, to take her hard or lovingly, she wouldn't react ... at all. Even for me that was a bit too much! I joked that an inflatable doll was more likely to respond to my actions than she did.

[Newcuck614]

I haven't been allowed to fuck my wife for quite some time now but do experience several forms of intimacy and "reclaiming" together, just no PIV

[pixwellguy]

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She'd spread her legs and just lie there, telling me to "get it over with." For some reason her disinterest, after what she'd just been doing, turned me on even more. I'd put on a condom (the other men all went bareback), and get my cock in...and even though I wanted it to last longer, usually it would only last a few seconds...sometimes only a couple of strokes! All of this turned me on intensely...it obviously pushed many of my cuckold buttons!

Ya, pixwell, that sounds familiar. I was just thinking about such a moment just now. When we still had PIV sex my current wife would sometimes offer me to just have her body. She'd lie back and open her legs and let me have her. She'd turn her head away from me and close her eyes, and completely disconnect. What struck me was that whatever I did, to take her hard or lovingly, she wouldn't react ... at all. Even for me that was a bit too much! I joked that an inflatable doll was more likely to respond to my actions than she did.

I loved my wife's complete disinterest - as I said, for some reason it was a real turn on. A few times she even pushed me out as I was cumming, saying "that's enough!" That was hot..basically a ruined orgasm in a condom.

And I've always thought it would be hot if my wife bought me a sex doll, telling me that was all I was good for...and then made me fuck it in front of her!

[MrPepeLePew]

Rare things are valued more. This is true for all participants in the triad. This is the power of 'denial'. This loses its power for us when rare becomes never. 'Never' produces no yearning, no recent and strong memories, no urge to go back. I get there's excitement in the idea, but in practice it short-circuits the excitement. 'Never' while the boyfriend is regularly seeing the wife is not never, that's just not right now. That produces the same excitement because it's rare.

Cuckolds are by nature frustrated and denied, but not in the way we like. Wives aren't on board, bulls are hard to find, guys come and go, sometimes moving away or sometimes going back to their wives or moving onto the next girlfriend. Amplifying the fantasy helps generate the dopamine but it also produces over-the-top stories and fiction all across the web, muddying the practice and power of this lifestyle.

To me 'denial' is not about the absence of sex, but the relief from control and choice as to when and how. It lets me exercise my submissiveness in a world where I otherwise need to be in control. 100% submissiveness would lose its power when I never had to be (or wanted to be) in control. Similarly, having a spouse with 0% of losing them can generate boredom with individuals who need to feel a certain level of competition, risk and ultimately a reclaiming. In this lifestyle, rarity can be a choice and that generates the kind of excitement that is treasured and sought.

Also someone mentioned the health aspects of 'never' having an orgasm. Even someone 100% locked up and caged can alleviate the health issues by massaging their p-spot with a toy. This will keep them horny and longing but will alleviate the health dangers of not having an orgasm. Those who have genuine problems do this as a part of their routine. It still feels terrific but it's not like a PIV orgasm and it won't offer much relief in the sexual urge department, which keeps the cuckold maleable and compliant which can be very exciting to the Domme, wife or other Dominant.

Just my .02.

[Bent_n_Twisted]

Just my .02.

That's just about spot on, and with inflation it must be worth at least .50 now.

[Frogprince]

It goes back-and-forth between the granting permission and then just having regular sex. But usually there is always dirty talk about one of her bulls.

[Frogprince]

She basically just doesn’t let me do anal. She says it is is not satisfying. She really likes big dicks for that. I am always happy to help clean up though

[Frogprince]

One of her favorite bulls always tells me “you better not try to tell me what I can or can’t do.” He is the same one who knocked her up. He has asked her to give him sloppy rimjobs, throat fucked her, and went balls deep on her asshole right I’m front of me. I haven’t yet ran into a problem and he has even let me take a load or two in my mouth straight from his BBC.

Before our children got a little older we were a bit more restrained, but now a bill of clean health is all I need to let a bull do whatever he wants.

[Bapak]

I’m bumping this back up. The subject of denial and how cuck guys deal with that fascinate me. It looks like about 50% of cucks have total or significant penis in vigina denial.

Being caged and unable to fuck, having to watch others fuck while I can't even touch my own cock, much less even jerk off, is super 'hot' for me. And on the rare occasion when, after a long period of being caged and no orgasms, when I finally do get to fuck her I am so horny and want to cum so badly that even though I know it's going to only last a few seconds ..........

Isn't it great when you reach the point where you KNOW it's only going to last a few seconds?

Back when I used to be allowed to fuck my wife, it would be few and far between and then only after another man had satisfied her needs. She'd make it clear to me that my fuck was to be as fast as possible...as if we both didn't know that was exactly what would happen. And this, of course, after she'd spent as much time as possible giving pleasure to the man she'd just been with.

She'd spread her legs and just lie there, telling me to "get it over with." For some reason her disinterest, after what she'd just been doing, turned me on even more. I'd put on a condom (the other men all went bareback), and get my cock in...and even though I wanted it to last longer, usually it would only last a few seconds...sometimes only a couple of strokes! All of this turned me on intensely...it obviously pushed many of my cuckold buttons!

Oh wow. That is perfect. An ideal life.

[TryN2Start]

I found this old post and reread it. Funny how sex restrictions for cuckolds keep changing and evolving in this lifestyle. My own situation is a prime example. Up until a couple of months ago, it seemed like my wife and I were leading pretty vanilla sex lives (well, OK, she had an occasional fling). Now her current BF wants me totally restricted except for hand jobs. Stranger yet, I’ve agreed to it. Part of me is titillated by the prospect and part of me is a bit worried.

You're going to love it! Not being allowed to have her pussy will drive you nuts! You'll be jerking off 5 times a day while shes out there getting all the cock she can handle!

Yea, my ex wife's BF told her to not have sex with me. I loved it! Still jerk off thinking about my ex wife and the fun times we had.

[pixwellguy]

While my wife's lover didn't demand that she not have sex with me, he was quite happy when he found out that I would no longer be allowed. He doesn't mind if OTHER men have sex with him wife - in fact, he wants to share her with other men. He just doesn't want her to open her legs for me.

And like many other denied cuckold husbands, It's exciting for me that he knows I am denied.

[surry]

I once suggested to my wife that she could offer a period of 'exclusive pussy' as a birthday present to her long term boyfriend.
He was delighted to receive such a 'gift'.
It meant I was denied access to her pussy for the period we agreed. I was still allowed to orgasm from handjobs/wanking.
We agreed to give him the same 'gift' on a number of birthdays, and some xmas's too. One year my wife even asked me for the same gift on her own birthday.

This is a great idea. The only thing we have done, on our anniversary, she celebrates with him and not me.

[trecital]

I once suggested to my wife that she could offer a period of 'exclusive pussy' as a birthday present to her long term boyfriend.
He was delighted to receive such a 'gift'.
It meant I was denied access to her pussy for the period we agreed. I was still allowed to orgasm from handjobs/wanking.
We agreed to give him the same 'gift' on a number of birthdays, and some xmas's too. One year my wife even asked me for the same gift on her own birthday.

This is a great idea. The only thing we have done, on our anniversary, she celebrates with him and not me.

Why not suggest to her that she offers her boyfriend a period of exclusive pussy? What's the maximum that you think you could agree to? And to ramp it up a bit more, how about it's you that has to tell him?

[pixwellguy]

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This is a great idea. The only thing we have done, on our anniversary, she celebrates with him and not me.
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We started this on our last anniversary. Since I'm fully denied now, it only made sense for her to "celebrate" our anniversary with her lover.

We've agreed that this will become our new anniversary tradition from now on.

[hush_s]

My wife started celebrating our anniversary by cucking me, without discussing it first. When she was meeting one guy regularly, she would just let me know casually - 'I'm spending the day with xxx on Saturday'. 'Oh, ok' was how I guess I'd usually respond. As my mind would have to adapt to looking after kids and various chores. And when it was our anniversary, the first time she celebrated it with him was like that. Casual, by the way, and my plans had to change from thinking about how to spend a romantic day together to being prepared for anxiety, chores and, being a cuckold. Makes me crazy, that she does that. But part of what makes it especially intense is just how casually she chose to do that, on our special day.

She doesn't meet that guy often anymore but they're in touch and every now and then he asks her if her anniversary is coming up. It's in a few days, in fact - maybe he'll get lucky? Not me though, that's for sure.

[surry]

I once suggested to my wife that she could offer a period of 'exclusive pussy' as a birthday present to her long term boyfriend.
He was delighted to receive such a 'gift'.
It meant I was denied access to her pussy for the period we agreed. I was still allowed to orgasm from handjobs/wanking.
We agreed to give him the same 'gift' on a number of birthdays, and some xmas's too. One year my wife even asked me for the same gift on her own birthday.

This is a great idea. The only thing we have done, on our anniversary, she celebrates with him and not me.

Why not suggest to her that she offers her boyfriend a period of exclusive pussy? What's the maximum that you think you could agree to? And to ramp it up a bit more, how about it's you that has to tell him?

This did happen. I haven't been inside my wife for a few years now.

[Long Lurker 34]

My wife started celebrating our anniversary by cucking me, without discussing it first. When she was meeting one guy regularly, she would just let me know casually - 'I'm spending the day with xxx on Saturday'. 'Oh, ok' was how I guess I'd usually respond. As my mind would have to adapt to looking after kids and various chores. And when it was our anniversary, the first time she celebrated it with him was like that. Casual, by the way, and my plans had to change from thinking about how to spend a romantic day together to being prepared for anxiety, chores and, being a cuckold. Makes me crazy, that she does that. But part of what makes it especially intense is just how casually she chose to do that, on our special day.

She doesn't meet that guy often anymore but they're in touch and every now and then he asks her if her anniversary is coming up. It's in a few days, in fact - maybe he'll get lucky? Not me though, that's for sure.

HS - Well you have to admit that was awfully considerate of your wife, as it takes all the pressure off of you to make those romantic plans for your anniversary. We should have a wife who thinks of us first like yours does for you.

[cantwait2]

My wife hasn’t fucked me in years. She isn’t seeing anyone at the moment but she had a regular boyfriend for several months and he was the only one getting to fuck her. She also loved sucking his cock everyday. For me, all I was allowed was to lick her pussy clean after he left. But she also lets me lick her pussy other times. It’s more like I’m just a sex toy. She doesn’t reciprocate at all. She hasn’t even touched my cock in years. She allows me to masturbate when she’s not home but that’s all I get.

I’m not complaining at all. I’m very in love with her and her with me. We do lots of things together, dates, concerts, out of town trips all the usual things couples do. She did all those things plus the sex, with her last boyfriend too. When she finds another boyfriend, I’m sure it will be the same.
I look forward to it!

[pixwellguy]

My wife hasn’t fucked me in years. She isn’t seeing anyone at the moment but she had a regular boyfriend for several months and he was the only one getting to fuck her.......

Sounds like you're living a wonderful cuckold life, the way it should be! Let's hope your wife finds another bf soon to take care of her sexual needs!

[Cgb29]

We have a great sex life and have frequent sex. The only real "restriction" is when he's here.

[runaway]

I could thrive without PIV but I can’t get by without licking my wife’s pussy … often.

[trecital]

We have a great sex life and have frequent sex. The only real "restriction" is when he's here.

So, what are the restrictions when 'he' is there?

[Kycouple]

Iam never allowed to cum in her if she is playing with her bull. Iam always locked in my cage while they play.

[Cgb29]

We have a great sex life and have frequent sex. The only real "restriction" is when he's here.

So, what are the restrictions when 'he' is there?

They get the bedroom and I can masturbate in another room but she doesn't like me to cum. She likes me to save it. Sometimes after they've had a lot of fun I get invited in, and other times I just have to wait until he leaves.