Two Weeks to go
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No countdown as yet 🫤
I trust my wife completely, but it's weird to me not knowing what's going on. I'm learning (slowly) to deal with that part.
I'm a very honest person and hate lies and cheating, and whilst I trust my wife, the 'situation' feels like it's entering into the cheating bracket in my eyes as she could well be talking to him whilst I am there and I'm not able to ask about it.
I'll accept it as it is for the greater good, it's just difficult that's all
I trust my wife completely, but it's weird to me not knowing what's going on. I'm learning (slowly) to deal with that part.
I'm a very honest person and hate lies and cheating, and whilst I trust my wife, the 'situation' feels like it's entering into the cheating bracket in my eyes as she could well be talking to him whilst I am there and I'm not able to ask about it.
I'll accept it as it is for the greater good, it's just difficult that's all
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Expect a new countdown soon....
Lots of conversation last night (between them) and a new date should be forthcoming. Once again I'm as nervous as a kitten because it seems like it's really happening. She was full of the joys of spring this morning.
Lots of conversation last night (between them) and a new date should be forthcoming. Once again I'm as nervous as a kitten because it seems like it's really happening. She was full of the joys of spring this morning.
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Possibly time for another talk? You are effectively giving her some leeway to ensure something happens. As long as it's communicated that that is what you agree to then it shouldn't be an issue. Thoughts of cheating are not desired. There is enough for you to think about. It has to be enjoyable for you as well. It is definitely going to be enjoyable for her. She needs to communicate the event in some way and not keep it between them.
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Oh don't get me wrong, she has kept me up to date. She told me instantly that they are trying to find a mutually good date. I personally don't like not knowing what they are saying to each other until I get an update. Although I made a point of saying that she is in charge, so I can't really argue on that front. It would appear that the less I ask about it, the more she is willing to tell me.lovethis wrote: ↑Wed Sep 20, 2023 11:17 pmPossibly time for another talk? You are effectively giving her some leeway to ensure something happens. As long as it's communicated that that is what you agree to then it shouldn't be an issue. Thoughts of cheating are not desired. There is enough for you to think about. It has to be enjoyable for you as well. It is definitely going to be enjoyable for her. She needs to communicate the event in some way and not keep it between them.
I think it's just a very new situation for both of us but we are doing a pretty good job of communicating.
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Thanks for the update great news that you guys are discussing things.
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So, I've been quiet for a few weeks in the hope that something would happen but it appears that just seems to be going south. I think we've both given up on him, he seems very flakey.
Now, I'll probably start a new thread but I have a real quandary. It's clear that she is very open to fucking another guy, but she's always insisted that it would be someone she knows because she's been with them before. It would appear that there aren't any suitable others at the moment so I find myself in a stalemate.
I know full well that if we went onto a site like SDC that we'd find someone more than suitable but she's never been receptive to that idea, which is frustrating. It would be great to meet someone who is aware of the situation and Is a proper bull.
Now, the problem that I have is that we are limbo land. So here is where some of you can hopefully give me some realistic idea as to how we can make this happen. Either by convincing her the online idea is the way forward or any other way (and I can't think of many) that she can get a regular (ish) lover.
Helpful ideas and suggestions are most appreciated
Now, I'll probably start a new thread but I have a real quandary. It's clear that she is very open to fucking another guy, but she's always insisted that it would be someone she knows because she's been with them before. It would appear that there aren't any suitable others at the moment so I find myself in a stalemate.
I know full well that if we went onto a site like SDC that we'd find someone more than suitable but she's never been receptive to that idea, which is frustrating. It would be great to meet someone who is aware of the situation and Is a proper bull.
Now, the problem that I have is that we are limbo land. So here is where some of you can hopefully give me some realistic idea as to how we can make this happen. Either by convincing her the online idea is the way forward or any other way (and I can't think of many) that she can get a regular (ish) lover.
Helpful ideas and suggestions are most appreciated
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Please do not start a new thread, but just continue this one.
It becomes hard to follow your story if it jumps from one thread to the other. It's not a big deal if the title no longer matches. It will simply remind you how your story started.
It becomes hard to follow your story if it jumps from one thread to the other. It's not a big deal if the title no longer matches. It will simply remind you how your story started.
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P23 - Very much in agreement with L99.
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No need to start a new thread, just change the headline if you want to.
When you are lying of your death bed, you only regret the things you did not do.
The most beautiful woman in the world is the woman lying naked and sweaty next to me.
The most beautiful woman in the world is the woman lying naked and sweaty next to me.
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For one of our very early hut outs we got a male escort.
You know they are going to show up.
You know they are going to leave.
You know they are going to be discreet.
You know they won’t be a bad performer.
You know their attention is going to be on making sure your wife has a great time.
You know the emotional side is not a complication.
Get a paid professional early. It will go smoother, and then with her confidence up you can look elsewhere.
You know they are going to show up.
You know they are going to leave.
You know they are going to be discreet.
You know they won’t be a bad performer.
You know their attention is going to be on making sure your wife has a great time.
You know the emotional side is not a complication.
Get a paid professional early. It will go smoother, and then with her confidence up you can look elsewhere.
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You are one lucky SOB. Can't wait to hear how it all turns out
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Sudden update -
Apparently, she told me this morning that everything is back on. He'd told her that they obviously have a lot of sexual chemistry and tension between them that needs to be 'taken care of'.
Just awaiting a date now. I've spent all day as hard as a rock.
Massive fingers crossed now that it happens and it is soon!
For everyone's sake!
Apparently, she told me this morning that everything is back on. He'd told her that they obviously have a lot of sexual chemistry and tension between them that needs to be 'taken care of'.
Just awaiting a date now. I've spent all day as hard as a rock.
Massive fingers crossed now that it happens and it is soon!
For everyone's sake!
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Interesting. I hope this time is a winner, for everyone.
I am sure you will keep us all informed as to the progress. Good luck this time.
I am sure you will keep us all informed as to the progress. Good luck this time.
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I know, I almost feel silly posting saying "it's on". I did think about keeping it quiet until it (if it ever did) actually happen, but I just got too excited to keep it to myself.
After she told me this morning, I got a very very deep knotted feeling in my stomach, which was much more intense than any I've had before. Hopefully that's a sign that it really is going to happen.
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P23 - Yup you never know when Murphy is listening.Peaks23 wrote: ↑Thu Oct 12, 2023 9:06 amI know, I almost feel silly posting saying "it's on". I did think about keeping it quiet until it (if it ever did) actually happen, but I just got too excited to keep it to myself.
After she told me this morning, I got a very very deep knotted feeling in my stomach, which was much more intense than any I've had before. Hopefully that's a sign that it really is going to happen.
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So there is now a date.
Due to life commitments it's not until the 2nd December, but we have progress!!
Due to life commitments it's not until the 2nd December, but we have progress!!
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Thank Peaks
I admire your patience and persistence;
Hope you are doing fine in the midst off all of the stops/go/stop....
SIncerely
elina
I admire your patience and persistence;
Hope you are doing fine in the midst off all of the stops/go/stop....
SIncerely
elina
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Wow. Over a month, at this point.
I wonder how etched in cement the next date is. I hope very.
I wonder how etched in cement the next date is. I hope very.
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So in a bit of a twist, my wife has gone out tonight with friends for a meal. I said she should stay out for a drink afterwards but she said probably not.
I said I'd love to get a text saying "I'll be late home, you don't mind do you" which is code for she going to fuck someone.
Whilst she didn't say she would do something, she didn't say no either. Instead she said she'd be home around 9pm. It's now 10pm and no word.
I know it's probably nothing but my mind is racing wandering what if.....
What if I'm going to get a present when she does come home!!
I said I'd love to get a text saying "I'll be late home, you don't mind do you" which is code for she going to fuck someone.
Whilst she didn't say she would do something, she didn't say no either. Instead she said she'd be home around 9pm. It's now 10pm and no word.
I know it's probably nothing but my mind is racing wandering what if.....
What if I'm going to get a present when she does come home!!
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I've just had a text and all it said was "just going out for a few drinks".
It could be just drinks, or, it could end up being more. I hate not knowing!!
It could be just drinks, or, it could end up being more. I hate not knowing!!
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I've heard Nothing more yet.
I guess it's going to be a long night....
I guess it's going to be a long night....
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I hope you get a present from your wife. If so, please make sure we know all the details.
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I most definitely will.
I've asked if she needs me to pick her up and as yet still heard nothing. The next hour will be the key. I might get the call to pick her up when pubs start to close or I'll get the text saying she'll be late home....
I'm on tenterhooks.
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I hope you enjoyed the waiting time; it is for me an enjoyable time waiting at home.
I also hope your wife had an incredibly good night.
I also hope your wife had an incredibly good night.
When you are lying of your death bed, you only regret the things you did not do.
The most beautiful woman in the world is the woman lying naked and sweaty next to me.
The most beautiful woman in the world is the woman lying naked and sweaty next to me.
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I unfortunately got the phone call, not the text.
Although when asking her, she said she couldn't because it was a works party and there wasn't anyone hot there. Before, she's always said she just wouldn't do it full stop. Now at least if there was someone she wanted, I think she'd go for it.
Small wins, but disappointing nonetheless.
Although when asking her, she said she couldn't because it was a works party and there wasn't anyone hot there. Before, she's always said she just wouldn't do it full stop. Now at least if there was someone she wanted, I think she'd go for it.
Small wins, but disappointing nonetheless.