It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[Mattmattiass]

W I really hope you can fuck her ass as well. If only once. Does she still have the plug?

[Bsod83]

I have been following this thread since day one, and its superhot. Thank you very much for sharing!

Adams behaviour sets off just about every red flag i have. You shouldnt see him anymore. Plenty of good guys that are hung are out there.

Also anal. I really love anal, its a personal favorite of mine. The hole needs to be warmed up gradually, with increasing size. They should have used several buttplugs, or small dildos, considering her lack of experience, especially slow considering his girth. I dont know if it was a "good" whimpering, or bad. It sounds like his dick is simply too large for anal. Anal should be pleasurable for the reciver.

A large intake of alcohol in combination with anal is really dumb. It is not usual, but there are people that damage the anal during sex. Worst case it is permanent. If it hurts more than a little and temporary, its wrong. Be careful.

[scarfolamew]

Did Lana manage to cum with Adam's cock up her ass? Perhaps you could make it your duty to worship her clit while she trains herself with fingers / plugs, so that she can climax more easily next time he buttfucks her.

[hotsusan]

Predictively, he didn't respond to this with a sense of understanding, but rather with attempts at trying to convince her to come back this weekend. The pushiness is what reminds us of why she broke it off with him a few weeks ago.

What a DICK. You two can do better. One vote for enjoying Shawn and Sebastian until you find a local Shawn that isn’t out to destroy your marriage. I am confident this asshat will cause serious drama and damaging consequences.

As always, I offer my most Sincere Gratitude for bringing us along on this amazing roller coaster ride. I am looking forward to hearing how the Cory leak unfolds. And what steps, if any, you two will take for damage control.

Mr GILF

I agree with you, he's an asshole

[Fred_Garvin]

Predictively, he didn't respond to this with a sense of understanding, but rather with attempts at trying to convince her to come back this weekend. The pushiness is what reminds us of why she broke it off with him a few weeks ago.

What a DICK. You two can do better. One vote for enjoying Shawn and Sebastian until you find a local Shawn that isn’t out to destroy your marriage. I am confident this asshat will cause serious drama and damaging consequences.

As always, I offer my most Sincere Gratitude for bringing us along on this amazing roller coaster ride. I am looking forward to hearing how the Cory leak unfolds. And what steps, if any, you two will take for damage control.

Mr GILF

I agree with you, he's an asshole

Well, at least he's an enthusiastic asshole.

[ResponsibullCummings]

The fact that after she broke it off last time, he tried to destroy her marriage by contacting you to tell you she was cheating on you tells you everything you need to know about him. If I were you I would suggest a clean break and giving Sebastian a chance to fill that role. You can tell him how she likes to be treated and he'll better be able to meet those needs. He gets his role it seems. Ultimately if you do want to have kids it's better to set a limit and then be exclusive with her to ensure you don't accidentally end up with custody issues should a different father want access to "his" child if he suspects it might be his. Adam doesn't deserve a woman like Lana, he's had more than his share of her time.

[corey22901]

Hi W,

First let me say how much I appreciate you including many of us on your journey. I was a bit shaky when you went offline for many weeks, glad you are back. Even if nothing crazy is going on - glad to hear from you!

I know the topic of being caged has come up. I have been caged for 12 years and for the last 4 years pretty much 24/7 except for a few releases. I am not suggesting that you go my route, but I can speak from actual experience.

Adam has already teased you and I believe would like to have, for as long as you both want to, have him have control over her and you getting any. If you end up in a situation where it is not a cheating spouse, but more of a cuckold situation, where you both know he is the top alpha (for a while) nothing gives him more energy than to know you are caged and denied sex unless you are "allowed". You have already tasted that apple and it is powerful! Of course the reality it is between you and you wife - but this only adds to that dynamic.

You yourself did not masturbate while she was gone so that you would not have a letdown and stay horny. I would suggest that you broach the subject with your wife if you want to at least see what it feels like. Measure your flaccid penis and order a cage about 1/4 to 1/2 inch less than your flaccid length. Take a string and measure for the base ring diameter. Can't decide, order a few different sizes. Most like the integrated locks, clean and streamlined.

There are plenty on Amazon and low cost. The most popular and best fitting are the ergonomic stainless. Do not get any spikes or inserts -they are a novelty. Terrance D945 is very popular. Remember, you are more comfortable in a slightly snug cage than one that will allow erections. Especially at night.

Then in a few days you will have a cage that locks and has 2 keys. Most guys caged will try several sizes and versions until they find the one that is cozy and does not allow for erections. Trust me it takes some time to get over the night hard ons - but your penis learns, and your body adjusts.

It will take a couple of weeks of trials and testing - maybe a couple versions, then you are ready to even propose denial. It is one thing to say it, and another to lock up your junk and be told by your wife's lover, you will be denied. You need to be prepared before that is even an option.

This is a journey. She used a butt plug. Until you actually try it - you never know how it will be. You can get the trial and sizing when you are not together so you will be ready if this is the direction that makes sense for both of you. It should be fun thing as you can announce that your are in "training" and you do this while at work or whereever.

Even if you both decide that it does not work with Adam, if you do get one that fits, there will be other times where your being denied under lock and key will add to the dynamic. If not, your investment is very low and the upside very high.

[Mr1SexyGILF]

Predictively, he didn't respond to this with a sense of understanding, but rather with attempts at trying to convince her to come back this weekend. The pushiness is what reminds us of why she broke it off with him a few weeks ago.

What a DICK. You two can do better. One vote for enjoying Shawn and Sebastian until you find a local Shawn that isn’t out to destroy your marriage. I am confident this asshat will cause serious drama and damaging consequences.

As always, I offer my most Sincere Gratitude for bringing us along on this amazing roller coaster ride. I am looking forward to hearing how the Cory leak unfolds. And what steps, if any, you two will take for damage control.

Mr GILF

I agree with you, he's an asshole

Well, at least he's an enthusiastic asshole.

And he will be relentless in seeking revenge.

Respectfully, Mr GILF

[Bboy]

I don't understand why so many posters predict mayhem coming from Adam. He has nothing material to gain from outing our OP couple.

On a more generic level, it looks to me like good old risk assessment practices are mostly ignored by many HW couples, unless there is a clear warning sign coming from interaction.
Let's avoid naivity and paranoi, instead take a rational approach. Maybe this topic is worth a separate thread.

[Gulfcpl]

I don't understand why so many posters predict mayhem coming from Adam. He has nothing material to gain from outing our OP couple.

On a more generic level, it looks to me like good old risk assessment practices are mostly ignored by many HW couples, unless there is a clear warning sign coming from interaction.
Let's avoid naivity and paranoi, instead take a rational approach. Maybe this topic is worth a separate thread.

I agree. When the Shawn thing was going on, everyone, including the OP, was saying he was an asshole and a prick and every other name. Same stuff with this one. Everyone has an opinion and everyone is an expert on what W should and shouldn’t do and how he should run his life.

[johnstevens555]

She obviously has a “type”. And to be fair the OP seems to like that type as well. The worse the guy acts, the more it Seems to fans his flames.

[Mr1SexyGILF]

I don't understand why so many posters predict mayhem coming from Adam. He has nothing material to gain from outing our OP couple.

On a more generic level, it looks to me like good old risk assessment practices are mostly ignored by many HW couples, unless there is a clear warning sign coming from interaction.
Let's avoid naivity and paranoi, instead take a rational approach. Maybe this topic is worth a separate thread.

If you had a “secret” affair with someone else’s wife, would you start sending her husband videos of you fucking her, when she ended it?

This and a lot of other RED FLAGS, are what I would call “risk assessment”.

And for the record, w770 is free to run his live however he chooses. I am simply offering a Respectful Opinion.

Mr GILF

Respectfully, Mr GILF

[parmaham55]

W, on Memorial Day (29th May), you posted this as your update after your talk at the beach. That's only just over a week ago ,though a lot has happened since!! :

Anyway, I am giving her my full blessing to "cheat" on me much like we had arranged with Shawn. Although, it won't carry the same "spur of the moment" possibilities as Shawn lived down a flight of stairs from us, whereas Adam is at least a 45 minute train ride or a 30 minute Uber ride away, so the sense of spontaneity isn't as present. The arrangement is that she has to eventually tell me of every encounter with Adam, but it can be as far out as a few months before she "confesses." Anyway, once we came to this understanding, she ceremoniously unblocked his number and his social media pages, and started texting him under the guise of being a cheating wife that misses the excitement he gave her. I'm going to take a slightly different approach this time and not ask her to update me constantly with where things stand with Adam, like she did with Shawn. She's been on her phone quite a bit the entire rest of the afternoon, so I can only guess that it's with him. Not coincidentally, Adam has since stopped messaging me.

My questions:
- does the agreement still hold? or have you both reset to a new agreement?
- do you think there's more trickle-truth to come from Lana about any and all activities since 29th May? Has there been full disclosure or do you think there are still some unknowns? By the agreement she has a few months to tell all.
- Given that Adam hasn't committed any 'new bad actions' since your agreement with Lana, why would you both change status with him and bar him again now? Isn't the situation a win-win-win for all? At least until Shawn's return may muddy the water?
- Do you think you could handle Lana returning to him this weekend? Perhaps for one night instead of two?
Presuming you can come up with some containment strategy with her friend's knowledge, why stop the rush of a lifetime now?

[w770]

I just wanted to provide a quick update before we have a late dinner -

Update: we're both considering a banana rama to not only only the game but also the lifestyle overall. We've really loved the quiet life of this week as compared to last week, and given how we feel at the end of the week, we might just call an end to everything and focus on starting a family. She's admitted to having the best sex of her life in the last few months, but this downtime has been precious to us as we've gotten a chance to refocus on the things we prioritized before we ever started on this path. This is all "off the cuff" talk as we might change our minds, but this is where we are at the moment.

[TheHammer]

Take the downtime, doesn’t mean you two can’t ever start back up. Just live your life and let life take you where it wants. Reevaluate in a week or three.

Your story is incredible, thanks for sharing.

[w770]

Take the downtime, doesn’t mean you two can’t ever start back up. Just live your life and let life take you where it wants. Reevaluate in a week or three.

Your story is incredible, thanks for sharing.

Thanks. As compared to last week, this week has been like a quiet and peaceful retreat into the world where we're nobody's, watching everyone else go by. We have plans to watch the sunrise on the beach tomorrow morning and just take it all in. The last 6-7 months hasn't given much room to reflect, even when we try to force it.

[Fred_Garvin]

This would be a happy ending to a thrilling and gut-wrenching story.

God bless you.

[TheHammer]

Whatever happens, the last few months have been an unforgettable erotic experience!

[w770]

Whatever happens, the last few months have been an unforgettable erotic experience!

Thanks! It's been a roller coaster. You can ride and enjoy it, but living on a roller coaster isn't realistic .

[tojanman]

Man I feel bad for Cara. Just when she thought that she had someone to help convince her husband to let her play… poof. Banana-ramaed.

And I’m guessing that Adam hasn’t gone quietly into the night either?

[shawnm]

I just wanted to provide a quick update before we have a late dinner -

Update: we're both considering a banana rama to not only only the game but also the lifestyle overall. We've really loved the quiet life of this week as compared to last week, and given how we feel at the end of the week, we might just call an end to everything and focus on starting a family. She's admitted to having the best sex of her life in the last few months, but this downtime has been precious to us as we've gotten a chance to refocus on the things we prioritized before we ever started on this path. This is all "off the cuff" talk as we might change our minds, but this is where we are at the moment.

W, thats also good to hear as that means you guys have a solid relationship and are there for each other! Just keen to know 2 things:
1) Hope that doesn't mean that you won't give us all tiny tidbits of info about her weekend, with all the questions asked above.
2) What exactly triggered this decision? Was it because of Lana having spilled the beans to her friend or was it a fear of consequences in future if all your private life gets disclosed via vids online or by gossip in friends circle, and thus has a potential of perhaps destroying your solid relationship?

[ResponsibullCummings]

I think you are making a good decision. Your plan originally was to start working on having a family after Shawn moved back home. You've had more fun in the mean time if you really want to start a family it's best to end it. Make sure she's done with it before she stops taking the pill. There was another epic poster that had a similar story with his wife becoming pretty serious with her boyfriend. They broke it off to have kids. She went off the pill. They decided to play some more and she let the boyfriend cum in her and she need up having his twins instead of the kids the planned to have together. He hasn't updated in a long time. Others may remember his story

[parmaham55]

Congratulations to W and Lana. You are amazing in your decision-making together and how close you are. That's good to see. Of course it's only late Tuesday when you had that conversation, less than 3 days since Lana's last pounding, so take your time! You two are the best. Please keep us updated, and please fill us in on those outstanding questions if you can!
is it the knowledge of Lana's friend that's swaying this?
Was it the anal sex?
Will she continue in use of butt plug with you perhaps?
Is there still trickle-truth to come out of events you still don't know about?
is it easier to stop this time because there seems to be zero emotional attachment?

Always so many questions! Fed by your excellent updates. Whatever you do, I wish you both well.

[MonaLisaOverdrive]

I think you are making a good decision. Your plan originally was to start working on having a family after Shawn moved back home. You've had more fun in the mean time if you really want to start a family it's best to end it. Make sure she's done with it before she stops taking the pill. There was another epic poster that had a similar story with his wife becoming pretty serious with her boyfriend. They broke it off to have kids. She went off the pill. They decided to play some more and she let the boyfriend cum in her and she need up having his twins instead of the kids the planned to have together. He hasn't updated in a long time. Others may remember his story

If you can find it, I'd really love to read that one.

[leander99]

Poor Cara

Poor Sebastian

Wait, I have an idea...