Potentially the Start

[MustBeDenied2]

Thanks for the update. Your wife keeps you caged and uses her vibrator on herself. Does she know that she can make you ejaculate by using the vibrator on you without removing the cage, thereby giving you an unsatisfying release without orgasm?

If not, perhaps you should suggest it to her. She wants more ways to control you. You should give her this gift.

[Deepdownwannabe]

DDW- your wife has brought up ending this adventure twice now...do you ever get the sense from her that she wants you to tell her this is over, sort of like take her back? I know you mentioned she said this would go on til it reached its logical conclusion and I can't help but feel like that logical conclusion is either you asking her to stop or until she gets to the point she doesn't care if you want her to stop or not anymore. It just seems like there may be a part of her wanting you to step in before she lets herself get too far down this road.

It's actually not how I took it. I felt as though she was thinking to herself that she had her fun and perhaps she should get back to "what everyone thinks is normal" only to self-realize that she is very happy living this new life and that it was not affecting how she felt about me so why stop now. She still has the control to stop it when she decides to.

[venus-can99]

It's actually not how I took it. I felt as though she was thinking to herself that she had her fun and perhaps she should get back to "what everyone thinks is normal" only to self-realize that she is very happy living this new life and that it was not affecting how she felt about me so why stop now. She still has the control to stop it when she decides to.

Based on what you wrote DDW - I thought that she has realized that she is delighted with "finding" her new normal - sexual freedom, control over you (FLR) and ofcourse her deep seated love for you.
Hope you and the love of your life have a wonderful Christmas and a very fun-filled, sexy 2024

[David52]

I just finished Learning His Place (12 volumes!) by Molly Sands. I think you(and your faithful followers) will enjoy it. But perhaps you will not want to share it with your wife as she does not seem to need any new ideas. LOL.

[Deepdownwannabe]

This is not DDW, but this is DDW's wife, sorry DDW's hotwife. I was told that there were some of you might want to hear my thoughts on all of this and what has happened to this point. I knew he was keeping a journal on here of some sort but never looked at it until now. So with some downtime in the holidays here is my two cents at doing so.

I have to say that cuck has done a fine job of capturing it all, I'll give him credit for that. And he has maintained the element of privacy which if he didn't I'd tell him to shut this down right now. But it seems to be allowing him an avenue of escape for what has no doubt been quite a few months. So in the words of the other half of the equation, here is my point of view of the last few months.

Cuck did a great job describing me, I was always unsure of myself, never overly confident in the world of sex and intimacy. Never felt I was attractive enough, all the standard things a woman in her 40s thinks about. And I'll be honest, it was quite a shock to initially hear he might have an interest in this for real.

I did my digging, no doubt down the same rabbit-holes that cuck had found. And I pushed him a little with small little suggestions or innuendos, that if he ever pushed back on, then I would throw away the idea for good, all the while learning of the various things a hotwife relationship could entail.

And the point I decided to go through with it? The night we had a serious talk and I asked him point blank if he wanted me to be a hotwife. His answer cemented it and in my mind, I decided I would try this once, somehow, to basically call his bluff. But I was going to do it under my rules and nothing else. And the biggest part of this equation was going to be honesty. I was not going to be anything but honest otherwise it was just going to be some cheap act.

As he perfectly outlined, I decided I had to play the part. I started dressing a little nicer, a little more attention to how I looked. Even started going to the gym more. And the ball started rolling even more when I confided to a couple of my girl friends. There was no judgement from them so that certainly helped me that this was ok. And that led to the introduction to my current boyfriend.

At this point I should add, my intentions were still a one or two week fling to put it in the back of my husbands mind for good. I had zero ideas it would evolve to what it has to this day. I kept sleeping with my hubby but every time it would turn into a roleplay about this upcoming scenario. And that seemed to excite him even more (and me too I'll be honest). What I had read that the mindplay was an emotional tool in all of this was certainly proving to be true. That is when the cage idea came in, I basically wanted him to know that any time he was caged I had a hall pass, more of the mental games.

When it came time for my initial dates, I was incredibly nervous, but I was not going to show any of that in front of my husband, I was going to look the cool, calm and collected wife who knew what she was doing. And I did not want to look like some cheap skank on the prowl, which is why I decided I would approach this in the classic look, or as I saw cuck put it "classic beauty".

This is when I started to notice a little difference in myself. I was getting charged up a little more than I would in the past. The increase in the sex drive that cuck has reference? It started here and while at the time I would not be able to pinpoint why, looking at it months later it is much easier to choose why. I was enjoying the fact that cuck was out of his normalcy, he was nervous, uneasy. And I had someone who seemed rather attracted to a middle age lady. It felt nice, I can't lie there. I started to throw luttle zingers at hubby to see how he'd react and he never fought back at me, he accepted it all as it was happening. I even got him to say he still supported me before I made it official.

Now, let me say this about cuck. He has no doubt learned a lot the last few months, both about me but himself as well. And I hope it is what he wanted. But for all of those that are thinking this is how marriages end, that will not happen. Ever. Cuck is my soulmate and I love him very much. How could I not? He has seen me take a lover into my bed and he seems to be only focused on my happiness. I will never leave him as a result of anything that happens on these pages. So I hope that helps calm all you naysayers out there. We are married and will forever be married. But what happens along the way is still tbd.

So, I guess I should say something about my boyfriend too. He is someone who has been perfect for this unveiling of the new me. He has been caring, knowing I have a family, but also a touch strict and demanding when in the role of boyfriend. I am sure he has to handle a few things as he reflects on this relationship but I can assure you he is quite a man and I have been lucky to find someone like him as this new life has opened up. And physically? He has brought me to levels I never knew existed, which explains the increase in the sex drive for sure. I was never a size-queen but that difference he has is amazing to me. And he knows what he is doing. Put it all together and he has been quite a find.

As for my mindset now, close to three months after starting this? I have zero regrets and no guilt. My cuck has not opposed me and still supports this as he sees I am having quite simply the best sex of my life and it is amazing to feel as wanted as I do now. There have been times, as indicated, where I thought that perhaps we should go back to our old ways, but then I am reminded of how they both make me feel, in their own and different ways and I decide to continue. And that is my decision, with my cucks support. I hope that makes sense.

And for the one question that was raised but not sure if it was answered. Yes, I have been bareback from the beginning. In all my research it seemed that was a line that defined the true extent of cucking your hubby. So, I decided if I was going to become a hotwife, I would do it the right way.

That should sum up my point of view. I will not be on here often as this is cuck's little escape world, but I will answer the odd question if appropriate. Be good to cuck, he has had a lot to deal with, but then again, he never opposed it. So twist him a little if you get the chance. Besides, there is a whole lot more that he may have to experience as a cuck if this continues. I did my reading and I think I want to explore this world even more.

DDW's Hotwife

[venus-can99]

This is not DDW, but this is DDW's wife, sorry DDW's hotwife.
..;
That should sum up my point of view. I will not be on here often as this is cuck's little escape world, but I will answer the odd question if appropriate. Be good to cuck, he has had a lot to deal with, but then again, he never opposed it. So twist him a little if you get the chance. Besides, there is a whole lot more that he may have to experience as a cuck if this continues. I did my reading and I think I want to explore this world even more.

DDW's Hotwife

It is so great to hear your viewpoint DDWHW I admire your takie-charge attitude and your obvious enjoyment in the HW lifestyle. Would love to hear from both you as you progress and the relationship evolves.
Thanks for putting to rest the speculation from a few commenters that the marriage is in "trouble" and reemphasising the mutual trust and open communication the two of you have.
Have a Merry Christmas and a sexy funfilled 2024 that takes you and the cuck to new heights and adventures.

[BallSpanking]

Thank you DDW's HW for your approach and enjoyment of cuckolding your husband.
It is more insightful to know the HW's take on things.

[grnlght]

When does he get his surprise gift and did you let him pop yet?

[TheHammer]

Mrs. DDW, Thanks for your detailed post and your side. It’s great hearing the perspective from both sides and am happy you two are on the same page.

I have a couple of questions if you don’t mind:

What one thing you read in this thread surprised you the most?

What one thing you read in this thread turned you on the most?

[elina]

Dearest DDW's Hotwife

First, Thank You so much for sharing Your pespective, this is so valuable.

Second congratulations on having overcome the obstacles and successfully navigated yourself to the position where You deserve to be; With an adoring and loving cuck fully accepting that You now also will have a wonderful lover and hopefully long-term Boyfriend who is so into you and so able to please you in ways which your cuck has accepted that he cannot.

Further, I am so glad to see you correct the naysayers on here. You now have the best of both worlds and even if You have controlled the journey, I am happy to see that it would not have happened unless your cuck had provided the appropriate amount of stimulation and submission at the appropriate times. He clearly loves You and only want the best for You. He will be there for you should the relationship with your new BoyFriend cool down. I am so pleased to see that you recognize him for this. Yes like most of us here, we have a kink in that we want our beloved Ladies to be free to take Lovers. But many of us, and for sure your husband from what I can judge is doing this because we truly love our Wives and want them to receive the sexual and emotional fulfillment that we have accepted we are not able to provide on our own. Some of us are more submissive than others, maybe your cuck is not completely where this submissive husband is, but I also think he truly enjoyes the feeling that You are now in Charge of both Your Own Sex-life, and also of his!! When a male has been locked in chastity for some days, his desires to please the Female he Loves and who now holds the key to his cock and his release increases. You should now feel free to play with this tool, to experience how you can make your cuck enjoy serving you in any ways you please.

I often wonder why even some very Hot Beautiful Ladies are so unsure about their Beauty and don't feel attractive. It is wonderful to see how your self-esteem have grown through all of this. Keep going to the gym to take care of yourself, it will continue to increase your awareness of how attractive you are and also have lots of other health benefits.

Finally, you have crossed an important milestone in yours and your cuck-hubby's life. But we all continue to grow and evolve over Life. Keep experimenting to see what other opportunities will open up for you. Also as you pointed out; keep enjoying the confirmation both your devoted cuck-hubby and Your Boyfriend is providing and enjoy your new life as a truly HOT Woman, WIfe and Mistress!!

Sincerely
elina
(submissive wannabe male on the other side of the world...)

[safira]

DDW’s Hotwife,
it seemed early on that you played the dom as an aspect of your desire to punish DDW for his kink. since, it seems that this has become your kink as well. do you still harbor a desire, if you ever did, to punish him?

[FFDriver]

Dear Mrs. HW. In a word: Incredible. Thank you for coming on board and explaining your side of this. YES... I hope it sends the naysayers back to their little cubicles to play with themselves.

From reading what you've said, I can understand your husband's attraction to you. If my mental image of you is correct, you're the woman My Eyes would follow when you entered the room. Not in the sense I wanted to bed you, but your aura of intelligence and maturity would attract me. (BTW, bust size doesn't mean a damn thing to Real Men. There's nothing prettier than beautiful, small breasts). (Something in the back of my mind makes me think that might be a concern of yours)?

I know my wife (2nd wife) had flings throughout our younger years (we're approaching 80, happily married for 40). She was extremely private about her affairs, equally discrete, but I knew, just as you would know if DDW were cheating on you. My attitude toward it, she's the "Perfect wife," 99.9% of the time. I'm happy being married to her and I'm not going to rock that boat.

I'm not expressing myself well. Let me cite the one (and only) time she let something slip out. I got the call from the boss one night. "Can you have me in Atlanta in four hours?" As I was getting dressed, she looked at me and said, "You probably wouldn't be angry if I had a boyfriend?"

I looked down at her as she lay in bed. "I'm at the boss' beck and call to fly his G-3 (Gulfstream jet). Bill (pseudo name) has a two seat sport biplane we like to fly on Saturday's and do acrobatics together. Am I cheating on the G-3 when I fly Bill's Pitts Special?"

I applaud your honesty and sincerity, ma'am, and hope you enjoy every pleasure in the future....

[scarlettscuck]

DDWs Hotwife: thanks for sharing your POV. Cucks definitely need that type of brutal honesty. I especially LOVE how you appreciate the affect those little “nudges” can be for us cucks. It’s gas on the fire IMHO! All that said, your strong foundation of love is the core that we all have/need. Your cuck is one lucky man.

[Deepdownwannabe]

When does he get his surprise gift and did you let him pop yet?

If I told you that wouldn't be a surprise now would it?

[Deepdownwannabe]

Mrs. DDW, Thanks for your detailed post and your side. It’s great hearing the perspective from both sides and am happy you two are on the same page.

I have a couple of questions if you don’t mind:

What one thing you read in this thread surprised you the most?

What one thing you read in this thread turned you on the most?

Surprised me the most? How I took to this and the ideas that just kept flowing thanks to my bf while still playing with cucks head.

Turned me on the most? Same answer.

[Deepdownwannabe]

DDW’s Hotwife,
it seemed early on that you played the dom as an aspect of your desire to punish DDW for his kink. since, it seems that this has become your kink as well. do you still harbor a desire, if you ever did, to punish him?

If this all continues and he warrants a punishment, I expect he will get one. Simple as that.

DDWHW

[Deepdownwannabe]

Dear Mrs. HW. In a word: Incredible. Thank you for coming on board and explaining your side of this. YES... I hope it sends the naysayers back to their little cubicles to play with themselves.

From reading what you've said, I can understand your husband's attraction to you. If my mental image of you is correct, you're the woman My Eyes would follow when you entered the room. Not in the sense I wanted to bed you, but your aura of intelligence and maturity would attract me. (BTW, bust size doesn't mean a damn thing to Real Men. There's nothing prettier than beautiful, small breasts). (Something in the back of my mind makes me think that might be a concern of yours)?

I know my wife (2nd wife) had flings throughout our younger years (we're approaching 80, happily married for 40). She was extremely private about her affairs, equally discrete, but I knew, just as you would know if DDW were cheating on you. My attitude toward it, she's the "Perfect wife," 99.9% of the time. I'm happy being married to her and I'm not going to rock that boat.

I'm not expressing myself well. Let me cite the one (and only) time she let something slip out. I got the call from the boss one night. "Can you have me in Atlanta in four hours?" As I was getting dressed, she looked at me and said, "You probably wouldn't be angry if I had a boyfriend?"

I looked down at her as she lay in bed. "I'm at the boss' beck and call to fly his G-3 (Gulfstream jet). Bill (pseudo name) has a two seat sport biplane we like to fly on Saturday's and do acrobatics together. Am I cheating on the G-3 when I fly Bill's Pitts Special?"

I applaud your honesty and sincerity, ma'am, and hope you enjoy every pleasure in the future....

I'll only respond to one thing here, no small breasts is not a concern of mine. How I looked and was presented to others has always been a concern but I am coming to grips with that now. But small breasts is not an issue.

[venus-can99]

I'll only respond to one thing here, no small breasts is not a concern of mine. How I looked and was presented to others has always been a concern but I am coming to grips with that now. But small breasts is not an issue.

Its awesome to hear DDWHW that you now have regained the air of confidence in yourself. I dont think that was the way others perceived it as per DDW.
Good luck in your adventure and I am all ears about your journey in hw'ing and FLR.
Merry Christmas

[grnlght]

What are your feelings now towards the BF strictly FWB or is it more than that, and what did you think of and feel the first time the BF/ another man released inside you? and do you miss DDW's release in you or has he been replaced to your liking for now? ~cheers~

[grnlght]

To twist a little, who tastes better to you swallowing cuck or BF?

[Deepdownwannabe]

So you have had the chance to see my wife's reflections on all of this. Certainly eye-opening to the uninformed. She said she will pop on here occasionally but otherwise it is still a place for me to discuss and rationalize.

The last few days have been us. For Christmas Eve we had a nice dinner set up at home, she cooked it and it was very good as always. She's a great cook although that has probably never been mentioned here. We traditionally never exchange large presents, neither one of us were too spun up on that aspect of it all. So I was surprised when she told me she had this surprise gift for me and I was to give her fifteen minutes before going upstairs to get it.

Needless to say I was a little surprised and intrigued. I cleaned up downstairs while she slipped upstairs and fifteen minutes I joined her. I entered the bedroom and the lights were down and she was wearing her familiar robe. She asked me to sit down on the bed while she began. She said that because the last few months have been so unique, she wanted to give me a gift that was special, something I'd remember for a long time. "I even told him what I wanted to give you and he was fine with it with one caveat". I must have had a strange look on my face as she even smiled a little.

"So tonight, you get to fuck me". My ears perked up with the sheer surprise of what she had said. My body is yours again". I couldn't believe my ears, only I had missed the caveat. "But you have to wear a condom, that was his rule and I think it makes sense". I was almost crestfallen hearing that rule, and she clearly sensed it. That is when she upped her game, standing up while letting her robe drop to the floor. Her nude body shimmered in front of me. "I want you to fuck me". She took her key and carefully unlocked me. I was aroused, I can't lie. Only I did not get to fuck her right away. She made me cum with a few hand strokes, exploding on her breasts. She quickly reassured me, telling me it was ok and she knew that would happen. I would still get to have her, of course after I fulfilled her still-standing rule.

That was her version of foreplay, me cleaning her breasts. That is when her verbiage continued, I realized after it was probably by design. She had pushed my head down her body..."thats it cuck, follow the rules....you know this has to happen but the rewards is you will get to fuck me". She made sure I took my time and it was clear she was aroused too. Satisfied with that part, my head was pushed lower. "Now get me ready...get me ready to let you inside me". She was soaked.

Finally she pulled me up and passed me a condom. "Fuck me cuck". I didn't question it, I simply put it on and took my place where she reverted back to loving wife. "I have missed you inside me, I hope you know that". Her lips found mine and she pulled my ass towards her, me slipping inside, a homecoming of sorts. But with the numbness of the condom and the fact it was my second go in a very short time she knew she could tease me.

"It's been awhile cuck....well, for you that is. All while I've had the most amazing sex of my life and it is all because of you, thank you love". She made sure I was thrusting away while she murmured in my ear. "You're doing great cuck, I know its tougher with your smaller cock". That made me just want to fuck her harder which I am sure brought a smile. "Come on cuck, you are fucking someone else's girlfriend". I could only just keep going. She continued on that theme. "That's right cuck, you are fucking someone else's girlfriend, how naughty of you. And she will go back to fucking him after, and you will go back to not". Her words were hitting hard.

"Cuck If you don't make me cum, I'll have to re-lock you again and it will be for awhile". I desperately wanted to make her climax with me inside her, but I couldn't bring her over the edge. And when she whispered "he makes me cum easily" I exploded again, into the condom, all while her arms gripped me very lovingly and comfortingly. "Thats ok cuck......finish me off another way" and with that she had pushed my head down her body again. Only now she came in seconds.

Falling asleep in each others arms, she said that she would not cage me until the next day, but that it would happen and that she hoped I understood why. I fell asleep before I could answer her.

She never locked me for awhile the following day. In fact, she made me cum one more time. She told me later on Christmas that she had told her bf that the Christmas time was for us, to which he countered that New Years was for them. So while she started to massage me, she told me they had a NYE date with other couples at a downtown hotel. They were to be dressed up, and that she was looking forward to it, because as she put it, she would be getting fucked right.

And that did it, coupled with her skilled handiwork. Only she did not make me clean her. "Merry Christmas cuck" But I was caged then, and she was smiling when he heard the lock click shut. And I am back in the cage.

[tovid555]

She is good, no question of that. Very good. Love that she came on here to explain her thoughts on this all and re-assured that this is not a marriage-breaking endeavor - that tells me she is truly high class which is what you really want out of a newly-starting lady. I'm envious of her, discovering and exploring all these new-found desires and lusts.

And it certainly does not seem as if she is plateau-ing at any one spot she tries and is comfortable - either her boyfriend or her are willing to push this to what they deem as the next logical level in the evolution of this hotwife/cuck/bf relationship. And DDW, if that is the case, I think you well know there are a great many more levels to a full cuckolding experience, don't you? I hope you are ready (and I hope she keeps pushing those boundaries).

I repeat my admiration for DDWHW - she truly does sound like she did her homework and is a smart, yet playfully devious hotwife who I hope gets to experience everything she missed in her younger years. And with that, I hope DDW get's what could be coming to him, if only for letting such a wonderful woman escape from being just his.

[KevDi69]

Congratulations DDW! Super hot update. Your hotwife is awesome at her role. Don’t feel bad about her not coming while you fucked her. There was no way she was going to let ghat happen. It was probably a second condition set by the bf.
Since you got off 3 times, expect a long time before your next release. Don’t worry, Valentines Day is less than 2 months away. Oh right, that day is for lovers.

[MustBeDenied2]

Fantastic update, Deepdown!

You have an amazing cuckoldress!

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the detailed update over Christmas DDW. Like so many others I admire DDWHW for her love for you, how she knows when and how to push the boundaries. I think the two of you will enjoy this journey for a long time.