Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[mrs_reese]

So I had that talk with Jake last night, no sex, just a long phone call.
I was too nervous to be face to face and I thought over the phone would be easier for me.

I told him for years now hubby always talked about adding a 3rd to our sex life and I finally decided to give it a try when I met him earlier this year.
I DID NOT tell him that we’ve been in the Ls for many years as I didn’t want to share all of that!

He had a lot of questions after I briefly explained that I choose to give it a try with him.

We navigated through a lot of his concerns and questions very easily!
But the one concern he had was when I informed hubby that I was having an affair with him and “what do we do now?”

I explained to him that hubby is very excited!
I also explained not to over analyze this, that hubby is totally on board with the fact that I found a full time lover and that it greatly excites our sexual married relationship.
I told Jake to allow this arrangement to move forward and ask me any question he may have whenever he needs understand better!

He was somewhat shocked, told me he really needs to process this new discovery.

I told him nothing will change except now we don’t have to worry as much as we did before!

I told him the only reason why I decided to share this with him is that I take our relationship very seriously, I want him in my life!

Of course he’s confused, and doesn’t understand so much about this lifestyle.
I told him that I will help him understand with time!
Lastly, he completely understands the fact why I kept our relationship in the “affair” status because this LS is not easy to explain to most people.

I told him to research the LS as well.

This morning he texted me and informed me that he’s still shocked by all of this but he is really excited to have me in his life, told me he loves me but is not sure how he fits into our marriage.
I told him again to be patient, with time, he’ll have a much better understanding.

[BallSpanking]

Very exciting, Mrs Reese ...!
I realize this is a hectic time of year, but you don't want him spooked.
From his perspective, a hot, secret affair with a sexy married woman (something that is emotionally manageable and part time), now is morphing into a serious semi-permanent quasi-marriage, where Jake has you ... part time, but this requires his full time commitment.
So, I suggest you use that part time to secure the foundations to your emotional 'marriage' to Jake, and show him what this can be.
With luck, patience, and a little guidance, you can make this dynamic work. In the short term, I suggest you be at your most loving and attentive toward Jake, perhaps spending the weekend exclusively with him, pampering him, comforting him, and showing him how well this can work (for him too).

[mrs_reese]

Ballspanking, you know me so well!
This weekend I already informed hubby that I need to give Jake some personal time, hubby of course told me he’d be more understanding if I save some sex for him too

[BallSpanking]

🥵

[veub]

Ballspanking, you know me so well!
This weekend I already informed hubby that I need to give Jake some personal time, hubby of course told me he’d be more understanding if I save some sex for him too

Given Jake now knows that Reese is onboard with the situation will he be leaving any time for Reese? Jake will surely want a lot more time with you now.

[BallSpanking]

PS-
Please present yourself with a sexy choker ... maybe some Louboutin pumps, and your wedding ring ... Nothing else, awaiting Jake in his bed.
He will find it impossible to refuse you anything/everything ...

[Lookingforadventure]

Congratulations on taking that leap and having the conversation. You should be proud of yourself. I hope Jake asks his questions and soon finds his groove in this whole situation.

[Open2it]

Congratulations on having the talk with Jake! Have a great time showing and explaining the benefits of the LS with him.

[mrs_reese]

Ballspanking, you know me so well!
This weekend I already informed hubby that I need to give Jake some personal time, hubby of course told me he’d be more understanding if I save some sex for him too

Given Jake now knows that Reese is onboard with the situation will he be leaving any time for Reese? Jake will surely want a lot more time with you now.

I know he’s feeling much more confident that he is finally in a real relationship with me.
I’m sure he’ll want much more time with me.
We spoke last night and he’s feeling elated.
He asked that I separate my time so that I am with him, he feels that I am completely all for him.

[mrs_reese]

Congratulations on taking that leap and having the conversation. You should be proud of yourself. I hope Jake asks his questions and soon finds his groove in this whole situation.

I really appreciated your words of encouragement, it helped give me the confidence to speak to Jake about my marriage.
Thank you so much

[mrs_reese]

Congratulations on having the talk with Jake! Have a great time showing and explaining the benefits of the LS with him.

I can’t wait to see how this plays out, hopefully I can be the best wife and girlfriend to my men.
Thanks again open2it

[mrs_reese]

PS-
Please present yourself with a sexy choker ... maybe some Louboutin pumps, and your wedding ring ... Nothing else, awaiting Jake in his bed.
He will find it impossible to refuse you anything/everything ...

You inspire me all the time 🥰

[BallSpanking]

Frankly, I am in awe of your ability to share yourself so completely with two men. To be there for them when they have need for you, and be loving, sexy, and seductive ... To lovingly allow them to dominate you with their cock, pounding you into submission, seeding you, climaxing their life force, their love, inside your loins ... And you are there for them, desirous of their ardor, open ...
Yes, I am in awe of you. 🥵

[reese]

It’s been a while….. but I wanted to take some time to share some feelings….
My wife is in full Hotwife mode!
She sent me a text asking me if it was ok to spend the night with her bf…. I wanted to spend time with her tonight….but this is the life of a hotwife husband!

The feelings of stomach churning and the elevated BP never leaves when I see these texts or when she’s spending the night with him!

My god… I’m losing her again tonight…
She’ll come home tomorrow am around 10-11 and tell me to go to bed as she’ll be freshly fucked again.. full of cum..

Ughhhhh…. This is so crazy!

[Open2it]

Reese, Focus on the incredible pleasure that awaits you tomorrow when you get to reclaim your sexy bride. In the meantime, let the angst remind you of the gift you’ve given her that many couples will can not understand nor enjoy.

[BallSpanking]

Great to hear from you, Mr Reese!
On the positive side though, by now you know very well she will never leave you ... She loves you best, and will always come back to you ... freshly fucked.
I don't think there is a man alive who would not eagerly and deliciously reclaim Mrs Reese! And, most exceptionally lucky for you, that YOU get to be the one to reclaim her!
I would like to feel more sympathetic to your plight ... But then again, I'd be happy to trade places with you!
Happy Holidays, Mr Reese!

[hornedhubby]

We're all a little mad, here in HW Wonderland, Reese. But it has to be exciting when your hot Alice is in a groove like this.

Enjoy the reunion when Mrs R crawls out of the rabbit hole tomorrow. I couldn't be more envious.

[mrs_reese]

Frankly, I am in awe of your ability to share yourself so completely with two men. To be there for them when they have need for you, and be loving, sexy, and seductive ... To lovingly allow them to dominate you with their cock, pounding you into submission, seeding you, climaxing their life force, their love, inside your loins ... And you are there for them, desirous of their ardor, open ...
Yes, I am in awe of you. 🥵

I hope you know how special you are to me , always!

[mrs_reese]

I’m at Jake’s, he’s showering and I’m going to leave after I share a cup of coffee with him.
I wanted to write something now before the day becomes too busy.
Last night, probably for the first time ever, and I mean after all my years of playing in the life style and acting and playing off hubbys reactions, something very amazing happened. I’m somewhat apprehensive to write about it and I really am in a butterfly of emotions frame of mind; but Jake made me very emotional while making love.
I know writing this may cause hubby to be very confused and maybe angry, but before I go home to his intense horniness which really enjoy, I want to share something with you all!

Jake was very emotional and telling me how much he loves the fact that I am committed to him as I am to hubby,
But when we were having sex, he felt so amazing he made me orgasm as only hubby has ever done!
I held on to him telling him how much I wanted him in my life and I whispered to him how much I loved him too!
I don’t know how to process this,
I have truly let my emotions overwhelm me.
I need to go home soon and let hubby get me back to my safe zone.

[Open2it]

It sounds like last night was incredibly intense. Enjoy the emotions you’re sharing with both men. It’s possible to love multiple partners but it may complicate things until you’re all able to openly discuss your feelings together without jealousy. Imagine how intense an MFM could be... Good luck.

[Butterfly411980]

Jake was very emotional and telling me how much he loves the fact that I am committed to him as I am to hubby,
But when we were having sex, he felt so amazing he made me orgasm as only hubby has ever done!
I held on to him telling him how much I wanted him in my life and I whispered to him how much I loved him too!
I don’t know how to process this,
I have truly let my emotions overwhelm me.
I need to go home soon and let hubby get me back to my safe zone.

It would seem Jake believes yours and his relationship is on par with yours and Reese rather than secondary to you and Reese....that's a problem, no?

[Hobby_Fan]

Thank you for sharing your experience and feelings. So exciting.

[reese]

I wanna post some of my thoughts right now…..
I just read what my wife posted…. as she lays next to me definitely sound asleep full of most likely a lot of come from last night this morning.
I was up she came home laying in bed trying to focus to the erection that seem to never go down… I’m sure it was hard most of the night at least that’s what I felt. Lol.

Once I heard her walking up the stairs, I swear to God my heart rate probably tripled. I could feel blood flowing from my head and my arms down to my midsection.

Without saying much, her words were and I quote. “Hi baby I was thinking of you on the drive back home. I can’t wait to sit on your face.”

My wife has an amazing way of making sure she’s clean, but also full of wetness…. She started sucking my cock and she lowered her butt and pussy in my mouth… her little butt hole had a very close eyes view. Mine can never resist the temptation of putting my tongue inside of that and then pushing her up a little bit and licking her pussy.

I Orgasmed again in her mouth she swallowed all of me, which is still a major surprised to me…. she told me that she wanted to come again so I licked and fingered her until she came…..for a while we both kind of laid in each other’s arms without saying word…. She started rubbing her butt up against my cock again, and I got very hard….. I fucked her slowly her pussy squeezing onto my cock …causing her to come again.

That was that…. she fell asleep. I passed out a little bit and woke up and started reading some of the messages in this thread.

[veub]

Jake was very emotional and telling me how much he loves the fact that I am committed to him as I am to hubby,
But when we were having sex, he felt so amazing he made me orgasm as only hubby has ever done!
I held on to him telling him how much I wanted him in my life and I whispered to him how much I loved him too!
I don’t know how to process this,
I have truly let my emotions overwhelm me.
I need to go home soon and let hubby get me back to my safe zone.

It would seem Jake believes yours and his relationship is on par with yours and Reese rather than secondary to you and Reese....that's a problem, no?

For now, and probably for some time going forward, Reese is the one who has the secondary relationship. I'm not saying that'll be true in the future, but it is likely true right now.

[reese]

I love the intrigue of reclaiming my wife and the competitive battle to have her pussy….. that competition is like pouring gas over the fire!
Dont underestimate me my friends lol!
I’ll only tolerate secondary as long as it creates fuel for my internal fire.

With that in mind, my wife has earned my trust 100% of the time…. She is the most magnificent woman I have ever known!