What is it like to be a bull/lover?

[Tryagain]

For so many years I have watched how guys – bulls, if you wish to call them – have driven my wife nuts. So now I want to know what it is like to be a bull/lover.

What are your thoughts about the wives, and more importantly the husbands?

Describe how it feels to fuck wives with tight pussies?

How does it feel to have a husband standing by while you fuck the shit out of his wife ?

What things do you say to either of them?

Is part of the thrill humiliating the husbands or showing off in front of them?

How do you feel about yourself? Do you feel like hot shit or a man’s man?

Have any husbands become overwhelmed with what is going on? Have they ever stopped things after they have started?

What do the wives say to you?

Look forward to hearing from you guys who represent this minority on the site

[ucaneffher]

Great idea for a topic! I'm actually curious to hear these gentlemen chime in and answer your questions.

Someone my own questions.

1. Have you ever fallen in love with someone's wife?
2. Have you considered taking her for yourself?
3. You ever been with a wife in public and got spotted by people who know her and hubby?
4. Have you ever felt objectified by a couple and only used for sex?
5. Do you get jealous when you are not the only side man who fucks the wife?

[canadianwittol]

I think the one word answer is "awesome!"

[Seekingmore12]

For so many years I have watched how guys – bulls, if you wish to call them – have driven my wife nuts. So now I want to know what it is like to be a bull/lover.

What are your thoughts about the wives, and more importantly the husbands?

Describe how it feels to fuck wives with tight pussies?

How does it feel to have a husband standing by while you fuck the shit out of his wife ?

What things do you say to either of them?

Is part of the thrill humiliating the husbands or showing off in front of them?

How do you feel about yourself? Do you feel like hot shit or a man’s man?

Have any husbands become overwhelmed with what is going on? Have they ever stopped things after they have started?

What do the wives say to you?

Look forward to hearing from you guys who represent this minority on the site

Some of these questions point more to a bull type vs a fwb/boyfriend type…just like hot wives everyone is different.

As for me….

1. I admire the love between them and the trusting relationship they have, I see myself as an addition to both of their lives.
2. Lfa, does a way better job here describing encounters, I won’t even try.
3. Anytime the 3 of us get together, it’s about LFA and involvement in the situation, the moods set the course.
4. We talk like normal people.
5. Neither, it’s about the enjoyment of all.
6. I feel proud in a odd way, not even sure that’s the right word, I am proud of being part of the growth of their marriage.
7. Given this activity can be emotionally charged, this is a great opportunity for the couple to talk, explore feelings TOGETHER and face the world as a team.
8. Coffee everyday, lives, what’s going on etc…like a friend

G

[PlzFuckMyHotwife]

Great idea for a topic! I'm actually curious to hear these gentlemen chime in and answer your questions.

I'll try to add my bit...

For those of you unfamiliar with my hot cutie with a booty (my wife) and I's dynamic... we don't fall into a specific category. She's a hotwife engaging with others pretty much across the spectrum and I'm a Dom and bull for other couples. At core we're also swingers and play with others together in pretty much any configuration. We play together when we can and also solo. I'm super dominant (and also dominate the guys she plays with as a hotwife) and she's generally submissive (but only to me) in sexual situations. In real life, we're truly an accomplished power couple, equal in every way.

I'll answer the questions below based on my experience as a bull joining other couples:

Someone my own questions.

1. Have you ever fallen in love with someone's wife?

Absolutely NOT!!! That would be such a NO NO for me and my wife.

2. Have you considered taking her for yourself?

No, never! My hot cutie with a booty is my whole world. The other hotwives I fuck from time to time are strictly for fun.

3. You ever been with a wife in public and got spotted by people who know her and hubby?

Not yet. But it's bound to happen at some point, as I take no precautions to hide the dynamic.

4. Have you ever felt objectified by a couple and only used for sex?

No, I haven't. But that doesn't mean it hasn't happened.

And if it did, it wouldn't bother me one bit. My role as a bull is to provide superior sexual services to needing hotwives, so... it's only fitting that I'd be used solely for sex.

5. Do you get jealous when you are not the only side man who fucks the wife?

Definitely not. I'm in the lifestyle because of the sexual freedom it affords me and my hot cutie with a booty. Plus... I have a very high sexual drive. Why would I care who else fucks the hotwives I engage with? It's a free country.

Okay... maybe I do care a bit. Their cucks usually see their sexual access limited in some capacity once I step in. I wouldn't be a very good bull if I didn't replace them in some capacity, would I?

[brett917]

Too bad more bulls aren’t responding. I’d love to read their thoughts!

[SCBlknNsty]

I think some of your questions seek a general answer and I 'know' and preach every situation is unique unto itself. That definitely applies to the first, how do I see the wives, how do I see the husbands.

1) More husbands initiate contact than wives so while exchanging with him and always again first interacting with her is assessing how much or how little she is in agreement with what he's told me. I almost lost a couple I played with for years when I swatted her but during sex (it wasn't hard) on his assurance it was something she really wanted...she was really pissed about it.

2)Great IF she's wet; if she's nervous she probably won't be and that's delicate. The ONLY objective is to ensure her enjoyment- if momma ain't happy no one else will be! I never say it out loud unless it fits BOTH of them but there is a mental rush when I know I'm deeper than he will ever be....depths where she's still virginal.

3)ALWAYS keep an eye on him, especially if he is silent and unmoving. One hubby and I talked online for months before the 3 of us met, and after she and I had sex he wanted to beat her up. I mentioned husbands usually initiate contact; they are also the ones who usually stop interactions, unable to accept their fantasy once it becomes a reality.

4) Again, situational...usually building off of what they're comfy saying during the time. But personally I really hate if and when watchers try to be directors! She and I are trying to figure out on the spot not just what the other likes and reacts to but also whether is is a general enjoyment or feels right with this particular person-the 'outside' voice always disrupts concentration which your very presence is outside the 'normal'.

5)I'm human! I'm in a positive mindset after sex and for me it's important that it was a positive experience for them, both individually and collectively.

I'm sure my answers are shaped by the fact in a 16yr marriage we played the last 7 1/2 years. I've now been widowed 25yrs. It also influences the response to other's questions.

I don't see my reference as the same as the person who asked but I've had an emotional attachment to (love) EVERY wife that evolved to ongoing. That includes her family, yes him. I ended it with the one I cared most about. I actually spent more time with him watching games, shooting pool, debating life...and I could feel how much it hurt him that he was not allowed to watch just once. I wasn't her first and when I asked she made it clear he NEVER would. A thought came to me and I could never lose it-he was a suburban police chief and probably could've shot me in their bed and gotten away with it.

Objectified? Yes and don't like it at all! I'd met this couple 5-6 times and enjoyed it until she told me he had been asking her to do it for years and when she decided to she chose me knowing she could never feel anything for any Black person. I understood what women mean by "being treated like a piece of meat".

[PlzFuckMyHotwife]

For so many years I have watched how guys – bulls, if you wish to call them – have driven my wife nuts. So now I want to know what it is like to be a bull/lover.

I'll chime in again with more of my thoughts. I'm not a full time bull nor do I ever want to become one. I enjoy diversity too much to ever focus on only one type of play. So... I like to always mix it up... sometimes a bull for others and sometimes a hotwife husband. Sometimes both on the same weekend.

Plus... I'm neither single nor in a loveless and/or sexless marriage (quite the contrary actually), so... I don't need love, emotional attachment to someone else's wife, or even extramarital sex (I get plenty at home). I do this mostly as a "part-time gig" solely for its kink value. Because it's fun as hell! And because I'm a lucky SOB to have a very supportive wife who gives me total freedom to engage in this way (and any other way I desire) with others.

I will say though that what makes me so successful (and modest too ) as a bull is having been on both sides of the fence (not to mention on top of the fence and under the fence ) for so many years... and having had the opportunity to develop an understanding of what a perfect bull would need to be like and then trying to emulate that behaviour for others to the best of my ability. My hot cutie with a booty keeps telling me that others don't know how good they have it having found me. In all fairness... some actually do (my current cuckold / hotwife couple for example, who's on the verge of giving me exclusive access to / ownership of her pussy). And some don't. Where I will agree with her is that if we ever found someone like me for her... we would probably never let him go.

What are your thoughts about the wives, and more importantly the husbands?

I see myself as an ethical bull (not to mention an ethical person in general), whose primary responsibility is to help the couple on their lifestyle journey. From that point of view, I'm essentially their (sex life) coach... always listening to their needs, guiding their development, (gently) pushing their boundaries in ways that will help them grow as a couple. I'm never there to harm them or their relationship.

Everyone is looking for different things... so I take my time to unpack that. It takes more than one conversation or play date. Sometimes they may not even know what they're looking for, so I need to ask leading questions or observe their behaviour almost like a counsellor. Some are looking for nothing more than an extra cock for an MFM and that's perfectly fine with me. At the opposite end of the spectrum, some may be looking for a more extreme cuckolding experiences, potentially building up towards a permanent denial of the husband and relinquishing her completely to me. And often times somewhere in between.

I approach this with an open mind and never judge them or their desires. I fully understand why a wife may want me as a bull and I'm there to give her what she needs without ever judging or disrespecting her or her relationship.

I also fully understand why a husband may want this for his wife and never think less of him even if he's a cuckold. Yes, I may humiliate him and push him into submission if I determine that that's what he wants and needs, but I never disrespect him or his relationship. Yes, I may take his wife's pussy away from him or start controlling his orgasms, but only when that's what he's been missing and craving. I've been in the lifestyle long enough to have a really good understanding of the cuckold mind...

Describe how it feels to fuck wives with tight pussies?

Not really that different. Usually by the time I push myself in they crave me so badly that even the tightest ones open up like a flower, ready to take me all in. I love it though when I reach the far corners of their vaginas that may have never been touched before. They're usually hooked on my cock at that point.

How does it feel to have a husband standing by while you fuck the shit out of his wife ?

Honestly... very satisfying!!!

I have a super dominant personality, so... that fits me like a glove. I enjoy a good cuckold humiliation probably as much as a good fuck, if not better. My best playdates as a bull are those where the husband completely submits to me. I love having them caged and watching on their knees. I also love having them grab and push my cock inside her pussy as a further acknowledgment of their submission to me, cleaning up as ordered and doing anything else I may require of them without ever questioning me.

I also get a kick out of ordering him to leave the room if I feel like having a bit of privacy with his wife (not that I really need privacy to fuck her how I like it, but I love the humiliation of not allowing him to watch from time to time, as a reminder of his status). And sometimes, to take this to the next level, I may order the husband to get dressed and drive to the liquor store to get me a certain brand of craft beer (one I make sure he does NOT have in the fridge already ) while I'll continue fucking his wife.

What things do you say to either of them?

That varies wildly on our dynamic. In a hotwife / cuckold dynamic I'm obviously setting the appropriate tone for that dynamic, which would be very different from how I talk to someone in a stag & vixen dynamic. What will not change though is me being respectful at all times, irrespective of the dynamic. I may be very firm with a cuck, giving very specific instructions and making sure my words sting a bit, but... I would never be disrespectful and / or abusive or belittle anyone. And certainly will not be a bully. Just a bull.

Is part of the thrill humiliating the husbands or showing off in front of them?

Totally!!!

How do you feel about yourself?

The same. Playing as a bull from time to time doesn't change how I feel about myself.

Do you feel like hot shit or a man’s man?

No. This is just a kink. Mine happens to be humiliating and submitting someone else's husband. And his happens to be going into this submissive subspace and craving humiliation from the man fucking his wife. My kink is not better than his and certainly doesn't make me more of a man, it's just different. So... no, I don't need to be a bull to feel like a man's man, it doesn't validate my life and it's not a confidence booster for me...

I'm already in a position of power and very accomplished professionally and personally. So... this doesn't add anything to what's already there.

Have any husbands become overwhelmed with what is going on?

Yes.

Have they ever stopped things after they have started?

Not in the moment, no. But on occasion I have stopped fucking their wife to make sure they were still okay with it.

I had one couple, many years ago, that left the lifestyle after that first experience, realizing that it was more than the husband could handle. Strangely enough, the husband kept talking to me for a few years afterwards, always hinting at setting up another meeting and giving it another try and then getting cold feet. There's still a chance he may resurface again and go through with it at some point... she absolutely loved being fucked by me.

What do the wives say to you?

It really depends on the dynamic. Those in stag & vixen dynamics... usually not much, as not to hurt their husbands feelings. Those in cuckold dynamics... sometimes push the cuckold pedal to the metal and go into full cockold humiliation mode. And some are a bit more reserved, thanking me for the experience and expressing a desire to repeat it soon.

Look forward to hearing from you guys who represent this minority on the site

Doing my bit...

[Tryagain]

Thanks for your answers.

[mychubbyhotwife]

For so many years I have watched how guys – bulls, if you wish to call them – have driven my wife nuts. So now I want to know what it is like to be a bull/lover.

What are your thoughts about the wives, and more importantly the husbands?

I've been on both sides. I know what I like to see when I'm watching someone fuck my wife so I try to do the same for them plus other things I wish someone would do with my wife.

Describe how it feels to fuck wives with tight pussies?

It was one time. She was very shy and nervous. It was his idea not hers. I could feel she was not very well lubricated. Not ready. It was too late to stop. I tried to go slow and be as gentle as I could. When I finally entered her it felt almost as close as going into a woman's ass. It was as if I had a very big cock. It felt good.

How does it feel to have a husband standing by while you fuck the shit out of his wife ?

It doesn't bother me. I try to put on a good show for him.

What things do you say to either of them?

Nothing. There is no talking just sex. The one shy wife I asked her if she was ok. It looked like I was hurting her.

Is part of the thrill humiliating the husbands or showing off in front of them?

I don't humiliate the husband. On purpose. I like to give his wife a good fuck.

How do you feel about yourself? Do you feel like hot shit or a man’s man?

I feel good when I can satisfy his wife.

Have any husbands become overwhelmed with what is going on? Have they ever stopped things after they have started?

No

What do the wives say to you?

There isn't much talking. I've heard "oh god","yes"... not much of conversations.

Look forward to hearing from you guys who represent this minority on the site

[venus-can99]

Some of these questions point more to a bull type vs a fwb/boyfriend type…just like hot wives everyone is different.

As for me….

1. I admire the love between them and the trusting relationship they have, I see myself as an addition to both of their lives.
2. Lfa, does a way better job here describing encounters, I won’t even try.
3. Anytime the 3 of us get together, it’s about LFA and involvement in the situation, the moods set the course.
4. We talk like normal people.
5. Neither, it’s about the enjoyment of all.
6. I feel proud in a odd way, not even sure that’s the right word, I am proud of being part of the growth of their marriage.
7. Given this activity can be emotionally charged, this is a great opportunity for the couple to talk, explore feelings TOGETHER and face the world as a team.
8. Coffee everyday, lives, what’s going on etc…like a friend

G

When I read the first post in this thread I immediately thought of you G and how make lfa glow and treat both A and LFA with respect.
Still waiting for your thread on how to be a fib/boyfriend

[Pennnn77]

Hello
I have only been with one HW couple we have been carrying on for almost a year they live far away but we are able to see each other every 3-6weeks for days or weeks at a time they are 20 years older than I and she is stunning to say the least she looks younger than me and is sweet as pie very smart funny and just a absolute joy to be around we communicate 24/7
We were both very nervous at first but we definitely clicked
We have fallen in love but not changing anything in our lives we are exclusive to each other husband knows this and is good with it all 3 of us sleep in the same bed go out for drink s and dinner and are going on vacations together soon
So far my experience has been completely positive but my very limited experience I probably shouldn’t have chimed in but not many Bulls are responding so I thought I would
Feel free to ask me anything

[BBCfan]

Even though I'm a wannabe now, When I was young I was a bull for a couple although that word was not used.

They chose me because I was more endowed than the husband and Wife was attracted to me.

They initially wanted to do double vaginal penetration, The husband was interested in orally pleasing me as well before I fucked his wife.

She was super hot so I was OK with doing whatever to try this experience.

He didn't do much oral as he got very nervous, and felt insecure.

We started off with double vaginal on his wife but he literally came in 5 seconds.

I had amazing stamina back then, and proceeded to fuck the shit out of her for about 30-45 min.

He was quiet in the corner, she was very vocal and loving it, Then he got super insecure and asked us to stop.

She refused and said she wanted more, but I felt very uncomfortable at that point and so I stopped things.

For me it was a very fun experience, other than when the husband got jealous. My guess is that if he had held off orgasming so quick he might have been able to enjoy it for longer.

That was my only foray into it although I did Have another opportunity at a sex club with a very sexy couple but my girlfriend at the time shut it down.

She got jealous as the other girl was a super hot latina.

Although I haven't been officially cucked, seeing things from the other side now, it is a completely different excitement.
Being a bull is mainly egocentric, Whereas the cuck stimulation seems to be much more intense and more mental where the ego actually has to be overcome and put to the side.

As the bull you are the lone Wolf and you are missing out on that couple dimension which adds levels of depth and excitement and emotional complexity which being a bull just can't come close to from my limited experience.

Bull is also under pressure to perform and please The woman as well as taking the dealing with potential Complexities of the husband if he is present.

I think to do well it well, and respect their Union does take a pretty secure and understanding person.

[Yourfirstbull]

Although in my early 30's, I've been a bull for just over 7 years and can answer most of these (note I prefer newly exploring couples rather than swingers or lifestyle types, and mom-next door types, the ones you would never suspect would play with a third):

What are your thoughts about the wives, and more importantly the husbands?
Starting with the hubbies, I'm impressed with their generosity--most of the wives I'm with are the result of a hubby wanting his wife to have the best sex life possible, which he understands he can't provide. Some of the hubbies are betas (or, more often, are "alphas" in public and beta to her and I), but usually they're just dads who can't give her the stamina, size, body, and moves that a good third can provide. As to the wives, they're all unique and hot in their own way--there's nothing more thrilling for me than when a wife tells me she feels like she's young all over again, when she gets to do naughty things she always fantasized or heard about, when she starts feeling sexy again. (Btw, I prefer mom bods and though I've had regulars with model-worthy bodies, I do really enjoy the mom who tells me she needs to lose 10-20 pounds. It's so hot when they feel sexy again, without having to lose that weight--but just having a bull.)


Describe how it feels to fuck wives with tight pussies?
Amazing, right up there with seeing and hearing and feeling how she reacts to being fucked properly.


How does it feel to have a husband standing by while you fuck the shit out of his wife?
He knows, and she knows, and he knows she knows that this is how a man fucks a woman. That's a powerful feeling--and it's why sometimes stags turn into cucks, seeing how my younger body and hard cock make her feel; how she excitedly wants to do things with me and to me and have done to her that he's "nagged" her to do with him for years. I do think for hubbies there can be a shock at how quickly the hotwife becomes aggressively sexual (eg I've had wives ask me to take their anal virginity the first time we were together, I had a wife during our first coffee date go to the bathroom and come back out handing me her panties under the table, I've had many, many wives ask me to degrade them--and I've heard from all of their hubbies how he was trying to get her to do that for years, decades even).


What things do you say to either of them?
Really depends on the couple. I think you're probably asking do I humiliate either of them, or him...and again, it depends on the couple. There are wives who want an active sexual partner and don't want to be degraded; there are wives (and I'm talking executives I've been with, school teachers, attornies, etc.) who crave being objectified and humiliated. Same with hubbies.

There are wives where we have little whisper-in-the-ear one-liners the entire time, where say she's laying on her stomach and I'm softly pumping her from behind, kissing her neck as she rises up to meet me and I say something in her ear; conversely, there are wives where I'm pounding the fuck out of her and she's telling me I own her pussy and screaming "Never" when I ask if her hubby has ever fucked her like this.


Is part of the thrill humiliating the husbands or showing off in front of them?
Showing off, yes. There's always a thrill in doing what others can't, especially if it's a wife where she's truly never had good sex before (it surprises me how bad guys can be at sex). The humiliating of course depends on the couple, but yes I definitely get off on humiliating the cucky if the dynamic calls for it.


How do you feel about yourself? Do you feel like hot shit or a man’s man?
Just feel like me, same as always. Not like shit about playing with wives, for sure.


Have any husbands become overwhelmed with what is going on? Have they ever stopped things after they have started?
Never in the moment, but there have been times where a hubby reaches out to me with tons of enthusiasm, then introduces me to his hesitant wife. She and I (with his knowledge) start messaging and within a week or so it's too intense for him. Really a bummer and unfair to her, but it happens. Btw, when I say too intense I mean just that she would text me her fantasies or send a naughty pic (not even necessarily full nude or video or anything). Hubbies have to be mentally prepared--if she's into it, she's going to be really into it.


What do the wives say to you?
This is actually the most flattering part, when they thank me, tell me this is the best sex of their life, etc. One wife told me her hubby has a penis, but I have a cock. I have a handful of regulars right now, and it's always so hot to get a message from a wife, a mom, a church-going, upstanding suburban neighbor, on a weekday morning telling me how much she's craving me and could I come visit her soon?


Have you ever fallen in love with someone's wife?
No, and having multiple wives I play with helps prevent that. Interestingly, when I I first became a Bull I was very conscious not to mention to wives that I had others I was playing with or my body count, but I soon realized this isn't like traditional dating... they actually want to know. Not the details, but that the bull has options (and btw I'm talking about ones you'd never suspect, very conservative wife next door types). I've had a few say they want to be better than the other wives, and even had one after the first time ask "am I good enough to be a part of your harem?" (which is not a description I would ever use). It's interesting that me having regulars is almost like a confirmation and comfort for them.
Also, I make it clear early on that our relationship is about sex, and to view me as Sex. Yes, we'll flirt and message and have a level of affection, but if it ever goes beyond for them then we need to stop it right away. Stopping because of that did happen once.

Have you considered taking her for yourself?
No, no interest. These are moms with kids usually 15-20 years older than me. And even if they aren't moms, even if they're my age...I'm not trying to meet their families and do their grocery shopping.

You ever been with a wife in public and got spotted by people who know her and hubby?
No

Have you ever felt objectified by a couple and only used for sex?
Not really--I'm usually with couples who it's about sex but also the sexiness around sex (flirting, seduction, messaging, etc.)

Do you get jealous when you are not the only side man who fucks the wife?
No, though usually I am the only one...the wives I'm with aren't really promiscuous, they just need a partner to give them the sex they crave.

[Poonman954]

Wow, great topic!

I’ve only had a handful of experiences but I like cucking the husband as much as fucking his wife. I had a husband get very anxious (“is it hot in here”) at dinner once as I was sliding my hand up her skirt and it hit me later that it was the moment it became real and likely unstoppable in his mind. Kudos to you husbands out there that take the plunge though. It must the most overwhelming flood of emotions to give her to a bull in real life. Most husbands are the ones inviting is in and set it all up and I try to be thankful and give them that extra level of cuck pleasure.

I love inviting them over to the bed to stand next to me as we both admire his beautiful wife laying there totally naked. I show him my rock hard cock and ask him what do you think she will think of how it will feel inside her. I remind him that by me doing this it will change the direction of how she thinks and feels about sex for the rest of her life. I explain that my cock will touch areas of her body he has never and WILL NEVER TOUCH! I ask him to take a very close look as I slide my cock all over her pussy. I get it wet with her juices and keep it on the entrance for an extra minute almost as a way of saying this is the last chance you have to take the alpha status back and save your bride from this different man who hasn’t yet but is moments away from fucking her. ARE YOU SURE…? I slide it in slowly and we both watch her face as she feel this massive plunge. I remind him of how her pussy feels as we fuck. I do a play by play as I’m getting closer to cumming so he knows it’s happening. I once asked the husband if I had permission to cum inside his beautiful wife’s pussy and he replied back, “YES, YES, YES PLEASE!”
I want him to know and be 100% present for those few moments as it’s my favorite part and arguably the ultimate cuck turn on for him as well. I like keeping my cock inside her for as long as I can afterward. I like holding and even sleeping with my arms around her. At that point, I’m flirting with a moment of HW/bull soulmate or at least a connection that she has only had with a very limited amount of individuals in life.

I hope that adds a little color from my point of view. And thank you again to all the cucks out there that make it happen for us Bulls. We couldn’t do it without your support.

I

[Dutchpride7]

Well,that is a great question & a lot of different variables that go with that question. So the best way for me to answer that question is to just give you the way I "Get Down" being that everyone is different and has a f different style and way of going about it.
First,of all it is a great thrill & pleasure to please a hotwife but at the same time please her hubbie too! The only way I perform & want to perform is to keep everyone involved happy,content,& satisfied.
I take great pride in everything I do as far as work,leisure,sports,sexual adventures,exercising,etc. My 1st bit of going about it for me is getting acquainted with the couple and finding out what they like and. What they want done and expect to happen,because it will save you a lot of time and trouble to make sure that you are on the same page & that I would want to do what they suggest.The couples I've gotten to know and have become great friends and like family after so long happen to be pretty much the same as what they like. Basically the hubbie wanting his hotwife fucked really good as he's there in the room,also they want it done bareback,with me unloading all my sperm I have deep inside of her or to pull out and put a pix worthy creampie basically anywhere they desire it,sometimes just outside of her hot pussy lips,on & all over her tits,on her face,on her stomach,of in her or his mouth.
Another thing is the hubbie likes to clean up both me & his wife,and milk my balls. foc every bit of nut nectar. So pretty much that is what the couples like and want and that also is what I've really gotten use to so the couples I've been with like same things I like.
Now,if meeting and working out these things a lot of times it doesn't work out because sometimes a cuck and his wife want me to humiliate him in front of her,I do know that is a kink for some and all good I'm just not into that at all so it wouldn't work for me.
That is why it is very important upon meeting new couples to talk all this out and get a good feel of each other beforehand.to see if your ideas line up with theirs. That makes it so much more relaxing & comfortable. An. That is huge to have that sense of comfortability and relaxed. Then trust and knowing everything is going to work out just fine being on the same page and pre- talking. & Getting to know each other beforehand. Is a big issue. That is you like to have things run smoothly and affectively.
Never be in a big hurry.. That is where a lot of People get in trouble rushing. Into it way to fast. Make sure you have all your ducks in a row. That makes it so much more enjoyable to be comfortable and. relaxed with whom your with.
The 1st few times are a little different and.its just like going back to school again after summer is over. That's the way it is the first few times with being with a new couple. It only gets better & better the more times your together and before you know it,at least for me is that I have a great and meaningful friendship with hotwife & hubbie and over time becomes very solid. A lot of trust amongst each other and I'm one to never get my ego involved into it,but rather take thee approach of being respectful always and much honor to hubbie & hotwife for allowing me the pleasure of doing what I do and also appreciating what they do for me also.
It works out great when having the proper communication of getting to know them in a personal way,what they like and don't like an. What I'll do and won't do. After ironing that all out you should be on your way to a long lasting friendship and great sexual pleasures and desires enjoyed by All 3. That is what makes it special too. All 3 are getting what they want as far as sexual desires & pleasures satisfied in their own & unique way that they want it.
That is what I would call a win,win,win,across the board. Everybody's happy & satisfied that their desires & pleasures have been met in a awesome way!
That is ,about as good as good as it gets. I wouldn't have it any other way!
I once was asked by a hubbie about "fucklicking" well I didn't know about it until he told.me and mentioned it to me. I have to say and admit once I tried and just fell in love with it the way it made me me feel and that feeling of his tongue on my nuts as I'm pumping in & out of his wife was unreal,it felt so fucking good and.especially when I was about to bust a nut at the same time as getting fucklicked.
Unbelievable feeling that is out of this world. Needless to say hubbie had me turned out on that and to this day cannot get enough of it. Yeah,I blame him and kinda smirk in a good way telling him that he's the one responsible for turning me out completely on that. It's kind of funny to laugh and.joke around. with him about that and see hotwifes expression,is Kool and amazing to talk about that at times. Reminds me of how far we've came that we can have fun and to see the expression on ones face tells it all.
Well,I've said some things that works for me and the only way I know how because it ends up being smooth and working into something for everyone is ideal. You can try your way but just to try a way that works and Is agreed upon with all. Will make it that much more fun and rewarding for the team. All for 1 an. 1 for all. It's working as a team together for the best of all. It's a win,win,win across the board. That is what your looking for however you get to that point. Once there you cookin with gasoline & let the good times roll...
Even the orgasms are so much better when that what is established is solid and strong. There is respect,honor,and much trust in the way the get down is done right. When you get to that point of comfortability,relaxation to familiarity,and trust. Then your working with a well oil machine that becomes a thrill and experience every time. Great joy and happiness fills me after it's all said an.d done,that sense of gratification & satisfaction knowing. That the ones I'm with are feeling those same feelings. That brings great joy to my heart and the vibe is alive & kickin in a great way for 3.
Cheers to.all & If anything,hopefully you can just get 1 idea or advice from what I wrote & I'll be stoked!
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