Hotwife Frenzy

[2inUPMichigan]

I think the "frenzy" that is described is almost a release valve being pulled and all those ideas that you held tight inside come tumbling out all at once. So many women are busy and distracted by all the various roles we play in life, to the point that we tend to put our role as "woman" last behind wife, mother, grandmother and all the rest. The realization that we can put her, the woman inside of us first (or at least make her a priority), is like breathing in fresh clean air and looking at things with fresh new eyes. "Wow!"

[zorro]

I'm not sure if I would call it a frenzy, and she was my long-term girlfriend, not my legal wife. We had been in a monogamous relationship for a couple of years, when we agreed she could start dating another man. He introduced her first to swinging and then to attending sex parties and a on-site sex club. Within a period of months she went from an exclusive sexual relationship with me to getting fucked by numerous men (and having sex with a couple of women), sometimes up to four men a night. After a year or so, she ended up breaking up with me and marrying a man who knew nothing of her past. She settled down to be a monogamous wife to him and the mother of his child.

She may not have respected a man who had been with a woman like her.

[Thebestdays1]

I'm sure my now, ex wife went through a frenzied period over about 3 years by the time we'd been married for about 14 years. She'd already had sex with quite a few men and women, including a long term relationship with her elder sister by this time,. Her last male lover, a married coworker, had moved away and after a while she was missing the excitement of having a boyfriend.
Her next lover was single, with a large penis and sexual appetite to match. With him she really let herself go wild. They'd fuck at his naturist club, in the train, in many places outside and she didn't care who saw them together. They'd spend most mondays together at our house, where the neighbours would see his motorbike parked outside or she'd go to his house, even when his mum was there. She and his mum even became friends.
She was working in a hotel at the time and gave in when she was chatted up by some of the guests, male and female and went with her older female coworker a few days a week after work.
We'd already noticed her nephew had taken a keen interest in her braless tits so she'd started wearing a bra at family gatherings but after a while, once he was old enough, she started giving him blowjobs in his car or mine and teaching him to rub her to orgasm. She'd get me to lick the last droplets of cum from his penis and I nearly ended up sucking him off once and him, me. By this time she'd passed her driving test and started seeing her elder sister quite regularly too, although I wasn't aware of this at the time.
She also liked to humiliate me more, hence getting me to lick the nephew's penis. I had to give her boyfriend a lift home a few times, after they'd spent the night together and ended up cleaning his penis in the car and sucking him off each time. She enjoyed being seen with him by people who knew us and even arranged for her mum to look after our kids on weekends when I was working, so that she could spend the weekend with him.
We ended up having a foursome with her sister and her partner and she and the sister had sex in front of us and I had to suck the SIL's partner off and that's how I found out about her and her sister.
The boyfriend moved away and although she started seeing another coworker from her next job and sucking him off in her car after work every morning and he'd come to our place every friday night, her frenzied sex drive gradually calmed down.

[iloanmywife]

I think the "frenzy" that is described is almost a release valve being pulled and all those ideas that you held tight inside come tumbling out all at once. So many women are busy and distracted by all the various roles we play in life, to the point that we tend to put our role as "woman" last behind wife, mother, grandmother and all the rest. The realization that we can put her, the woman inside of us first (or at least make her a priority), is like breathing in fresh clean air and looking at things with fresh new eyes. "Wow!"

I love your perspective on this.

[snoogaloo82]

I’ve heard reference to this in the past. It refers to when a hotwife, or cuckoldress first reaches such a comfort level in the lifestyle that she kind of goes wild for a bit, exploring. Her libido explodes, and takes over. Oftentimes this is when she starts running up her body count, astonishing her husband/bf with her suddenly insatiable sexual appetite. It’s as though all of the repressed sexuality of a lifetime bursts through the dam, sweeping away every inhibition in its part as the newly liberated woman is finally free to explore all aspects of her sexuality, and is almost frantic to make up for lost time.

Have any of you experienced, of witnessed “Hotwife Frenzy”, or is it just a myth - an invention of male imagination? Are all of the VHWs rolling their eyes at my ignorance, or nodding, recalling their own “frenzies”?

I can attest that this is absolutely real. We call this phase of the hot wife experience KK's "cock crazy" period.

Back in the day, I called my wife a "fuckmonster".

There were plenty of available men and she was like a kid in a candy store.

NRE on steroids

I love this topic and the responses. It looks like there are lots of ways to describe this very real phenomenon.

My wife went through a rapid metamorphosis, from reluctant housewife to wanton slut. After she tasted sexual freedom and found that she liked it and saw that I liked it, the dam broke open. This was the same woman who, on our way to meet a guy for drinks for the very first time, shyly looked down, almost in tears, and warned me that she enjoyed the fantasy but that she "...could never do any of this for real." A year later she was meeting multiple guys per week (or the same day, or the same time), creating her own dating site profiles, sending me pictures of random cocks in her mouth, and generally fucking any man she wanted. It was Game On.

It wasn't just the frequency, she went wild: letting a guy cum on her face in the parking lot of a theater and then going back inside, meeting a man at his condo wearing nothing but her overcoat and stockings, fucking a guy in the woman's bathroom of a crowded restaurant, and getting caught by police fucking a guy in the back of her SUV. There was a period where I thought "I've created a monster." But I didn't regret creating a monster.

These days she's far more restrained about it, even if she still maintains and exercises total sexual freedom. But there absolutely was a "frenzy" stage. I like the term.

In the long run what counts is that both of you have found a new found freedom in your newly directed relationship!

[philxxo]

For a wannabe, this all sounds exciting as shit. I would love it if my wife started going crazy like a horny shameless slut. I may regret it later. Maybe I will wish the clock could be wound back and she was dedicated only to me, I don't know. Experiencing the full sexual freedom and letting me vicariously watch and live through that sounds ideal. I would love to help her find other men.

[snoogaloo82]

For a wannabe, this all sounds exciting as shit. I would love it if my wife started going crazy like a horny shameless slut. I may regret it later. Maybe I will wish the clock could be wound back and she was dedicated only to me, I don't know. Experiencing the full sexual freedom and letting me vicariously watch and live through that sounds ideal. I would love to help her find other men.

i would love to help any woman out there find someone who feels the way that i do that a woman should have the freedom to choose who they fuck and who they decide to "make a home" with.

[wifedateshubwaits]

My wife most definitely went through a period where she was VERY promiscuous. It was not long after we embraced a more formalized hotwife/cuckold marriage and she had put up an online ad. At first my wife was shocked at all the responses to her ad, and even after tossing all the one liners and dick pics, she still had multiple handsome, athletic men who fit what she was looking for in a lover.

During my wife’s “frenzy”, she dated at least once and sometimes twice a week. And although I did feel neglected at times, I didn’t raise any objections since I’d been partly responsible for her putting up an ad. You see, my wife had become emotionally attached to her first boyfriend and after a tumultuous breakup, I suggested she not focus on one specific man. So I kept silent, even though my wife was acting like a self-described “slut.”

Eventually, she grew tired of meeting new guys regularly and settled in to a routine where she has a handful of men who she sees on occasion. My wife doesn’t regret her promiscuous behavior in the slightest and she fulfilled many of her fantasies during this time. And she credits me for letting her explore her sexual desires and to this day, still thanks me for being such a good sport about it.

[HappyHardHubby]

We had more sex and hotter sex when she started dating a bull.

[snoogaloo82]

We had more sex and hotter sex when she started dating a bull.

Awesome to hear!! Way to go!!

[HappyHardHubby]

It made me shoot the biggest loads of my life!

[daveandjan]

All new to this but we experienced something this summer and at a Halloween party that sounds like what you are asking. Things have come to a stop for the time being but it was a hell of a ride for a few months.

[snoogaloo82]

All new to this but we experienced something this summer and at a Halloween party that sounds like what you are asking. Things have come to a stop for the time being but it was a hell of a ride for a few months.

I'm sorry to hear that things have come to a standstill for you! I'm hoping things get better sooner rather than later.

[daveandjan]

All new to this but we experienced something this summer and at a Halloween party that sounds like what you are asking. Things have come to a stop for the time being but it was a hell of a ride for a few months.

I'm sorry to hear that things have come to a standstill for you! I'm hoping things get better sooner rather than later.

It's ok. We're summer people so it'll crank back up sone enough.

[philxxo]

All new to this but we experienced something this summer and at a Halloween party that sounds like what you are asking. Things have come to a stop for the time being but it was a hell of a ride for a few months.

I'm sorry to hear that things have come to a standstill for you! I'm hoping things get better sooner rather than later.

It's ok. We're summer people so it'll crank back up sone enough.

I sure hope so! You are living the dream Dave!

[hotfreaks]

Earlier on my wife did. I think it was her own realization of what I've been telling her, that she's absolutely stunning and sexy and can get any man she wants. Hearing that and realizing it are 2 different things. And when she did...boy was it a wild 8 months to a year.


Lol no complaints here, she was fucking like a rabbit, and had about 6 guys on a steady rotation, including some one hit wonders.

[snoogaloo82]

All new to this but we experienced something this summer and at a Halloween party that sounds like what you are asking. Things have come to a stop for the time being but it was a hell of a ride for a few months.

I'm sorry to hear that things have come to a standstill for you! I'm hoping things get better sooner rather than later.

It's ok. We're summer people so it'll crank back up sone enough.

Good to hear! Would hate for you two to go without for very long!

[snoogaloo82]

Earlier on my wife did. I think it was her own realization of what I've been telling her, that she's absolutely stunning and sexy and can get any man she wants. Hearing that and realizing it are 2 different things. And when she did...boy was it a wild 8 months to a year.


Lol no complaints here, she was fucking like a rabbit, and had about 6 guys on a steady rotation, including some one hit wonders.

Funny you should mention rabbits...we call our guy EB...short for Energizer Bunny because he can pound into her non-stop for LONG periods of time!!

[Tank Turner]

I've wondered how many men my wife could fuck in a gang bang. She didn't know. She was confident that she could keep six men very happy.

Two kids, family activities, work, and life in general limits our fun time. I would like to know my wife's performance level if we had nothing holding us back.

It seems as though that women in their sexual primes are always horny and want to fuck virtually all the time.

[snoogaloo82]

I've wondered how many men my wife could fuck in a gang bang. She didn't know. She was confident that she could keep six men very happy.

Two kids, family activities, work, and life in general limits our fun time. I would like to know my wife's performance level if we had nothing holding us back.

It seems as though that women in their sexual primes are always horny and want to fuck virtually all the time.

I'm wondering, too, how many men my sweetie would like for her gangbang, but we agreed that she was to try a threesome first to see if she could take having more than one guy on her.

[Tank Turner]

Hi snoogaloo82,

My guess is most women in their sexual primes could keep two men in sexual ecstasy for as long as they could keep up with them.

My wife has a lot of MFM sex experience with me. She has always outlasted me and men she's seduced.

My wife has a gang bang fantasy that I've learned is more common among women than I realized. While fantasizing about doing a gang bang, I asked her how many men would be too many. She thought before saying she didn't know. She thought 6 men, including me, would be practical for logistical reasons.

Having sex with more than one man can present problems for my wife. When I have my face buried in her bush with my mouth and tongue working her clit, she can't concentrate on giving blowjobs when she is at orgasmic verge. She loves hard and rough doggie fucking, but if I thrust too hard into her pussy, she has difficulty keeping her mouth on another dude's cock. But when her pussy is quivering for cock, she could keep far more that two men in ecstasy. After she's orgasmed to exhaustion, she'll beg for a hard cock rough and hard doggie fucking.

Due to our lives' circumstances, gang bang will almost certainly remain a fantasy unless we can get to Europe without our kids.

BTW, my wife has at least two girlfriends who have done gang bangs. Both have told my wife that she should experience at least one gang bang.

[snoogaloo82]

Hi snoogaloo82,

My guess is most women in their sexual primes could keep two men in sexual ecstasy for as long as they could keep up with them.

My wife has a lot of MFM sex experience with me. She has always outlasted me and men she's seduced.

My wife has a gang bang fantasy that I've learned is more common among women than I realized. While fantasizing about doing a gang bang, I asked her how many men would be too many. She thought before saying she didn't know. She thought 6 men, including me, would be practical for logistical reasons.

Having sex with more than one man can present problems for my wife. When I have my face buried in her bush with my mouth and tongue working her clit, she can't concentrate on giving blowjobs when she is at orgasmic verge. She loves hard and rough doggie fucking, but if I thrust too hard into her pussy, she has difficulty keeping her mouth on another dude's cock. But when her pussy is quivering for cock, she could keep far more that two men in ecstasy. After she's orgasmed to exhaustion, she'll beg for a hard cock rough and hard doggie fucking.

Due to our lives' circumstances, gang bang will almost certainly remain a fantasy unless we can get to Europe without our kids.

BTW, my wife has at least two girlfriends who have done gang bangs. Both have told my wife that she should experience at least one gang bang.

Thank you so much for all the info!! You are so wonderfully informative! When my sweetie wants it I will make it happen for her for sure. Do you think it's a good idea for her to try a threesome first, with two guys? Or do you think she could go straight into a gangbang?

[Tank Turner]

Hi snoogaloo82,

You're welcome.

I'm so sorry, but I cannot answer your question without knowledge of your wife's sexuality and comfort level.

There are myriad factors that comprise a woman's sexuality and desire to explore her sexual boundaries.

My wife was extremely sexually experienced when I met her. I'm sure that her erotic sexual confidence is the product of her sexual experience. I was enamored of her sexual confidence since the first time we had sex. My wife is sexually enlightened, sexually liberated, sexually knowledgeable, and sexually uninhibited. She has loved sex since the first time she experienced it. She believes that sex is a completely normal and natural human function that creates intense sexual euphoria. She believes nudity is normal and natural. She was hesitant on her first trip to a nude beach. Within 10 minutes she was completely naked. Being naked on a nude beach was liberating and felt natural for her. I've never done a nude beach. She's told me she'd take me to a nude beach. We have yet to be able to experience a nude beach together. She's completely comfortable being completely naked among men she does not know. She knew before her first nude beach experience that it was normal and natural for men to check out naked women. She was good with men on the beach checking out her naked body. She admitted to checking out naked men. It's as normal for women to check out naked men as it is for men to check out naked women.

My wife has been abnormally horny since puberty. Her mom sensed something was amiss with her during puberty. Her mom took her to her pediatrician who diagnosed her with an endocrine system abnormality that many women have. If not treated, it can cause serious health problems. My wife is fortunate that her mom caught it early enough to prevent health problems. When her endocrine system is out of balance, her libido cannot be measured.

My wife thought she was in love with a few of her boyfriends she had before we met. After we fell in love with each other, she knew for the first time the real sensation of being in love with a man.

My wife and I are easily able to distinguish the difference between sex for physical euphoria and sex as an expression of love.

Hope the above will enable you to see why my wife has a gang bang fantasy that she would make reality under the perfect circumstances. My wife probably would have done a gang bang as opposed to MFM sex on her first sexual experienced that included a second man.

If your wife has some or all of my wife's sexual traits, she might want to experience boundaries of her sexuality.

If I were forced to identify a single criterion that would be an accurate predictor of a woman's desire to experience the limits of her sexuality, I'd go with completely open, honest, candid, uninhibited, and nonjudgmental sexual communication. A woman's sexual confidence would indicate whether she'd feel comfortable and confident doing a gang bang.

This might be helpful advice that I learned from women: always compliment your wife on her sexual skills and her naked body.

[Tank Turner]

Some women are simply more sexual than other women. Women in their sexual primes seem to always want sex. My wife could fuck every day many times a day. She's in her sexual prime and she loves sex. Some women might not enjoy sex and would prefer to avoid it.

[snoogaloo82]

Hi snoogaloo82,

You're welcome.

I'm so sorry, but I cannot answer your question without knowledge of your wife's sexuality and comfort level.

There are myriad factors that comprise a woman's sexuality and desire to explore her sexual boundaries.

My wife was extremely sexually experienced when I met her. I'm sure that her erotic sexual confidence is the product of her sexual experience. I was enamored of her sexual confidence since the first time we had sex. My wife is sexually enlightened, sexually liberated, sexually knowledgeable, and sexually uninhibited. She has loved sex since the first time she experienced it. She believes that sex is a completely normal and natural human function that creates intense sexual euphoria. She believes nudity is normal and natural. She was hesitant on her first trip to a nude beach. Within 10 minutes she was completely naked. Being naked on a nude beach was liberating and felt natural for her. I've never done a nude beach. She's told me she'd take me to a nude beach. We have yet to be able to experience a nude beach together. She's completely comfortable being completely naked among men she does not know. She knew before her first nude beach experience that it was normal and natural for men to check out naked women. She was good with men on the beach checking out her naked body. She admitted to checking out naked men. It's as normal for women to check out naked men as it is for men to check out naked women.

My wife has been abnormally horny since puberty. Her mom sensed something was amiss with her during puberty. Her mom took her to her pediatrician who diagnosed her with an endocrine system abnormality that many women have. If not treated, it can cause serious health problems. My wife is fortunate that her mom caught it early enough to prevent health problems. When her endocrine system is out of balance, her libido cannot be measured.

My wife thought she was in love with a few of her boyfriends she had before we met. After we fell in love with each other, she knew for the first time the real sensation of being in love with a man.

My wife and I are easily able to distinguish the difference between sex for physical euphoria and sex as an expression of love.

Hope the above will enable you to see why my wife has a gang bang fantasy that she would make reality under the perfect circumstances. My wife probably would have done a gang bang as opposed to MFM sex on her first sexual experienced that included a second man.

If your wife has some or all of my wife's sexual traits, she might want to experience boundaries of her sexuality.

If I were forced to identify a single criterion that would be an accurate predictor of a woman's desire to experience the limits of her sexuality, I'd go with completely open, honest, candid, uninhibited, and nonjudgmental sexual communication. A woman's sexual confidence would indicate whether she'd feel comfortable and confident doing a gang bang.

This might be helpful advice that I learned from women: always compliment your wife on her sexual skills and her naked body.

Wonderful advice on all fronts! Thank you so much for your help! I will take your advice seriously!