Figuring it out
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What an incredibly sexy retelling. You have my heart racing!
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Thanks friend. I wasn't sure my "feelings" post would be as exciting as a play-by-play, but it was what I felt like writing. I'm glad you enjoyed it. I hope things are going well with you and Ms. Curious.hoping_she_will_1day wrote: ↑Mon Sep 25, 2023 6:10 pmWhat an incredibly sexy retelling. You have my heart racing!
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My birthday has come and gone. Overall, it was an amazing time. I've already shared how G took me away overnight for an extended date. He also reached out on my actual birthday to see if I could meet him for a kiss. He drove more than 30 minutes, just to make out with me in a parking lot for a few minutes (no shenanigans, just kissing and holding). He's the best.
In addition, Adventurer took me away for a weekend with the fam. We had quality family time doing lots of things I love -- like hiking, walking along the beach, exploring random small towns, even swimming (because the weather was gorgeous). There was even a little birthday hanky panky that ensued (I was wearing a new choker necklace, and that always inspires the naughty in him). He is also the best.
And sir surprised me by remembering my birthday. He's been so busy that I was not holding out any hope of an in person date. But not only did he reach out, on my birthday, but he also suggested a get together. That date is fast approaching.
I won't say that he's the best, because so far there has been a lot of teasing about all the things that he and Adventurer will do to (ahem. I'm sure he meant "with") me. Eek! I'm nervous excited.
In addition, Adventurer took me away for a weekend with the fam. We had quality family time doing lots of things I love -- like hiking, walking along the beach, exploring random small towns, even swimming (because the weather was gorgeous). There was even a little birthday hanky panky that ensued (I was wearing a new choker necklace, and that always inspires the naughty in him). He is also the best.
And sir surprised me by remembering my birthday. He's been so busy that I was not holding out any hope of an in person date. But not only did he reach out, on my birthday, but he also suggested a get together. That date is fast approaching.
I won't say that he's the best, because so far there has been a lot of teasing about all the things that he and Adventurer will do to (ahem. I'm sure he meant "with") me. Eek! I'm nervous excited.
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I absolutely love it when my friends have joy in their lives
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I am a bundle of nerves. My play date with Adventurer and "Sir" is in less than two hours. We have a BDSM play space reserved from 1-5 Eastern. Four hours of debauchery. It is thrilling, but I find myself nervous.
Typically in the days leading up to a play date, there is a lot of conversation between the three of us. It is teasing and some of it is way to extreme for us to ever try, but it plants a seed for me of what my doms have in mind for our time together. This time, there has been a few brief conversations, but everyone has been too busy to go in depth.
Will I be strung up on the suspension rig? Should I be prepared for anal play? Will I be put into the stirrups and hooked up to estim? I have no idea!!!!
Oh, and the men have decided that I should be "needy" and "eager" so I haven't been allowed to orgasm for about a week. I feel like every nerve ending in my body is already on edge...what will happen when the nipple clamps go on? Or the butt plug goes in?
ARRRRRGGGHHHHH!!!!!
Typically in the days leading up to a play date, there is a lot of conversation between the three of us. It is teasing and some of it is way to extreme for us to ever try, but it plants a seed for me of what my doms have in mind for our time together. This time, there has been a few brief conversations, but everyone has been too busy to go in depth.
Will I be strung up on the suspension rig? Should I be prepared for anal play? Will I be put into the stirrups and hooked up to estim? I have no idea!!!!
Oh, and the men have decided that I should be "needy" and "eager" so I haven't been allowed to orgasm for about a week. I feel like every nerve ending in my body is already on edge...what will happen when the nipple clamps go on? Or the butt plug goes in?
ARRRRRGGGHHHHH!!!!!
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Sounds amazing! Hope you had a wonderful afternoon full of more orgasms than any of you could count. Love the teasing that built up to your day of release. Enjoy your Friday evening! Hopefully, you will need lots of rest and recovery after a full day of fun. Thanks again for always sharing your adventures with us.
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Thank you. It was a great afternoon, followed by a quiet night of rest and recovery. I plan to share more details, but I want time to tell it properly.ChicagoBWC wrote: ↑Fri Oct 06, 2023 1:10 pmSounds amazing! Hope you had a wonderful afternoon full of more orgasms than any of you could count. Love the teasing that built up to your day of release. Enjoy your Friday evening! Hopefully, you will need lots of rest and recovery after a full day of fun. Thanks again for always sharing your adventures with us.
In the meantime, happy Canadian Thanksgiving weekend everyone. I am grateful for you.
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Lookingforadventure wrote: ↑Sat Oct 07, 2023 9:11 amIn the meantime, happy Canadian Thanksgiving weekend everyone. I am grateful for you.
Happy Thanksgiving to you and Adventurer as well!
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Here is a bit more information about my play date with Adventurer and Sir:
He arrived a few minutes before us, but only slightly. We let ourselves in and made some small talk with the three of us. We hadn't seen each other since April, so it felt right to get comfortable with each other again before jumping into anything. It was me who decided to make the transition by asking them if I should get naked. Sir laughed and said, "Well it is going to have to happen sooner or later, so I think sooner is a great idea."
They watched me disrobe and then sir came over. He stood behind me and reached his hands around to play with my breasts. (Random aside. I'm quite tall at 5'9. Both Adventurer and G are around my height, but Sir is taller. It was funny because as he stood behind me I had a flashback to my high school boyfriend, who was also tall. One of my favourite things had been how he would walk up behind me in the hallway and hold me around the waist and I'd lean back against him. The funny thing about this flashback, though, is that my highschool boyfriend was such a "good", Christian boy and so concerned about being respectful that he hardly dared to kiss me. Meanwhile, Sir, who had inspired this memory, was rolling my left nipple with his left hand and was reaching down to play with my clit with his right. LOL)
I leaned back and enjoyed the sensations. I confess that I was already wet, just seconds into the play. Adventurer commented on how he could hear my wetness across the room. I came quickly.
Sir turned me around and pushed me down on the padded coffee table behind me. He said that since it had been my birthday recently, i deserved a reward. He lowered his pants and I smiled. I shifted so that I was laying on the table, but lifting my head up to be at the right height for face fucking. He commented on how me in that position might inspire Adventurer to smack my fine ass (His words, not mine). I mumbled something around the cock in my throat, which made them chuckle. And Adventurer agreed that I had a fine ass. He sat back on the couch facing the action and said he'd admire the show.
After a few moments, Sir put his cock away. He turned me around on the coffee table so that I was standing, bent forward, with my ass in the air and my head facing Adventurer. He walked to the toy rack behind me and I assumed he was getting a dildo...or maybe a spanking implement. I smiled at Adventurer and gave my ass a wiggle. He smiled back.
I heard a condom wrapper being ripped and assumed that it was being put on a dildo. Sir came behind me. He pulled the plug out of my ass (I had arrived pre-lubed and plugged as a good Wench should. lol) and commented on how it looked like I was already ready. Then he dove his cock into my ass.
I let out an "oh!" and caught Adventurer's eye. I beamed at him. I do really enjoy anal sex!! (Random aside #2: Sir doesn't always take his cock out when we play. It used to bother me because I wasn't sure if he was getting any pleasure out of the experience. I mentioned it to him and he assured me that he loved it. He also then added some face fucking into our play, usually fairly early on in our time together. He never cums when we play, and I've learned to be ok with that. I think it might be "normal" in BDSM play, or at least fairly common. In our five times playing, though, he's only ever fucked my ass once. So this was a surprise and a welcome one).
Adventurer came over and we attempted a spit roast with Sir in my butt and Adventurer in my mouth. The angle wasn't perfect, but I enjoyed it while it lasted. Then Sir pulled out and went back to the toy shelf. Adventurer took back his cock and instructed me to get on the ground. I knelt with my legs slightly spread and my hands behind my head.
I don't know what order the toys appeared in, or who brought what, but I soon had clover clamps on my nipples and an inflatable gag in my mouth. It was my first time with such a gag and it turned out not to be as intimidating as I thought. There was a breathing straw, so even though the gag filled my mouth I was able to breathe. It was more of a mental hurdle to get past because I could no longer swallow. I had to be ok with drool leaking out and with breathing through the tube. Personally, I don't think it looked very attractive, but the men seemed to like it. They brought out a cone-shaped toy, suctioned it to the floor, and had me ride it while they watched.
At some point, they also brought out a small wooden paddle and lightly swatted my butt if I went to slow in the riding. It might sound strange, but my exhibitionist side rather enjoyed being the center of attention.
Eventually, my knees got sore and my jaw got tired. I pushed the gag out with my tongue so I could swallow and then used my hands to take it off. I said I needed a break. The men helped me to my feet. They led me to the couch (where they put a towel down beneath me) and let me sit back. Sir gently flogged my breasts while Adventurer expertly licked and fingered me. Then Sir took a turn...he slid four fingers into my pussy and I was coming again.
This was around the point where we took our first break of the afternoon. Sweaty, drooly me needed to rehydrate. We removed the clamps and got some water to prepare for round two. (I'll write more later)
He arrived a few minutes before us, but only slightly. We let ourselves in and made some small talk with the three of us. We hadn't seen each other since April, so it felt right to get comfortable with each other again before jumping into anything. It was me who decided to make the transition by asking them if I should get naked. Sir laughed and said, "Well it is going to have to happen sooner or later, so I think sooner is a great idea."
They watched me disrobe and then sir came over. He stood behind me and reached his hands around to play with my breasts. (Random aside. I'm quite tall at 5'9. Both Adventurer and G are around my height, but Sir is taller. It was funny because as he stood behind me I had a flashback to my high school boyfriend, who was also tall. One of my favourite things had been how he would walk up behind me in the hallway and hold me around the waist and I'd lean back against him. The funny thing about this flashback, though, is that my highschool boyfriend was such a "good", Christian boy and so concerned about being respectful that he hardly dared to kiss me. Meanwhile, Sir, who had inspired this memory, was rolling my left nipple with his left hand and was reaching down to play with my clit with his right. LOL)
I leaned back and enjoyed the sensations. I confess that I was already wet, just seconds into the play. Adventurer commented on how he could hear my wetness across the room. I came quickly.
Sir turned me around and pushed me down on the padded coffee table behind me. He said that since it had been my birthday recently, i deserved a reward. He lowered his pants and I smiled. I shifted so that I was laying on the table, but lifting my head up to be at the right height for face fucking. He commented on how me in that position might inspire Adventurer to smack my fine ass (His words, not mine). I mumbled something around the cock in my throat, which made them chuckle. And Adventurer agreed that I had a fine ass. He sat back on the couch facing the action and said he'd admire the show.
After a few moments, Sir put his cock away. He turned me around on the coffee table so that I was standing, bent forward, with my ass in the air and my head facing Adventurer. He walked to the toy rack behind me and I assumed he was getting a dildo...or maybe a spanking implement. I smiled at Adventurer and gave my ass a wiggle. He smiled back.
I heard a condom wrapper being ripped and assumed that it was being put on a dildo. Sir came behind me. He pulled the plug out of my ass (I had arrived pre-lubed and plugged as a good Wench should. lol) and commented on how it looked like I was already ready. Then he dove his cock into my ass.
I let out an "oh!" and caught Adventurer's eye. I beamed at him. I do really enjoy anal sex!! (Random aside #2: Sir doesn't always take his cock out when we play. It used to bother me because I wasn't sure if he was getting any pleasure out of the experience. I mentioned it to him and he assured me that he loved it. He also then added some face fucking into our play, usually fairly early on in our time together. He never cums when we play, and I've learned to be ok with that. I think it might be "normal" in BDSM play, or at least fairly common. In our five times playing, though, he's only ever fucked my ass once. So this was a surprise and a welcome one).
Adventurer came over and we attempted a spit roast with Sir in my butt and Adventurer in my mouth. The angle wasn't perfect, but I enjoyed it while it lasted. Then Sir pulled out and went back to the toy shelf. Adventurer took back his cock and instructed me to get on the ground. I knelt with my legs slightly spread and my hands behind my head.
I don't know what order the toys appeared in, or who brought what, but I soon had clover clamps on my nipples and an inflatable gag in my mouth. It was my first time with such a gag and it turned out not to be as intimidating as I thought. There was a breathing straw, so even though the gag filled my mouth I was able to breathe. It was more of a mental hurdle to get past because I could no longer swallow. I had to be ok with drool leaking out and with breathing through the tube. Personally, I don't think it looked very attractive, but the men seemed to like it. They brought out a cone-shaped toy, suctioned it to the floor, and had me ride it while they watched.
At some point, they also brought out a small wooden paddle and lightly swatted my butt if I went to slow in the riding. It might sound strange, but my exhibitionist side rather enjoyed being the center of attention.
Eventually, my knees got sore and my jaw got tired. I pushed the gag out with my tongue so I could swallow and then used my hands to take it off. I said I needed a break. The men helped me to my feet. They led me to the couch (where they put a towel down beneath me) and let me sit back. Sir gently flogged my breasts while Adventurer expertly licked and fingered me. Then Sir took a turn...he slid four fingers into my pussy and I was coming again.
This was around the point where we took our first break of the afternoon. Sweaty, drooly me needed to rehydrate. We removed the clamps and got some water to prepare for round two. (I'll write more later)
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After taking a break for water and some small talk, it was time to play again. Sir asked me to sit back on the padded coffee table. Then he grabbed a magic wand toy.
"I know you've done this plenty of times yourself, now it is my turn," he said with a smile. (During our virtual play sessions, he has had me insert the head of the magic wand inside my pussy. It takes some warm-up, some lube, and some effort...but once it is inside it has led to some great orgasms).
I was a bit nervous about the prospect of someone else trying the insertion, especially because he jokingly said, "And you are so wet, you won't even need lube!"
Fortunately, he responded to my panicked, "Um. Yes lube!!!" by grabbing the bottle. "Fine. Fine. If you insist," He joked.
I also needn't have worried. It was kind of sweet how he positioned the wand between my legs and watched my face as he slowly pushed it in. He took his time and asked how it felt. It really didn't take that long at all before it was inside me. Then he turned it on
He rubbed my clit a little so that I could achieve my first orgasm in this position (and my second, and my third). Then he walked back to the toy shelves. When he returned, he asked me to turn over with my butt in the air. He had grabbed another condom! His cock was going back in my ass! (this was rather momentous because Sir almost never takes his cock out when we play).
I wasn't sure there would be any room for him...but surprisingly, he was able to slowly push himself in. It was pretty intense to be stretched that far. Adventurer was impressed with me as well.
The only issue was that I had to hold the magic wand in place, otherwise gravity and Sir's movements would bump the handle and cause the wand to shift inside me. Sometimes it hit in an unpleasant way, or the skin of my labia would get pinched. Adventurer felt for me in my predicament but also joked that he wasn't about to get between Sir's legs and hold the toy for me
We made it work for a surprisingly long time, but every time I orgasmed, I'd let go of the wand to steady myself on the table. Then it would pinch and I'd need to quickly grab hold again. Eventually I said that I needed to tap out. The wand was going too deep and I didn't like it. The men respected that limit.
I lay back on the table and tried to pull the wand out. It was pretty wedged in there. It was actually kind of funny. I had to try multiple times .. massaging my labia to try to make space, giving the toy a tug, adding some lube....it was really stuck. I wasn't too worried because I knew that I'd eventually get it out, but it made me laugh to be lying there with a toy stuck in me. The men laughed a bit too as they sat on the couch and watched my attempts.
Sir eventually came to my rescue. Again he was very careful and watched my face the whole time. He had the benefit of being able to see how the toy was positioned, so he was able to twist and maneuver it so that no delicate skin would get pulled or pinched. It really only took a couple of seconds and the wand was out. I thanked him for his help.
As I sat there and recovered from the multiple orgasms and my harrowing adventure with a toy stuck in me, Sir and Adventurer decided it was time for a birthday spanking. I walked over to the padded spanking bench and assumed the position.
Adventurer had been looking forward to this part. He was like a kid in a candy store with so many implements at his disposal. He does really love spanking me.
The toy wall was behind me, so I couldn't see what he was selecting. I could hear that some made loud slapping noises as they made contact. Others were softer. Some were sting-y. Some spread out the impact more evenly. I tried not to squirm too much, although it is hard when your natural instinct is to pull away from impact.
Sir came over and said that we might as well play with my breasts while I was in such a good position. He attached clover claps to my nipples, but these ones had weights on the end. If I pushed myself more upright, gravity pulled on my nipples in a painful way. I could mitigate that by leaning forward and resting the weights on the bench in front of me, but that meant that I couldn't squirm away from the spanking either. In fact, any movement I made, made my nipples hurt more.
For some reason, this situation became too much for me. I think it was mental as much as it was physical. Knowing that I had to hold perfectly still, and also feeling the pain on my nipples as I expected the pain on my ass, was overwhelming. I kind of froze. Each of the men were asking me questions like, "How does that feel?" or "How are you doing?" but I couldn't respond. My arms were rigid, my muscles braced to hold myself still. And I think that I knew that if I opened my mouth I might sob.
Sir was the one beside me and he lifted my hair to check in because I hadn't answered their questions. He must have read the pain on my face because he said that it was time for a break. He removed the clamps right away, and Adventurer came over to check on me.
I really don't know why I reacted the way I did. Yes, it hurt, but not extremely so. My ass was pink but none of the impacts were hard enough to leave bruises or lasting marks. My nipples had been clamped before, so that wasn't a new sensation either. I think it was just the combination.
As I stood fully up, Adventurer held me and kissed me. He asked if I was ok. I said I was just embarrassed to have not done better. They both said that was ridiculous. Then, I asked about which implements they had used, because they had all felt very different. One of them had been particularly sting-y.
They showed me a few and gave me gentle swats with some of them. Sir joked that we could go through them all as a process of finding out which one was the offender that I was remembering. I laughed and said I was ok with not knowing.
It was time for another water break. As I walked to the fridge to grab some water, I apologized again for needed things to stop. I really do hate falling short of the challenge before me. Sir said that I had nothing to apologize for. He reminded me that he had stopped things, not me. He also said, "You were being a trooper. We were pushing you really hard, and had already pushed you hard with the wand before hand. It was impressive. You were impressive, so don't feel bad."
I share this in case anyone is new to BDSM play, because moments like these are why I trust Sir to play with me (and Adventurer too, but that is different because we have a deeper relationship so I know I can trust him. Sir was a stranger selected for this kind of play). It isn't about machismo and being dominant. It is about respect and care, being the type of person that someone can entrust with their body for a period of time and know that limits will be honored...sometimes even without the sub needing to say anything.
(More play details to follow...including my time spent suspended upside down).
"I know you've done this plenty of times yourself, now it is my turn," he said with a smile. (During our virtual play sessions, he has had me insert the head of the magic wand inside my pussy. It takes some warm-up, some lube, and some effort...but once it is inside it has led to some great orgasms).
I was a bit nervous about the prospect of someone else trying the insertion, especially because he jokingly said, "And you are so wet, you won't even need lube!"
Fortunately, he responded to my panicked, "Um. Yes lube!!!" by grabbing the bottle. "Fine. Fine. If you insist," He joked.
I also needn't have worried. It was kind of sweet how he positioned the wand between my legs and watched my face as he slowly pushed it in. He took his time and asked how it felt. It really didn't take that long at all before it was inside me. Then he turned it on
He rubbed my clit a little so that I could achieve my first orgasm in this position (and my second, and my third). Then he walked back to the toy shelves. When he returned, he asked me to turn over with my butt in the air. He had grabbed another condom! His cock was going back in my ass! (this was rather momentous because Sir almost never takes his cock out when we play).
I wasn't sure there would be any room for him...but surprisingly, he was able to slowly push himself in. It was pretty intense to be stretched that far. Adventurer was impressed with me as well.
The only issue was that I had to hold the magic wand in place, otherwise gravity and Sir's movements would bump the handle and cause the wand to shift inside me. Sometimes it hit in an unpleasant way, or the skin of my labia would get pinched. Adventurer felt for me in my predicament but also joked that he wasn't about to get between Sir's legs and hold the toy for me
We made it work for a surprisingly long time, but every time I orgasmed, I'd let go of the wand to steady myself on the table. Then it would pinch and I'd need to quickly grab hold again. Eventually I said that I needed to tap out. The wand was going too deep and I didn't like it. The men respected that limit.
I lay back on the table and tried to pull the wand out. It was pretty wedged in there. It was actually kind of funny. I had to try multiple times .. massaging my labia to try to make space, giving the toy a tug, adding some lube....it was really stuck. I wasn't too worried because I knew that I'd eventually get it out, but it made me laugh to be lying there with a toy stuck in me. The men laughed a bit too as they sat on the couch and watched my attempts.
Sir eventually came to my rescue. Again he was very careful and watched my face the whole time. He had the benefit of being able to see how the toy was positioned, so he was able to twist and maneuver it so that no delicate skin would get pulled or pinched. It really only took a couple of seconds and the wand was out. I thanked him for his help.
As I sat there and recovered from the multiple orgasms and my harrowing adventure with a toy stuck in me, Sir and Adventurer decided it was time for a birthday spanking. I walked over to the padded spanking bench and assumed the position.
Adventurer had been looking forward to this part. He was like a kid in a candy store with so many implements at his disposal. He does really love spanking me.
The toy wall was behind me, so I couldn't see what he was selecting. I could hear that some made loud slapping noises as they made contact. Others were softer. Some were sting-y. Some spread out the impact more evenly. I tried not to squirm too much, although it is hard when your natural instinct is to pull away from impact.
Sir came over and said that we might as well play with my breasts while I was in such a good position. He attached clover claps to my nipples, but these ones had weights on the end. If I pushed myself more upright, gravity pulled on my nipples in a painful way. I could mitigate that by leaning forward and resting the weights on the bench in front of me, but that meant that I couldn't squirm away from the spanking either. In fact, any movement I made, made my nipples hurt more.
For some reason, this situation became too much for me. I think it was mental as much as it was physical. Knowing that I had to hold perfectly still, and also feeling the pain on my nipples as I expected the pain on my ass, was overwhelming. I kind of froze. Each of the men were asking me questions like, "How does that feel?" or "How are you doing?" but I couldn't respond. My arms were rigid, my muscles braced to hold myself still. And I think that I knew that if I opened my mouth I might sob.
Sir was the one beside me and he lifted my hair to check in because I hadn't answered their questions. He must have read the pain on my face because he said that it was time for a break. He removed the clamps right away, and Adventurer came over to check on me.
I really don't know why I reacted the way I did. Yes, it hurt, but not extremely so. My ass was pink but none of the impacts were hard enough to leave bruises or lasting marks. My nipples had been clamped before, so that wasn't a new sensation either. I think it was just the combination.
As I stood fully up, Adventurer held me and kissed me. He asked if I was ok. I said I was just embarrassed to have not done better. They both said that was ridiculous. Then, I asked about which implements they had used, because they had all felt very different. One of them had been particularly sting-y.
They showed me a few and gave me gentle swats with some of them. Sir joked that we could go through them all as a process of finding out which one was the offender that I was remembering. I laughed and said I was ok with not knowing.
It was time for another water break. As I walked to the fridge to grab some water, I apologized again for needed things to stop. I really do hate falling short of the challenge before me. Sir said that I had nothing to apologize for. He reminded me that he had stopped things, not me. He also said, "You were being a trooper. We were pushing you really hard, and had already pushed you hard with the wand before hand. It was impressive. You were impressive, so don't feel bad."
I share this in case anyone is new to BDSM play, because moments like these are why I trust Sir to play with me (and Adventurer too, but that is different because we have a deeper relationship so I know I can trust him. Sir was a stranger selected for this kind of play). It isn't about machismo and being dominant. It is about respect and care, being the type of person that someone can entrust with their body for a period of time and know that limits will be honored...sometimes even without the sub needing to say anything.
(More play details to follow...including my time spent suspended upside down).
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Wow, that was an intense read! I’m slowly making my way through your INCREDIBLY interesting and inspiring story!
I love this particular account so much. It probably felt embarrassing to have reacted as you did, but that kind of vulnerability in this kind of play is so beautiful. There’s just something so special about trusting a man (or two men!) to bring you right up to your limit and then to recognize from your reaction that you’ve reached that limit, and then to be so tenderly cared for at that point. Gives me goosebumps. Just beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
I love this particular account so much. It probably felt embarrassing to have reacted as you did, but that kind of vulnerability in this kind of play is so beautiful. There’s just something so special about trusting a man (or two men!) to bring you right up to your limit and then to recognize from your reaction that you’ve reached that limit, and then to be so tenderly cared for at that point. Gives me goosebumps. Just beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

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Thank you so much. I'm glad you responded that way. I am always a bit nervous sharing BDSM kinds of details because I know that my kinks aren't shared by everyone. I worry that I won't describe thins correctly, or that people will judge me for it. Not that I really care what people think, but I especially don't want them thinking badly of Adventurer or Sir for the things they do with me. It is all very consensual, but does push me to my limits. In any case, I'm happy that you could appreciate what I was trying to say.QueenHedone wrote: ↑Sun Oct 08, 2023 2:54 pmWow, that was an intense read! I’m slowly making my way through your INCREDIBLY interesting and inspiring story!
I love this particular account so much. It probably felt embarrassing to have reacted as you did, but that kind of vulnerability in this kind of play is so beautiful. There’s just something so special about trusting a man (or two men!) to bring you right up to your limit and then to recognize from your reaction that you’ve reached that limit, and then to be so tenderly cared for at that point. Gives me goosebumps. Just beautiful. Thank you for sharing.![]()
I do need to find time to add the last installment. It was pretty fun. I'll try to get to that tonight or tomorrow.
Re: Figuring it out
Yes please! Incredibly sexy story. As one who is on the giving side of BDSM, it’s so much fun to hear it retold from the other side!
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Excellent. I'm glad I can provide some perspective. I'll go find some of your other posts because I'm curious to hear how you play and what it is like for you as well.
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We were about 2 and a half hours in to our 4 hour play date. My two Doms discussed what we should tackle next. They landed on making use of the suspension system. This particular rental space has a ceiling mounted system with a pulley and several attachments. Last time we played, we had tried out a body net/cage thing that was more fun than I had expected it to be. We had also tried suspending me from my wrists and from my ankles. The place has a sex swing and a few other items as well, but the men thought that upside-down suspension would be perfect for this particular occassion.
Maybe it is just me, but I found it a bit funny. I was sitting in the middle of the padded coffee table, naked. The two men were partially dressed beside me (Sir had a tshirt and shorts on, Adventurer was in his boxer briefs). They had found the ankle attachments and were discussing the best way to attach them. I had one leg thrown over each man's lap as they tried one way and then another. They needed to make sure my leg would be securely enclosed and wouldn't slip out when I was being hung from them, but they also needed to not cut off circulation. Their serious and focused attention, plus my splayed legs, just seemed really funny to me.
Eventually, we figured it out. Then I made my way over to the suspension rig. I sat on the floor and each ankle harness was attached to a spreader bar on the rigging system. They hoisted me up. As the bar was raised, I had to shimmy forward on my butt more and more, then lay back, then hold myself in a handstand, and then I was off the air. I swung around a bit as I got used to it and reached out to grab the men's t-shirts. They laughed and said that if the harness gave, they weren't sure the t-shirt grab would prevent me crashing to the floor. I said that I wasn't worried. I grabbed Adventurer fully around the waist and pulled myself close. I had excellent survival skills
Fortunately, the harnesses held. They raised me until my head was exactly at cock height. I got to enjoy a sampling of my husband, before he turned me towards Sir. Sir lowered his shorts and slid his cock into my waiting mouth. It might sound strange, but it really did feel like a privilege to have the opportunity to play with Sir's cock so much during this play date. I was smiling as he face fucked me.
My left hand was still holding on to Adventurer's waist, and my right was around Sir. Adventurer slipped my hand off of himself so that he could go and get a magic wand. I swayed slightly, then grabbed on to Sir tightly. It was fun to get to touch him for a change as usually he's the one touching me. I also enjoyed the sensation of upside down deep throating. My nose was buried in his balls, and when I drooled around his cock it dripped up my face instead of down. I sometimes had to wipe so that it wouldn't go up my nose or get into my eyes. LOL. Mostly, though, I just enjoyed the feel of a hard cock deep in my mouth.
If Adventurer had been in Sir's place, I'm pretty sure his tongue would have found my clit. That's not Sir's thing. But he did use his fingers to lightly circle and rub it. Then Adventurer brought a magic wand over and it was game on. I kind of lost track of how long I hung there, orgasming from the wand and letting my mouth be used. I just know that I thoroughly enjoyed myself. Eventually, I realized that I should probably stop the blood rushing to my head. I said that I should probably come down. (note: I also practiced a bit of core work to see if I could lift my head above my heart just with my ab muscles....I could, but not for very long).
The men lowered me to the ground slowly, but stopped when my butt hit the floor. My legs were still fully straight in the air and spread wide with the spreader bar. Adventurer said, "Well that's an intriguing position for the Wench to be left in" Sir agreed.
I can report that they left me there for another long period of time. The magic wand was used extensively. Sir also grabbed another condom and took a THIRD turn fucking my ass. At this point, my body was getting very tired of orgasming. I used my hands to push the wand away from my clit, but Sir said that I could stop after 3 more orgasms. After the three, I pushed it with my hand again. "Just one more, Wench" he said.
I laughed and said, "You said that last time!"
"Oh, did I? Too bad, maybe two more then" he replied.
I did fairly well, but eventually I grabbed the wand with my hand and pulled it away. I was done.
The men agreed that I deserved a break. Plus, Adventurer had opened a bottle of wine. We lowered me the rest of the way to the ground and I unbuckled the harnesses. It was difficult to walk for a few minutes.....and I was a sweaty, drooly, pussy juice-covered mess....but it felt amazing.
Maybe it is just me, but I found it a bit funny. I was sitting in the middle of the padded coffee table, naked. The two men were partially dressed beside me (Sir had a tshirt and shorts on, Adventurer was in his boxer briefs). They had found the ankle attachments and were discussing the best way to attach them. I had one leg thrown over each man's lap as they tried one way and then another. They needed to make sure my leg would be securely enclosed and wouldn't slip out when I was being hung from them, but they also needed to not cut off circulation. Their serious and focused attention, plus my splayed legs, just seemed really funny to me.
Eventually, we figured it out. Then I made my way over to the suspension rig. I sat on the floor and each ankle harness was attached to a spreader bar on the rigging system. They hoisted me up. As the bar was raised, I had to shimmy forward on my butt more and more, then lay back, then hold myself in a handstand, and then I was off the air. I swung around a bit as I got used to it and reached out to grab the men's t-shirts. They laughed and said that if the harness gave, they weren't sure the t-shirt grab would prevent me crashing to the floor. I said that I wasn't worried. I grabbed Adventurer fully around the waist and pulled myself close. I had excellent survival skills
Fortunately, the harnesses held. They raised me until my head was exactly at cock height. I got to enjoy a sampling of my husband, before he turned me towards Sir. Sir lowered his shorts and slid his cock into my waiting mouth. It might sound strange, but it really did feel like a privilege to have the opportunity to play with Sir's cock so much during this play date. I was smiling as he face fucked me.
My left hand was still holding on to Adventurer's waist, and my right was around Sir. Adventurer slipped my hand off of himself so that he could go and get a magic wand. I swayed slightly, then grabbed on to Sir tightly. It was fun to get to touch him for a change as usually he's the one touching me. I also enjoyed the sensation of upside down deep throating. My nose was buried in his balls, and when I drooled around his cock it dripped up my face instead of down. I sometimes had to wipe so that it wouldn't go up my nose or get into my eyes. LOL. Mostly, though, I just enjoyed the feel of a hard cock deep in my mouth.
If Adventurer had been in Sir's place, I'm pretty sure his tongue would have found my clit. That's not Sir's thing. But he did use his fingers to lightly circle and rub it. Then Adventurer brought a magic wand over and it was game on. I kind of lost track of how long I hung there, orgasming from the wand and letting my mouth be used. I just know that I thoroughly enjoyed myself. Eventually, I realized that I should probably stop the blood rushing to my head. I said that I should probably come down. (note: I also practiced a bit of core work to see if I could lift my head above my heart just with my ab muscles....I could, but not for very long).
The men lowered me to the ground slowly, but stopped when my butt hit the floor. My legs were still fully straight in the air and spread wide with the spreader bar. Adventurer said, "Well that's an intriguing position for the Wench to be left in" Sir agreed.
I can report that they left me there for another long period of time. The magic wand was used extensively. Sir also grabbed another condom and took a THIRD turn fucking my ass. At this point, my body was getting very tired of orgasming. I used my hands to push the wand away from my clit, but Sir said that I could stop after 3 more orgasms. After the three, I pushed it with my hand again. "Just one more, Wench" he said.
I laughed and said, "You said that last time!"
"Oh, did I? Too bad, maybe two more then" he replied.
I did fairly well, but eventually I grabbed the wand with my hand and pulled it away. I was done.
The men agreed that I deserved a break. Plus, Adventurer had opened a bottle of wine. We lowered me the rest of the way to the ground and I unbuckled the harnesses. It was difficult to walk for a few minutes.....and I was a sweaty, drooly, pussy juice-covered mess....but it felt amazing.
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You my dear, had an EPIC birthday celebration! Thank you for sharing the fun details.
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Re: Figuring it out
None of us here certainly don't have any right to judge other people's kinks.Lookingforadventure wrote: ↑Mon Oct 09, 2023 6:26 amThank you so much. I'm glad you responded that way. I am always a bit nervous sharing BDSM kinds of details because I know that my kinks aren't shared by everyone. I worry that I won't describe thins correctly, or that people will judge me for it. Not that I really care what people think, but I especially don't want them thinking badly of Adventurer or Sir for the things they do with me. It is all very consensual, but does push me to my limits. In any case, I'm happy that you could appreciate what I was trying to say.QueenHedone wrote: ↑Sun Oct 08, 2023 2:54 pmWow, that was an intense read! I’m slowly making my way through your INCREDIBLY interesting and inspiring story!
I love this particular account so much. It probably felt embarrassing to have reacted as you did, but that kind of vulnerability in this kind of play is so beautiful. There’s just something so special about trusting a man (or two men!) to bring you right up to your limit and then to recognize from your reaction that you’ve reached that limit, and then to be so tenderly cared for at that point. Gives me goosebumps. Just beautiful. Thank you for sharing.![]()
I do need to find time to add the last installment. It was pretty fun. I'll try to get to that tonight or tomorrow.
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You are certainly not letting any second of sexual fulfilment go by. Good on you.
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Thanks friend. I really did. Especially if you include my overnight date with G, and then my family weekend away with Adventurer. I feel very blessed.hoping_she_will_1day wrote: ↑Mon Oct 09, 2023 6:20 pmYou my dear, had an EPIC birthday celebration! Thank you for sharing the fun details.
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Excellent point, and I don't feel judged....I just worry that I might paint Sir or Adventurer in a bad light because they enjoy pushing my limits. But the truth is that I enjoy it (mostly)
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I try. Although the story of Friday's play date ends with me deciding to pass on the final activity.
We had about 40 minutes left of our 4 hour rental. We had finished our wine and my legs were feeling less shaky. We had had some good conversation about work, travel plans, the Blue Jays, and home renovations and repairs. We now wondered what to do in the space before we went home.
Sir suggested that it might be e-stim time. Truthfully, we usually end with e-stim play. It is one of his kinks that not every woman is into, so he likes getting to pull out his toys and use them on me. I usually enjoy it.
Adventurer began cleaning up the rest of the space and disinfecting toys, etc while Sir set up the estim machine. He got out an extension cord and hooked the machine to a wall outlet. He also got out a few of his probes. I put a towel down on the medical chair and put my feet in the stirrups.
Sir slid the first probe in my butt (with some lube) and the second in my pussy (no lube required). Then it turned it on low.
I really quite liked it. The two probes were going at alternating paces and it was sort of a warm, prickle feeling throughout. But, when sir increased the frequency, I changed my mind.
My personal opinion is that my whole groin region was just too wet and conductive at this point. Sir thinks that maybe I was just ultra sensitive after being pushed so hard for the previous three hours. All I know is that the shocks extended out to my labia and surrounding region and I didn't enjoy it. I was a little bit loud in my shocked protest, and sir turned it down right away. He tried adjusting a few things and we gave it another go, but again it felt too strong (he said that he could even feel the shock of it in his hands).
It was the same machine, using the same electrical outlet, at the same frequency level as we have used before....but I just couldn't do it. Plus, my body was tired. BDSM play can be quite cathartic for me and my emotions were very near the surface. I felt like if I continued, I'd start crying.
I said that I had to be done. I felt really bad because Sir didn't get to use his toys and had brought them along just for this purpose. He said not to worry at all. We'd just have to use estim earlier in the play session next time. My body was done and there was no shame in that.
But I still hate disappointing people and falling short.
After the probes were removed, the men finished cleaning while I went to take a shower. I got my emotions under control and got dressed. The men were super sweet and supportive, but I still felt bad.
We left the building and Sir gave me a hug goodbye. He thanked us both for the fun afternoon. Adventurer suggested that he and I walk to the corner to get a hot beverage and baked good at the cafe nearby. He told me how proud he was of me. I soon felt much better.
Plus, when we got back to our car to drive home, Sir had sent a text. He also texted later that evening, and again the next day. I think he wanted to make sure I was ok. He knows that Adventurer is the primary source of my after care, but he still wanted to check in. I enjoyed getting to debrief with him and discuss our favourite memories from the experience, and also make plans for the future.
It took me 24 hours or so to get over my disappointment in myself (and about the same length of time for my nipples to stop feeling tender, and my butt to not have a lingering sensation of being well fucked and spanked), but now I feel much better about it.
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I haven't seen G since my birthday. He is currently out of the country on vacation with a friend. While we still chat every morning, sometimes it is just a brief hello because he has to go be sociable with others. I'm looking forward to his return next week.
I haven't seen Sir since our play date, but that's pretty normal. We typically only see each other a couple of times a year. He has been texting a bit more often lately. I think he was wanting to check in to make sure I was recovering well from our last play time. Flirting with him has me back on track with my kinks (I had a bit of a post-playtime lull), but he's been unavailable for having a virtual play date.
Charlie and Tess, the only swinger couple that we had any real connection with, have kind of fallen off the radar. I think the spark just faded. For a long time, I tried to keep the friendship going, but it felt very one-sided. Me reaching out, them responding but never initiating. So I think I'll just let that relationship fade for now.
All of which is to say that my hot wife adventures are a bit on hold at the moment. I'm not sure I like it
I did have one guy reach out this week that I hadn't chatted with in over two years! He was someone we found online fairly early in our process. I found him fun to talk to and he had a great sense of humor. At the time, Adventurer was hoping that I'd find three or four regular guys to have sex with, and this guy seemed like a good possibility. We even met up once in person for a meet and greet, but the spark just wasn't there. He's a great guy, just not the one for me.
He reached out this week to let me know that he's found a girlfriend! I'm excited for him since he had been recently divorced when we last talked, and was struggling a bit on the dating front. But he also said that he still found himself thinking about having sex with me. HIs girlfriend isn't interested in playing with others, but he's hoping she'll change her mind one day and that I'd be willing to meet up. He added that she might be open to playing with girls. I politely declined.
I'm not into pushing anyone into doing anything, plus I'm still not attracted to him. And I think that maybe regular doses of G (with the occasional sprinkling of Sir) might be enough for me.
But G's away!!!!
Fortunately, my husband is stepping into the gap. We've been swapping fantasies via text today, and there are plans for this evening when we are home from work
I'm wearing a choker necklace today (One of Adventurer's favorite looks) and a butt plug in anticipation of him sliding deep into my ass tonight. Yaaaaay!!
I haven't seen Sir since our play date, but that's pretty normal. We typically only see each other a couple of times a year. He has been texting a bit more often lately. I think he was wanting to check in to make sure I was recovering well from our last play time. Flirting with him has me back on track with my kinks (I had a bit of a post-playtime lull), but he's been unavailable for having a virtual play date.
Charlie and Tess, the only swinger couple that we had any real connection with, have kind of fallen off the radar. I think the spark just faded. For a long time, I tried to keep the friendship going, but it felt very one-sided. Me reaching out, them responding but never initiating. So I think I'll just let that relationship fade for now.
All of which is to say that my hot wife adventures are a bit on hold at the moment. I'm not sure I like it
I did have one guy reach out this week that I hadn't chatted with in over two years! He was someone we found online fairly early in our process. I found him fun to talk to and he had a great sense of humor. At the time, Adventurer was hoping that I'd find three or four regular guys to have sex with, and this guy seemed like a good possibility. We even met up once in person for a meet and greet, but the spark just wasn't there. He's a great guy, just not the one for me.
He reached out this week to let me know that he's found a girlfriend! I'm excited for him since he had been recently divorced when we last talked, and was struggling a bit on the dating front. But he also said that he still found himself thinking about having sex with me. HIs girlfriend isn't interested in playing with others, but he's hoping she'll change her mind one day and that I'd be willing to meet up. He added that she might be open to playing with girls. I politely declined.
I'm not into pushing anyone into doing anything, plus I'm still not attracted to him. And I think that maybe regular doses of G (with the occasional sprinkling of Sir) might be enough for me.
But G's away!!!!
Fortunately, my husband is stepping into the gap. We've been swapping fantasies via text today, and there are plans for this evening when we are home from work
I'm wearing a choker necklace today (One of Adventurer's favorite looks) and a butt plug in anticipation of him sliding deep into my ass tonight. Yaaaaay!!
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I'm hoping your fantastic husband will be kind enough to illustrate your last session with Sir.
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Here is hoping you have all your gaps filled by A in G’s absence

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