What is your preferred frequency for hotwife activity?

[ucaneffher]

After years of being a member here, I've noticed a pattern that form some couples the wife plays once a month, some 2-3 times a year, some once a year, and then there's those aficionados who love for the wife to play multiple times a week.

When I was in the lifestyle, I hoped to see my girlfriend play with lovers every single day.
-From the start, one guy every week or two but quickly became multiple times a week.
-About 1 year into the lifestyle she was seeing 1-2 guys throughout the week,
-About 3 years into the lifestyle she was seeing 2-5 guys throughout the week,
-About 5 years into the lifestyle she has a steady lover and she was at his place every single evening for 6-7 hours every single night-just the way I wanted in the very beginning.

So, what is your preferred frequency and what is the actual frequency?

[Her number1]

My preferred is her actual, 1-3 times a week.

[Thebestdays1]

For me personally, I loved it the most when she was seeing one of her married boyfriends. They both worked on the night shift so on their way home they'd park up somewhere quiet and she'd give him a blowjob for five mornings a week. On the Friday night he'd pretend to do a sixth, overtime shift that was supposed to finish at 4am. Instead, they'd finish about 1am and go back to our place and spend three hours downstairs, fucking.

He knew I was okay with it but he wasn't very comfortable at first so I put a bolt on the inside of the living room door so he knew they wouldn't be interrupted.

I loved that every morning she'd come home with her bra undone and up over her breasts and her 'tum full of cum'. Then during the Saturday morning I'd get to eat about two creampies from her when she came upstairs for me to clean her.

This arrangement suited her too because, by this time she was really starting to enjoy going with other men as often as possible.

[PANTIES]

There are times she only sees her current lover once a week, then there are times she is with him for a week at his place. Time together is based on when he can get free to see her. This Monday he will be with her for the week.

Pauline

[bltn1966]

Marie has a friend name Stacy that’s a HW too. Sometimes I wish my wife would be a little more like Stacy. Stacy will see 1-3 guys a week. Marie might see 1-3 guys a year. Marie lives vicariously through Stacy. She like hearing about her friends latest sexcapade. Thankfully Stacy has introduced her to a few studs. But for the most part my wife love sitting in the sidelines instead of getting into the game.

[Cdncuck]

My answer was other because our situation has changed so much with time.

In the beginning, we were dating when we began doing this. We did mfm with random guys. She wanted me to meet them first and arrange things then the three of us would get together.

That usually happened every weekend. After she had been playing for a while and gained some confidence, she began picking guys up on her own. She was in university by then she was usually seeing one or two guys a week and we were still doing our mfm activities on the weekends.

After the first year, she decided school wasn't what she wanted right then so she quit. One of the guys she had been fucking managed a hotel bar. He offered her a job waiting tables in the bar.

That gave her the opportunity to meet plenty of men and she took full advantage of the opportunity. She was sometimes getting laid 4 and 5 times a week.

It wasn't long after she started in the bar we were married. She continued to work there for another 11 years. By that time she had decided to go back to school and quit the bar.

After quitting she slowed off for a while just fucking the odd guy she picked up on a weekend. About the second semester she started dating guys she was going to school with. They were in their late teens and early 20s. She was 33 or 34 at that time. She began getting fucked 3 or 4 times a month.

After graduation, she slowed down again just picking guys up here and there and doing a few regulars at home. That went on for several years until she hooked up with a guy who belonged to a swing club. He invited us to join and we did.

She was having sex every weekend, usually with 3 or more guys. That was how things were until covid. That threw everything out of whack. She didn't fuck anyone else for 13 months. After the vaccines came out, she started fucking again but it was intermittent.

The swing club had folded and we lost touch with many people. We are now living in a different city and have made a few contacts here. She's playing once or twice a month now with 2 different guys.

She's hoping to meet more people or perhaps find a swing club here.

[Tank Turner]

Circumstances determine our activity. We'd done consecutive nights, and we've been dormant for many months and longer. School is out for summer. We have two very active adolescent kids. They seem to always have activity planned. One of us, usually me because I work from home a lot, seems to be either driving them or picking them up. My one reliable sister-in-law has a boyfriend who keeps her busy or vice versa. We can't rely on her to watch our kids overnight for us. We were lucky to work in our friend Bob for a night of unrestrained debauchery a few weeks ago.

We can't arrange a week's vacation due to our kids' activities and coordinating my wife and my work schedules. I have more flexibility that she does, but that could change depending on corporate contracts.

Under ideal circumstances and without worry about retaining anonymity, my wife could do at least once a week or more, and I'd love every second of it. Except for one time, we have always HW'd together. She's most comfortable porn starring in our bedroom with me participating. I'm 100% straight. She's has bi-curiosity going on. I can't keep up with my wife. Another woman would tax my overtaxed stamina. She has an unfair advantage.

[Farmgirl]

If I fantasized I would prefer every day, but that isn't reality, and simply wouldn't work in the real world. So, I'm very happy with my 1-3 times a week, and even then, some weeks I go without , but that is real life.

[Parsifal]

If I fantasized I would prefer every day, but that isn't reality, and simply wouldn't work in the real world. So, I'm very happy with my 1-3 times a week, and even then, some weeks I go without , but that is real life.

1-3 not counting No. 1. And that's real life!!??? Life must be good

[ucaneffher]

If I fantasized I would prefer every day, but that isn't reality, and simply wouldn't work in the real world. So, I'm very happy with my 1-3 times a week, and even then, some weeks I go without , but that is real life.

Agreed, as adults with responsibilities that just becomes unrealistic.

The ex gf and i were very young when we were together and in the lifestyle which allowed us the versatility to make the lifestyle our priority in our life.

I think that i realized that I was more of a cuck than the originally believed stag when my girlfriend made the decision that she wanted to spend intimate time with her boyfriend 7 nights a week

At first when she first started getting dolled up around 6pm, I was excited as always, but then she did it every day for a whole week. That whole week she came home anywhere between midnight and 2am. I loved it but realized that a handful of plans as well of tasks were disregarded.

When I asked her, she told me that from that moment, it would be his time to have her and it would be their alone time every single night. I didn't believe her but boy did she prove me wrong. Like clockwork every evening after work my gf was putting on something cute and freshening up to go spend time with him.

After about 2-3:weeks, I knew she was serious and he was parked outside of our house to pick her up. There is something about seeing your woman happily getting into another man's vehicle every single night for almost a year.

That is when I knew that my girlfriend was off-limits to me whether sexually, emotionally, or to handle tasks and errands, all because 6pm to 2am was her designated time to intimately connect with her boyfriend. She was unreachable to anyone.

Quite frankly, it was more than I expected but I truly learned to love knowing she had a schedule with him and that I had to learn to plan things around her time with her boyfriend.

[Gulfcpl]

Preference of frequency takes second place to real life, as Farmgirl mentioned. I read some of these threads where the readers almost piss themselves when there is no immediate update on hotwife activities. There are other things in life besides playing this hotwife game. My wife would prefer a few times a week also but we have a grandson that we see every few weekends, there is shopping, cooking, cleaning, working and other things that take up our time. It’s fun when it happens but we, especially her, realizes that it could be tomorrow, next week, or a couple weeks before the next go around. This is just our take on it.

[Mr Stag]

When my first wife and I opened her legs to other men, the men were either my friends or her ex-lovers or her co-workers. For the first two years, almost every weekend included her being fucked by another man. But then we moved to another town and these events fell to only two or three times a year. The two big exceptions were her two office affairs, both with my blessings and encouragement. Oddly enough, in both affairs at work, she was fucked only once a week, as that was the time they were alone in the office. Saturday morning in the first affair; Friday night in the second. I loved this arrangement, as it was pretty much guaranteed to happen. I loved having her come home pre-fucked, her panties stained with semen, her pussy eager for more sex. Sadly, both affairs were relatively short-lived; only a few months in the first and almost a year in the second (we moved again).

Often we talked about how great daily sex with other men would be for her, but once a week seemed the better frequency of encounters. Even when we found a nearby male neighbor for her, her couplings fell from three times a week to twice and then once a week.

[silkyhw]

We both enjoy knowing that she has recently been with another guy - and also that she has another date lined up! A related question might be 'how many of us would prefer to only make love when she still has another guy's semen inside her'?

[Her number1]

We both enjoy knowing that she has recently been with another guy - and also that she has another date lined up! A related question might be 'how many of us would prefer to only make love when she still has another guy's semen inside her'?

Considering how long sperm lives inside a woman, I generally only have sex with my wife while she is filled with anothers live sperm.

[Parsifal]

We both enjoy knowing that she has recently been with another guy - and also that she has another date lined up! A related question might be 'how many of us would prefer to only make love when she still has another guy's semen inside her'?

Considering how long sperm lives inside a woman, I generally only have sex with my wife while she is filled with anothers live sperm.

Not a mere coincidence you feel that way. There is something to that sperm competition theory, methinks.