Cuckolding him from day 1

[NotTellingHim]

Hi everyone, I have been viewing this forum for over a decade.

My ex boyfriend wanted me to cuckold him and I did so many many times over the years and we had lots of fun.

Unfortunately we split up about 5 years ago (grew apart) and my current boyfriend has not expressed any interest in this lifestyle at all but I have also never asked him directly and to be honest I don’t plan to either.

My ex helped me discover how much I enjoy cheating (we had a deal that I could play as long as I didn’t say and didn’t shower if I did). So that kink is now very much a part of my psyche and a part of my current relationship too.

Thing is my boyfriend does not know that he is being cuckolded and it makes me so crazy excited every darn time I do it.

When we first met, I explained to him that I have a huge drive and find monogamy impossible and luckily he agreed that I could have a “fling” whenever I felt that was needed but he said if I did he doesn’t want to know about it ever.

For me that was a green light to cuck him forever…probably not what he meant but it works for me.

Hypercritically, if I even suspected he was thinking of cheating, we would be having a serious talk.

My biggest turn on when seeing another guy is cutting it as close as possible and it has led to some very very exciting times for me.

We have been together 4 years and from the very start. I made a rule that if he cums in me, then he must go down on me right after or a bit later and that will make me cum too.

This simple rule has made it incredibly easy to cuck him and I could not be happier.

I decided to share my story to see if anyone else here is like me and also to see if you would like to hear about some of my adventures?

I’m quite open to any questions but will be using fake names and locations.

Miss L

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum NotTellingHim. How close have you fucked him after fucking someone else? If he is fucking you with a load of cum in you he knows and likes it. Amazing how many men love it. The usually have to grow into it but it is pretty powerful once it does. He probably just hasn't told you for some reason. Both of you are afraid of the other's reaction.

[Teensy1]

Sounds like you’ve been given the green light. Question is, is it more exciting if he knows? He said he doesn’t want to. Would you still cuck him if you couldn’t tell him?

[brutay2]

Hi everyone, I have been viewing this forum for over a decade.

My ex boyfriend wanted me to cuckold him and I did so many many times over the years and we had lots of fun.

Unfortunately we split up about 5 years ago (grew apart) and my current boyfriend has not expressed any interest in this lifestyle at all but I have also never asked him directly and to be honest I don’t plan to either.

My ex helped me discover how much I enjoy cheating (we had a deal that I could play as long as I didn’t say and didn’t shower if I did). So that kink is now very much a part of my psyche and a part of my current relationship too.

Thing is my boyfriend does not know that he is being cuckolded and it makes me so crazy excited every darn time I do it.

When we first met, I explained to him that I have a huge drive and find monogamy impossible and luckily he agreed that I could have a “fling” whenever I felt that was needed but he said if I did he doesn’t want to know about it ever.

For me that was a green light to cuck him forever…probably not what he meant but it works for me.

Hypercritically, if I even suspected he was thinking of cheating, we would be having a serious talk.

My biggest turn on when seeing another guy is cutting it as close as possible and it has led to some very very exciting times for me.

We have been together 4 years and from the very start. I made a rule that if he cums in me, then he must go down on me right after or a bit later and that will make me cum too.

This simple rule has made it incredibly easy to cuck him and I could not be happier.
If you are happy with this arrangement then I would say don't rock the boat.

I decided to share my story to see if anyone else here is like me and also to see if you would like to hear about some of my adventures?

I’m quite open to any questions but will be using fake names and locations.

Miss L

If you are happy with this arrangement then I would say don't rock the boat.

[hubudig2]

Wow, I've always heard stories about women that like to do this and have been curious about it but have never actually found anyone to ask about it.
I'd love to hear about some of your adventures.
I would say that if he's given you permission to cheat, then it's fine.
You were clear about it from the start, he agreed to your terms and you've agreed to his by not telling him about it.
There's a chance he'd be turned on if he knew about it but I guess he's not come to terms with the jealousy of it yet.
I'm sure he hasn't forgotten what he agreed to, maybe he'll bring up the subject when he's ready.
It would be difficult for you to bring up the subject without alluding to the fact that you're cheating on him which he told you not to tell him.
When you said:

I made a rule that if he cums in me, then he must go down on me right after or a bit later and that will make me cum too.

I'm assuming you meant that if another guy cums in you then your boyfriend must go down on you?
Why do you enjoy that?
Is it an instinctual urge? Is it empowering? Is it sadistic? Does it feel like forgiveness?

[elina]

I voted for the first alternative, yes,
But it also sounds to me like he wants to be cucked and is well placed to become you submissive.

The fact that he accepted your rule that if he cums in you, he must go down on you either immediately or a little later clearly indicates that he wants you to be in control and set the rules.

Maybe you should, without disclosing anything about how often you are cucking him, tell him that you are very glad you found him and very glad that he has accepted that he must go down on you if he cums in you. Then tell him that the fact that he has accepted that you may need to have a fling sometimes does NOT mean that he will be allowed this; you want him to be fully focused on you and how he can please you.

Maybe you can turn this into a discussion on how he can please you better.

Sincerely
elina

[HWL27]

First that is a very hot situation.
Second I personally find it very exciting to almost be caught, it heightens the experience for sure. I'd love to hear about some or all of your adventures.

[SubSnuggler]

I voted 'yes' but I think Elina's elaboration is apt.

I do think a conversation 'check-in' needs to be done to verify if he is still sticking with his original views or they have altered over time. He may have a nuanced view of what 'permission' means that may be a bit more restrictive than you take it to be. If you really care for him, find a way to broach the topic and find out where he stands today on the topic.

[Cdncuck]

If he said he said he was ok with it and didn't want to know, I guess you're good.

[NotTellingHim]

Where to begin? I guess I will start with my current “fling” and at some point cover the beginning.

At the start of summer this year, we were both were having drinks at our local and getting nicely drunk in the process. Two guys next to us started making conversation with us about cars(we both love muscle cars), at some point we were both chatting individually to these guys.
I was getting heavy flirting vibes from Tom and decided to flirt heavily back!
I didn’t do anything more than that of course, but I did give him my number and suggested he text me sometime to chat more about “cars”, he gave me such an odd look that I was really not sure if he got the message.

Me and my boyfriend (his name is Eddy btw) left the pub that night happy and jolly.

When we had sex later, I could not stop picturing Tom and I knew I wanted him badly.

A few weeks passed and I had given up hope that he would ever text, but finally he did.

My boyfriend was at work (I work from home), so I suggested to Tom that he comes over for a few hours with the understanding he leaves before 5pm.

Should I continue ?

Miss L

[isinlarsa]

As others have said, I assume when you said that "he" (your lover)cums inside you, you want your husband to go down on you. My first wife started getting fucked in the office by a co-worker and then coming home and making me unknowingly eat his cream pie. She finally told me what she was doing and I said I found that incredibly hot. Not only was it hot to eat her creampie after she was fucked, but that she "forced" me to do so.

[BallSpanking]

Not so much a question as an observation.
This 'Green Light' you mention, is a tenuous thing, and sounds more like a "flashing amber".
NotTellingHim cites that as her new BF's conditional approval (he doesn't want to know, ever), but the fact is, she does not want to probe, nor find out anything more specific, lest it ruin her cheating excitement. It is exciting ... but potentially traumatic.

[NotTellingHim]

We are going out for Christmas drinks tonight, I’m trying to think of a way to ask him without asking him, his views on going down on me even if I had recently had a “fling” but I still have have no intentions of bringing up the past. As far as I’m concerned he has no problem with the idea in general.

However I would appreciate a few tips on a man’s psychology in regards to the best way to ask this question.

Miss L

[Jujube]

You could give him hints like when he asks What did you do all day, you could say “What do you think?” Lol! That could set him the direction of being a true modern cuckold.

[FFDriver]

NotTellingHim.... It sounds like you've got it figured out. A wise old person once said: "If it ain't broke, don't fix it!"

[NotTellingHim]

Just got into bed, feeling quite tipsy so just a quick update…this feels so sexy sharing all this with you all!

Anyway, I told him about an erotica book, I have just finished (he knows I love my books but this particular book does not exist) I told him the couple in the book reminded me of us and how cool he is, because the female character is having a lot of sex only affairs but loves her husband and is stressing about getting caught.

His response “well at least you don’t have to stress” so I’m taking that as a confirmation that he either already knows or still doesn’t want to know more and is cool with it.

I pushed it much much further when we got home……I was straddling him rubbing my pussy against his cock but not letting him slip inside, when I whispered into his ear “I love that you let me be free but still go down on me when you get home” I slipped him inside just as I finished saying that and from his reaction (I could feel him twitching in me), i’m fairly certain he knows what he has been tasting and might even like it.

I really don’t think I want to ask anymore, some of your replies had me feeling a little guilty but I’m feeling much better now!

Cheating is my selfish indulgence and I like to imagine he doesn’t know.

Thoughts ?

Miss L

[KevDi69]

After a couple drinks make a comment about a good looking guy. Say something like “Hmm, if I was ever going to have a flight he would be a candidate!” Gauge his reaction. If he isn’t upset, casually ask if he was really serious about being okay with a fling as long as he doesn’t know.

[Shadnaster]

We are going out for Christmas drinks tonight, I’m trying to think of a way to ask him without asking him, his views on going down on me even if I had recently had a “fling” but I still have have no intentions of bringing up the past.

Isn't that confirming to him that you have had flings? Is that your intention or, are you meaning to ask him how he feels about going down on you after HE cums in you?

[jonny3456]

I think you can gently hint to him by reiterating your “rule” in a slightly different way.

Rather than telling him how it makes you hotter than anything for him to go down on you after HE’s come inside you …

Now start saying how it makes you hotter than anything your rule that he obeys - for him to go down on you and give you an orgasm when you’re full of sperm …

Then (at other times) just insist that you need him to gown down on you before you do anything else … he may well put two and two together … that you’re just applying house rules and as he hasn’t been inside you yet that day then … there’s a cream pie that you need to be cleaned up .

Let us know how that goes!

[tractorman2]

A question if i may,

If your not sure of his reaction why do you find that,

"My biggest turn on when seeing another guy is cutting it as close as possible and it has led to some very very exciting times for me".

This interests me as my young wife, in her early 20s made me her cuck before and after our marriage, unknown to me she also felt i probably would accept her having a lover, therefore she enjoyed doing the same with my best friend. He later told me she loved the thrill and excitment too of going to the wire.

I was young and nieve and do remember commenting on how she had a very red face when i cameback from work one day and was greeted by them. He later told me as i arrived home she was bent over being taken from behind and demanded he cum in her.

He also later told me as we sat at our breakfast bar having a brew, she developed a wet stop in her tight light blue jeans as she sat with her legs open and STILL i didnt notice! Then as he felt awkward he left.

She later told him, after he left we went shopping and still i didnt comment, she saying he must know, No i didnt.

[elina]

Dear NotTellingHim,

I think you are a natural at this,
I also think you are very lucky to have found your current hubby; he seems to be a natural cuckold.

As for tips on male psychology; all males are different.
Most submissives like the Lady taking charge (that you are doing in a gentle but firm way) and loves to be teased by sexy Ladies, which you also obviously is.

I don't think anybody answered one of your earlier questions, but I for one would love to hear what happened to the Car-guy that you just had to fuck......

Sincerely
elina
(Submissive male)

[ucaneffher]

Love this! Definitely here for an update!

[hiki]

You sound like a cuckold's dream woman! My apologies if this is too personal a question, but I would be interested to hear with how many different men have you cuckolded your current boyfriend of 4 years? And how many times all told have you 'cheated' on him?

[KevDi69]

I didn’t see your post before I added my comment. Sounds like he is on board as long as he doesn’t know for sure. Maybe he gets off on the uncertainty. Maybe he likes the thought of an unexpected discovery of your cheating and that gets him off. I bet he checks your clothes hamper for panties with evidence of cum.
If I read your posts right you feed him fresh cream pies after you have a lover as well as every time he fucks you. Does he also go down on you a lot when you are fresh? If he does that frequently, he should easily identify a cream filled pussy. That being the case he clearly knows, and you have the greenlight to continue as long as it’s not explicitly stated.
Thanks for the post and updates. Very exciting.

[Des 31]

Our way of life began after I had been encouraging her for about a year. Once she accepted this wasn't some sort of trick to allow me to date other women, she quietly began considering the benefits. She was then age 28, now 37, and still having recreational sex with other men.

Yet, she didn't believe I could handle it as well as I then claimed. She covertly began fucking a co-worker for about three months without my knowledge. When I learned of it, she admitted their affair. I wasn't happy she didn't first tell me but withheld any complaints. I told her I was thrilled. She responded that it's even better than she had imagined and has since been dating others with my approval. My personal reference to Gigi is that she is a "free-range wife." I have never referred to her as z slut, whore, or other similar terms as used by some husbands married to hotwives, but I can understand why some wives do not mind being described in that way.

Soon after that first affair, I was persistently excited each time she narrated how it all began. (I think the details are in a posting on the first page of our ongoing history at this website's hotwife forum. If not, it's on the second page.)

~ Des