Potentially the Start

[Deepdownwannabe]

So what happened this morning before she left for work? She told me they were actually staying at a hotel for the party downtown. That was in my head watching her leave for work, a suitcase and garment bag accompanying her.

[grnlght]

~Crickets~

[BallSpanking]

Deepdownwannabe ..., is this what you envisioned?

[Maddie_Hippychick]

DDW, what are your plans for the night? What time do you expect to see your wife tomorrow.

I’d suggest that you do something special for yourself. Maybe go out for a great steak dinner, or get yourself a stupid expensive bottle of whiskey, maybe a shopping spree, or high-end spa/massage. Reward yourself with something nice. You’ve been so supportive of your wife, I’m sure she would agree, you deserve it.

[Deepdownwannabe]

The text I received tonight threw me for a bit. "I know you are always present when I get ready, so here's a few pics of me getting set for the party. Love you." And with it came a collection of photos that she clearly did not take. What looked like a nice hotel room, they were of her getting ready, just as she said. A pic of her in the shower, the steamed glass not really hiding her nudity. Wearing the bottom half of her garters and stockings, leaning into the mirror putting on makeup. The full lingerie outfit, smiling for the camera. And finally, the complete outfit, the classy sexy look that she has been perfecting lately. She was teasing for sure and she seemed to really enjoy that. "Good night cuck".

[David52]

No sign of your key?

[David52]

No sign of your key?

[KevDi69]

Hot update.

You do realize that this time of year most hotels only book for two night stays, don’t you? You may not see her until Sunday evening.

[Deepdownwannabe]

I can't help but say this one I am feeling. It is very early in the morning here, we got several inches of snow last night, I can't sleep and nothing heard since I got the pictures last night. And yes she did have her anklet on with her key. It was visible in the full lingerie picture.

I'm not sure why tonight is hitting me more than others. It is definitely a cuckish feeling, which I know she promised would happen.

[snoogaloo82]

I can't help but say this one I am feeling. It is very early in the morning here, we got several inches of snow last night, I can't sleep and nothing heard since I got the pictures last night. And yes she did have her anklet on with her key. It was visible in the full lingerie picture.

I'm not sure why tonight is hitting me more than others. It is definitely a cuckish feeling, which I know she promised would happen.

For me it took a little while, but I finally got used to the feeling. Once I knew that she'll always love me no matter what I felt much easier, but not completely...it never fully goes away, but it definitely lessens.

[Deepdownwannabe]

I heard today after she got home that the strangest thing she heard was being introduced to the people at the party as his girlfriend, but she got accustomed to it, even saying it herself a few times. It seems he is a fairly well respected guy in the company, one that most people wanted to talk to at some point in the evening. And he was not shy in introducing her around. She said it was a fun night. She never said anything about sex last night.

[8toplaywith]

Hopefully he shared her with his boss and she's not sure how to break it to you.

[lockedhappyhubby]

Well, Welcome to cuck hubby life, her text "good night cuck" sealed it for you my friend, enjoy your wife's new found freedom.
Do your best keeping the communication between you two open and honest, this is for both of you.
Cheers.

[FFDriver]

Contrary to what a lot of your followers "were hoping for," my take is this was your 'standard company Christmas party.' I don't suspect there was swinging from the chandeliers, nude women swapping mates for the night, etcetera.

I imagine she decked herself out as Very attractive, albeit a tiny bit conservative. Certainly the key was visible on the anklet, but her outward appearance was 'his girlfriend.' I'm reminded of Sage Advice my dad gave me, many eons ago: "Son, don't get your meat where you get your potatoes."

It seems from what you've written in the past, she doesn't provide the in-depth review of their time together until later or the next day. That seems to come after she takes you to the bedroom and works whatever magic on you she has planned. As for their night after the party, I'm guessing it was sensuous, rather than wild and erotic. (Maybe the 2nd or 3rd time, but not the first).

I suspect that he's moving forward at her pace. He might provide the innuendos, but then he watches her reaction and moves her slowly as she becomes more comfortable with this dynamic.

While you're experiencing all the expected cuckold anxieties and wonderment, I'm sensing that she's protected and safe with him and he's taking care of her.

OK, DDW, that's my take. The starter's thrown the green flag, the roar of the engines is overwhelming... what happened when they arrived at turn one?

[Long Lurker 34]

I heard today after she got home that the strangest thing she heard was being introduced to the people at the party as his girlfriend, but she got accustomed to it, even saying it herself a few times. It seems he is a fairly well respected guy in the company, one that most people wanted to talk to at some point in the evening. And he was not shy in introducing her around. She said it was a fun night. She never said anything about sex last night.

DDW - She may have heard and even said it herself about being his GF, but how did she feel about it? Is she going to go with that or say to him to not call her that?

[Deepdownwannabe]

Nothing was really added about the party. It was a normal Christmas party, not the debauchery hoped for here. As for the girlfriend reference, she said while it was strange hearing it, she was fine with it.

[mundyman]

Nothing was really added about the party. It was a normal Christmas party, not the debauchery hoped for here. As for the girlfriend reference, she said while it was strange hearing it, she was fine with it.

This sounds like the beginning of your(plural) entrance into the next level of cuckolding. She will get ready for dates at his house, extend her stays at his house from Friday after work to some time on Sunday. She may, or may not, tell you the details of their plans for the weekend, she may, or may not, share with you the details of what they did on the weekend, and you’ll need to be ok with whatever details she does share; and how often.
It does appear that for now you have moved from a relationship where you are her full time husband 7 days a week, to now being her full time husband maybe 5 days a week and having a full time boyfriend the other days. She is compartmentalizing her life between who she is with you, and who she is with him and keeping those lives very separate.
It comes up every once in a while on here how wives enjoy the ability to leave their regular, domestic lives and live a life of a single woman dating and romancing and fucking another. A mini break or vacation from you and the every day relationship grind. Throw in her dominance over you, which she is totally getting off on, and she is living her best life right now.

Good luck, I hope you are getting what you wished for.

[Deepdownwannabe]

Nothing was really added about the party. It was a normal Christmas party, not the debauchery hoped for here. As for the girlfriend reference, she said while it was strange hearing it, she was fine with it.

This sounds like the beginning of your(plural) entrance into the next level of cuckolding. She will get ready for dates at his house, extend her stays at his house from Friday after work to some time on Sunday. She may, or may not, tell you the details of their plans for the weekend, she may, or may not, share with you the details of what they did on the weekend, and you’ll need to be ok with whatever details she does share; and how often.
It does appear that for now you have moved from a relationship where you are her full time husband 7 days a week, to now being her full time husband maybe 5 days a week and having a full time boyfriend the other days. She is compartmentalizing her life between who she is with you, and who she is with him and keeping those lives very separate.
It comes up every once in a while on here how wives enjoy the ability to leave their regular, domestic lives and live a life of a single woman dating and romancing and fucking another. A mini break or vacation from you and the every day relationship grind. Throw in her dominance over you, which she is totally getting off on, and she is living her best life right now.

Good luck, I hope you are getting what you wished for.

I'm well aware that this is (or already has) morphed into something that was not just a little game at the beginning. Whether or not this is as you say, the case of a woman getting to leave her life for a short period or not, I don't know. I think that became clear when she said she was going to end it but then decided she was actually enjoying herself. And it is very present the fact she is happy. I can see it. Whether it is the sex or the mindplay I don't know but she is happy. I never knew this woman even existed.

[mundyman]

Nothing was really added about the party. It was a normal Christmas party, not the debauchery hoped for here. As for the girlfriend reference, she said while it was strange hearing it, she was fine with it.

This sounds like the beginning of your(plural) entrance into the next level of cuckolding. She will get ready for dates at his house, extend her stays at his house from Friday after work to some time on Sunday. She may, or may not, tell you the details of their plans for the weekend, she may, or may not, share with you the details of what they did on the weekend, and you’ll need to be ok with whatever details she does share; and how often.
It does appear that for now you have moved from a relationship where you are her full time husband 7 days a week, to now being her full time husband maybe 5 days a week and having a full time boyfriend the other days. She is compartmentalizing her life between who she is with you, and who she is with him and keeping those lives very separate.
It comes up every once in a while on here how wives enjoy the ability to leave their regular, domestic lives and live a life of a single woman dating and romancing and fucking another. A mini break or vacation from you and the every day relationship grind. Throw in her dominance over you, which she is totally getting off on, and she is living her best life right now.

Good luck, I hope you are getting what you wished for.

I'm well aware that this is (or already has) morphed into something that was not just a little game at the beginning. Whether or not this is as you say, the case of a woman getting to leave her life for a short period or not, I don't know. I think that became clear when she said she was going to end it but then decided she was actually enjoying herself. And it is very present the fact she is happy. I can see it. Whether it is the sex or the mindplay I don't know but she is happy. I never knew this woman even existed.

You never sound very happy, nor that you’re enjoying this.

[kinkydetroit]

DDW, I am really enjoying your journey. Your thread is the first one I check when I go to OHW.

I sympathize with your observation, " I never knew this woman even existed." We have been at the cuckold lifestyle for some 15 years. It is always hard to have real life cuckolding scripts follow one's fantasies. In the case of cuckolding we are giving up control yet expecting that the script will follow the script we wrote in our head. The BDSM folks call that "topping from below". I guess there must be some reason why one of the most popular phrases in cuckolding is, "be careful what you wish for". My script never had me doing cleanup or a scene with a cock in my mouth nor being PIV free for 4 years now. At this point some of the reactions you are having seem to fit what we call "cuckold angst".

Over the last 14 browser pages you have described a stable long term relationship that you are both committed to. You have admitted your interest in becoming your wife's cuckold and she has researched the lifestyle and agreed to help you live out your fantasy. This is a dream come true for the thousands of men that have similar fantasies. At this point trust that you have put the decision making in her hands and enjoy the ride. It will undoubtedly have some twist and turns that were not in your script, but go with the flow, you might find that you enjoy them.

[grnlght]

~Crickets~

[realcucklife]

With dinner dates like that I would be looking from lots of date nights.

[Deepdownwannabe]

Last night she brought her vibrator to bed again. Her foreplay consisted of telling me how she knows her sex drive has gone up, and how it was a shame I had to be locked, although I could still make myself useful. Before I knew it she was cumming with my head between her legs and her vibrator at work. For me though? No release, and no hint of it.

[grnlght]

I guess for now your just a living sex toy for her use when she needs to orgasm, i hope that fills your sexual needs. ~Batteries not included~

[grnlght]

~Crickets~