Jane' adventure

[Good2Find]

I might post pictures soon sweetie...

Gawd Jane! You will please so many men here if you do Your lovely new avatar alone is enough to cause the mind to run wild! I for one will be looking forward with anticipation hoping you do.

Thanks to you and JH for sharing!

[jane]

So my date last night...i was thinking about all the stuff to tell, and then i was like i'm not sure why. Basically it was average. Average, nice, okay. Not every hotwife experience is earth shattering. Not sure i will see him again.
What did we talk about in bed... hmm.
Oh yes, what is my type? Intelligent, good with words,funny-sometimes. Tall, light brown or blonde hair.

[bubbajack]

O - K!

Well, I guess my Jane-addiction has gotten the better of me.

Jane, you have every right to keep your experiences to yourself. I hope you will tell us something now and then, because you are very good at it (all of it, apparently!) and we really enjoy your stories from the hotwife/cuckoldry frontier.

Also, your husband's contributions are fascinating to me and other husbands who, whether it has happened, might happen, or probably never will happen, intensely desire our wives to fuck other men.

One excellence of your writing is that you deal honestly and directly with the good and the not-so-good in a way that everyone can relate to. The rise and decline of emotional intensity is of the essence of the adventurous life, especially a sexually adventurous life, as we all have some reason to know (or we wouldn't have found our way here or stuck around).

But unless (or until) our enjoyment of your progress gives you a reason to share, you certainly need not do so.

If you feel like saying more later, I am sure there are lots of people who would love to read it. I know you can count on me to be one of them.

[justincase]

Hey baby girl
I am so looking forward to your submissions to the Hottie section. If you don't do it right now, in ten years you will regret that you didn't do it. I can't wait to see a full size version of your old avitar.

[MrBrunetteBeth]

I want to see them as much if not more than every other guy here, Jane, but I also respect your desire to keep what must be the most lovely of pictures to yourself. It definitely seems demeaning and in poor taste for the guys here to be demanding them the way they often do (to me).

I like to hear about what anybody does physically/sexually even if it is mundane. It just does something for me. Beth has commented that if she had to generalize just about every one of her experiences goes from them performing oral on her, then they are in missionary position, then doggie, and then finish with her on top. After a rest break she performs oral to get things started again.

And if that was all she told me and in that way I would be happy with it. Even if it was exactly that way and the same every time. It still does something for me.

MrBB

[jane]

Hmm , as i recall you have seen lots of pictures of me mr.b
As to what happend on the date, basically we had a nice dinner. I was in a nice white dress. Sort of summery. Really cute new shoes i must say. We went back to his house, and we made out, and i just began feeling i was going through the motions. We started undressing, and i was not so hot for his body. To be fair he was fine, just didn't do it for me. Don't even know why. I took his dick out and sucked it a bit. He was no larger than my hubby. At that point i just wasn't feeling it. i told him i was feeling guilty and could we stop. We went pretty far, without going all the way. he wasn't pleased. as i was leaving he told me to call him if i changed my mind. but he didn't sound hopeful.
i don't know what it is with me.

[bubbajack]

Having now seen a pic of your beautiful pussy, I imagine Deron would want to be in top form whenever he has a chance to tap it! I know I would!

Thank you, Jane (and J's H)

[Arctus]

Now that is PURE torture!!! Bubbajack has seen Jane's pussy and the rest of us are left in the dark <smile>! Actually, rather than seeing a crotch shot, I would find more photos of Jane's body... shadowy and suggestive... most erotic!

Jane and JH, I'd love to hear more about what each of you would like the other to do more (or less) of.

[bubbajack]

Check the Pussies thread. J's H helped us out.

[Janes Husband]

My wife wanted to see Deron this week ,but i thought it was too soon. But when i got home today she said they talked and he wants to take her to a barbeque this weekend. I was skeptical, but she said other women would be there. She's not sure about whether to go as a married woman or Deron's girlfriend though. We've also talked a little more about denial and chastity.

[Arctus]

JH... how far would you like denial and chastity to be taken with you? My partner and I enjoy experimenting with this too. I haven't penetrated her for a couple of weeks (mutual agreement of denial of access) and we have both agreed to restrict ourselves from having orgasms until Friday - deprivation for about a week). If all goes well between her and the Third, she may become a HW in my presence on Friday. We'll see. It arouses me to write those words... Denial and chastity can be very erotic. I don't know yet how I would feel if I were denied while she had full access to sex with a FB. One Friday at a time

[Janes Husband]

Not sure about it. Would the chastity thing damage me if i keep it on too long? And what would it do to my wife, only having sex with Deron for a long time?

[Arctus]

She's not sure about whether to go as a married woman or Deron's girlfriend though.

Perhaps she should go as Deron's married girlfriend, the Hotwife that she is. "Pleased to meet you. I'm Jane. Happily married. Yes, my husband knows that I'm here with Deron..." etc...

Just a thought.

[Arctus]

Not sure about it. Would the chastity thing damage me if i keep it on too long? And what would it do to my wife, only having sex with Deron for a long time?

I have no idea about the chastity device you're using or what the long-term (whatever "long-term" means to you) consequences of it could/would be. And, what do you imagine it will do to Jane if she has sex with Deron as frequently as she wishes? Clearly, she enjoys sex with him already. He sounds like a remarkable "Bull" for Jane's pleasure. At the same time, however you two play out your relationship, it is important that it works for both of you... not just one of you.

I am still wondering what Jane wants (what makes her hot) that you don't understand?

[Janes Husband]

Not sure how to respond on that one

[jane]

It was my idea , basically.
Hubby didn't want me to play with Deron this week,but yesterday he invited me to a barbeque saturday. I was unsure, but he said other women will be there. If i go, i have talked with Deron whether i should go as a married woman or single. Any ideas?

[jane]

I'm not totally sure he's told them i'm married. there will be marrieds and couples too.

[bubbajack]

Chiming in - again ...

I don't get a clear picture of the move towards chastity for J's H here - seems like almost a side issue for the couple.

What seems central here is that Jane's libido is driving this this process in the direction of always more thrilling experiences - some, in fact, that neither she nor her husband have articulated, even to themselves, before things got to the next stage.

I think they may know more than what they are saying about what they fantasize - but lots of things can get in the way of calling things by their real names. Denial is not just a river in Africa or a rule against a husband cumming.

I am thinking about the recent "going through the motions" feeling Jane experienced. The date that looked just fine and dandy as a potential hotwife experience, the nice handsome guy, the pleasant conversation, she looked great. There was enough resemblance to what she had desired that they started on to the anticipated hot part of the proceedings: go someplace private, kiss deeply, take off clothes, lick pussy and suck dick.

But it seems to have felt dull - ordinary. His dick was only the size of her husband's ( We still haven't heard anything explicit about that issue with the couple - was this guy's dick disappointing because small, or merely because too similar? Can't tell from the record.)

Anyway, she broke off, put on her clothes and went home (I can just imagine the guy's dumfounded reaction - failure on the very edge of victory. Wow.)

When she gets home, she tells her husband she wants big black dangerous Deron's big black dangerous bareback dick. He resists the idea for some reason.

Then, quite suddenly, there is Deron's invitation to a BBQ coming up with, presumably, lots of big black dangerous friends of Deron. A rudimentary inquiry about safety is quickly turned aside with the somewhat immaterial claim that there will be other women there. Now the question is which of two flags she should fly into this encounter - Deron's girlfriend or J's hotwife out with a bull?

This seems to be a distinction without much of a difference with respect to appearances: to the fellow picnickers, Deron is presumably fucking her either way. The difference is in how available for sharing she might be presumed to be. That too make not be different from Deron's buddies' perspective if he has told them about her. The only difference might be in how she might appear in the eyes of the other women at the BBQ.

Anyway, this thread is about adventure and I for one am exceedingly interested in how this weekend plays out.

Of course, I have barely thought about it at all, as you can tell.

[jane]

I've been out with Deron, but not a lot around town. I don't know his friends, and i am nervous. I know some of the couples are married, so no i don't think it's an orgy waiting for me.
I'm not sure how to respond to some of the other thoughts from you guys. thinking.

[bubbajack]

I want to clarify something if I can: I am processing the information I have received from this thread in a way that is peculiar to me. I do not believe this makes me any kind of authority on what is right or wrong for you and your husband, Jane, nor even what is safe or wise or satisfying.

I love how your posts (both of you) make me feel, and I consider what you say in comparison with experiences I have had or that I have heard of and that I might consider whether I want to have.

Any such experiences, of course, would be my experiences, as yours would/will be yours.

Anyhow, whatever, happens or does not happen, you and your husband continue to have my admiration and respect and (if from afar) affection. I also desire you - but you know that.

[Arctus]

Not sure how to respond on that one

JH... I hope I did not offend you in any way with my suggestion. Best, Arctus

[Aynsley]

It was my idea , basically.
Hubby didn't want me to play with Deron this week,but yesterday he invited me to a barbeque saturday. I was unsure, but he said other women will be there. If i go, i have talked with Deron whether i should go as a married woman or single. Any ideas?

Well what's your intentions? You ARE a married woman. However his friends (assuming I have the right mental picture of Deron) would probably love that you're married. Hell I'm sure that's already been disclosed. That's my 2 cents.

MrB

Hi Jane & JH.

Personally, I find the idea of you being Deron's 'date', to the BBQ, as Incredibly Erotic.
Iris has yet to go on a 'date' with a FB, where she's the FB's 'woman' for the evening, while the two of them
are out among 'his' friends. And I'm not exactly sure why, but if Iris was to do this with a black gentleman,
would just add to the spice. I got a little taste of this, when we met Nathan, his brother, and his friend,
a couple of weekends ago.

As to whether or not Deron would share that you're married, I could argue both sides;
could be...but maybe not (I/we have experiences that could make the argument, both ways).

As an experienced FB, I could see Deron NOT saying anything...unless you approved it, specifically. So, if
you two 'like' the idea of Deron's friends 'knowing', you may want to share with him, that it's OK for him to share with
whomever he feels comfortable saying something to (he actually, may not want to 'share' this info).

Lastly, whatever you guys 'Do', I hope you two are of a 'like mind'; this is, afterall, a 'team' sport
As with other couples, Iris has gotten 'good' at knowing what buttons to push, and whatever you decide,
I hope it enhances YOUR time (as in you and JH), when you two are back home in bed.

Good luck, and I'm eager to hear what unfolds.

[bubbajack]

Great post, Aynsley.

It is all too easy to get carried away on a wave of erotic feeling. Rocketman's earlier sketch of a possible outcome of the J's H-Jane-Deron (plus?) scenario (recalled vividly by the Bear) is only that - a possible outcome.

It is equally possible that nothing more exciting will happen than Jane getting BBQ sauce on her shorts.

It definitely betrays something in me that I would "go there" to the extent I did in my last comment. It says nothing much about any of the participants, except that they probably likewise, being human and similarly acculturated to me, have thought of many, many possibilities. It certainly says nothing about what will actually happen at or as a result of the BBQ, which for the remainder of the week will remain stubbornly in the future.

As Aynsley attests for himself, the impact on me of simply reading that Jane might go to a BBQ as Deron's date was huge. It was enough to put me into a blubbering state of erotic imagination running wild.

Dear Jane, I just hope you and J's H and Deron have a really good time and that you will tell us how it goes when you get a chance.

[Mr JnJ Doe]

It was my idea , basically.
Hubby didn't want me to play with Deron this week,but yesterday he invited me to a barbeque saturday. I was unsure, but he said other women will be there. If i go, i have talked with Deron whether i should go as a married woman or single. Any ideas?

Hi Jane,
Have you decided on how you are going? If you do decide on going as a single, will there be some sort of ring ceremony where JH takes off the rings and then puts them back on you when you return?

[wifewatcher1001]

I agree with Rocketman & Mr Bear. I think what Rocketman said is where this is headed, at least in Deron's mind. (it is hot to think about.) Questions are, what do Jane & JH think about the possibility?