Thanks buddy. I got a clear picture now.DeAd so7 wrote: ↑Mon Sep 25, 2023 1:07 pmWell, I would say for our first irl attempt. Yes, but, my girlfriend did talk to quite a few people, and let's just say there were certainly some people that were interesting to put it lightly. But yes, thankfully he seems to share our sentiments, albeit he's a bit more extroverted I guess by the sounds of it from what my girlfriend told me? Idk, anyways.sandy691196 wrote: ↑Mon Sep 25, 2023 2:15 amYou two are a great couple.. Kinda rare. Polite, empathetic, sober with no "airs"..You are lucky that you have found a compatible bull in the very first attempt.DeAd so7 wrote: ↑Sun Sep 24, 2023 11:15 pmYes. We've talked, and to be honest. We both want to have her continue this relationship with him. With everything that has been all said and done, I've been tired, sleepless, full of angst, but most importantly I'm excited about this whole situation. Now, as for the plan. We're going to leave things by ear for now. I've told Alex she's more than welcome to go on more dates with him. And James has been informed of that through my girlfriend. To be frank, I haven't voiced this personally, but I kind of want her to spend the night again at his. Though that won't be till next weekend perhaps if even that. But, with everything all said and done, everything looks and seems OK. My girlfriend was a bit guilty coming back home afterwards she told me, but for the most part she seemed happy with everything. And so we just talked and hung out and it seems that got it out of her system. After all, she felt guilty because she felt like a complete hypocrite. Since she had a friend in college who cheated on her boyfriend who she grew to dislike and stopped talking to. Nevertheless, I told her that to me, she was not cheating, not in the slightest. Since we both wanted this, and after all, who would be the one she would need to apologize to if she did cheat, so. After talking and cuddling. That seemed to remove that doubt of hers. Finally, as for feelings. I guess perhaps poly? Granted this is an over reach, but, seeing her talk about their time so vividly, and her talking about what he was doing to her. I feel like she definitely captured apart of her heart last night, and if not that, for sure her stomach with his cooking, haha. Nevertheless, I hope I have answered everything all fine for you. And if you happen to have anymore, let me know!sandy691196 wrote: ↑Sun Sep 24, 2023 10:50 pmThanks a lot for letting us get the full picture through your words.
So what next? Have you 2 discussed how you feel now that it's been done?
What's the plan for the future?
Did she develop any feelings for him? Romance? Poly? Doubts?
Thanks again
Since, undersrandably both of you would have been in a haze when got back and you reclaimed, certain details may not (or may) have come up. When James was handsy.. what exactly was he doing? Fondling her boobs? Ass? Thighs? Was he stroking her thighs under her black skirt? Did he reach inside the sweater? What all positions did they make love in ('Making love' was the thing? Right?)? Missionary? She on top.. From behind? Was there any attempt (or talk) at ass play? Did he blow her? Did he come in her mouth?
How was her stripping done? He helped out? She did it herself? Did she take off his stuff? Did he soap his dick in the shower? Did he go down on her a lot.. in the bed / in the shower? Did she come from his sucking her off? As her guilt wears off and she finds you getting more and more exited, was there any fantasising about pushign the envelope?
Thanks again
Let me go ahead and answer your questions. Sorry for the wait btw, I was at work till now. For James being handsy at least through out the night, it definitely sounded like it was all of the above you described. But, when they were cuddling on the couch watching the movie, it was initially him petting her thighs. Then, after the movie when they were kissing, her ass apparently, as she talked about him giving her a couple light few smacks if I could recall during them kissing. Then, boobs and all that later in his actual bedroom. For your next question, if I am recalling correctly.
The first time of theirs was missionary from what I garnered, because she was telling me how much he was not letting her breath with their kissing. Haha, so it was very sensual and more love making esq.
The second one on the other hand, was a bit more rough with him being quite dominant over her, and from what I garnered from her telling me. It sounded like this one was missionary as well since she described how intense it was him staring into her eyes during so, and her to his.
Finally, the third one. Went with them teasing each other in the shower, there if I can recall it was a lot of rubbing and feeling, him spanking her ass, and caressing her boobs if I can recall. And as for her to him, she talked about rubbing up against him. Both with her front, and her back, rubbing his shoulders and giving him a playful smack on the ass if I can recall. Finally, then, when they went to the bed. They did it in her favorite position which is doggy style.
But, as for them possibly having any oral sex or anal sex. No, they did not. They kept it rather vanilla I guess with getting each other fired up and the like whenever they were having sex, and leading up to it.
Nevertheless, no, it also didn't sound like he came in her mouth or anything. Whenever he was cumming. Albeit this is just me inferring since she did say they used condoms and he only came in them. Finally, yes. I've already begun fantasizing pushing the envelope with her. And I was thinking tonight of encouraging her, and seeing if she wants to have some alone time perhaps and message James when she gets home from work and perhaps after dinner. Other than that. I hope I answered all your questions, and if you happen to have anymore. Shoot! As I'm willing to have fun and talk abut all this. After all, it definitely helps me destress I feel and get my anxious thoughts in order. Haha.
Problem is we bystanders would want to participate vicariously and have fun while you two put your relationship on the line, with these experiments.
Because experiments they are. One doesn't know how things pan out in real life.
My two bits- Now that she has your broad consent and encouragement, let her decide on the pace..Let her not feel that you are artificially pushing her towards him more and more.
Women need to feel wanted by their primary partner. A certain degree of possessiveness (demonstration at least) might be a good idea.
Let her gently create space for him in her life, on her own, rather than it being actively suggested (hustled?).
Like I said.. our (readers) vicarious interest is the last priority ..
It's your life and she is a gem of a partner.
Thanks