Just read thru this whole thread (Only OPs posts and updates) But what a beautiful that was. Back in my days of consorting with married women, what was detailed here was much like what my ultimate fantasy had become. I wanted to openly date a married woman with her husbands full knowledge and approval.
I really loved the part where your wife said "this has become about me". That was a beautiful sentiment and your loving support and encouragement of her is a beautiful thing as well. My vision was always two men worshipping one beautiful amazing woman.....one from "above" and one from "below" if you know what I mean. I hope that once you're empty nesters you will be able to be involved a little more. I would never have wanted the cuck to be completely excluded. I would have wanted us all to be friends.....I'm just the friend who also fucks your wife and owns her pussy
I was sorry to hear that her BF broke things off, but as I read I kinda saw that coming. The problem for a single man (speaking from experience) to maintain a relationship (unless her is really into the whole HW/cuck dynamic and enjoys playing his part) like this he actually ends up being alone alot. At some point he wants someone to go on regular dates with, go to a concert, go on a weekend trip or vacation, someone to take to normal parties and BBQs. So unless the relationship can eventually accommodate those things, despite how amazing it is to have a married woman as a lover it gets to a point where it's just not enough, at least in terms of being an exclusive thing. I think on both sides it gets hard because deep down you always know there is an expiration date. It got to a point where it was just to much for me, to put that much effort and energy into something that would only ever be temporary. Plus I didn't want to hang out in that world to long and end up a lonely old man.