Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by residueS » Tue Jan 02, 2024 4:12 pm

Good to hear, you are at a great place now. Yeah, when you sleep depraved your mind go to crazy places, been there done that.

I think your wife is really turn into someone that fit quite a lot of your fantasy I would assume?

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by jratt85 » Tue Jan 02, 2024 4:19 pm

drstrangelove wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2024 2:01 am
jratt85 wrote:
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if you want to give her a real thrill, buy her Skyn non-latex condoms. From everything I've read and heard they are pretty much like wearing nothing for both partners. They're more expensive but worth it. (I need them because I'm allergic to latex.. should I ever go there.. but learned about the side benefits) There's plenty of reviews on Youtube if you want to check it out.
Ok cool. I need to go to drug store today, so I can see if they carry them. I know nothing about condoms as it’s been 20 years since I was routinely using them. I bought them double lubed Trojans the first time.

Edit: Did some research and read that non-latex condoms are less affective at preventing transmission of disease, so until he’s tested, I’d rather be safer. Went with a 24-pack of Trojan Bareskin, which were actually a bit more expensive than the same amount of Skyn condoms!
only if the non-latex are "natural" as in sheep skin which actually do nothing to stop STD's and very little to prevent pregnancy.. makes you wonder why they exist. https://www.verywellhealth.com/skyn-non ... oms-906782
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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by drstrangelove » Tue Jan 02, 2024 4:51 pm

residueS wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2024 4:12 pm
Good to hear, you are at a great place now. Yeah, when you sleep depraved your mind go to crazy places, been there done that.

I think your wife is really turn into someone that fit quite a lot of your fantasy I would assume?
Yea, for sure. I feel like I’m living my fantasy right now.

I suppose my only concern is I really don’t have a good read on how my wife feels most of the time. I get the sense that she regrets reaching out to F yesterday and would have preferred waiting for him to text—she reached out and there was no fun banter, just logistics picking the next fuck date. As I’ve mentioned, the banter and flirting is a big part of the enjoyment for her, so I could see her cool a bit on this if he doesn’t put in a bit more effort.

She was really excited the other day to see him again this week and now it feels a bit uninspired. I could be reading it poorly though—she had a big day today, working out early and then commuting to office, so she might wake up ready to go.

This time I suggested that I’ll just be in bed waiting for her, so she can come right upstairs and get into bed with me.

I’m going to go to bed soon—it’s wild to think 12 hours from this post he will be balls deep inside her.

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by residueS » Tue Jan 02, 2024 8:30 pm

drstrangelove wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2024 4:51 pm
residueS wrote:
Tue Jan 02, 2024 4:12 pm
Good to hear, you are at a great place now. Yeah, when you sleep depraved your mind go to crazy places, been there done that.

I think your wife is really turn into someone that fit quite a lot of your fantasy I would assume?
Yea, for sure. I feel like I’m living my fantasy right now.

I suppose my only concern is I really don’t have a good read on how my wife feels most of the time. I get the sense that she regrets reaching out to F yesterday and would have preferred waiting for him to text—she reached out and there was no fun banter, just logistics picking the next fuck date. As I’ve mentioned, the banter and flirting is a big part of the enjoyment for her, so I could see her cool a bit on this if he doesn’t put in a bit more effort.

She was really excited the other day to see him again this week and now it feels a bit uninspired. I could be reading it poorly though—she had a big day today, working out early and then commuting to office, so she might wake up ready to go.

This time I suggested that I’ll just be in bed waiting for her, so she can come right upstairs and get into bed with me.

I’m going to go to bed soon—it’s wild to think 12 hours from this post he will be balls deep inside her.
I think a lot of time you may not have a good read on what people’s thought because they are not exactly sure themselves. I felt she may flip flop based on F’s attitude.

Anyway, good luck for tomorrow!

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by drstrangelove » Wed Jan 03, 2024 4:40 am

After I went to bed last night, my wife stayed downstairs watching TV. She decided to reach out to F just to confirm things were still good for the morning. She attempted some banter, telling him how much she used to enjoy meeting him in the parking garage and giving him BJs in public, but he was a bit lame in his responses, just agreeing with her, etc.

So she gave up and came to bed—I was still up and she told me he was being a wet noodle. I asked if she was still excited to see him and she said “Of course, but he better fuck me really good because he’s not giving me anything to work with here.”

We then went to bed and I had a restless sleep—anticipation was a lot and my mind wouldn’t calm down. Nothing negative or anxious though.

By around 4:30 a.m. we were both up. She cuddled into me and drifted in and out of sleep over the next few hours. At one point she felt me getting a bit hard pressed against her butt and she asked if I was ok.

Me: I just can’t believe he’s going to fuck my wife again. This wasn’t just a one time thing—it’s crazy—he’s just going to keep fucking you.

Wife: Yes, babe, he is. But you have to keep your promise and not cum until I get back later.

Me: Of course, babe.

She then fell asleep on my chest again and I tried to calm my mind.

We got out of bed at 7 a.m. and both woke the kids up and got them ready for school. My wife went back up to shower around 7:30 as I finished getting son out the door.

I went up a few minutes later, walking into the bathroom. She was in the shower, one leg up, shaving her leg and pussy. It was such a powerful image and I told her how beautiful she looked.

We chatted briefly asking each other if we were nervous and neither of us were this time around. Felt more like anticipation.

She came out of the shower and I went in, so now I was watching her at the vanity, cover herself in lotion and doing her hair and makeup. In 15 minute she had transformed into his perfect fuck doll while I watched.

I put the cage on and she got dressed—we went with red lace bra and panties this time. She then put on jeans and a white, see through shirt with one button holding it together, allowing you to clearly see her red bra.

She put the chastity key around her neck and put two condoms in her pocket.

We went downstairs and shared a brief but passionate kiss. I told her I loved her and that she should let go and have fun. I added, “we’re crazy,” to which she replied, “we are, but this doesn’t seem like a big deal since it just happened four days ago.”

I replied, “True, it almost feels routine already.”

Wife: “Exactly—it’s our new routine. Love you!”

She then left and I watched her pull out of the driveway.

When she arrived, she texted me she loved me and I told her to have fun. So she’s inside his house now and I suspect they’ll be fucking at any moment.

On the bright side, it’ll likely be a shorter visit this time, so hopefully I’ll hear from her within the hour. I’ll try to provide an update before I go to therapy at 1 p.m. if I have time.

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by mf2hd82 » Wed Jan 03, 2024 6:03 am

She was tempted to cancel with F today, but decided she really needed another visit and rearranged work stuff to make it work. I also told her she was welcome to cut into her time with me and just make me cum fast if she wants extra time at F’s.
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Well gee whiz isn't that nice of you :roll: As a good cuck you should have told her to feel free to cut into her time with you and enjoy herself and not worry about making you cum right now. Just let it happen when it happens and enjoy the cuckold denial.

I also think it's adorable that she likes to call you cuck now. I hope you don't let that hurt your feelings.

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by drstrangelove » Wed Jan 03, 2024 7:13 am

She was tempted to cancel with F today, but decided she really needed another visit and rearranged work stuff to make it work. I also told her she was welcome to cut into her time with me and just make me cum fast if she wants extra time at F’s.
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Well gee whiz isn't that nice of you :roll: As a good cuck you should have told her to feel free to cut into her time with you and enjoy herself and not worry about making you cum right now. Just let it happen when it happens and enjoy the cuckold denial.

I also think it's adorable that she likes to call you cuck now. I hope you don't let that hurt your feelings.
Of course, but it's a bit too soon for that--she's being very kind and accommodating to ensure I don't have a bad experience and spiral. She's aware that for her to be able to keep doing this, she needs to manage my emotions a bit--and she wants to keep doing this. To her this is a long-term thing and she wants to control how it goes, so she's not going to risk blowing anything up over a Wednesday morning quickie (which I'll be posting about it full shortly...).

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by drstrangelove » Wed Jan 03, 2024 8:02 am

So she was in his house at 8:38 a.m. this morning and I got the text from her that she was back in her car at 9:20 a.m.: "Had fun! Headed home! *kiss emoji*"

So like the Saturday session, I'll go through it chronologically as i think it'll be easiest to follow.

They exchanged texts and he told her the door was open, so she walked in his house to find him lying naked on his bed. She said, "Wow, I need to get caught up so I can join the party," as she stripped down to her red lingerie (which I cannot emphasize enough hot hot she looked in it).

(And it's been awhile since I've described how she looks: 5'5" 115 pounds, perky small tits, smooth big ass, waterboard flat stomach and strawberry blonde hair down to her mid-back. She's beyond gorgeous for the age of 39 and the hottest mom among thousands in my area.)

She climbed into bed and they immediately began making out--he loved the red lingerie and didn't want to take it off, so she bent over in front of him, kissing down until she got his cock in her mouth. He loved the view and the BJ and was moaning and complimenting how good she is.

He then flipped her onto her back and peeled off her underwear, giving her oral. He made her cum in his mouth and then he moved up to put his tongue back in her mouth and she tasted herself. (Note: it's hit or miss whether or not I can make her cum from oral--she claims it's just because she's more turned on with him, so she cums easier.)

He then flipped her over on her hands and knees and licked her ass and asshole and she told me it felt really good.

He then grabbed a condom and entered her from behind, fucking her hard and deep doggystyle. He railed her for a long time and she felt an orgasm building, but before she came, he flipped her over, put her legs over his shoulders, and buried himself into her. He was gripping her ass and driving full length deep inside her and she had an incredible orgasm.

As she was coming down from hers, she noticed how close he was, so she told him he could cum anywhere he wants (expecting him to put his cock in her mouth because they had discussed her swallowing). But her words were too much for him and he couldn't get the condom off in time and he came deep inside her inside the condom. She could tell he was annoyed that he didn't get to take advantage of her offer.

It was now 9:15 a.m. and they both realized there wouldn't be enough time for a proper round two, so my wife began to get dressed. They barely exchanged any words; my wife thought she said something like "talk soon!" as she was walking out the door.

So once she texted me, I went upstairs to the bedroom and got into bed naked (with my cage). This was way better than the first time because I was so relaxed--and in turn, she was more relaxed.

She walked in, stripped down to her lingerie, and climbed on top of me in bed, straddling my chest. She reached her hand back and unlocked my cage as she began telling me what happened.

I asked if I could see what he had done to her tight little pussy and she told me I could of course see it.

She took off her panties and sat back down on my chest, leaning her right arm back to start stroking my dick; my eyes fixated on her swollen lips inches from my face.

She apologized that I didn't have any cum to lick up this time, but promised I'd get future opportunities. At this point she was telling me about how he made her cum hard from his tongue, and I asked if I could clean up the mess she made.

Wife: "Mmm, you want to lick my pussy after you know his tongue and cock were just inside it? You can do that, babe," as she moved up to sit on my face.

I gently licked her as she told me the full story and stroked my dick.

After the story, she climbed off of me, sitting up on my right side, still stroking me, and we began to chat. She told me I was the most amazing husband for letting her experience so much pleasure and that she can't wait to see him again. She told me she's even open to seeing him again before I leave for Italy, but if it doesn't work out, she has a lot of plans for when I'm gone, including sexy pics and likely a vid of her masterbating to send him. She told me she'll only share them with me after he's had time to enjoy them first.

She told me I'm going to have to get used to doing everything after he's done it: seeing her in new lingerie, photos and vids, licking and fucking her pussy. She loves me and treasures our life together, but sexually she's now his.

I then asked if there was anything I do sexually that's better than him, to which she replied after a five second pause:

"You are better at getting hand jobs than him...though I don't really know because he's never let me give him one. All he ever wants is to fuck me."

She then added that she can't wait to discuss this with her sister, especially how accepting I am of mostly getting HJs now that I'm fucking another man--and how her sister is going to think I'm the the most caring and compassionate husband.

I came all over my chest and she helped me clean up. We cuddled and chatted a bit as I came down from my orgasm. She's gotten really good at aftercare and she makes me feel so loved and accepted. And she told me how much fun she is having with this and is really looking forward to seeing F more--she wants this dynamic to last because she's so happy and satisfied.

We then went downstairs and I made us a late breakfast before she had to run off to some work meetings.

Honestly, while I'm not completely adapted to it all yet, this has been incredibly exhilarating. Today was awesome. I know people have varying interests with cuckolding, but today was the kind of moment my dreams have been made of for years. It's perfect and I'm so happy that I'm getting to experience this.

And I recognize the many potential pitfalls on the horizon, so hopefully today's therapy session is a good ward against those and we can continue to build this awesome relationship.

And lastly, to all the wannabe cucks out there, if you have the opportunity to try this, go for it. It's been such an incredible ride to live out these fantasies with the love of my life.
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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by elina » Wed Jan 03, 2024 10:22 am

drstrangelove wrote:
Wed Jan 03, 2024 8:02 am
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Honestly, while I'm not completely adapted to it all yet, this has been incredibly exhilarating. Today was awesome. I know people have varying interests with cuckolding, but today was the kind of moment my dreams have been made of for years. It's perfect and I'm so happy that I'm getting to experience this.
Thanks DrSL

Given your struggles and doubt, I am very glad to see that you are now accepting that you did the right thing here.

When you reflect back now, is there something you wish you had handled better?
Is that something you should share with your Wife? (and by the way, thanks for reminding us on Her looks; She looks georgeous by your description.

Sincerely
elina

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by US31 » Wed Jan 03, 2024 10:28 am

Good job,Doc. Thanks for sharing! That’s a hot read.

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by drstrangelove » Wed Jan 03, 2024 10:51 am

elina wrote:
Wed Jan 03, 2024 10:22 am
drstrangelove wrote:
Wed Jan 03, 2024 8:02 am
..................................

Honestly, while I'm not completely adapted to it all yet, this has been incredibly exhilarating. Today was awesome. I know people have varying interests with cuckolding, but today was the kind of moment my dreams have been made of for years. It's perfect and I'm so happy that I'm getting to experience this.
Thanks DrSL

Given your struggles and doubt, I am very glad to see that you are now accepting that you did the right thing here.

When you reflect back now, is there something you wish you had handled better?
Is that something you should share with your Wife? (and by the way, thanks for reminding us on Her looks; She looks georgeous by your description.

Sincerely
elina
Elina, that’s such a difficult question to answer. I’d love to give others who desire this advice, but it feels like patience and time are likely required. You just need to create a playing field where when an opportunity arises, your wife will consider it.

But in my shoes, if I didn't force my kink, she wouldn’t have had the affair; and if she didn’t have the affair, she wouldn’t be openly cucking me now; and if she wasn’t openly cucking me with her AP now, no chance I’d have at potentially opening this to other guys in the future.

So I think I did so much wrong, but I have no idea what I’d change to still arrive here. I don’t know how to decide which mistakes weren’t needed.

So many wives are fearful of how they’re husbands will react if they go down rabbit hole, so it took my wife seeing me encourage her to go fuck her former AP again for her to make the leap.

And this isn’t just about her fucking another guy, it’s about her having fun doing it and us feeling totally in love with each other. Getting all those things to line up feels like a miracle to me in retrospect.

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by mf2hd82 » Wed Jan 03, 2024 11:52 am

drstrangelove wrote:
Wed Jan 03, 2024 8:02 am


She told me I'm going to have to get used to doing everything after he's done it: seeing her in new lingerie, photos and vids, licking and fucking her pussy. She loves me and treasures our life together, but sexually she's now his.

I then asked if there was anything I do sexually that's better than him, to which she replied after a five second pause:

"You are better at getting hand jobs than him...though I don't really know because he's never let me give him one. All he ever wants is to fuck me."

She then added that she can't wait to discuss this with her sister, especially how accepting I am of mostly getting HJs now that I'm fucking another man--and how her sister is going to think I'm the the most caring and compassionate husband.

Ohhh She's good! I think she's a natural cuckoldress.

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by Rockhard11 » Wed Jan 03, 2024 12:21 pm

Not sure if you talked about this anywhere in the thread already, but you might want to put an asterisk beside the (Not) in Not a cuckold, but…

Congrats either way! This was a long road for the two of you.

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by drstrangelove » Wed Jan 03, 2024 12:29 pm

Rockhard11 wrote:
Wed Jan 03, 2024 12:21 pm
Not sure if you talked about this anywhere in the thread already, but you might want to put an asterisk beside the (Not) in Not a cuckold, but…

Congrats either way! This was a long road for the two of you.
No idea how to change the title.

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by drstrangelove » Wed Jan 03, 2024 12:43 pm

Update:

Therapy went well this afternoon. No surprises and it was great to see my wife feel good while being in the office—she noted it was her first time in the room where she doesn’t feel guilty. That was nice to hear.

We discussed what we wanted out of the sessions and therapist was not judgmental of us—she recognized that ship had sailed and it was about helping us manage the situation we are choosing to be in.

Highlight of the session was when therapist turned to my wife and said: “Just so I’m clear though, I understand this is a turn on for your husband, but why are you choosing to do this?”

My wife, smiling ear to ear: “Because it’s fun!”

Therapy ended and we drove home, both having to deal with a lot of neglected work today. But the vibe was good—I could tell my wife was relaxed and happy. As she explained today, it was so fun for her to drive over there for a quickie—she left feeling great about herself and ready to take on the day. She’s really doing great and it’s awesome to see.

We’re supposed to play again tonight, but I know we are both tired from getting up early and the long day, so we’ll see.

Next steps are seeing how we handle the next few days emotionally—hopefully all good—then seeing how things go while I’m away for a week. Looking back, it’s been such a whirlwind the last two weeks. Surreal.

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by jratt85 » Wed Jan 03, 2024 2:48 pm

Sounds like your wife is already starting to get bored with him and she's going to have to learn to be more confident in herself and ultimately get used to finding new partners every now and then when she gets bored. I think the "NRE" is already gone and she's realizing that just being a fuck hole isn't her thing, she wants to be wanted and wants to hear how sexy her partner thinks she is and everything instead of just wham bam get outta my house! (I know that's not how it goes but its more suiting this way) With your description, I know some black dude at a bar would be all over her.. we all know how much they love a woman with an ass on her whereas most white guys go for huge tits. (I can't help but wonder if she'd feel sexier if she had a big round set of implants preceding her everywhere she went) Really listening to your physical description of her and her issues with her slutty past in school etc, she reminds me so much of a girl I used to know named Beth, right down to the small boobs, nice ass, and strawberry blonde hair. *sigh I miss her.. wish I could've dated her. I could see Beth getting into cuckolding at some point too.
Believe it or not I'm still a virgin. I'm autistic & didn't know till 30. Blame my cuck side on dad's Penthouse Letters in my teens & women teasing me on Myspace @~20. Yes I'm 6'10.

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by drstrangelove » Wed Jan 03, 2024 3:22 pm

jratt85 wrote:
Wed Jan 03, 2024 2:48 pm
Sounds like your wife is already starting to get bored with him and she's going to have to learn to be more confident in herself and ultimately get used to finding new partners every now and then when she gets bored. I think the "NRE" is already gone and she's realizing that just being a fuck hole isn't her thing, she wants to be wanted and wants to hear how sexy her partner thinks she is and everything instead of just wham bam get outta my house! (I know that's not how it goes but its more suiting this way) With your description, I know some black dude at a bar would be all over her.. we all know how much they love a woman with an ass on her whereas most white guys go for huge tits. (I can't help but wonder if she'd feel sexier if she had a big round set of implants preceding her everywhere she went) Really listening to your physical description of her and her issues with her slutty past in school etc, she reminds me so much of a girl I used to know named Beth, right down to the small boobs, nice ass, and strawberry blonde hair. *sigh I miss her.. wish I could've dated her. I could see Beth getting into cuckolding at some point too.
I don’t think this is the case yet, but I do think she wants to be validated and pursued. I think there are a few factors lining up that she is happy with—I’m going to Italy so there is a built in hiatus from him coming and her period is coming soon so she’s usually less horny leading up to it.

F’s behavior over the next couple of weeks will dictate how this goes—he’ll either keep the flame lit and they’ll have a fun meet planned shortly after I return or he’ll be more passive and she’ll keep things more casual.

Ultimately, that could lead to her getting bored of him over the next few months, but not yet. Unless he completely blows it, she’ll lean on this as a casual hookup when she’s in the mood for a fun, light quickie.

I do wonder when it ends if she’ll have a bug planted to consider other lovers; too early to know though.

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by Rogueuser1 » Wed Jan 03, 2024 4:15 pm

Awesome - glad to hear it went so well today for all three of you. Hopefully they'll be able to get together again soon and she'll keep doing a good job following the rules while also getting a good fucking.
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Unread post by jratt85 » Wed Jan 03, 2024 10:49 pm

The "F" thing has me cracking up.. I'm sitting here "How many F names are there? Frank, Fred... .... .... Ferdinand." and of course being the dork I am that has me thinking back to Rolling Kansas "My name?... My name is Ferdinand..." "My name? My name too is Ferdinand.." "Heads up here, this Ferdinand thing might be code.." "Guys enough with the Ferdinand shit.." One plus side to being autistic, remembering random things that you connect the dots to that leave you cracking up for no reason.. and I haven't even smoked in a couple days!
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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by elina » Thu Jan 04, 2024 4:19 am

drstrangelove wrote:
Wed Jan 03, 2024 12:43 pm
Update:

Therapy went well this afternoon. No surprises and it was great to see my wife feel good while being in the office—she noted it was her first time in the room where she doesn’t feel guilty. That was nice to hear.

We discussed what we wanted out of the sessions and therapist was not judgmental of us—she recognized that ship had sailed and it was about helping us manage the situation we are choosing to be in.

Highlight of the session was when therapist turned to my wife and said: “Just so I’m clear though, I understand this is a turn on for your husband, but why are you choosing to do this?”

My wife, smiling ear to ear: “Because it’s fun!”

Therapy ended and we drove home, both having to deal with a lot of neglected work today. But the vibe was good—I could tell my wife was relaxed and happy. As she explained today, it was so fun for her to drive over there for a quickie—she left feeling great about herself and ready to take on the day. She’s really doing great and it’s awesome to see.

We’re supposed to play again tonight, but I know we are both tired from getting up early and the long day, so we’ll see.

Next steps are seeing how we handle the next few days emotionally—hopefully all good—then seeing how things go while I’m away for a week. Looking back, it’s been such a whirlwind the last two weeks. Surreal.
:up: :up:

Thanks DrSL

This is really wonderful!!

How proud you must be to be selected as the hubby of your Wonderful Wife, and now witnessing how She no longer feels any guilt for what She is doing and brazenly telling the therapist She enjoys doing this because it is fun.

Seems to me that each of you individually and thw two of you as a couple have made tremendous progress over this past month.

Really looking forward to foolow your journey going forward now.

Sincerely
elina

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by Redwine » Thu Jan 04, 2024 12:43 pm

Hello Doctor

Now that your lovely wife has fully committed herself to her new cuckold relationship with you is she aware and does she read your ongoing thread?

I do recall that she once put her thoughts down on a thread in the wayward side section on the SI site.

Would she be willing to do similar on your thread here (just like David in Jane’s hotwife thread and DDWHW in deepdownwannabe thread) as we would love to hear of her feelings and thoughts about this new adventure.

Regards

Redwine

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by drstrangelove » Fri Jan 05, 2024 1:20 am

Redwine wrote:
Thu Jan 04, 2024 12:43 pm
Hello Doctor

Now that your lovely wife has fully committed herself to her new cuckold relationship with you is she aware and does she read your ongoing thread?

I do recall that she once put her thoughts down on a thread in the wayward side section on the SI site.

Would she be willing to do similar on your thread here (just like David in Jane’s hotwife thread and DDWHW in deepdownwannabe thread) as we would love to hear of her feelings and thoughts about this new adventure.

Regards

Redwine
She is aware of this thread—in fact, after the affair, we spent a night looking at it together. I do not believe she reads it or even remembers what site it is on.

My wife and I have very different personalities and transparency is a big difference—I’m an open book, be it with her or on here. She’s more protective of her privacy and it’s unlikely she would be comfortable posting here.

You’re right that she did post a few times on the wayward section of SI, though it was at my urging. It’s not something she enjoyed or valued.

However, what I’ve learned these last few weeks is to never say never. It’s hard to tell right now where this all goes, so I wouldn’t eliminate the possibility down the line.

Ultimately though, this thread for me is to explore the psychology of what is happening on my sexual journey; my wife is very uninterested in that for herself. She doesn’t want to talk about it or even think about it. This dynamic for her is as simple as it’s fun to fuck F and her husband seems to like it—there’s seemingly no deeper layer for her.

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by Rogueuser1 » Fri Jan 05, 2024 1:27 pm

I know you are jetting off to Italy soon. Hopefully you have had a recent/up to date conversation with your wife and heard her thoughts and opinions of how things should be while you are gone while also presenting your own thoughts and opinions.
Will she have a chance to see him again before you go? Does she want to? If I recall correctly she's either right at or approaching the peak fertility point in her cycle so she's probably pretty hot right now or soon will be. That will certainly be an added complication while you are gone!
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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by drstrangelove » Fri Jan 05, 2024 3:48 pm

Rogueuser1 wrote:
Fri Jan 05, 2024 1:27 pm
I know you are jetting off to Italy soon. Hopefully you have had a recent/up to date conversation with your wife and heard her thoughts and opinions of how things should be while you are gone while also presenting your own thoughts and opinions.
Will she have a chance to see him again before you go? Does she want to? If I recall correctly she's either right at or approaching the peak fertility point in her cycle so she's probably pretty hot right now or soon will be. That will certainly be an added complication while you are gone!
I leave on Monday, so still a few days, but we have discussed that she won’t see him while we’re apart, but everything else is game—she’s expecting some accelerated sexting; perhaps pics and vids. And the idea would be to set the next meet for the week I’m back (after Jan. 15).

Of note though, they haven’t communicated since Wednesday—he hasn’t sent a text and she doesn’t want to text first. Her plan is to wait it out at least a few more days. He’s probably thinking the same thing, but I’d bet one of them will cave at some point by early next week.

Everything is going great though. My wife met with her therapist earlier today and had a great session. My wife loves the arrangement and feels her confidence boosted and has no intentions of stopping.

Her and I had a date night tonight—I took her out to dinner at a local restaurant she has wanted to try snd we discussed our situation at length on the car ride home.

It’s strange because it’s clear both of our primary concerns are each other: I’m worried about how she’s emotionally handling this, his non-texts after sex, etc.; she’s worried about how I’m handling it. But neither of us wants to stop doing it and we both eagerly agree we are enjoying it.

She is so deadpan about it all that it relaxes me.

She asked me if I was going to be ok seeing F at the town sweetheart dance next month when we each bring our little daughters. I told her I’d be fine, and I won’t care if he has a big head knowing he’s fucking my wife, and she just replied: “Well yea, he is fucking your wife, babe.”

Which is an obvious statement, but she’s so casual about it I feel comforted that this is now safe—it’s routine.

We got back home and I told her how gorgeous she looked and how turned on I am that we are doing this. We started making out.

The lingerie I ordered arrived and she put it away, noting that she really wants to buy a purple silk bra she saw, so I said sure. She added matter-of-fact: “It won’t be for you.”

I replied: “Fuck, that’s so hot. Let me buy it for you.”

Her: “I’m so glad you like it, but I’m buying it; maybe you can buy bottoms for it.”

We were now on the bed and making out from our knees. I threw her down and dove into her pussy, licking her until she was writhing.

After a few minutes I sat up and told her to flip over, to which she replied: “gladly.”

I fucked her hard doggy style, gripping her hair and smacking her ass, telling her how good her pussy has felt since she started fucking him again.

After a few minutes she creamed hard on my cock and I pulled out, flipping her over. I told her to spread her legs wide and I fucked her hard until I came all over her tits.

It was all so much fun! We both had a blast and the vibes are awesome.

Edit: Regarding her period, she’ll be getting it within the next few days. For her, she’s actually least horny just before it starts and most horny right as it ends. So it’ll work out, she can play it low this week while I’m gone and then be incredibly horny coming out of her period the week I’m back.

Honestly, the only thing that could mess with the momentum now is if he decides he doesn’t want free hot pussy anytime he wants—which makes it all seem a bit too good to be true…

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Re: Not a Cuckold, but Thought I'd Share My Situation

Unread post by Pompeii_76 » Sat Jan 06, 2024 5:35 am

This is a wonderful thread, DrSL, thanks for all your time in recounting it. There is a massive shift in self-perception in these situations, as you have alluded too. Those of us who have been cuckolded have one day an ego threshold to cross. I think we tell ourselves, on some level, that this is all role-play, but there comes a day when we realise that, however outwardly successful and confident we project, we are actually beta males, sexually, and that whilst our partners love us for the stability and love we provide, she is actually seeking out the alpha for sexual activity. It wasn’t a role play after all. There is actually a great freedom in acceptance, particularly where as here your wife and you can both acknowledge that another man will be doing the fucking from here on in

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