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Unread post by MarknSusan » Mon Nov 27, 2023 4:32 pm

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My HW was the “other woman” for three years with Todd and then took two year break. During that two years we meet and married. We were 5 hours away and he contacted her and they have been at it for over 12 years now. He recently moved 10 miles away and it is hotter all the time.
SRKnight..that is a very remarkable and very wonderful story to share. It’s an amazing thing when a relationship for the three of you happens.

I’m very curious to know if you, your wife and Todd are all friends, if so, do you share any common non sexual things together as well?

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Unread post by SRKnight » Mon Nov 27, 2023 4:47 pm

MarknSusan wrote:
Mon Nov 27, 2023 4:32 pm
SRKnight wrote:
Mon Nov 27, 2023 2:59 pm
My HW was the “other woman” for three years with Todd and then took two year break. During that two years we meet and married. We were 5 hours away and he contacted her and they have been at it for over 12 years now. He recently moved 10 miles away and it is hotter all the time.
SRKnight..that is a very remarkable and very wonderful story to share. It’s an amazing thing when a relationship for the three of you happens.

I’m very curious to know if you, your wife and Todd are all friends, if so, do you share any common non sexual things together as well?
No she has a life with me and a life with Todd. I’m just able to listen in via cell phone. Lol

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Unread post by MarknSusan » Mon Nov 27, 2023 5:00 pm

SRKnight ….Thank you so much for sharing this. It’s so interesting how different our NM relationships are.

For the most part with Susan and I, we (the third person involved) mostly all knew each other, except for one of the guys Susan had a relationship with before me.

We are all different. But what works is ok as long as everyone is happy right?

Hedonistcouple ..I don’t want to hijack your post..thanks for your original post. You sparked a lot of interest here and it’s appreciated by me.

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Unread post by Mr Stag » Tue Nov 28, 2023 8:17 am

Twice, in fact. I posted about the first occurrence here: viewtopic.php?f=46&t=69810

Many decades ago, since we needed a break, my wife and I decided to take a small two-day vacation on the upcoming weekend. As we made plans, she asked me if we might be able also to find a new man to fuck her on this trip. (We had tried to invent "hotwifing" before it existed.) I loved the idea, but the logistics were all wrong. We didn't have enough time to buy a swinger newspaper and go through personal ads and write letters and wait for replies. (This was before the internet took over. If you were super lucky, the as would hold a phone number.)

Moreover, where we were traveling was sparsely populated, making suitable candidates all the harder to find. She mentioned that we would, however, be travelling through the town that her ex-boyfriend lived in and that he would certainly love to fuck her again. I listened with mixed emotions, as I loved to watch her being fucked by another man, but I was not at all sure that he was the right man. He was, in fact, her boyfriend prior to meeting me.

I asked her if he would want me there with us having a threesome. She was sure he would, as he was super kinky. After some more talking, I gave her the okay to call him. She did call and he did welcome our visiting him that Friday night. I still wasn't sure that this was a good idea, but I also longed to see her suck his cock and watch him fuck her. Early that Friday morning, he called us and asked me if it was okay for him to invite his best friend to join us, as his friend always liked her and found her unbelievably sexy. Well, my cock overrode my brain and I instantly said yes.

Soon after, I had many second thoughts. It was bad enough that he was her previous boyfriend, but now I would be outnumbered. As I saw it, there was a small chance that this was the perfect setup for him to seek revenge, as I had pretty much stolen her away from him. At the same time, I could not see how I could call off the big event, as my wife was eager for it to happen, especially as a new cock was in the offering.

I decided that I had to play safe, real safe. I would not join in, but only watch, while fully clothed and armed. None of my handguns were suitable for conceal carry, so I borrowed a smaller pistol from a friend, along with its special holster.

We arrived early at her ex's house. I had never met him before; short and skinny, he didn't look threatening at all. We were roughly the same age, yet I thought he looked five to six years younger. He seemed pleasant enough, but very nervous, which made me nervous. He was making mixed drinks, which I completely declined, explaining that I had lots of driving still ahead of me. Actually, I didn't want to risk being drugged.

His best friend showed up, and he, too, was short, but not anywhere as thin. I noted his wedding ring. I towered over the two men and my hidden weapon only emboldened my natural alpha attitude and demeanor. I concluded that I had nothing to fear; indeed, I concluded that I could easily take out both men with no weapons other than my hands. Nonetheless, I explained that I would only watch the three of them, not partake in the sex. She was disappointed, but they seemed relieved, especially her ex-boyfriend. I picked the chair in a corner, so no one could sneak up behind me, just in case he had a second friend (or friends) hidden in his house.

I watched the three of undress and romp. Her ex came once, while his friend came twice—all of the loads were bareback and all shot inside her vagina. Everything went fantastically well, which made me feel silly for my fears of potential harm. Afterwards, his best friend thanked me for the best night of his life and left, as her ex drove off to buy pizza. While she showered, her ex thanked me profusely for the opportunity to fuck her again, revealing to me that I could not imagine how often he thought of her naked body as he was fucking his girlfriend.

He offered to let us spend the night at his home, which we accepted. The three of us slept in his king-size bed, after she had her second threesome. I remember the bed shaking me awake, as her ex fucked her in the middle of the night. I remember my confusion in the dark, as my brain sought answers to why the bed was shaking rhythmically. Amazingly, I fell back asleep before they finished. In the morning, he fucked her one last time.

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Unread post by MarknSusan » Tue Nov 28, 2023 8:23 am

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Twice, in fact. I posted about the first occurrence here: viewtopic.php?f=46&t=69810

Many decades ago, since we needed a break, my wife and I decided to take a small two-day vacation on the upcoming weekend. As we made plans, she asked me if we might be able also to find a new man to fuck her on this trip. (We had tried to invent "hotwifing" before it existed.) I loved the idea, but the logistics were all wrong. We didn't have enough time to buy a swinger newspaper and go through personal ads and write letters and wait for replies. (This was before the internet took over. If you were super lucky, the as would hold a phone number.)

Moreover, where we were traveling was sparsely populated, making suitable candidates all the harder to find. She mentioned that we would, however, be travelling through the town that her ex-boyfriend lived in and that he would certainly love to fuck her again. I listened with mixed emotions, as I loved to watch her being fucked by another man, but I was not at all sure that he was the right man. He was, in fact, her boyfriend prior to meeting me.

I asked her if he would want me there with us having a threesome. She was sure he would, as he was super kinky. After some more talking, I gave her the okay to call him. She did call and he did welcome our visiting him that Friday night. I still wasn't sure that this was a good idea, but I also longed to see her suck his cock and watch him fuck her. Early that Friday morning, he called us and asked me if it was okay for him to invite his best friend to join us, as his friend always liked her and found her unbelievably sexy. Well, my cock overrode my brain and I instantly said yes.

Soon after, I had many second thoughts. It was bad enough that he was her previous boyfriend, but now I would be outnumbered. As I saw it, there was a small chance that this was the perfect setup for him to seek revenge, as I had pretty much stolen her away from him. At the same time, I could not see how I could call off the big event, as my wife was eager for it to happen, especially as a new cock was in the offering.

I decided that I had to play safe, real safe. I would not join in, but only watch, while fully clothed and armed. None of my handguns were suitable for conceal carry, so I borrowed a smaller pistol from a friend, along with its special holster.

We arrived early at her ex's house. I had never met him before; short and skinny, he didn't look threatening at all. We were roughly the same age, yet I thought he looked five to six years younger. He seemed pleasant enough, but very nervous, which made me nervous. He was making mixed drinks, which I completely declined, explaining that I had lots of driving still ahead of me. Actually, I didn't want to risk being drugged.

His best friend showed up, and he, too, was short, but not anywhere as thin. I noted his wedding ring. I towered over the two men and my hidden weapon only emboldened my natural alpha attitude and demeanor. I concluded that I had nothing to fear; indeed, I concluded that I could easily take out both men with no weapons other than my hands. Nonetheless, I explained that I would only watch the three of them, not partake in the sex. She was disappointed, but they seemed relieved, especially her ex-boyfriend. I picked the chair in a corner, so no one could sneak up behind me, just in case he had a second friend (or friends) hidden in his house.

I watched the three of undress and romp. Her ex came once, while his friend came twice—all of the loads were bareback and all shot inside her vagina. Everything went fantastically well, which made me feel silly for my fears of potential harm. Afterwards, his best friend thanked me for the best night of his life and left, as her ex drove off to buy pizza. While she showered, her ex thanked me profusely for the opportunity to fuck her again, revealing to me that I could not imagine how often he thought of her naked body as he was fucking his girlfriend.

He offered to let us spend the night at his home, which we accepted. The three of us slept in his king-size bed, after she had her second threesome. I remember the bed shaking me awake, as her ex fucked her in the middle of the night. I remember my confusion in the dark, as my brain sought answers to why the bed was shaking rhythmically. Amazingly, I fell back asleep before they finished. In the morning, he fucked her one last time.
That was hot!

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Unread post by Mr Stag » Tue Nov 28, 2023 2:28 pm

MarknSusan wrote:
Tue Nov 28, 2023 8:23 am
Mr Stag wrote:
Tue Nov 28, 2023 8:17 am
Twice, in fact. I posted about the first occurrence here: viewtopic.php?f=46&t=69810

Many decades ago, since we needed a break, my wife and I decided to take a small two-day vacation on the upcoming weekend. As we made plans, she asked me if we might be able also to find a new man to fuck her on this trip. (We had tried to invent "hotwifing" before it existed.) I loved the idea, but the logistics were all wrong. We didn't have enough time to buy a swinger newspaper and go through personal ads and write letters and wait for replies. (This was before the internet took over. If you were super lucky, the as would hold a phone number.)

That was hot!
Thanks. When we arrived at our hotel Saturday afternoon, we went for lunch there. We tried to tally about the total number of loads inside her. (It was seven or eight.) She was more thrilled, however, by the fact she contained three men's semen in her body, which made her feel extra sexy and sluty.

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Unread post by MarknSusan » Tue Nov 28, 2023 3:53 pm

Mr Stag wrote:
Tue Nov 28, 2023 2:28 pm
MarknSusan wrote:
Tue Nov 28, 2023 8:23 am
Mr Stag wrote:
Tue Nov 28, 2023 8:17 am
Twice, in fact. I posted about the first occurrence here: viewtopic.php?f=46&t=69810

Many decades ago, since we needed a break, my wife and I decided to take a small two-day vacation on the upcoming weekend. As we made plans, she asked me if we might be able also to find a new man to fuck her on this trip. (We had tried to invent "hotwifing" before it existed.) I loved the idea, but the logistics were all wrong. We didn't have enough time to buy a swinger newspaper and go through personal ads and write letters and wait for replies. (This was before the internet took over. If you were super lucky, the as would hold a phone number.)

That was hot!
Thanks. When we arrived at our hotel Saturday afternoon, we went for lunch there. We tried to tally about the total number of loads inside her. (It was seven or eight.) She was more thrilled, however, by the fact she contained three men's semen in her body, which made her feel extra sexy and sluty.
And the story gets even hotter! Thanks for adding those comments!

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Re: Anyone successfully contacted their wife's ex from years ago?

Unread post by LawyerWouldbeCuckold » Tue Nov 28, 2023 4:18 pm

Well.....IMHO....

1. I'm not even IN this lifestyle, and given my current lack of a romantic relationship, it's questionable that I'll ever be joining it.....

AND....

2. My advice is worth exactly what you are paying for it, so listen up.....

Sometimes (and this applies to other relationships, not just romantic ones), it's better to let sleeping dogs lie. Some things (in particular, old relationships, and sometimes old friendships or family relationships were people have just drifted apart and remained separate, not just for years, but decades....) are best left undisturbed.

In the OP's case....this was thirty years ago.

I doubt your wife is the same person she was at that time. I doubt he's the same person he was at that time.

Unless she's somehow evinced an interest or desire to see him again, I would not contact him. But that is just me.

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Unread post by MarknSusan » Wed Nov 29, 2023 5:49 am

Hedonistcouple have you made any progress?

I noticed some comments here on how people change over the years and my wife’s experiance with a past lover for the first time in more than 40 years had some interesting thing she learned. If you’d like me to PM you and just post it here and I can share her experiance…good and some not as good.

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Unread post by DaveS » Wed Nov 29, 2023 6:33 am

It was my wife's desire to have a polyamorous relationship with a former boyfriend that led us to open our marriage. He was in an open marriage already and when they happened to reconnect concerning a mutual friend's situation, he explained this to my wife and told her that he would really love to date her again in a poly situation if I would agree to it. My wife was really excited about this possibility (her ex was very well endowed and an excellent lover) and eventually convinced me to go along with it. I was initially very resistant to the idea but finally conceded, in part because I am several years older than her. Eventually, after a couple of years of fucking her at least once a week, her boyfriend's wife got pregnant, and they decided to close their marriage. By that time, we were both open to the idea of an open marriage (and I had a casual fwb), so we set up a couple of MFM threesomes (as her boyfriend was not interested in threesomes or being watched - although I did secretly listen in a few times) - and that had become a big fantasy for her. The second of the men we had a 3some with ended up being her new boyfriend (and still is, for over 3 years now. He is single and fucks her 2 or 3 times a week as his only sexual partner). About a year or so ago, her first poly boyfriend approached her again - and while she would not commit to an ongoing relationship with him again (being quite happy with her new boyfriend) - she did fuck him the day he stopped by to ask her about it (she was home alone) - and she now fucks him once a month or so for fun and variety (but without telling her new bf, who would be quite jealous of her fucking anyone else but me).

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Unread post by MarknSusan » Wed Nov 29, 2023 7:33 am

DaveS that’s a very interesting story. It shares a few similarities to how my wife and I began. Thank you for sharing this with us.

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Unread post by DaveS » Wed Nov 29, 2023 1:17 pm

MarknSusan wrote:
Wed Nov 29, 2023 7:33 am
DaveS that’s a very interesting story. It shares a few similarities to how my wife and I began. Thank you for sharing this with us.
Thanks for the kind words. Do you have a link to your story somewhere here on OHW?

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Unread post by MarknSusan » Wed Nov 29, 2023 2:06 pm

DaveS, I began posting in the hotties section about 3 years ago and at this point I think there’s about 23 pages which could possibly overwhelm you..LOL. But I do explain our journey along with pics. The post is Some Images of Susan.

The cliff notes version is before we got married my wife told me she would always love the guy that got her cherry (her words). So we made an agreement that if she ever wanted to hook up with him again it was ok as long as she told me and didn’t cheat or lie to me. As a result, she had an on/off relationship with him for more than 30 years. And Susan and I have continued to love each other more than anything in the world.

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Unread post by DaveS » Thu Nov 30, 2023 6:01 am

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Wed Nov 29, 2023 2:06 pm
DaveS, I began posting in the hotties section about 3 years ago and at this point I think there’s about 23 pages which could possibly overwhelm you..LOL. But I do explain our journey along with pics. The post is Some Images of Susan.

The cliff notes version is before we got married my wife told me she would always love the guy that got her cherry (her words). So we made an agreement that if she ever wanted to hook up with him again it was ok as long as she told me and didn’t cheat or lie to me. As a result, she had an on/off relationship with him for more than 30 years. And Susan and I have continued to love each other more than anything in the world.
Thanks for the overview. I will have to make it a point to look up the Hotties thread when time permits. I did notice the pics of Susan on the recent "outdoor thread" in the Hotties section - very sexy lady you have.

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Unread post by snoogaloo82 » Thu Nov 30, 2023 6:12 am

DaveS wrote:
Thu Nov 30, 2023 6:01 am
MarknSusan wrote:
Wed Nov 29, 2023 2:06 pm
DaveS, I began posting in the hotties section about 3 years ago and at this point I think there’s about 23 pages which could possibly overwhelm you..LOL. But I do explain our journey along with pics. The post is Some Images of Susan.

The cliff notes version is before we got married my wife told me she would always love the guy that got her cherry (her words). So we made an agreement that if she ever wanted to hook up with him again it was ok as long as she told me and didn’t cheat or lie to me. As a result, she had an on/off relationship with him for more than 30 years. And Susan and I have continued to love each other more than anything in the world.
Thanks for the overview. I will have to make it a point to look up the Hotties thread when time permits. I did notice the pics of Susan on the recent "outdoor thread" in the Hotties section - very sexy lady you have.
I would have to agree
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Unread post by Tank Turner » Fri Dec 01, 2023 1:11 pm

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Remember the old adage: Ex's are Ex's for a reason. Don't reopen Pandora's Box.
^^^That is the right answer^^^

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Unread post by Tank Turner » Fri Dec 01, 2023 1:18 pm

My wife and I have run across 2 boyfriends she dated long before we met. After she introduced me to them as her husband, it was obvious that they used to fuck her by trying to act as though they were not her girlfriend. I didn't give a shit.

My wife ran across a former boyfriend while she was shopping at a mall. He hit on her. I couldn't fault him. I'm sure she was the best sex he ever had. My wife shut him down.

My wife has told me more that once with complete conviction that she had no desire to fuck any dudes she fucked before we met.

When women are done and over with men they used to date, there's no going back for them.

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Unread post by snoogaloo82 » Sat Dec 02, 2023 12:17 am

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Fri Dec 01, 2023 1:18 pm
My wife and I have run across 2 boyfriends she dated long before we met. After she introduced me to them as her husband, it was obvious that they used to fuck her by trying to act as though they were not her girlfriend. I didn't give a shit.

My wife ran across a former boyfriend while she was shopping at a mall. He hit on her. I couldn't fault him. I'm sure she was the best sex he ever had. My wife shut him down.

My wife has told me more that once with complete conviction that she had no desire to fuck any dudes she fucked before we met.

When women are done and over with men they used to date, there's no going back for them.
Except for the girlfriend i used to have who we left each other and then come back for each other. lol
Then again...she's long gone, so who am I to judge. :lol: lol
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Unread post by DaveS » Sat Dec 02, 2023 6:10 am

I posted earlier about how my wife's first poly boyfriend was an ex-lover from before we were married - and who still fucks her once a month or so even though my wife now has a different "steady" poly boyfriend (who she fucks a couple of times a week). Just a few months ago she also hooked up with another former lover while at a business convention. He was and still is a "happily married man" that my wife had an office fling with before she and I started dating. Later, he transferred to another office a few hundred miles away, so they do not see each other often. I posted this story to another thread about convention hookups in the stag/vixen forum - but will repost it here.
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Well, my oh my, it seems that a slim chance is better than no chance. I am still in a bit of shock - really would never have guessed that she would take me up on my suggestion to pick us a guy at the convention. It turns out that one of her old lovers, Craig, was at the conference she was attending (they worked together and had a brief office fling shortly before she met me. He was/is a "happily married man" so they both knew their fling was just for fun). And she ended up taking him back to her room last night for an encore performance. It seems that between my suggestion and encouragement, and running into Craig (who she remembered as an excellent, considerate lover with a nice endowment) she just could not resist the temptation when Craig came onto her last night after the business dinner presentation.

Around 9pm, my wife texted me to tell me that she had run into Craig (I knew the name, and that he was a former lover) and that he had invited her to the bar for a drink to catch up - and wanted to make sure that I would really be ok if they ended up in bed together. I told her "absolutely - and that I hoped she had a great time!" . I have lived the last few years with her routinely fucking her poly boyfriends so there was no real angst - but absolutely some excitement about her fucking someone different, even if he was a former lover - especially at a hotel on a business trip. It was just a really hot thought - really her first true "hotwife" experience (sex with someone else besides me and her poly boyfriends.)

Less than an hour later she texted me that she was taking him up to her room. An hour after that she texted me: "Your wife has been well fucked, came three times. Sure round 2 will be coming in a while." A couple of hours after that - after midnight - she texted me that round 2 was even better and that she was absolutely full of cum - and that she had cum twice more. And they were going to spend the night in his room in case his wife happened to call his room. The next morning she texted me that they had fucked a third time at 6AM - and although tired, she had cum again - before she came back to her room to get ready for the rest of the conference.

She is leaving the conference as I type this and will be back late afternoon. She has already arranged to fuck Ben at our house as soon as she gets back to town. And she arranged for her ex poly boyfriend to come over and fuck her around 9 tonight - after which I will get to fuck her - with three other mens' cum inside her. She said she just couldn't pass up the chance to fuck 4 men in a 24 hour period - especially since she is normally "faithful" to Bill (and me) - and added that "what Bill doesn't know want hurt him - he's still going to get this pussy whenever he wants it".

I'm looking forward to hearing all the specific details later and to the events coming up later today. I'm sure I will watch Bill fuck her today, and I will get to overhear her ex fuck her (he doesn't like to be watched - but she will be extra loud for me. :) ).

(Note: Her agenda went as planned and by the end of the day, had four men's cum inside her). :)

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Unread post by snoogaloo82 » Sat Dec 02, 2023 6:16 am

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Sat Dec 02, 2023 6:10 am
I posted earlier about how my wife's first poly boyfriend was an ex-lover from before we were married - and who still fucks her once a month or so even though my wife now has a different "steady" poly boyfriend (who she fucks a couple of times a week). Just a few months ago she also hooked up with another former lover while at a business convention. He was and still is a "happily married man" that my wife had an office fling with before she and I started dating. Later, he transferred to another office a few hundred miles away, so they do not see each other often. I posted this story to another thread about convention hookups in the stag/vixen forum - but will repost it here.
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Well, my oh my, it seems that a slim chance is better than no chance. I am still in a bit of shock - really would never have guessed that she would take me up on my suggestion to pick us a guy at the convention. It turns out that one of her old lovers, Craig, was at the conference she was attending (they worked together and had a brief office fling shortly before she met me. He was/is a "happily married man" so they both knew their fling was just for fun). And she ended up taking him back to her room last night for an encore performance. It seems that between my suggestion and encouragement, and running into Craig (who she remembered as an excellent, considerate lover with a nice endowment) she just could not resist the temptation when Craig came onto her last night after the business dinner presentation.

Around 9pm, my wife texted me to tell me that she had run into Craig (I knew the name, and that he was a former lover) and that he had invited her to the bar for a drink to catch up - and wanted to make sure that I would really be ok if they ended up in bed together. I told her "absolutely - and that I hoped she had a great time!" . I have lived the last few years with her routinely fucking her poly boyfriends so there was no real angst - but absolutely some excitement about her fucking someone different, even if he was a former lover - especially at a hotel on a business trip. It was just a really hot thought - really her first true "hotwife" experience (sex with someone else besides me and her poly boyfriends.)

Less than an hour later she texted me that she was taking him up to her room. An hour after that she texted me: "Your wife has been well fucked, came three times. Sure round 2 will be coming in a while." A couple of hours after that - after midnight - she texted me that round 2 was even better and that she was absolutely full of cum - and that she had cum twice more. And they were going to spend the night in his room in case his wife happened to call his room. The next morning she texted me that they had fucked a third time at 6AM - and although tired, she had cum again - before she came back to her room to get ready for the rest of the conference.

She is leaving the conference as I type this and will be back late afternoon. She has already arranged to fuck Ben at our house as soon as she gets back to town. And she arranged for her ex poly boyfriend to come over and fuck her around 9 tonight - after which I will get to fuck her - with three other mens' cum inside her. She said she just couldn't pass up the chance to fuck 4 men in a 24 hour period - especially since she is normally "faithful" to Bill (and me) - and added that "what Bill doesn't know want hurt him - he's still going to get this pussy whenever he wants it".

I'm looking forward to hearing all the specific details later and to the events coming up later today. I'm sure I will watch Bill fuck her today, and I will get to overhear her ex fuck her (he doesn't like to be watched - but she will be extra loud for me. :) ).

(Note: Her agenda went as planned and by the end of the day, had four men's cum inside her). :)
Four has a nice round sound to it! What a hard "worker" she is!! ;)
My sweetie, Marion, and I are no longer together.
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Re: Anyone successfully contacted their wife's ex from years ago?

Unread post by MarknSusan » Sat Dec 02, 2023 8:05 am

Dang it DaveS! You have an exciting wife and fun life! Thanks for sharing these experiences with us.

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Re: Anyone successfully contacted their wife's ex from years ago?

Unread post by Wesley Hudson Valley » Sat Dec 02, 2023 9:11 am

Social media has made it extremely easy for an ex boyfriend to reach out and contact a wife.

On my wife’s social media it seems like most of her ex boyfriends have been successful in contacting her and becoming friends with her online. A wonderful situation

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Re: Anyone successfully contacted their wife's ex from years ago?

Unread post by LawyerWouldbeCuckold » Sat Dec 02, 2023 9:35 am

Tank Turner wrote:
Fri Dec 01, 2023 1:18 pm
My wife and I have run across 2 boyfriends she dated long before we met. After she introduced me to them as her husband, it was obvious that they used to fuck her by trying to act as though they were not her girlfriend. I didn't give a shit.

My wife ran across a former boyfriend while she was shopping at a mall. He hit on her. I couldn't fault him. I'm sure she was the best sex he ever had. My wife shut him down.

My wife has told me more that once with complete conviction that she had no desire to fuck any dudes she fucked before we met.

When women are done and over with men they used to date, there's no going back for them.
I think that's a good point; and for the most part, accurate. I mean, there are exceptions to every "rule", but when I think about the women I was in relationships with previously, even if I ran across them again and they were single, I'm not sure they would want to take a ride down memory lane, for lack of a better term.

But when it comes to ethical non-monogamy....some (not all) bets are off. There's more than a few posters on this thread and others were an ex has come back into the picture.

There's no one-size-fits-all. Everyone has to find out what works in their own dynamic.

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Re: Anyone successfully contacted their wife's ex from years ago?

Unread post by MarknSusan » Sat Dec 02, 2023 4:36 pm

LawyerWouldbeCuckold wrote:
Sat Dec 02, 2023 9:35 am
Tank Turner wrote:
Fri Dec 01, 2023 1:18 pm
My wife and I have run across 2 boyfriends she dated long before we met. After she introduced me to them as her husband, it was obvious that they used to fuck her by trying to act as though they were not her girlfriend. I didn't give a shit.

My wife ran across a former boyfriend while she was shopping at a mall. He hit on her. I couldn't fault him. I'm sure she was the best sex he ever had. My wife shut him down.

My wife has told me more that once with complete conviction that she had no desire to fuck any dudes she fucked before we met.

When women are done and over with men they used to date, there's no going back for them.
I think that's a good point; and for the most part, accurate. I mean, there are exceptions to every "rule", but when I think about the women I was in relationships with previously, even if I ran across them again and they were single, I'm not sure they would want to take a ride down memory lane, for lack of a better term.

But when it comes to ethical non-monogamy....some (not all) bets are off. There's more than a few posters on this thread and others were an ex has come back into the picture.

There's no one-size-fits-all. Everyone has to find out what works in their own dynamic.
IMO….LawyerWouldbeCuckold your last sentence accurately describes pretty much all NM relationships.

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Re: Anyone successfully contacted their wife's ex from years ago?

Unread post by LawyerWouldbeCuckold » Sat Dec 02, 2023 4:40 pm

MarknSusan wrote:
Sat Dec 02, 2023 4:36 pm
LawyerWouldbeCuckold wrote:
Sat Dec 02, 2023 9:35 am
Tank Turner wrote:
Fri Dec 01, 2023 1:18 pm
My wife and I have run across 2 boyfriends she dated long before we met. After she introduced me to them as her husband, it was obvious that they used to fuck her by trying to act as though they were not her girlfriend. I didn't give a shit.

My wife ran across a former boyfriend while she was shopping at a mall. He hit on her. I couldn't fault him. I'm sure she was the best sex he ever had. My wife shut him down.

My wife has told me more that once with complete conviction that she had no desire to fuck any dudes she fucked before we met.

When women are done and over with men they used to date, there's no going back for them.
I think that's a good point; and for the most part, accurate. I mean, there are exceptions to every "rule", but when I think about the women I was in relationships with previously, even if I ran across them again and they were single, I'm not sure they would want to take a ride down memory lane, for lack of a better term.

But when it comes to ethical non-monogamy....some (not all) bets are off. There's more than a few posters on this thread and others were an ex has come back into the picture.

There's no one-size-fits-all. Everyone has to find out what works in their own dynamic.
IMO….LawyerWouldbeCuckold your last sentence accurately describes pretty much all NM relationships.
I appreciate the compliment...especially since I'm not in ANY relationship right now, either M or NM......lol.....broke up with my fiancee about a year ago; on the prowl, but have not found anyone yet; and also wanting to make sure I don't get into a "rebound" situation.

TY again for the compliment.

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