Evolving from pussy to cock

[Teensy1]

In my case being rendered permanently pussyfree probably accelerated my attraction to cock. I had experimented with it when I was younger and occasionally during our marriage so bottoming for men seemed quite natural. I definitely identify as gay now and am quite comfortable being out.

[xucked]

In my case being rendered permanently pussyfree probably accelerated my attraction to cock. I had experimented with it when I was younger and occasionally during our marriage so bottoming for men seemed quite natural. I definitely identify as gay now and am quite comfortable being out.

I believe long periods of denial certainly nudge me along

[Teensy1]

Quite so. No man ever has denied me his cock. All I have to do is drop to my knees. Before long this cuck has a mouthful of cream.

[bradisalpha]

I have also learned many men have these tendencies lurking or wanting to try but society pushes them back..

So true. It is what I have come to understand as I have seen it played out over and over. Those tendencies are very common, and many times a driving force behind wanting his wife to fuck others.. to watch another cock and hoping to join in her pleasure.

As I see it…

Brad

[Teensy1]

I’ve always enjoyed spreading my cheeks for friends.

[Teensy1]

At least once a week. Once you’ve bottomed for a friend he starts expecting it on a regular basis.

[isinlarsa]

I had my first experience sucking a cock at an early age -- I think I was about 14. I did an overnight at a friend's house, and he was much more advanced than me. He spent the evening before we went to bed talking about sex with girls. That way he got me sexually aroused -- a first experience being hard with another person. Then he continued as we lay in our beds; and gradually talked me in to first feeling each others' cock and then in sucking each other. He wanted to cum in my mouth, but that was too much for me. My life might have gone in a completely different direction but societal pressures kept me from continuing. I'm sure my friend was not gay, but bi-sexual. Truly a missed opportunity

I put that experience deep in my subconscious and went on to have a normal heterosexual life for many years. The women I was with were into open relationships, so I had my share of hotwife and cuckold experiences.

Then my girlfriend started playing with my anus as she gave me a blow job. I discovered I received extreme pleasure as she finger-fucked me and hit my prostate as she blew me. But I was too shy to ask women to do that to me.

The next experience I had was with a long-term fuckbuddy who had a bi-sexual boyfriend. She said she always wanted to watch two men suck each other. She made it sound so intriguing that I agreed to a threesome with her boyfriend. During the male-to-male contact, I found I didn't enjoy his hand on my cock. Maybe that's the way I go, or maybe he just wasn't the right man. However, I was fascinated with his cock. He was much bigger than me and it made me hot to have it in my hand, and I gladly suck him. Having his large hard cock in my month sent me into a sensual level that I never experienced before. That's all we did, but I have fantasize ever since sucking him until he erupted in my mouth. I have tasted men's cum many times in eating out my wife after she's been fucked, but I think I would want to have it "from the tap." Unfortunately, I didn't push things further with them. I think I would have gone further, but I wasn't willing to take the lead.

Next I had a girlfriend who was into trying new things sexual. She was in a unsatisfying marriage and her husband encouraged her to take a lover. I ended up being the lucky fellow. She didn't have much experience, but she ended up "researching" all sorts of new things we could do. She read that men could enjoy being stimulated anally, and asked me if I wanted to try it. I told her about the finger-fucking my old girlfriend had done to me years before and admitted I enjoyed it. She started by using her finger on me, and then asked if she could fuck me with her dildo.

I lay on my back, and pulled my legs up and apart exposing my ass-hole. She used a lot of lube and inserted the dildo into me. There was a psychological aspect to submitting to a woman penetrating me, but the physical experience was also intense.

I was older by then, and my opportunities are fewer, and I am afraid the fantasies these experiences are going to be unfulfilled. I treasure my many heterosexual experiences, but I do wish I had had the nerve to actually suck another man until he cums in my mouth and, even more, to have the experience of a live cock fucking me. Knowing what I know now, I'm sure my life might have gone in a different direction.

[sana9889]

I think more men should enjoy cock. Especially those who dont get pussy.
I like both cock and pussy, but cock always feel more satisfying to play with.
A pussy won't get hard and show you that its enjoying you the same way a cock does. I have faked enjoyment with a lot of men.

[isinlarsa]

I think more men should enjoy cock. Especially those who dont get pussy.
I like both cock and pussy, but cock always feel more satisfying to play with.
A pussy won't get hard and show you that its enjoying you the same way a cock does. I have faked enjoyment with a lot of men.

When a man can get free of that sigma of being gay, it can be quite liberating -- not holding back during threesome but just letting nature take it's course. I learned that too late in life.

Of course, you are looking at it as a woman, so I can see that a cock would been more satisfying to play with. Do you enjoy seeing a man play with another man's cock?

Too bad you have had to fake it with a lot of men. I hope there were also a lot of men who showed you a good time.

[sana9889]

I think more men should enjoy cock. Especially those who dont get pussy.
I like both cock and pussy, but cock always feel more satisfying to play with.
A pussy won't get hard and show you that its enjoying you the same way a cock does. I have faked enjoyment with a lot of men.

When a man can get free of that sigma of being gay, it can be quite liberating -- not holding back during threesome but just letting nature take it's course. I learned that too late in life.

Of course, you are looking at it as a woman, so I can see that a cock would been more satisfying to play with. Do you enjoy seeing a man play with another man's cock?

Too bad you have had to fake it with a lot of men. I hope there were also a lot of men who showed you a good time.

It is true that i am looking at it as a woman.
However, I am generally more attracted to women. I do however understand that outside of doms, there is limitations on terms of.aggression and dominance that women cannot provide that i still enjoy.
Seeing a pussy gets me more aroused any day compared to the biggest cocks. Bit still.. cocks get hard, throb, twitch, drip and shoot. The feedback it gives is very honest and thrilling. An erection can't be faked. Neither can ejaculations.
This is why even a lot of pure lesbians prefer gay male porn.

[bradisalpha]

An erection can't be faked. Neither can ejaculations.

This is so true !!! As a BF, this makes it very easy to watch how far a cuckold will go while I am enjoying his wife. Pussy free is my first goal in the progression of dominating a cuckold .. leading to him on his knees sucking my cock in front of his wife. Each little step and mention along the way is measured by his dickie, and as you said.. “An erection can’t be faked. Neither can ejaculations”. It is a barometer that doesn’t lie !!

From my experience….

Brad

[sana9889]

An erection can't be faked. Neither can ejaculations.

This is so true !!! As a BF, this makes it very easy to watch how far a cuckold will go while I am enjoying his wife. Pussy free is my first goal in the progression of dominating a cuckold .. leading to him on his knees sucking my cock in front of his wife. Each little step and mention along the way is measured by his dickie, and as you said.. “An erection can’t be faked. Neither can ejaculations”. It is a barometer that doesn’t lie !!

From my experience….

Brad

The first stage for him is to want to please someone. That's how feminine women are. Pleasuring our man is more important than
gratification through physical stimulation.

If he cant please a woman, or get the feedback and validation... a cock.getting hard in his mouth or ass.. or better yet cumming in him or from him.. there is no better validation than when a man cums inside you.

[AZPainter]

I believe this transition happens in some ways with many men after being denied, but not all. I do have some thoughts on people, men and some women about bisexual activities at times, but this isn't the thread for my thoughts based on personal experience.

In my case I had a very similar situation as Isinlarsa, in fact I may owe him a PM reply. I have told my story before in other OHW threads and my experiences were many years ago, I am closing in on my mid 80's so I am speaking a lot using my rather vivid memories. I dated women off and on before marrying as well as after my divorce from my wife, but in the last couple of years of the 1990's I just got tired of the common ways it took before being allowed sex with women in general. Sucking cock was and is very direct in most cases and I admit I truly enjoyed giving head to other men. I did some as "clean up" at times with my wife and lovers who were okay with it. But since the late 90's I have been pussy free and the only sex I have is sucking off other men. I still enjoy doing it, but due to limited ways of contacting and meeting other men. I am not as active as I once was, but still love doing it whenever the occasion happens.

[ucaneffher]

I believe this transition happens in some ways with many men after being denied, but not all. I do have some thoughts on people, men and some women about bisexual activities at times, but this isn't the thread for my thoughts based on personal experience.

In my case I had a very similar situation as Isinlarsa, in fact I may owe him a PM reply. I have told my story before in other OHW threads and my experiences were many years ago, I am closing in on my mid 80's so I am speaking a lot using my rather vivid memories. I dated women off and on before marrying as well as after my divorce from my wife, but in the last couple of years of the 1990's I just got tired of the common ways it took before being allowed sex with women in general. Sucking cock was and is very direct in most cases and I admit I truly enjoyed giving head to other men. I did some as "clean up" at times with my wife and lovers who were okay with it. But since the late 90's I have been pussy free and the only sex I have is sucking off other men. I still enjoy doing it, but due to limited ways of contacting and meeting other men. I am not as active as I once was, but still love doing it whenever the occasion happens.

I'm no expert but would like to attempt to chime in... I think some men are simply more predisposed to being curious and wanting to try a different umm, flavor? Regardless whether they are denied pussy, single, or simply encouraged by their partner. There have to be many factors and variables that can lead a man to wanting to try it beside those.

I don't accept that being a cuckold turns a man gay but inversely, I think a secretly bi l-curious or gay man can use cuckolding as a gateway to masking his hidden sexuality or curiosity. In other words, I think the cuck was already gay to begin with but used cuckolding as excuse to come out and say his wife denies or he is submissive to the wife and bull. This is why you see so many men here say it's not homosexual behavior to suck cock because it just a label yada yada, or my wife's bull made me, or my mistress made me...when in reality he has been wanting to try all his adult life.


I was denied pussy for over a year and watched my GF be a slut for a bunch of men without me getting any pussy and I would get rejected whenever I would try to get it from her. She would tease and foreplay but when it came down to putting it in, she would giggle and remind me it was for other men. I was a stag/cuck for 7 years and never once felt curiosity or desire to play with a other man.

Cucks, there is nothing wrong with it, but just don't blame the cuckold lifestyle if you came subconsciously pre-wired with desire for man-on-man activities.

[Buitenman]

I believe this transition happens in some ways with many men after being denied, but not all. I do have some thoughts on people, men and some women about bisexual activities at times, but this isn't the thread for my thoughts based on personal experience.

In my case I had a very similar situation as Isinlarsa, in fact I may owe him a PM reply. I have told my story before in other OHW threads and my experiences were many years ago, I am closing in on my mid 80's so I am speaking a lot using my rather vivid memories. I dated women off and on before marrying as well as after my divorce from my wife, but in the last couple of years of the 1990's I just got tired of the common ways it took before being allowed sex with women in general. Sucking cock was and is very direct in most cases and I admit I truly enjoyed giving head to other men. I did some as "clean up" at times with my wife and lovers who were okay with it. But since the late 90's I have been pussy free and the only sex I have is sucking off other men. I still enjoy doing it, but due to limited ways of contacting and meeting other men. I am not as active as I once was, but still love doing it whenever the occasion happens.

I'm no expert but would like to attempt to chime in... I think some men are simply more predisposed to being curious and wanting to try a different umm, flavor? Regardless whether they are denied pussy, single, or simply encouraged by their partner. There have to be many factors and variables that can lead a man to wanting to try it beside those.

I don't accept that being a cuckold turns a man gay but inversely, I think a secretly bi l-curious or gay man can use cuckolding as a gateway to masking his hidden sexuality or curiosity. In other words, I think the cuck was already gay to begin with but used cuckolding as excuse to come out and say his wife denies or he is submissive to the wife and bull. This is why you see so many men here say it's not homosexual behavior to suck cock because it just a label yada yada, or my wife's bull made me, or my mistress made me...when in reality he has been wanting to try all his adult life.


I was denied pussy for over a year and watched my GF be a slut for a bunch of men without me getting any pussy and I would get rejected whenever I would try to get it from her. She would tease and foreplay but when it came down to putting it in, she would giggle and remind me it was for other men. I was a stag/cuck for 7 years and never once felt curiosity or desire to play with a other man.

Cucks, there is nothing wrong with it, but just don't blame the cuckold lifestyle if you came subconsciously pre-wired with desire for man-on-man activities.

Well said. I think there is even a darker side to the 'it made me gay' defense.
It suggests people can be converted. Even today, there are lots of places where it's normal to send hay people to conversion institutes, to make them heterosexual.
This causes tremendous trauma to many gay people. And it does not work.
Man is responsible for many things, but who we love is out of our control.
Saying this lifestyle turned someone gay is therefore indirectly justifying gay conversion.

If someone is gay or bi. So what. Enjoy yourselves.

[St4gC7ck]

I have had about 10 intercourse with the single same friend in my life from like 17 to 24. sporadically like once a year. and I have sucked and been the one getting fucked by his live cock, as big as mine. I loved it, been bi but more attracted to woman all my life. but I love cocks, a lot, its why I love big black cocks also, i jerk off to a lot off bbc porn and sissy, cuck cleaning. It's my favorite. I dont like kissing, holding hands typa thing, i really just love sucking them, admiring them, getting cummed in my ass. My gf , knows these trips and all iv written right now. she never did mind. so yeah of course I wish soon when our story really starts, that she would one day deny me and make me force on cocks. But I kinda dont wanna lose her pussy and asshole, iv loved eating em both. I dont think shel be hardcore anywyas. wel see.. one things sure I dont mind and I am ready for cocks in my life, especially the ones my gf would enjoy and love.

[sana9889]

How do you compare cock to pussy,

[ucaneffher]

How do you compare cock to pussy,

Besides being two sexual reproductive components, they are as different as comparing car tires to strawberries.

[AZPainter]

I would suggest anyone thinking about gay and bisexual personalities read The Bisexual Option by Dr. Fritz Klein MD. This is still available and a second, maybe third editions are available. I read this book probably about 30 years ago. I also went to a seminar Dr, Klein gave at Arizona State University (ASU). This book explains everything we are talking about here, other than a cuckold converted to being bi or gay. He even has a chart one might call a test that anyone, male or female can use. Basically bisexuality and other emotions are feelings (emotions) that are stronger or weaker depending on stimulating situations a person may find themselves in. Watching or reading porn, meeting someone that stimulates another person and what is talked about or suggested, a real life situation someone is involved or suggested from outside stimuli, such as becoming a cuckold reading about it or it actually happening to them.

I am probably not explaining this well as I should, but I think all get the idea of what this book explains so well. I do know it explained what I have felt all my life from the first cock I sucked until now. I probably spent over half my life confused with my sexual desires. I was always turned on by both men and women. I don't meet or see a man and think anything sexual unless sex is the intended situation, For me it is all about the cock and giving the pleasure to him and that is what turns me on. I am often turned on with meeting or seeing an attractive woman. Just her appearance can be the trigger. My change to sucking cock exclusively is purely the attitude and "games" (for want of a better word) of dating, dealing with women sexually and all that is involved in "courting" and maybe eventually having sex with one. And often no matter how "perfect a man's abilities in dating and seduction it does not happen. Women think much differently than men when it comes to sex, and that is their right, nothing wrong with it. I do not dislike or hate women, I still love painting them on canvas. It is the "games" or maybe a better word is the procedure required to maybe be successful in getting to which ever intention one has. Maybe that is just sex or maybe wanting a relationship which may last a lifetime. For me as a fine art painter (a very powerful passion of mine) I live a very solitary life. I do not have the time or the sexual ability I used to have now that I am approaching my mid 80's very soon. Parts of me do not work anymore at all but trust me, my mouth works better than it ever did.

[AZPainter]

ucaneffher, Buitenman I hope no one thought I was making excuses or using the weak "wife made me gay" defense. Absolutely not and if I sounded like I was that is on me for not explaining my story well enough. I'm a painter, not a writer. I agree there is probably some curiosity or something in the mind of men that will even try sucking cock let alone move to it exclusively as I did. I had sucked several cocks long before I married. I dated girls as a youngster and women when I got older. Sucking a cock was just something I enjoyed between girlfriends and horny as most men are. My giving up pussy for cocks was due to me tiring of all one has to go through with dating and all that. I explained this elsewhere and won't go into here in this reply. I knew I enjoyed giving head to other men, I enjoyed it before my first date as a youngster. At first I never heard the term bisexual back in the 50's (I'm 83 now) I just knew I liked sex with men and was also very attracted to women and enjoyed being with them. I still find them the most beautiful creature ever created. I is how most think when it comes to dating and sex which is their right and I don't blame them for it. I just got tire of going through it all with every woman I dated. With men it was all about sex and the hard cock for me. So the transition was easy for me. I still love talking with women, supporting my female friends in all they do and believe and treat them as equals and in some cases better than some of us knuckle draggers. And painting them as a very enjoyable break from doing the paintings I am known for.

[sana9889]

So would you be able to go back to pussy after getting cock?
It seems like one way evolution.

My husband likes getting anal from my strapon. And its our normal sex now with him. Thats the way he gets his release.
As far as i know he has not had any real dick (other than the two times my bf trick-fucked him- he was blindfolded and thought it was me) I do encourage him to go out and get some dick and that it would be good for him. So far he has not. Or at least told me about it. He hasnt had any pussy, or even mouth or hand for over 18 months now.

If offered a pussy.. would it even get you hard anymore? Or do you only get hard for dick once you start down that path.

[sana9889]

Btw... on the note of my bf.

He has a lot of girls.
His wife and I are the regulars. We both invite other girls for him to have sex with. Boys as well sometimes.

He does like to enjoy both. 80% women.
He does not receive anal very often. Once in a while he does share one with us. He does like sucking. He told me its because you cant fake an erection and ejaculation. So its satisfying for him in a different way to get someone off for real. He feels sexual knowing he made someone aroused (with visual confirmation of an erection) Same with when he fucks an ass and makes a man cum from anal. I know i feel very empowered when i make a man cum using my strapon so i can understand this part.

[takemoment]

I have ventured from thinking I was strictly heterosexual to definitely bi. Watching my wife getting fucked, I realized I was starting to pay more attention to the guys and getting a hard on from that. Then when the opportunity arose to suck one of the guy's cock, I think I got hooked. Let's just say I have had a few experiences of my own with guys

[isinlarsa]

I believe this transition happens in some ways with many men after being denied, but not all. I do have some thoughts on people, men and some women about bisexual activities at times, but this isn't the thread for my thoughts based on personal experience.

In my case I had a very similar situation as Isinlarsa, in fact I may owe him a PM reply. I have told my story before in other OHW threads and my experiences were many years ago, I am closing in on my mid 80's so I am speaking a lot using my rather vivid memories. I dated women off and on before marrying as well as after my divorce from my wife, but in the last couple of years of the 1990's I just got tired of the common ways it took before being allowed sex with women in general. Sucking cock was and is very direct in most cases and I admit I truly enjoyed giving head to other men. I did some as "clean up" at times with my wife and lovers who were okay with it. But since the late 90's I have been pussy free and the only sex I have is sucking off other men. I still enjoy doing it, but due to limited ways of contacting and meeting other men. I am not as active as I once was, but still love doing it whenever the occasion happens.

Would look forward to a PM from you. You and I are in the same decade of age, which shows that this whole sexual scene is not something that has recently started.

[AZPainter]

I believe this transition happens in some ways with many men after being denied, but not all. I do have some thoughts on people, men and some women about bisexual activities at times, but this isn't the thread for my thoughts based on personal experience.

In my case I had a very similar situation as Isinlarsa, in fact I may owe him a PM reply. I have told my story before in other OHW threads and my experiences were many years ago, I am closing in on my mid 80's so I am speaking a lot using my rather vivid memories. I dated women off and on before marrying as well as after my divorce from my wife, but in the last couple of years of the 1990's I just got tired of the common ways it took before being allowed sex with women in general. Sucking cock was and is very direct in most cases and I admit I truly enjoyed giving head to other men. I did some as "clean up" at times with my wife and lovers who were okay with it. But since the late 90's I have been pussy free and the only sex I have is sucking off other men. I still enjoy doing it, but due to limited ways of contacting and meeting other men. I am not as active as I once was, but still love doing it whenever the occasion happens.

Would look forward to a PM from you. You and I are in the same decade of age, which shows that this whole sexual scene is not something that has recently started.

I totally agree and have replied to you PM just now. Back when I became involved with this lifestyle Many if not most of the terminology didn't even exist that I am aware of, and I was pretty deeply involved in it with my then wife.