Is it hard talking to a guy after he’s fucked your wife

[Niceguysj99]

I have had no problems talking with the guys my wife has had sex with, although I haven’t met all of them. Her first was my younger brother. We talk all the time. She has slept with a couple doctors at work. One I met and got to know pretty well, a really nice guy. She had a one time thing with two guys from our gym. I still see them regularly when we work out.

Her most recent FWB is a really nice guy who teaches at a local university. He was really private at first. Didn’t want to meet me except on Zoom. It’s been a while now. He has been over for dinner and three of us go out and do things occasionally. I never would have expected this but some of his interests are not shared with my wife. Besides, she’s more into the sex than socializing. But, he loves classical music. So do I. He and I go on dates to the symphony, then a drink afterwards. He doesn’t want to go into any details about sleeping with my wife, but he clearly is really into it. I do get turned on when I am around him because I can’t help but visualize her in bed with him.

[Michaels30309]

And they presumably thank you effusively.

They're pretty thankful.
She has a habit of causing that appreciation.


BTW, she said you had sent her a PM, but your PMs were turned off. Just thought I'd let you know.

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[4herpleasure89]

I’ve noticed that with one guy I prefer not seeing him again for awhile. My wife feels like inviting him to family dinner.

[SmallHubbyTexas]

At first it felt awkward, especially about how my wife is in bed. Now it is natural for me.

[sandy9820]

Yes I can't make an eye contact with the person who has fucked my wife

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum candy9820,

[sandy9820]

Thanks armyguyot1 soon will share my story

[NJFWB]

Interesting to read all these responses. We are friends with people we play with. Not to be confused, we don’t play with old friends. But when we meet people in the lifestyle, we consider them to be our friends, whether it be a man, woman, or couple. Usually after a MFM, the other guy and I do one of those handshake half hugs, and say something like, “That was fun! We’ll do it again.”

[Rsm7075]

Wannabe here; but if it ever happens would like to be friends with the guy...

[PANTIES]

All of her lovers are friends that we have meet during our marriage.

Pauline

[brandnewhubby25]

She has only been with the one guy so far. YES I had very unconfrontable feelings after.. Yet, I was glad and still am she has dated him.

[Tank Turner]

I've never had a problem talking with guys with whom we've done MFM sex with us. We've invited a few men to breakfast in mornings after a night of fucking her senseless. One guys and I teased my wife while we were waiting for our breakfast. We joked that she couldn't keep up with us when we all knew the opposite was true. She played along knowing that we were teasing her.

I appreciate compliments about my wife from men who've porn starred her.

I want my wife appreciated. I do not want men to think she's cheap pussy. If a man were to remotely disrespect my wife, I'd kick his ass out before he could get dressed. My wife loves to be porn starred. She's loves dirty talk. But if men can't pull that off respectfully, they're gone.

[Thebestdays1]

I never found it difficult, I even used to blow one of her boyfriends when I gave him a loft home. He'd told me how much he'd enjoyed fucking my wife and I was aroused enough to go down on him when he asked if I wanted to clean him. He ended up cumming in my mouth and he did the same on the next couple of occasions I gave him a lift.

[Parsifal]

For me it depends on the guy. If he's someone my wife's played an "affair game" with, in which she's led him to believe she's cheating on me, then yes, I basically detest him and don't want to even try to fake it by talking to him. In that case, while I do accept responsibility for letting my wife play that game with him and have no standing to feel disrespected given that I was complicit in allowing it to happen, I still know that his state of mind toward me is one of disrespect; so I just can't bring myself easily to fake being a dupe in any conversation I might have with him.

On the other hand, in the one case I've lived through where the other guy was a mutual friend and my wife's sexual escapades with him were all above board, I enjoyed very much having a beer one on one with him and comparing notes about her marvelous talents between the sheets.

[trecital]

I would say that 'it' is hard pretty much every time that I've talked to her boyfriend immediately after he's fucked her!

[Mr1SexyGILF]

I would say that 'it' is hard pretty much every time that I've talked to her boyfriend immediately after he's fucked her!

Mr GILF

[AZPainter]

I never seemed to have a problem talking and getting along with my wifes lovers Most, maybe all, I'm not sure since I did not know all of them, but any that came to our home was well aware that I knew about them being together and in many of those had even witnessed them enjoying each other at least for awhile until they were ready to head to the bedroom for some private time. But when I would first meet one of them face to face or if I happened to answer the phone (pre cell phone days), the new lover seeme more hesitant to chat than I ever did. We often became friends and discussed just about anything on our minds, including sex. I enjoyed meeting them and talking with them. We had a lot in common too. LOL!

[2cruzin4bull]

I felt awkward. Asked him if he had fun. Wife didn’t want us to talk about what just happened. So we uncomfortably talked about something else with him standing there with his big dick swinging. Some other awkward conversations was after the first time she stayed the night at his house. He told me the next day that was some wild Pussy, but have no other details. The other time was after the first time I ate his cream pie out of her. He told me that’s nasty. Then after we were done. He kept looking at me funny & didn’t really want to talk.

[warmnsalty]

I've never had a problem talking to a guy before or after he's fucked her. It's a total turn on watching a guy fuck her, always make it a point to thank the guy for giving her a great time. We're meeting a new guy tomorrow, Mrs has been txting with him for a few weeks, finally meeting up for a hook up. Going to meet for drinks, then the two of them head to the hotel and get started, then I'll join after a bit. She wants some alone time first. Every time is different, variety is the spice of this life. Looking forward to making a new friend.

[readerofthings]

I don't spend a lot of time talking to her boyfriends. There were only 2 in the last year that even knew I was on board with what took place, and in those cases we pretty much made haste getting out of there when the two of them were finished. The worst for me was about 20 years ago when a girlfriend was spending the night at my place and out of nowhere gave my roomate a blowjob with me sitting next to her. When she was done she got up to go to the kitchen and it was just me and him sitting on the sofa about 4 feet apart. AWKWARD. The next day and after was better. I just kind of pretended it didn't happen and he never mentioned it.

[wildrollercoaster]

This question brings up a lot for me.

First, a few months into my relationship with my now-wife, I unexpectedly showed up at her place one night and secretly witnessed her wildly fucking another man. We talked about it afterward, a monumental event in the development of our incredible relationship. Several days afterward she mischievously invited both him and me out for an after-work drink. He didn't know that I knew there was anything sexual between them. Unforgettable tension in the air -- but it wasn't hard to talk to him, knowing that he didn't know what I knew. (She told me years later that he wasn't really whom I'd seen her in bed with, although she did have a sexual connection with him too.)

Second, a few months ago she invited a young lover, on a dare, to come home with her while I was home. He spent the night in bed with her while I (semi-)slept in the guest room, and they subsequently slept together in a hotel room while I occupied an adjacent bed. Because he knows that I know he's been fucking her, I'm somewhat shy about conversation with him.

Third, I've sometimes imagined going for a drink with a guy, without her, after he's slept with her -- and hearing all about it.

[Mgcouplemn]

not at all, I like talking to them before they fuck my wife, I usually make the arrangements, and after I have watched him fucking her.

[KennyA]

Not "Hard" to talk to him at all since threesomes are what my wife and I preferred. So, talking to him while we both made love to my wife was common.
Even when they got together for some private time talking to him before and after they screwed was normal. He and I would often hang out going to a bar or a ballgame together.
Her long-term lover became a lifelong friend.

[buzz2329]

My wife was fucking a coworker Ken, One time I called up to the frame and Ken answered, I asked "can Kay talk or is your dick in her mouth," we bothed laughed and speak regularly about a variety of topics. He is the only one of my wifes extra activity friends I speak to.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum buzz2329.