Does your wife love her bull/s?

[CuckIan]

I'm with rthat69 on this one. My wife says the sex is better when she has feelings for the guy. I think it's much hotter watching her fuck and have orgasms with guys she loves, than just watching hot sex.

Yes I'm sure you guys are correct in it being hotter and I'm sure more intense for her, but I admit my insecurities would probably get the best of me. I would never want to make her feel guilty but I'm afraid I might in that case. At the moment she doesn't want more than friends so not an issue ..... Yet

[Sharedherlots]

Yeah and it’s not just an insecurity speaking, it’s also just called being smart about things. If I catch even a whiff that my wife is really feeling something for a guy I’m vetoing him in two seconds flat and she’ll never seen him again. I’m perfectly happy if she really likes him, loves how he fucks her, shit they can have a great time together and I hope they do. But love is a whole different matter. That’s how you lose your wife right there.

I go out with girls from time to time. Probably have sex with someone else 20% as often as she does, but I get around a little too. Same for my wife. If she could tell I was totally doting on some girl and was falling for her, she’d cut a bitch lol.

[knight4princess]

I chose "Sometimes but she tries to keep it just FWB."

Mine has fallen for a couple -- for a little while. She gets New Relationship Energy pretty much every time.

I am quite confident that she wouldn't leave me for any of them. She has met a lot of other men and even I can see that none of them have come close in ability to truly know and love her as I do. We have been married 35 years and she has had relations outside the marriage for the last 20. She always likes the "new romance" aspect of a new boyfriend.

[cornudoyesposa27]

When My wife confessed her cheating, she also confessed she was in love with the guy. However , she admitted she still loved me too. She proved it by refusing to leave me when the guy asked to move with him to another country. She said she could love us both in a different way.

[PussyGalore]

I have learned to compartmentalize. I do develop attachments to guys I see more often but have learned to not let it mess with my head or my marriage. However, there is one guy where the feelings go deeper. We just have a natural connection and the sex is incredible, and I have had a lot of great sex. If he was local it would be more of a challenge.

[Tommy]

Yup. For my wife, love leads to sex. and sex leads to love. Each makes the other better. But one doesn't always come first; could be either way.

[PANTIES]

There’s no doubt she lives him but I don’t think she’s in love with him. Big difference in the two.

Pauline

[Dirk the cuckold]

I think she was in love with at least one of her former bulls. He moved across the country so he's not in the picture anymore. I'm relieved and at the same time disappointed. Unless you are a cuck I don't think you can understand.......

[Luisbelo]

She’s definitely in love with her bull/ boyfriend. They left for the weekend, I stayed home. She keeps telling me how loving and charming he is…

[Not good enough]

She worships him, but she knows she can't have him for herself, and the fact that the woman I worship worships another man only adds to the humiliation.

[AgegapCuck]

In terms of raw passion and sexual desire my wife loves her bull. She would happily be his in the bedroom for ever. But she knows he is not partner/husband material. Also he is married. So she is learning to accept her place as his cumslut on the side whilst having the security and family of being with me.

[best_friend]

i don`t know if the hotwives i`m meeting are in love with me. i doubt.

but there is on one or the other case a very special connection between them and me. this is important for these wives.

but there are also relationships you can`r really call that. then that's the only thing to fuck.

[Excuck_79]

My wife had many bulls but only loved one of them. She had sex with the other ones but she made love to the one.

[MrPepeLePew]

Convo with my wife has been that she needs somewhat of an emotional attachment for the sex to be any good, so I encourage it. I'm sure she would never leave me for any of them but there's always a miniscule chance I suppose. We are, after all, playing with fire. I would do the poly thing if it came to that as I would never want her to leave even if she was in love with someone else. We are legit best friends I don't see anything ever changing that. I believe that most women do truly have the capacity to genuinely love multiple people at once. Dudes tend to be more singular and simple when it comes to that stuff.

This lifestyle is deceptive in ways, defining what love actually means helps in answering topics like this. Excitement itself is a combo of dopamine and other chemicals in the brain firing when satiating a couple's bio, social and fetish needs. I suspect most of the time when using the actual word 'love' is just an intense level of excitement, brought about partly because of the 'new'. Everyone is perfect for the first few months, it's the long-term that proves love.

Any advice I would give in this area is in trying not to get too wrapped around the axle about whether something is love or just lust. In the short-term they kind of feel like the same thing.

[funkyfitter]

My wife hasn't said so but I wonder and haven't asked. That being said, I truly believe that she's fallen in love with him and he loves her. She met him when he moved into a house across the lagoon from her mom's house at the Jersey shore. We have since bought the house and my wife pretty much lives down there now and is only back here two days a week for work. If it wasn't for work, I don't think she’d even come to our house here. I love her and she still loves me but he's her sexual partner which puts him ahead of me. I'm more than good with our situation and am just glad that she's allowed me to come along for the ride because she could have left me in the dust long ago.

[Bartleby]

My wife's bf has recently broken up with her because he couldn t handle it anymore the "his girlfriend is married". They had been together for quite a while and I thought it was quite harmonious between the three of us. He must have felt quite differently to what we both had thought. Maybe he saw chances my wife would leave me for him?

My wife is very sad, of course. But then she already talked about looking for someone else.

[dinoo]

My wife had two steady lovers.
With one (a white one) she fell in love.
With the other (a black one) it seemed she loved him because of her surrendering to him but that she denied.

[Teensy1]

My wifey considers her bull to be a fucktoy, nothing more,

[SubSnuggler]

My Wife is a dominatrix. She likes and enjoys some boys more than others, but they are there for her pleasure and to be enjoyed- nothing more.

[Mgcouplemn]

Wife and I are in love, she loves fucking the toys (the other guys), the only involvement is them satisfying us, me watching and her cuming.

[DrDemento_68]

I think my wife's feelings for her lover (and we call him that, not bull or fuckbuddy or any other less intimate term) fall just short of polyamory. I've never heard her say "I love you" to him (as opposed to the frequent "I love the way you fuck me!") but when I see her with him it looks like more than just FWBs. She's on her second long term lover. She only fucks him and me, and he only fucks her and his wife. They do have red-hot animal sex often, but they have plenty of tender love-making too. Both are incredibly arousing to observe, BTW. What they have is more than just a sexual relationship and they obviously have deep feelings of affection for each other. And I like seeing that, it adds to my arousal to witness my wife giving herself emotionally and sexually to him. Still, i think it's clear to all three of us that the strongest bond in our three-sided love triangle is between me and her. It helps that I have a strong mutually respectful friendship with him where he acknowledges all our roles.

I don't think I would like it if my wife truly loved another man as much as or more than me. Jealousy and insecurity probably would escalate beyond the point where now it titillates me to see another man fuck her to a point where it was all pain and no pleasure.

[AngiesHusband]

yes some of Angie's friends she's loved very much - which makes that connection and all that comes with it even more powerful for everyone

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

I’m not a poly, but I completely understand that my wife loves her two boyfriends. (They know that I approve, even participate by watching, etc., but they do not know about each other.). I routinely hear her tell them so as they hang up and say goodbye. I hear them profess their love for each other during sex. It’s really quite exciting to watch the woman you love tell another man that she loves him.

It’s nice to hear. It heightens the relationship we share.

She absolutely wouldn’t have sex with them if she didn’t have feelings for them.

She and I have had long conversations about how she feels about them. I am clearly the most important man in her life, the father of our children, the stability provider, and the life- and soul-partner, her sexual “co-conspirator.” But they both clearly have a very special place in her heart. She sees them as lovers….to be loved in return for the emotional and sexual satisfaction and happiness they bring to her. Being open as a threesome enhances our shared experiences.

Oddly, I’m okay with all of this as long as I remain her primary. She's incapable of NOT loving a man who’s sharing such a deeply intimate moment with her, someone who is putting his penis inside of her, kissing her deeply while they cum together, enjoying one another’s company over dinner, laughing with her the whole way through this crazy life. I’m just lucky enough to be her primary.