Two Weeks to go

[Peaks23]

Little update.

new lingerie for her to choose from.

A lola luna thong and a set from Aubade (which is stunning) amongst the choices.

[isinlarsa]

I wonder how unusual your wife is in getting excited about you sucking another man's cock. I did have one girlfriend who wanted to watch two men together and convinced me to suck the cock of another boyfriend of hers. It was a unique experience for me to feel and suck another man's cock while she watched. Because she was watching even made it hotter.

You and your wife are talking about you going off and sucking another man's cock and then coming home to her and kissing her with cum on your breath. That's pretty hot, too. The reverse of you staying at home while she's out getting fucked by another man. Too bad she's not into black men, because the contrast of skin color is so hot -- especially his black cock going into her white pussy.

[Peaks23]

Too bad she's not into black men, because the contrast of skin color is so hot -- especially his black cock going into her white pussy.

I feel exactly the same. The amount of amateur interracial cuckold porn I've watched is unreal. Always, trying to imagine it's my wife.

To fair, I've seen glimpses of interest, only small, but glimpses nonetheless. I'm not going to push it though. Just slowly drip feed subconscious comments.

[isinlarsa]

Too bad she's not into black men, because the contrast of skin color is so hot -- especially his black cock going into her white pussy.

I feel exactly the same. The amount of amateur interracial cuckold porn I've watched is unreal. Always, trying to imagine it's my wife.

To fair, I've seen glimpses of interest, only small, but glimpses nonetheless. I'm not going to push it though. Just slowly drip feed subconscious comments.

I guess I'm a lucky husband. My wife has a preference for black men. She's a pale-skinned blonde, and she finds the contrast in skin color to be erotic. She even has a standing inside joke with me. At Thanksgiving dinner with all her family, she will say to me as I carved the turkey, "Honey, cut me a piece of dark meat. You know how I love dark meat." Her family has no idea what she means.

[Peaks23]

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I guess I'm a lucky husband. My wife has a preference for black men. She's a pale-skinned blonde, and she finds the contrast in skin color to be erotic. She even has a standing inside joke with me. At Thanksgiving dinner with all her family, she will say to me as I carved the turkey, "Honey, cut me a piece of dark meat. You know how I love dark meat." Her family has no idea what she means.
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That's awesome. I love a subtle in house but of naughtiness!

[isinlarsa]

I guess I'm a lucky husband. My wife has a preference for black men. She's a pale-skinned blonde, and she finds the contrast in skin color to be erotic. She even has a standing inside joke with me. At Thanksgiving dinner with all her family, she will say to me as I carved the turkey, "Honey, cut me a piece of dark meat. You know how I love dark meat." Her family has no idea what she means.
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That's awesome. I love a subtle in house but of naughtiness!
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I assume you mean "a subtle in house bit of naughtiness." Yes, I do look around the table to see if anyone in family picks up on her subtle in-side joke with me. One of her brothers is aware she is a hotwife, so he might connect the dots. (He also lusts after his sister, but that's another story).

[Peaks23]

One week today!!

I think reality is kicking in a little bit and nerves are starting to build for her. (And me too).

We had our first "normal" night last night, we didn't really discuss it much. I don't think that's a bad thing, as it wasn't like she was avoiding the subject, more that there wasn't particularly anything to discuss as I think we've covered just about most things.

The focus now starts on preparation.

Nails being done, full bikini wax, hair appointment etc.

I think their text conversations will start building up the excitement again now too.

[Peaks23]

I know most people are interested in the hot details, but at the moment the biggest learning experience for me is being cool calm and collected when she's texting him and I don't know what they are saying.

It's amazingly tough, as it's the first time I've experienced this. Any past experiences my partner at the time did it with me, entirely and completely, so I'm used to knowing everything and seeing everything.

A(my wife) prefers to do it this way. Sometimes she shares with me what's going on and sometimes not. It's not that I don't trust her, but it's a weird dynamic, that I'm hoping evaporates after her meeting has been completed. You know, when she comes back, we hug and then get down to finding out all that's she's been up to and all is well.

Even then I guess, there will still be hurdles to overcome as they'll be in contact after the event of course, saying how good each other was etc. The mind plays tricks on you and when you have blanks to fill in, it fills in the blanks with guesswork and that makes things appear that aren't really there.

Sorry this isn't a horny post, but I think it's probably the most important factor in making this a continued success. I know it's down to me for the most part, to let her do it her way.

I think as long as I keep getting the aftercare/reassurance that is so important we'll do just fine.

Fingers crossed, only 6 days to go.

[kaskap79]

Fingers crossed here as well.

Hope he does not flake.

[Peaks23]

Fingers crossed here as well.

Hope he does not flake.

The flaking would be a disaster. She's says it would be ok, but I know she's looking forward to it. To flake on the first attempt would be even worse. It would just put us back such a long way.

[Peaks23]

The angst/nerves are so prominent.

Even though I know it's because we are only 6 days to D-Day and it's really happening, and happening very soon.

In some ways I just want it all to be over!

Yet, even through all that, we discussed the other day, about how he could keep going all night. My response was, one, because you are hot, and two he might probably take a blue pill or something, to help him be impressive. She asked if there was such a thing for women. I said I would imagine so. I've bought some for her to try and I'll tell her tonight. Two pills. One for when she arrives which will be an hour or so before he gets there and the second one for when she gets in the car to come home, hopefully making her more responsive to what awaits her when she gets home (ie. Me).

She al says says she has a low sex drive so we both discussed how we could increase that. These pills seem to be the best way?

[lovethis]

The angst and nerves are building and the day rapidly approaches. The feelings and nervousness on the day will be excruciating. Your heart will be pumping and you will not be able to take your mind off it. No matter how much you try. You will be looking at the door she left through hoping she will pop through it at any moment. You will be thinking what she will be doing at any particular time after she texts that she has arrived. Congratulate yourself that it is finally happening. In my opinion most wives aren't wired like us and need to be guided into the lifestyle. As in my case this took years so I did take pride in myself that I was able to change this person who would never in a million years fuck another man at her husbands approval and his kink. You will join a very select few where your wife fucks other men and you love it. Your life will change as will hers. Support and love her and watch her turn into the sexiest woman on earth and marvel how lucky you are. You will have eyes only for her and she will enjoy the attention you provide. Your love for her will deepen and she will feel and reciprocate that love which she will come to realize is her safety net and will give her the confidence to continue.
Allow and prepare for some leeway. Dont put rigid times on the night. She can control her side but there is someone else involved and things may not go to plan, and thats ok. She is out there doing something for the both of you.
Some get amazing thrills thriving on the angst. It provides the extra kink. The more the angst the more horny they become and the reclamation sex will be next level as she re-lives her experience. Enjoy the next few days remind her how much you love her and appreciate what is about to happen. The experience is going to be engrained into your being for the rest of your life because it is a traumatic event that is consuming and rewarding. Then sit back enjoy the ride. You will already have thoughts where you will want this to go. You are in this forum so I see where things may lead depending on the shade that gets you off. Sucking another man's cock well that's interesting. If she is doing something as risky as fucking another man for you, then you should do her a favor and suck off a mans cock for her. Wouldnt that let her know how much she means to you. You will be cleaning her anyway so you will know what another man tastes like. If you do it on the same night you will be able to think parallels ie this is how she is sucking her ex flings cock right at this moment. Then when you do meet up you can swap experiences while reclaiming. She can enjoy your cock breath before you clean her soaked pussy out. As you say he is a cummer.
Your communication is right up there well done. While she is there she may not be able to text but that's ok. It will be a bonus if she can and you have codes good thinking.

[Peaks23]

The angst and nerves are building and the day rapidly approaches. The feelings and nervousness on the day will be excruciating. Your heart will be pumping and you will not be able to take your mind off it. No matter how much you try. You will be looking at the door she left through hoping she will pop through it at any moment. You will be thinking what she will be doing at any particular time after she texts that she has arrived. Congratulate yourself that it is finally happening. In my opinion most wives aren't wired like us and need to be guided into the lifestyle. As in my case this took years so I did take pride in myself that I was able to change this person who would never in a million years fuck another man at her husbands approval and his kink. You will join a very select few where your wife fucks other men and you love it. Your life will change as will hers. Support and love her and watch her turn into the sexiest woman on earth and marvel how lucky you are. You will have eyes only for her and she will enjoy the attention you provide. Your love for her will deepen and she will feel and reciprocate that love which she will come to realize is her safety net and will give her the confidence to continue.
Allow and prepare for some leeway. Dont put rigid times on the night. She can control her side but there is someone new involved and things may not go to plan, and thats ok. She is out there doing something for the both of you.
Some get amazing thrills thriving on the angst. It provides the extra kink. The more the angst the more horny they become and the reclamation sex will be next level as she re-lives her experience. Enjoy the next few days remind her how much you love her and appreciate what is about to happen. The experience is going to be engrained into your being for the rest of your life because it is a traumatic event that is consuming and rewarding. Then sit back enjoy the ride. You will already have thoughts where you will want this to go. You are in this forum so I see where things may lead depending on the shade that gets you off. Finally be on the same page. Communicate communicate communicate. Before she leaves. While she is there she may not be able to text but that's ok. If she can if they take a break then that's good.

This is such an awesome post. You basically reiterate my thoughts exactly.

I know I've got to dig deep and get through the angst. It's excruciating already!

We have communicated a lot, most of it good and she's already said how much closer we are.

She knows she is free to do whatever she wants on that night away, and also knows that she can tell me everything. I don't expect much communication. We do have a couple of codes so she can tell me how it's going without giving anything away to him.

I do really hope that she comes out the other side in a positive fashion.

I'm horny as hell and full of angst.

To me, this shows me how much I love her. If I didn't have the angst and horn, it wouldn't mean as much.

I'll definitely be very attentive!!

Thanks for a great post!

[Peaks23]

I know I'm posting a lot but it's a good outlet for me.

I think about what is about to happen, almost all of the time. We had a little chat tonight, and I produced the pills, which she seemed initially not to want but when I explained, she was right into it.

I think we are both fairly sure she is going to have an amazing time. So much so, she asked "what if he then wants to take me away for a weekend sometime"? All I could suggest was that as long as we communicate through everything then we would cross that bridge when, and if, it comes up.

[Long Lurker 34]

I know I'm posting a lot but it's a good outlet for me.

I think about what is about to happen, almost all of the time. We had a little chat tonight, and I produced the pills, which she seemed initially not to want but when I explained, she was right into it.

I think we are both fairly sure she is going to have an amazing time. So much so, she asked "what if he then wants to take me away for a weekend sometime"? All I could suggest was that as long as we communicate through everything then we would cross that bridge when, and if, it comes up.

P23 - Hey man that's what we are here for. As I replied on another thread, writing something down is therapeutic and you have to slow down and focus on what you are trying to express. And this can take sometime (let's face it, near everything seems to be done at a break neck pace these days) it you time to think and while doing so other thoughts and angles are able to appear.
So breath in. Exhale slowly.

[Peaks23]

I'm like a kid at Christmas.

5 sleeps until the big day

It's bikini wax day. Every thought gets me as horny as a horny thing that's got a very good reason to be horny!

The thought of him entering A's beautiful smooth pussy.

The thought of A cumming on his cock.

The thought of her coming home and her smooth pussy sitting on my face, his cum still inside her after a night long session of fucking and being able to taste and smell their combined juices is just intoxicating.

[lovethis]

I'm like a kid at Christmas.

5 sleeps until the big day

It's bikini wax day. Every thought gets me as horny as a horny thing that's got a very good reason to be horny!

The thought of him entering A's beautiful smooth pussy.

The thought of A cumming on his cock.

The thought of her coming home and her smooth pussy sitting on my face, his cum still inside her after a night long session of fucking and being able to taste and smell their combined juices is just intoxicating.

Way to go you are handling the angst just fine and are thinking about the positives the encounter brings to you both. It's like trying a drug for the first time and being hooked and addicted to it. You will want more and hopefully your wife will want more too. Like an addiction it will consume you with lust for her and the need for your habit to be satiated by her willingness to fuck men. Really take in everything. The very first time is special.

[Peaks23]

I think I've worked out the change in my ability to deal with the angst.

Now that we are only a few days away, I think it's 'acceptance' that is allowing me to cope.

Until that point, it was always a possible, a maybe etc. She might pull out. He might flake.

The acceptance is an acceptance that it is happening. She IS going to do it. She clearly WANTS to fuck him. He clearly wants to fuck her. All the talking has pretty much stopped, we've stopped fantasy talk and play. We are getting close to the business end of this adventure.

It's happening, even if I had second thoughts, it would still go ahead. I have already said to her, that if I text her on the day to say don't go through with it, I've told her to ignore it, it's just my panic and nerves, but I genuinely do want her to do it.

[Big Red]

The angst will likely come back. For me it was waves of angst, jealousy and desire. I’d be surprised if it doesn’t return. This may be a calm before the storm. Enjoy the storm.

[joel68]

So when is “Fuck Day”?

August 29th or August 30th?

[Peaks23]

So when is “Fuck Day”?

August 29th or August 30th?

30th August and she returns home to me on 31st.

4 more sleeps to go. It's all very calm at the moment, a few other things to focus on. Internally though, I'm still a horny wreck!

Bikini Wax done, although I've yet to see it

[Peaks23]

Well, I asked how the bikini line is looking and just out of the blue she showed me. I was allowed a quick feel, and it's so so so smooth. So much better than shaved. I got hard instantly, both because I wanted her there and then (although that's not allowed) and secondly because it's done especially with him in mind and he will enjoy it first.
Hot

Hot

Hot

[subguy80]

My advice would be to NOT push her for details right away. Of course, you'll ask her how it went and did she have fun, but don't push for details about the sex if she doesn't offer them. Give her some time to process her feelings. She will eventually share.

[stevens4fun]

There's such high expectations in play here, - sometimes the first fuck date doesn't go exactly as planned. Ideally your wife and her boyfriend will have a good time together, and want to see each other more often - On a regular basis in fact, but it takes time to reach this point. Even if the sex doesn't go exactly as your imagination envisions, the two of them will be spending intimate time together. More and more of that is going to lead to good things for the three of you! At least, that's how it worked for my wife and I. Subguy and Lovethis are spot on but having been there myself I have to sympathize with your angst. It's the most exquisite and erotic form of torture.....

[kaskap79]

Be careful with high expectations.

They can only fall with a big bang.

First time, the wife is normally very nervous, and it will not be very good.

So, keep the expectations down, it is better to be surprised that it was better than expected than opposite.