Two Weeks to go

[Peaks23]

Ok , so my wife is meeting an ex fling in two weeks time and it'll be her very first venture into the cuckold/hotwife arena. I've mentioned this in another post.

I'm not sure which forum this belongs in, but as I'll be staying at home and she'll be out for the night and most of the day, I guess it falls into the cuckold bracket more.

Like many others have done, this thread is hopefully going to help me get through the whole experience. The build up and the momentous occasion itself, when I know I'll be wracked with angst, worry and horniness. I know I'll just want her to be back home, having had an amazing time and tell me all about it and then we can hopefully progress again.

I think that's what I'm most nervous about, is that she won't enjoy it, or won't tell me about it all, which would be a disaster in my eyes.

My wife, keeps flip flopping from being excited (even though she doesn't like to let on) and hesitant to coming close to calling it off.

They text each other quite regularly. Sometimes he's aloof so she seems to want to call it off, but tonight she's been glued to her phone exchanging messages so it's all on again!

I've said that it's totally up to her whether it goes ahead or not, I'll respect her decision. If she did call it off, I'd feel disappointed but some relief, if it's not what she wants then that is the best call. When it's on, I my heart races, I'm filled with nerves and am horny as hell!

I'll try to keep things updated...

[mastiff]

Hope you both have a great experience

[Peaks23]

So last night, when we went to bed, we got talking, in fact she did most of the talking. It got very hot and she said that she really wants to fuck him again and hopes that he is still as good in bed as she remembers, because if he is, she can see him every couple of months for fuck sessions and would I be ok with her staying overnight each time as he lives over an hour away. Of course I agreed.

The thing that turns her on the most is coming home to me so I can taste their sex so she even went as far as saying perhaps she would arrange a future meet up where she would meet him, and just fuck him in his car and then come back home so she can sit on my face so she could give me as much of his cum as fresh as possible.

Now I know this is heated sex talk, but that admission was a big step forward for her.

I'll gradually fill in some of the back story when it's relevant. Our sex (even when we were just at the fantasy stage) got to its hottest when the thought of me cleaning her after she fucked someone arose.
Last night concluded with us masterbating each other and she had a massive orgasm, then watched as she made me cum all over myself.
I'll expect a few days of quiet and no action between us. She keeps insisting that she doesn't want to have any sexual activity until they meet, so she's gagging for it, but the excitement still gets too much. Which is great.
More soon hopefully!

[Peaks23]

Just a quick update,

I set up a romantic evening for us last night and we had a great long chat about making this work, about how we should make the first time it happens be really special and we talked about all the background stuff. She really struggles to talk about it sometimes so we agreed that she could talk to me as if I was her best girlie friend. She found that easier.
It was amazing and I feel much more comfortable about things (for the moment!)
Needless to say some great sex ensued, on the agreement that this would definitely be the last time she had a cock inside her, until the big day. The next two weeks can't go quick enough!

[trecital]

I think that's what I'm most nervous about, is that she won't enjoy it, or won't tell me about it all, which would be a disaster in my eyes.

If you don't try it, you'll never know whether you'll enjoy it.

Good luck.

[wrknman66]

Thank you for including us in the build up. I look forward to hearing all about your angst and her evolution

[wrknman66]

Thank you for including us in the build up. I look forward to hearing all about your angst and her evolution

[Big Red]

My wife is engaged right now in a similar situation. For what it’s worth, i was sure to make certain she understood my boundaries and what I needed from all this. I wanted regular updates every couple of hours, and those have been great. If you want her to update you or tell you everything afterward, I think it would be good to tell her now.

[Peaks23]

My wife is engaged right now in a similar situation. For what it’s worth, was sure to make certain she understood my boundaries and what I needed from all this. I wanted regular updates every couple of hours, and those have been great. If you want her to update you or tell you everything afterward, I think it would be good to tell her now.

We've had a lot of chats and she knows what I need.

The guy knows she's with someone (me) but as far as he's concerned I know nothing about their meeting. It's an affair in his eyes. I wasn't keen on that idea, but that's the way she says it needs to be on this occasion. She is however, very open with me about what they message each other about. I won't be getting updates, as he'll think it's weird but she will text me when they've fucked for the first time. We've agreed a "code text". The amount of kisses that the text contains will indicate how well it's going.

She is also aware and very willing to tell me absolutely everything that happened when she gets home.

Him thinking that it's affair, although not ideal, actually adds an interesting dynamic because he's under the impression that we don't have much of a sex life, so he's really keen to give her a fucking all night long. She's also told him that she wants him to cum inside her alot. He'll be getting a massive buzz thinking that I don't know she's going to come home full of his cum. But in reality, she'll be sitting on my face the minute she gets home.

When they used to fuck each other, she said that he came inside her 5 times in total in a one night/morning meeting.

Only about 12 days to go now....it's all happening on the 30th

[MrMtl]

Congratulations to both of you. As for myself, I’m reading and learning a lot in here from different couples. I start about 1 year ago putting scenarios in bed and I can say that it’s working, but very slowly.

[Peaks23]

Congratulations to both of you. As for myself, I’m reading and learning a lot in here from different couples. I start about 1 year ago putting scenarios in bed and I can say that it’s working, but very slowly.

We are certainly not there yet. We have great discussions nowadays though, which are sometimes tough because you have to cover the nitty gritty details etc. Maybe you aren't at that stage yet, but don't shy away from it when you do get there.

It took us years to get to this stage and the closer it gets to actually happening, the more questions, worries and angst you will have but try to roll with it and don't make any rash statements or judgements.

[Peaks23]

A big twist popped up last night.

Now, we were sitting chatting about the upcoming event, which, has been pretty much the norm recently and it's been really great. Last night we discussed some of my previous experiences with my ex. I admitted that during one MMF threesome, I had sucked a man's cock. I must be clear here, that I'm not gay, or bisexual and nor do I find men sexually attractive. It was a spur of the moment thing, it just happened.

My wife has always insisted that she doesn't really have fantasies which I've found odd, but I've reluctantly accepted it. But last night she said that whilst she could never imagine wanting me to be with another woman (Which is more than fine because that's not what turns me on in this lifestyle) she'd like me to suck off another man and let him cum in my mouth.

I said that if it was something she wanted and did genuinely turn her on, I'd consider it. Well, she said yes it does. She doesn't want to be there, but wants me to just go and do it and then come home and kiss her afterwards. She also asked 'how on earth would you find someone to do that'? I said that there are bound to be websites that have people wanting to do that.

I know this is a cliché but tied into my wish to see her fucked by another man, I always picture it being a well hung black man. Yes, I've watched a lot of amateur interracial porn. I find it much more stimulating, the contrast etc. She's not into black men, so I've had to let that go, and the ex that she's meeting is white.

Jokingly, she said to me, that if I find someone 'it should be a really big black cock's. To her absolute surprise, I told her that 'it would be, if I do this I'm only doing it with a big black cock'. I visibly saw her jaw drop .

On our way to bed, I did a quick Google search "black cock or white cock" and found some comparison photos. Showed her one photo of a big black cock next to a smaller white one and said 'you see, if I'm going to suck a cock, I'm going all in'.

I did try to suggest that it would be better if she was there and id definitely suck it before and after it goes inside her. There was a few seconds pause and then she said, 'i couldn't do that, black men don't do it for me'. But at least, she knows knows what my ultimate fantasy is and a picture has been planted in her mind.

Anyway, I jokingly said that perhaps I should try and find a cock to suck on the night that she goes to meet her ex, to keep me occupied. She got horny as fuck with that thought, so I seem to have started something that I'm not sure I can get out of!

I did say that I would be totally honest when I searched and find a site that might have such unicorns (a bbc that wants his cock sucked, but knows that I'm doing it for my wife and I have no interest in any other sexual activity with a him at all).

Can anyone tell me of a site that I might find something like this?

Although I will wait until later today to even search as I want confirmation from my wife that she does want me to really do it.

Whilst we didn't have sex, we masturbated each other and she came quickly and massively. Especially when I said imagine a cock in my mouth, just at the same time your ex shoots his load inside you. That sent her right over the top!!

[Peaks23]

So I had a message from leo-cpl asking me some questions that made ght help explain the situation better. I'm aware that I probably hadn't covered everything so I'm going to answer the questions below.

for these updates.....guessing its a fun and exciting time!

Just some questions if you wanna answer for everyone to better understand the scenario
1. How long ago was the fling?

The fling was over a decade ago, before we met. They met a total of about 4 or 5 times, pretty much just for sex. From what I gather, she was pretty much a booty call.

2. Is the guy married or in a relationship now?

We don't know, she hasn't asked, and she says it's not something that she's that concerned with. She suspects not.

3. You think he knows that you know or your wifes been able to cover up and present a believable background)

My wife says that he has no idea. He knows she's with me but just wants to fuck her again anyway. My wife thinks that if he knew, he wouldn't be into it. I think that he gets off thinking that he's going to send her home full of his cum without my knowledge.

4. is he local or visiting from out of town for a cpl of nights?

He lives about an hour and a half away. They've already discussed that if they enjoy it, they could meet every so often when time allows.

5. What story has your wife given for being able to spend the night with him?

As far as he's concerned, she just wanted a bit of alone time and that I'm always busy working so don't get much time together, let alone sex together very often. I think she might also have said that I can't make it because of work. We've agreed that it would be strange not to contact each other whilst she is away so we have a coded message system in place so he doesn't suspect that I know.

I hope that helps explain the situation a bit, if anyone has more questions ,I'm happy to answer.

[Flint]

This sounds incredible; can't wait to hear how well it goes, but it certainly looking good at this stage.

[Peaks23]

This sounds incredible; can't wait to hear how well it goes, but it certainly looking good at this stage.

They are even texting each other now about meeting up again, ad how he wants to fuck her in his car.

Don't get me wrong, we have wobbly moments, where we both have doubts about doing it, but we've been talking about it a lot. And I ra alot.

[Peaks23]

A brief update,
We've talked a lot tonight. This might not be titillating to you all, but we've covered some concerns/anomalies I had about meeting an ex. Also her ongoing general doubts.

The conclusion was solid. From her mouth" 'im going through with it's. It was a general acceptance that we both want it o happen, ad we can deal with and discuss any issues (if we have any more).

11 days to go.....

[Peaks23]

So my wife is starting her official countdown.

10 days to go.
The preparations begin in earnest.
Nails being done.
Full professional bikini wax.
Hair Appointment.

It's like the countdown to Christmas, and my present will be arriving with a pussy full of another man's cum. I'm sure she'll be a changed woman forever. The dynamic will change. Her mentality will have changed. Her view of her own sexuality will have changed. I will see her differently (in a much better light).

It's going to be the slowest countdown ever.

[kaskap79]

The time waiting for the day will feel like the clock stopped.
But suddenly it is the day and more nerves kick in.

While she is gone the clock will move even slower, but suddenly she is there with you again.

The time where the clock moves most slowly is from the time, she tells you she is on her way home and until she opens your door. Then you can talk about time stops.

But all your excitement will increase all the time until she is back with you again.

Enjoy the wonderful waiting time.

[Peaks23]

The time waiting for the day will feel like the clock stopped.
But suddenly it is the day and more nerves kick in.

While she is gone the clock will move even slower, but suddenly she is there with you again.

The time where the clock moves most slowly is from the time, she tells you she is on her way home and until she opens your door. Then you can talk about time stops.

But all your excitement will increase all the time until she is back with you again.

Enjoy the wonderful waiting time.

Love this, couldn't have put it better myself

[kaskap79]

For me, the best part is the hug I get, just when she sees me.

[Peaks23]

I reckon that you might be right, although there are going to be two levels here.

The first level is that hug you mention. That's the emotional top drawer right there.
The second level will be the physical and sexual top drawer when she straddles my face and I see, taste & smell the sex and another man's cum that's been inside her.

Both, I hope will be amazing.

[kaskap79]

You are absolutely correct.

But with the hug, you know that she is all yours.

[Peaks23]

Well there is only now 8 days to go to find out how good that hug is. Well, 9 days really as the hug will come a day after when she returns.

The angst is painful already. But the cock is as hard as nails!

Maybe a subject for another thread but there is definitely merit in the "sperm competition theory".

I'm shooting loads that I've not seen the like since my twenties. I thought the days of erupting like a volcano were well in my past. But apparently not!

[kaskap79]

While she is gone, be careful about cumming.

There might be negative thoughts after cumming. Better do not cum and save it all for her when she returns. Then you most likely can do more turns.

[Peaks23]

While she is gone, be careful about cumming.

There might be negative thoughts after cumming. Better do not cum and save it all for her when she returns. Then you most likely can do more turns.

I won't be doing it whilst she is away. I've found that out from past experience with an ex.

I'll be saving it for her!