Potentially the Start

[Deepdownwannabe]

There are lots of questions as to "how will you react to...?" I honestly don't know how I will react to anything, I never thought it would get this far, merely because I never expected my wife to be enjoying herself. So I don't have an answer to any of those questions.

[elina]

There are lots of questions as to "how will you react to...?" I honestly don't know how I will react to anything, I never thought it would get this far, merely because I never expected my wife to be enjoying herself. So I don't have an answer to any of those questions.

Patience all,
the answers will come when the wonderful DDWHW decides it is time to communicate....

Sincerely
elina

[edgedndenied]

Did you get any reclaim sex when she got home? PIV or other

[Texas Jack]

he said that he wanted her to have less physical dealings with her cuck. "I would have agreed to anything at that point". So while she didn't say that, it was certainly implied she had agreed to that aspect, as she had a devious little smile.

This is setting off warning bells. I think he's exploiting NRE in order to drive a wedge between you and your wife. "Less physical dealings?" That is entirely too open-ended. Presumably it means chastity, of course, but what else might it mean? Will you be prohibited from holding her hand? Hugging? Kissing? Cuddling? Spooning in bed? Chastity is one thing, but depriving each other of physical intimacy altogether is something else entirely.

[MustBeDenied2]

Pay no attention to the naysayers, DeepDown. You and DDWHW have repeatedly explained that this is for fun and you will not let it ruin your marriage. Some people see a bogeyman behind every tree.

The boyfriend seems to have a good grasp on the cuckolding mindset and is playing his part perfectly.

I remember reading an account (fact or fiction, I cannot recall) in which the cuck was taken on a date with the single best girlfriend of the wife. They had a table at a distance in a nice restaurant where he could observe his wife and her boyfriend on their date. The girlfriend was essentially an in-the-know chaperone, who egged the cuck on, talking about what a cute couple they make and how good their sex is.

I hope something like that is in your future. We’re all still pulling for you!

[Deepdownwannabe]

DDWHW - I will add on to what cuck said about NYE. It was an amazing night from my point of view for many reasons, all of which a year ago I would have insisted would not happen. But as you have seen, life takes some strange twists and turns doesn't it?

It was tough saying goodbye to cuck before I left, he did seem a little sad which is why I had to rationalize the events to him. NYE is supposed to be romantic right? Well, then that should be with the one you are romantic with, that made clear sense to me. I will say when I left I was probably already a touch wet with anticipation already. One reason is I had already decided which outfit I was going to wear.

The outfit was more daring than I expected, but I was committed. After getting ready (with my boyfriend watching me) I sent the selfie to cuck to let him know. And off to the party we went.

The whole evening I was introduced as his girlfriend and it felt nice. Lots of food, lots of champagne. It was simply a fun party. Everyone was dressed up, a few other ladies even seemed as daring as my outfit. But this is where I have noticed a difference in myself. The old me? I would have hid sheepishly in a corner (not including the fact I never would have worn this outfit to begin with), but now I am much more confident in myself. So I wore it proudly. I think that is one reason I chose it, to confirm that inner confidence. So that was a victory in my mind.

We posed for the couples picture and I quite liked it. A nice pic of us both and it felt right. Once the clock struck midnight we retired to our room but did not sleep as you can imagine. But the one thing cuck did not say, it how reassuring my boyfriend was to me. Constant compliments about me, how I looked, how I acted. It was great. He told me how happy he was to have found me and to have me on his arm. That no doubt led to our conversations the next morning, those that cuck outlined.

And my thoughts on those conversations? I have no issues with them at all. I am clearly in a relationship with this man now, confirming we are bf/gf simply makes sense. And cuck is defined as just that, the cuckold. This was his doing and I love my soulmate for allowing me to experience these new thrills. And the resolutions? They make sense to me and I am willing to fulfil my end as both a doting girlfriend but also a devious cuckoldress...if that makes sense?

It was a confident, romantic night. It was awesome.

So, the year is off and running, now to see where it goes. DDWHW

[grnlght]

Did you and the BF exchange i love you's or are you going to?

[grnlght]

Still would like to know what you thought and felt the 1st time he released inside you was it just sexual bliss or was there so oh sh!t im married and i just let another man go off inside me heart pumping out of your chest moment?

[venus-can99]

Thanks for outlining NYE from your viewpoint as well DDWHW. It makes for a fascinating read. I do have one question, when you were being introduced as his gf, posing for pictures, etc. were you wearing your wedding rings? Not that it matters, my view is that the rings are just an external symbol, real love in the heart is the foundation of a good marriage which you seem to have with the cuck and take pains to express that to him.

[elina]

Dear DDWHW

Happy new year to you and thanks for your wonderful update.

DDWHW - I will add on to what cuck said about NYE. It was an amazing night from my point of view for many reasons, all of which a year ago I would have insisted would not happen. But as you have seen, life takes some strange twists and turns doesn't it?

Yes, and if I may so, your story is so incredibly stimulation to all of us wanna-be cucks still hoping our Wives will make the leap.
And also, it strongly encourages us to prepare to accept that when this happens, the Lady deserves to be in charge and it is for us to support Her.

It was tough saying goodbye to cuck before I left, he did seem a little sad which is why I had to rationalize the events to him. NYE is supposed to be romantic right? Well, then that should be with the one you are romantic with, that made clear sense to me. I will say when I left I was probably already a touch wet with anticipation already. One reason is I had already decided which outfit I was going to wear.

The outfit was more daring than I expected, but I was committed. After getting ready (with my boyfriend watching me) I sent the selfie to cuck to let him know. And off to the party we went.

I admire your loving firmness, and yes I think this was exactly what DDW wanted and needed to hear.

The whole evening I was introduced as his girlfriend and it felt nice. Lots of food, lots of champagne. It was simply a fun party. Everyone was dressed up, a few other ladies even seemed as daring as my outfit. But this is where I have noticed a difference in myself. The old me? I would have hid sheepishly in a corner (not including the fact I never would have worn this outfit to begin with), but now I am much more confident in myself. So I wore it proudly. I think that is one reason I chose it, to confirm that inner confidence. So that was a victory in my mind.

You, and all the Ladies who let themselves go, are so wonderful and it is so good to see how these relationships stimulates your self esteem and inne confidence. Don't let anything distract you. Your loving cuck should now be even more madly in love with you and willing to do what it takes to support you.

We posed for the couples picture and I quite liked it. A nice pic of us both and it felt right. Once the clock struck midnight we retired to our room but did not sleep as you can imagine. But the one thing cuck did not say, it how reassuring my boyfriend was to me. Constant compliments about me, how I looked, how I acted. It was great. He told me how happy he was to have found me and to have me on his arm. That no doubt led to our conversations the next morning, those that cuck outlined.

I am still wondering if your Girlfriend there also knows your hubby, how many people in his and yours social circles now know he is a cuck?

And my thoughts on those conversations? I have no issues with them at all. I am clearly in a relationship with this man now, confirming we are bf/gf simply makes sense. And cuck is defined as just that, the cuckold. This was his doing and I love my soulmate for allowing me to experience these new thrills. And the resolutions? They make sense to me and I am willing to fulfil my end as both a doting girlfriend but also a devious cuckoldress...if that makes sense?

It was a confident, romantic night. It was awesome.

So, the year is off and running, now to see where it goes. DDWHW

You go girl.
Be loving and firm with your hubby, don't be afraid to make demands from him.
You should train him to take over most of the domestic duties in Your home now to free up your time to exercise, apply makeup and enjoy yourself with your boyfriend.

Sincerely
elina

[mundyman]

DDWHW - I will add on to what cuck said about NYE. It was an amazing night from my point of view for many reasons, all of which a year ago I would have insisted would not happen. But as you have seen, life takes some strange twists and turns doesn't it?

It was tough saying goodbye to cuck before I left, he did seem a little sad which is why I had to rationalize the events to him. NYE is supposed to be romantic right? Well, then that should be with the one you are romantic with, that made clear sense to me. I will say when I left I was probably already a touch wet with anticipation already. One reason is I had already decided which outfit I was going to wear.

The outfit was more daring than I expected, but I was committed. After getting ready (with my boyfriend watching me) I sent the selfie to cuck to let him know. And off to the party we went.

The whole evening I was introduced as his girlfriend and it felt nice. Lots of food, lots of champagne. It was simply a fun party. Everyone was dressed up, a few other ladies even seemed as daring as my outfit. But this is where I have noticed a difference in myself. The old me? I would have hid sheepishly in a corner (not including the fact I never would have worn this outfit to begin with), but now I am much more confident in myself. So I wore it proudly. I think that is one reason I chose it, to confirm that inner confidence. So that was a victory in my mind.

We posed for the couples picture and I quite liked it. A nice pic of us both and it felt right. Once the clock struck midnight we retired to our room but did not sleep as you can imagine. But the one thing cuck did not say, it how reassuring my boyfriend was to me. Constant compliments about me, how I looked, how I acted. It was great. He told me how happy he was to have found me and to have me on his arm. That no doubt led to our conversations the next morning, those that cuck outlined.

And my thoughts on those conversations? I have no issues with them at all. I am clearly in a relationship with this man now, confirming we are bf/gf simply makes sense. And cuck is defined as just that, the cuckold. This was his doing and I love my soulmate for allowing me to experience these new thrills. And the resolutions? They make sense to me and I am willing to fulfil my end as both a doting girlfriend but also a devious cuckoldress...if that makes sense?

It was a confident, romantic night. It was awesome.

So, the year is off and running, now to see where it goes. DDWHW

Quite a trip down the rabbit hole.
The question is how deep, to what level, will you go with your boyfriend?
Sometimes those who are convinced they are in control are the last to realize that they aren’t.
What are your plans for the next big romantic, couples holiday, Valentines Day?

[Deepdownwannabe]

There was another new wrinkle this week as well, told to me last night. She told me they were going to have a middle of the week hook-up. The proverbial nooner. She told me the night before it was to happen, that she was going to meet him at lunch. This was a first and it was today.

So of course, watching her get ready this morning took on a new perspective, especially seeing that little extra care given. And yes, she did seem as if she put a little extra effort into the makeup and the lingerie for an otherwise workday.

[MustBeDenied2]

If I recall correctly, mid-week dates were one of the boyfriend’s initial requests. Seems like your cuckoldress is moving forward with her plans. Do you see mid-week overnight stays down the road? And have you been released since your Christmas present?

[lockedhappyhubby]

"It makes sense doesn't it? If you are a true cuck."

My sweetie stated very mater of fact to me when we started our cuckold lifestyle journey "Careful what you wish for honey."
Wasn't long I was missing my cage when it was off.
Enjoy the ride.

[Deepdownwannabe]

If I recall correctly, mid-week dates were one of the boyfriend’s initial requests. Seems like your cuckoldress is moving forward with her plans. Do you see mid-week overnight stays down the road? And have you been released since your Christmas present?

I have no idea her down the road plans and no I have not been released. She even referenced that when she was getting ready this morning.

[snooper56]

So, is this working for you? Is it all good? Seems to be good for her, which may have been your goal. Your comments make it hard to get a read on how this is affecting you, other than your are locked and not getting to have sex with your wife.

[elina]

If I recall correctly, mid-week dates were one of the boyfriend’s initial requests. Seems like your cuckoldress is moving forward with her plans. Do you see mid-week overnight stays down the road? And have you been released since your Christmas present?

I have no idea her down the road plans and no I have not been released. She even referenced that when she was getting ready this morning.

Dear DeepDownCuck

That of course is how it should be for a proper cuckold.
Your Wife made it very clear before She started this that if She decided to cuckold you, and you did not object before She started down that road, this would be on HER terms. You did not make any attempt to stop her.

Therefore I assume this is what you wanted, and now your Wonderful Wife and Cuckoldress seems to enjoy this perhaps even more than you.
No way back for you now mate, you have just got to be prepared to walk happily along the path your Goddess is taking you.

I envy you, and good luck!!
Please keep us posted

Sincerely
elina

[MustBeDenied2]

Do you have a safeword?

You mentioned that your sex life was previously “vanilla,” yet you and your wife already had a chastity device that you’d played with before. I take it that you’ve had conversations about power exchange, female led relationships, denial, etc. before, beyond what you’ve described to us since September. Your wife seems to really enjoy the denial. Mine, too.

[safira]

is it mean, here, to say that you might never get to be physically intimate with your wife again? this happens in life, for many reasons. is that a turn on for you? it kind of is for me. for the reason you’ve chosen. when it wouldn’t be a choice isn’t any kind of turn on.

do you think she might move in with him?

[elina]

Dear Safira,

This is the cuckold forum.
Here it would not be mean to say that "you might never get to be physically intimate with your wife again"

In the cuckold forum, there are lots of Wives who will take complete control of their own and their husbands sexlife, some of these Ladies will demand that their husbands will never again have sex.

However, from what I have seen on this thread, I don't see this happening here quite yet, but maybe I am wrong.

Sincerely
elina

[Deepdownwannabe]

More surprises today. She came home and did not say a word about the "nooner". But also, when I came home earlier I found a package delivered from Amazon. I hadn't ordered anything so was unsure what it could be. Only when I opened it did it dawn on me. My wife had ordered a timed safe. One you could set the time before it opens. She never mentioned it to me, and I certainly had not ordered it but here it was on the kitchen table, where I left it until she got home.

She smiled when she saw it. "That was quicker than I thought". I asked her what it was for and her response was rather alarming. "to put my key in so there was a known, minimum set of time that you would locked. He suggested it might be a good idea and I think it is a good idea. Don't you think?"

I didn't answer but she knew this was going to weigh on me. It didn't help when she told me to take off her anklet, the one holding her key. My hands were shaking as I took it off and gave it to her, and she just dropped it in the safe. "Test run" as she put 75 hrs into the combination and clicked enough buttons before it beeped and ultimately started counting down. "There, you are guaranteed to be locked for 75 hrs. That will take it right through this weekend". Fuck this was a new wrinkle.

[Deepdownwannabe]

Do you have a safeword?

You mentioned that your sex life was previously “vanilla,” yet you and your wife already had a chastity device that you’d played with before. I take it that you’ve had conversations about power exchange, female led relationships, denial, etc. before, beyond what you’ve described to us since September. Your wife seems to really enjoy the denial. Mine, too.

No there is no safeword. The odd conversation happened before but never in a "this could happen" manner

[elina]

More surprises today. She came home and did not say a word about the "nooner". But also, when I came home earlier I found a package delivered from Amazon. I hadn't ordered anything so was unsure what it could be. Only when I opened it did it dawn on me. My wife had ordered a timed safe. One you could set the time before it opens. She never mentioned it to me, and I certainly had not ordered it but here it was on the kitchen table, where I left it until she got home.

She smiled when she saw it. "That was quicker than I thought". I asked her what it was for and her response was rather alarming. "to put my key in so there was a known, minimum set of time that you would locked. He suggested it might be a good idea and I think it is a good idea. Don't you think?"

I didn't answer but she knew this was going to weigh on me. It didn't help when she told me to take off her anklet, the one holding her key. My hands were shaking as I took it off and gave it to her, and she just dropped it in the safe. "Test run" as she put 75 hrs into the combination and clicked enough buttons before it beeped and ultimately started counting down. "There, you are guaranteed to be locked for 75 hrs. That will take it right through this weekend". Fuck this was a new wrinkle.

Wonderful!!

I am more and more impressed and amazed by your Wonderful Wife and Cuckoldress.

SIncerely
elina

[lockedhappyhubby]

DDW, I hope through it all you realize how lucky you are to have encouraged and unleashed a cuckoldress many many men would love to give their key too.
As elina has written, She's become a wonderful wife, become the wonderful loving caring cuck for her that you are.

[grnlght]

Maybe the BF does not want the anklet with a key showing while they are out with other couples might give the wrong impression that he is the cuck if others don't know the entire situation. Timed safe problem solved, tho it is hot as he!! having the wife wear an anklet & key when out on a date but she did say they are in a "relationship" now so maybe it was the next step to hide the anklet and key and cut the cuckold hubby part out of their viewed in public together realm. Would shed some light on their intent if she would divulge if they exchanged the I love you's yet or that isn't where the relationship is heading.