"Bedroom Privileges" and Overnighters? A Poll...

[wildrollercoaster]

My wife, now in her 30s, and I have been married since spring of last year, and began dating almost a decade ago. She's beautiful and passionately intimate by nature. We've had an understanding since early in our relationship that I unconditionally embrace her sexuality, and would never wish to control her. Her unbridled eroticism is intoxicating, as long as she's totally open with me -- every lurid detail.

She was pretty wild when we originally got together, accustomed to the dating life of an outgoing, sexual, beautiful single woman. There have been ebbs and flows since then. Sometimes months have passed when she hardly seemed to notice other men, and sometimes she's found herself juggling different admirers within days or weeks of each other. Since we've been living together, rarely has another man ended up in her bed. Most of her trysts have been elsewhere.

There's been an exception to that pattern, though. She met a captivating admirer at a remote lake during a week-long wind sports event several summers ago. Powerful carnal attraction overcame them on her third night there, spontaneously beginning in a lakeside wood-fired sauna. She stayed overnight in his tent, and every subsequent night -- five or six altogether -- fucking every night, morning, and often between. She told me afterward what had happened, in merciless detail. He lived about a thousand miles away. Two years ago, the summer before we got married, she playfully informed me that she wanted a visit from him as her "stagette" (batchelorette) celebration, and arranged for him to arrive when I was planning to be away for at least a night or two. He ended up staying with her for three nights. Mind-blowing -- for them and for me -- leading to a few subsequent visits, the longest about a week long. Intensely erotic dynamic -- gorgeous new-relationship-chemistry-fueled couple on their own -- marathon lovemaking day after day. Seemingly surreal experience.

Only a few times has she ever had a lover over while I'm home -- like when she recently invited a hot young admirer home on a dare while we were out socializing, and got fucked out of her mind while I got the guest bedroom.

[Very Hot Wife]

I get that the marital bed has a significance for some couples and when we first met it didn't mean much to me. But I should explain that Becky was young, free and single when we met. She had her own house and just finished a LTR and was playing the field big time. Never had a threesome, but had a string of lovers falling over themselves to get into her bed.

So initially I was just one of her lovers that shared her bed with 4 or 5 other guys every week. So I arrived at the situation where, if I wanted to have sex with her, I had to accept that others were on the scene. So knowing that she was fucking other guys in her bed was the norm.

When we got a bit more serious, I became comfortable with the situation and actually encouraged her to have other lovers.

Once we married she decided that the marital bed was for us but after a year or two, we invited other guys to share our bed. Always with Becky in the middle, rarely alone with her lover.

But there have been occasions where I've slept in the guest room while she fucked a guy but she's never had a LTR where that has been the norm. Once a guy has become regular, she's stayed at his or they've used our guest room.

I liked the idea of her and a guy in our bed, but would probably have got tired of that arrangement if it became a regular thing.

Nowadays, she normally meets a guy at his place or a hotel which he pays for.

But we spend a lot winters in warmer climes so the opportunity is there for a live in lover for several months. We've posted on OHW and other sites about that situation, but never had any serious replies.

[warmnsalty]

Updating my previous answer. Mrs has had a few overnights recently. We've some new guys who are becoming regulars. Have loved waking up to the sounds of her getting fucked in the middle of the night. Not to mention the fucking that takes place when everyone wakes up.

[Suchagoodgirl]

To be honest we never had an issue with having another man in our bed...or an occasional woman. It's the most comfortable place for her to have sex. She can pick her sex mix on the stereo, light the candles, use her toys, dress in lingerie. Dress in sexy outfits she has. I appreciate the men that fuck her because it's such a turn on for both of us, that they are welcome in my house/bed anytime. Frankly I snore and my wife hates it so the break is nice for her. My preference is for her to do overnights as much as possible when she's fucking a guy because I want there to be the possibility of having sex multiple times. I want him to have the opportunity to wake up hard and fuck her again. I want her to have the chance to wake him up by stroking his cock or a wake up blow job so she can get fucked again in the morning. These are all fairly common occurrences when she spends the night with a guy and so him staying over is always a good thing. There are few things in the world I enjoy more than being in the other room hearing my wife get fucked. Knowing she's been a naughty little slut and us both loving it is intoxicating. I am very lucky to have a woman who truly enjoys being a hotwife.

I've never been a jealous guy so I never feel like I'm being replaced in the bedroom or as a husband. When there is another guy in my bed I am happy and very aroused...and so is she.

[Suchagoodgirl]

Updating my previous answer. Mrs has had a few overnights recently. We've some new guys who are becoming regulars. Have loved waking up to the sounds of her getting fucked in the middle of the night. Not to mention the fucking that takes place when everyone wakes up.

Having a few regulars is such a great place to be as a hotwife couple. My wife is openly seeking to find a couple more guys to add to her "rotation." I never want her sex with other guys to be in just one man's hands unless he's really willing to fuck her often. And I mean like 3 times a week often. Right now we only have one guy she is fucking and this week has been great because he's fucked her on Mon and Wed and they have a date Sunday. But the week before we had family in town and when they left she was super horny and wanting to fuck him. But he had his mom in town all weekend and she had to wait 4 days. That was when she really talked about wanting to have more than one guy that she's fucking regularly. She was genuinely frustrated that she had to wait that long when her body really needed a new guy to fuck her.

[Suchagoodgirl]

My wife, now in her 30s, and I have been married since spring of last year, and began dating almost a decade ago. She's beautiful and passionately intimate by nature. We've had an understanding since early in our relationship that I unconditionally embrace her sexuality, and would never wish to control her. Her unbridled eroticism is intoxicating, as long as she's totally open with me -- every lurid detail.

She was pretty wild when we originally got together, accustomed to the dating life of an outgoing, sexual, beautiful single woman. There have been ebbs and flows since then. Sometimes months have passed when she hardly seemed to notice other men, and sometimes she's found herself juggling different admirers within days or weeks of each other. Since we've been living together, rarely has another man ended up in her bed. Most of her trysts have been elsewhere.

There's been an exception to that pattern, though. She met a captivating admirer at a remote lake during a week-long wind sports event several summers ago. Powerful carnal attraction overcame them on her third night there, spontaneously beginning in a lakeside wood-fired sauna. She stayed overnight in his tent, and every subsequent night -- five or six altogether -- fucking every night, morning, and often between. She told me afterward what had happened, in merciless detail. He lived about a thousand miles away. Two years ago, the summer before we got married, she playfully informed me that she wanted a visit from him as her "stagette" (batchelorette) celebration, and arranged for him to arrive when I was planning to be away for at least a night or two. He ended up staying with her for three nights. Mind-blowing -- for them and for me -- leading to a few subsequent visits, the longest about a week long. Intensely erotic dynamic -- gorgeous new-relationship-chemistry-fueled couple on their own -- marathon lovemaking day after day. Seemingly surreal experience.

Only a few times has she ever had a lover over while I'm home -- like when she recently invited a hot young admirer home on a dare while we were out socializing, and got fucked out of her mind while I got the guest bedroom.

Wow what a great story. And that's awesome that she and her lover get to explore their sexual chemistry like that. My wife has had about 4 or 5 guys that she had chemistry like this in our 8 years in the hotwife lifestyle. The kind of chemistry where the second they are alone in a room together they just start going at it. I remember one guy she answered the door in lingerie in heels and she said they didn't talk and just started kissing passionately and at the same instant she reached for his cock he reached for her pussy and started fingering her. There was another time she went out of town with a guy for 2 nights and the 2nd day she just sent me a text that said "omg he can't stop fucking me!" Whenever she went on trips with this guy it was like that. When I'd ask how her were her orgasms with him she would say "long, hard, multiple." He could not get enough of her and they had a lot of passionate sex. He ended up falling for her and she didn't. Lol.

These are the kind of sexual connections I want for us as a couple the most. The ones where I can drop her off for an overnight with the guy and know she's going to get fucked 4 plus times and she's going to have very intense orgasms and she will come home to super high energy.

Back on topic I've had the pleasure of listening to a couple sessions like this when she was in our bed. It never seemed naughtier to me that she's getting fucked in the bed we sleep in. I wish it did!

[warmnsalty]

One of her bbc's is asleep now in our bed with her, he came over for dinner last night have been fucking all night long. LOVE waking up to her getting fucked in our bed, He unloads, I go down on her, we all fall asleep. Waiting for my breakfast now... mmmmm

[MMAN1]

We changed over the years. At first she was "NO WAY, NOT IN OUR BED". When she was telling me who she was bedding it always not in our apartment. Then I moved out for a job change, left her alone for just over a week. She ended up sleeping with two men that week, both in our bedroom but not in our bed as I moved it when I moved out. I came home mid week stopping her getting fucked unknowing what I'd done. We fucked like rabbits that night, me asking her who she was fucking, her not telling. Little did I know I was in the same bed shed gotten out of that morning after sleeping with our neighbor! She came clean about a year later in a motel fucking me good recounting what they did while I was gone for the week. So she claims it technically, it was not "our" bed, just our bedroom so she kept her rule of no other men in our bed.