Potentially the Start

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the excellent update DDWHW. What a sexy description of the way you dressed unleashing the inner "hooker", the evening in the Gentlemen's club and being the goodluck charm for your bf.
Now that you have done a short trip with him and gotten over the nervousness are you looking forward to going away with him again now that spring and summer are around the corner? A nude beach perhaps?
Any big plans for the upcoming Valentine's day?

[Deepdownwannabe]

DDWHW - I guess I can answer a few of the questions that were aimed in my general direction. Thank you for all the compliments first of all, I've never been used to this much positive attention in my life and it is quite a feeling. A cuckold's dream? I never thought I'd ever be called that.

I was asked if I enjoy cucking my hub? I do. I never thought I would, but I do, it seems to have flicked a switch inside me. I guess he wanted a taste of life like this but we are clearly a little past a taste and I love seeing the looks on his face, or just the overall level of comfort he seems to be missing now.

No, they have not been introduced and I honestly don't know what the next step will be. I'm not sure what can be next if there is a logical progression in all of this.

As for the travelling, yes it was fun, new and exciting. And depending on how things play out, I absolutely would travel again. As someone said, going somewhere new does allow a level of uninhibitedness to play out, as you saw with my "alter ego". And that did excite me for a few reasons. First because it seemed to make my bf very happy but secondly it gave that element of unknowing or concern to cuck - just what was happening? And I absolutely love that element of uncertainness bouncing around his little cuck head. Memories of my weekend pop into my head every few minutes it seems. I willingly was topless in a strip club? I still can't comprehend that aspect.

Did I trick cuck into the rest of the month? I'm not sure if I would call it that, but I do feel a little more at ease when he is caged, then I know there is no expectation or hope of anything physical with him. So it relaxes me a little more if that makes sense. And a relaxed cuckoldress is a good cuckoldress?

I have no plans for Valentines yet, but do have an idea clicking around in my head. I'm sure you will heaar about it. Otherwise, I will see what the future brings to cuck and I.

DDWHW

[Bluetoed]

Did I trick cuck into the rest of the month? I'm not sure if I would call it that, but I do feel a little more at ease when he is caged, then I know there is no expectation or hope of anything physical with him. So it relaxes me a little more if that makes sense. And a relaxed cuckoldress is a good cuckoldress?

I don't think he was tricked. I think you just let him discover that he was going to get caged for the rest of the month regardless for what he chose to do. It was more of a teasing to let him think that he might not if he chose correctly. In the end, it was revealed to be unavoidable.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the update DDWHW - you describe events and emotions very well - its like you are taking the readers along for the journey as your relationship evolves... Always look forward to both of your updates and cant wait to hear your Valentine's Day plans (shoud the cuck be worried?)

[edgedndenied]

Thanks DDWHW for the update.
Is your goal to eliminate most if not all intimate physical contact with your husband. Do you see him as being denied PIV sex or being totally pussy free.

[safira]

Is your goal to eliminate most if not all intimate physical contact with your husband.

i was confused earlier in the story where it seemed that the boyfriend had requested no contact/exclusivity of physical intimacy. it seemed that that was brushed aside by DDWHW.

[Mike4Fun]

Hey DDWHW
Any fun plans for the Super Bowl :-)
Mike

[KevDi69]

DDWHW, thanks for sharing your Vegas experience with us. Hotel sex in Vegas-I have fond memories of my experience there.
If you haven’t spent it already, you should have DDW take that $20 bill and get it framed so you can put it up prominently in the bedroom where he will constantly be reminded of your trip and your experience on stage.

[MustBeDenied2]

Is your goal to eliminate most if not all intimate physical contact with your husband.

i was confused earlier in the story where it seemed that the boyfriend had requested no contact/exclusivity of physical intimacy. it seemed that that was brushed aside by DDWHW.

She stated at the outset that she would only be having PIV sex with one person (so no intercourse for cuck, except for Christmas, with a condom). The boyfriend requested limiting intimacy with DDW, but I don’t think it was ever relayed to us that he insisted on sexual exclusivity. Many commenters insisted that is coming and, I suppose, are disappointed that DDWHW has not cut him off completely.

MBD

[Deepdownwannabe]

She went to his place last night but there was no show in advance. She just kissed me goodbye and went. And when she came back the today it was just a normal thing to her. I had to start asking myself was this normalcy? The plan is to watch the game together tomorrow.

[grnlght]

poof

[MustBeDenied2]

The plan is to watch the game together tomorrow.

Meaning you and your wife or your wife and her boyfriend?

[Deepdownwannabe]

The plan is to watch the game together tomorrow.

Meaning you and your wife or your wife and her boyfriend?

No, just my wife and I

[Mike4Fun]

DDW,
Other than the dinner date that you watched from the bar have you ever been in DDWHW's boyfriend's company or close proximity where you were aware of each other, and if so, what were your thoughts?

[Deepdownwannabe]

I have not

[venus-can99]

She went to his place last night but there was no show in advance. She just kissed me goodbye and went. And when she came back the today it was just a normal thing to her. I had to start asking myself was this normalcy? The plan is to watch the game together tomorrow.

Is this the "new" normal Are you making any wagers on scores, outcome, etc.? Perhaps with your unlocking on the line ?

[safira]

DDW,
I'm not Nostradamus, but from the outside, the trajectory appears to be towards you being her affectionate roommate at best. Do you have any interest in feminization? It might be the only avenue for you to remain in her life in any way close to what you were.
Others credit DDWHW with being a natural hotwife. I don't read her that way. I see a monogamist. She had one partner. Now she has another.
If boyfriend wants her to cohabit, do you think she will say no?

[_xavier_]

I would be surprised if she brought the BF in as a replacement husband, actually. My sense is she is truly DDW's wife and loves their relationship, but that he has never brought out this sex bomb side of her, and she's getting exactly what she needs on that front from the BF. But notice their time together is all working themselves up and exploding in sexual energy. They had to hold themselves back from sex in the hotel room because that is what they default to, and their weekend was mostly living out sexual fantasies one by one. They don't seem to have as much of a non-sexual chemistry like she must feel toward DDW as her husband

I feel like DDWHW wasn't chasing that when this started a few months ago, and that's because her normal self has never been this alpha slut persona and I suspect the connection she loves most is the one she has with her husband. She cuddles him every night. She shows him the most affection when she's domming him. This BF, and the role she gets to play when she's around him is just exciting, and I think it turns her on to another level, but she's spent a lot of time focused on how to dominate and humiliate her cuck, and that's not something I'd expect to see from a woman who has simply found a better option.

Some day I think she'll run out of new exciting sexual adventures to have with her bf (let's hope it's not soon!) and detach from him or at least reduce the time she spends with him. But I'm not sure if that will change how she plays with cuck. They seem to have a very loving relationship and as most cuckolds on here will tell you, the use of orgasm denial and treatment she gives him only makes him behave as an even more devoted husband to her. I think this is likely to be the best version of their dynamic. And she may find other men to scratch the itch of sex after this BF fades. Hopefully DDW still feels this is the sort of excitement and sexual energy that works for him in their marriage.

But that is the risk he took.

[_xavier_]

To DDWHW: I hope you have started using this February lockdown time to it's full advantage... It's a great opportunity to put DDW in his place as you see fit under the threat of more hours being added for any attitude or disobedience, and the promise that his behavior and "extra" thoughtfulness between now and then will be taken into consideration when you decide whether to set the time lock for fewer days (and how many) in March, or stay with this "new normal"...

[safira]

I would be surprised if she brought the BF in as a replacement husband, actually."

There's validity to your argument, but I don't think people are generally able to separate their sexual lives from their emotional lives, especially if the sexual relationship is consistently with one particular other. There may be other elements that DDWHW hasn't shared that could keep her around, like children or extended family relationships, mutual property ownership, etc. outside of this, from the limited picture we get here, you all have my reading.
I think I'm irked by DDWHW's moves and attitude and, reflecting, it occurs to me that it's because I sense some basic dishonesty towards DDW. I go back to what I've commented before: she was gone before any of this began.

[safira]

I would be surprised if she brought the BF in as a replacement husband, actually."

There's validity to your argument, but I don't think people are generally able to separate their sexual lives from their emotional lives, especially if the sexual relationship is consistently with one particular other. There may be other elements that DDWHW hasn't shared that could keep her around, like children or extended family relationships, mutual property ownership, etc. outside of this, from the limited picture we get here, you all have my reading.
I think I'm irked by DDWHW's moves and attitude and, reflecting, it occurs to me that it's because I sense some basic dishonesty towards DDW. I go back to what I've commented before: she was gone before any of this began.

[txrockdog]

I would be surprised if she brought the BF in as a replacement husband, actually. My sense is she is truly DDW's wife and loves their relationship, but that he has never brought out this sex bomb side of her, and she's getting exactly what she needs on that front from the BF. But notice their time together is all working themselves up and exploding in sexual energy. They had to hold themselves back from sex in the hotel room because that is what they default to, and their weekend was mostly living out sexual fantasies one by one. They don't seem to have as much of a non-sexual chemistry like she must feel toward DDW as her husband

I feel like DDWHW wasn't chasing that when this started a few months ago, and that's because her normal self has never been this alpha slut persona and I suspect the connection she loves most is the one she has with her husband. She cuddles him every night. She shows him the most affection when she's domming him. This BF, and the role she gets to play when she's around him is just exciting, and I think it turns her on to another level, but she's spent a lot of time focused on how to dominate and humiliate her cuck, and that's not something I'd expect to see from a woman who has simply found a better option.

Some day I think she'll run out of new exciting sexual adventures to have with her bf (let's hope it's not soon!) and detach from him or at least reduce the time she spends with him. But I'm not sure if that will change how she plays with cuck. They seem to have a very loving relationship and as most cuckolds on here will tell you, the use of orgasm denial and treatment she gives him only makes him behave as an even more devoted husband to her. I think this is likely to be the best version of their dynamic. And she may find other men to scratch the itch of sex after this BF fades. Hopefully DDW still feels this is the sort of excitement and sexual energy that works for him in their marriage.

But that is the risk he took.

I get the whole “Once you tell me yes, we are seeing this through to the end” ultimatum as it was explained by DDWHW to DDW at the beginning, but it just seems so fatalistic and lacking in true communication to me. I am not criticizing them if that is what works for them, but how does she know he isn’t seething inside and slowly losing his love and respect for her if she never stops to ask how he is doing? He expresses some hesitation on here at times, but immediately papers it over with a very fatalistic “oh well” type of response because he said yes at the start, so how can he object? Is there some point where she eventually stops and says “ok, game over for a minute…where is your head at? What parts have you liked and not liked so far? How can we make this better for you?” And expresses the same to him about where she is at.

It may be that I am just not wired the same way, but relationships need work and trust and communication, and it seems like that one time where she gave him an out is being used to cut off an entire line of communication about a very strong and intense part of their relationship. Maybe more communication like that is happening and we are just not hearing about it, but if not, it seems like a great way for a lot of resentment and dislike to build up if there is never any opportunity to discuss it and get it out in the open.

[safira]

I get the whole “Once you tell me yes, we are seeing this through to the end” ultimatum as it was explained by DDWHW to DDW at the beginning, but it just seems so fatalistic and lacking in true communication to me. I am not criticizing them if that is what works for them, but how does she know he isn’t seething inside and slowly losing his love and respect for her if she never stops to ask how he is doing? He expresses some hesitation on here at times, but immediately papers it over with a very fatalistic “oh well” type of response because he said yes at the start, so how can he object? Is there some point where she eventually stops and says “ok, game over for a minute…where is your head at? What parts have you liked and not liked so far? How can we make this better for you?” And expresses the same to him about where she is at.

It may be that I am just not wired the same way, but relationships need work and trust and communication, and it seems like that one time where she gave him an out is being used to cut off an entire line of communication about a very strong and intense part of their relationship. Maybe more communication like that is happening and we are just not hearing about it, but if not, it seems like a great way for a lot of resentment and dislike to build up if there is never any opportunity to discuss it and get it out in the open.
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here, here!

[WarrenOldcuck]

Totally agree with txrockdog. Couldn't have put it better myself.

[Bluetoed]

My only concern is that while DDWHW is doing so well being totally dominant in her relationship with DDW, she is the opposite in her relationship with her boyfriend.

I can understand her desire to be submissive during her sex with her boyfriend as that is a major source of why she enjoys sex with him, but her being submissive to him outside of sex is a huge red flag to me.

For example, I think she admitted that her original plan was to just do this to DDW for a few weeks to potentially make him regret having wanted this (I don't remember her exact words, so "regret" may not be the appropriate word, but whatever it was it insinuated that this would be temporary and a one and done event). But having experienced it, she has changed. While change isn't by itself a bad thing, evidence of change, where the dynamic of being the submissive both in and out sex with her boyfriend exists, rings off warning bells to me.

The horror stories of cuckolding never begin with any intent of ending in a nightmare. But when they do, the dynamic of the wife being submissive to her third outside of sex is always present in the stories, and most of the time is the cause of what went wrong.

My advice is for DDWHW to make sure she is dominant to her boyfriend when the sex ends.