a long stony way

[aztd]

Wow

[gruenberg]

So how it went on:

I wrote about the fact that my wife´s last steady lover, Mr. Tattoo, was dating one of my wife´s students at the university. This was a fact with that my wife couldn´t go for a longer time. She feared that she maybe get into some conflicts of interest and decided to end it with Mr. Tattoo, although he was the right partner for her sexual needs at the moment. She was into being his submissive puppy.

The ending of the physicall rough relationship which caused some marks on her body from time to time meant also a big hole in her mental state. My wife was down for a while and it didn´t get better over the time. Even our daughter noticed that something was wrong. Of course we couldn´t tell her the truth, but our daughter is coming to an age that she will notice things. There are some post on the forum dealing with the fact that with growing children in the house it is more difficult to hide everything and you have to be more carefully. We are doing our best.

In the past some similar situations, like with her boss or Mr. Black, happened. I mean, my beautiful mature wife getting bitchy for not having the sex she wants. I´m not helpful in this situation. Of course, i do my best to comfort her, but it is the extramarital sex she desires.
It came not surprisingly, that she had ONSs. I´m using plural.

The first one was at a girls night out with her friends. I didn´t see it coming, but should have known it better. It was a normal getting together with her friends, dinner at a fancy reastaurant, afterwards hitting the bar of an hotel in town. There she met some business man. That evening i should have known it better, really. The way she dressed was a typical sign. New high heels, after all, it is my wife, have been bought for this occasion. Black classic high heels like she already has a hundred times. Black and high. With just a very thin heel. Also she wore very thin black expensive stockings with a garter belt. I´m wondering how many women wear this kind of underwear when going out with their female friends for an evening of girlstalk? Black garter belt with matching panties and bra. All of this is covered up by a nice purple coloured dress. Her hair was done and she got her nails in a matching colour as the dress.
I stayed at home watching my daughter and a friend who stayed for the night.
I heard my wife coming home, the clicking sound of her heels, as a cab drove away. Of course i didn´t know it was a cab, but learned later.
The ladies went to a hotel bar and there she met this business man. She told me it was very difficult to sneak away into his room, not to be noticed by her remaining friends. she was with the last women and waited for their cab outside. After telling everbody goodbye, every of the ladies took a seperate cab and drove away. My wife instructed her driver to go back and returned to the hotel.
She already knew the room of this business man and as she knocked on his door, he opened it already naked. A fact, she told me giggling. They already talked enough at the bar, because my wife told me that she went down on him right there by the open door. She was very proud of herself doing so, it seems.
I asked if they used condoms and my wife told me, that they did, but not for the oral sex.
She didn`t tell me all the details of how they had sex and what they did and so on, but as she undressed, i saw that she wasn´t wearing any panties anymore. She left them there.
I was also informed, that she didn`t stay long at this room, it wasn´t a long session. She told me, that she even did undress completely. For example, she left on her dress and shoes the whole time.
The business man asked her afterwards to meet again, but she said she is married and this was the first time she cheated on her husband and she thought it wouldn´t be good to meet again.

The other ONS she had in the last weeks was kind of different.
My wife had a foreign professor at her department at the university. He stayed for a while in our town. While his stay i accompanied her to a dinner held by the university. Fancy dress dinner. There were about twelve people. Some spouses of the fellow colleagues of my wife too. I wasn´t the only one.
And of course the foreign professor. A charming man and very intelectual. We had some interesting conversation and it was a nice evening.
A few day later my wife came home and told me, that the next day was the last day of his visit and she wanted to say goodbye in an appropriate way. What she meant, i realized the next day as i watched her dressing for her day at the university. She was wearing some very sexy lingerie with nice boots. It is getting cold around here.
She kissed me goodbye and said she loved me and i knew she was spending some hours of the day in another man´s bed.
As she came home that evening, i could see she had sex. She told him to meet her at his hotel and he was very happy. As it turned out, he hoped that they would have sex, but thought after he met me, that she is happily married and not interested. Her answer to this was, that you can have both and she told him, that i knew she was entertaining him.
This time she wasn´t wearing panties under her pantyhose, thatswhy she gave him no souvenir. This stay was longer as the last ONS stand and they did more different things, i have been told. My wife told me, that he is very good at oral.
They made plans to repeat it. Maybe the next time he at her university or she maybe flying to him. We actually don´t know if he is married.

[Rogueuser1]

That is pretty hot that she went out with her friends and still managed to get laid like that... I wonder if any of them realized how much she was into that guy.
Do other folks from your vanilla life know you are a cuckold at this point?

[Lensman2000]

As usual, you're taking your wife's adventures with a stoic resignation. Would you ever try to eroticize her non-monogamous activities so that you too could get pleasure beyond just the comfort of having peace at home with a happy wife?

We're all susceptible to classical (Pavlovian) conditioning and with your wife's help you could learn to actually enjoy and anticipate her playtimes with others. Something as simple as her giving you graphic, juicy details of her trysts while slowly riding you, giving you a hand job, etc. will eventually associate those mental images with your own pleasure and arousal. And, practice makes perfect.

[ccklvr]

The way she dressed was a typical sign. New high heels, after all, it is my wife, have been bought for this occasion. Black classic high heels like she already has a hundred times. Black and high. With just a very thin heel. Also she wore very thin black expensive stockings with a garter belt. I´m wondering how many women wear this kind of underwear when going out with their female friends for an evening of girlstalk? Black garter belt with matching panties and bra. All of this is covered up by a nice purple coloured dress. Her hair was done and she got her nails in a matching colour as the dress.

Thank you very much for this very visual image. It sounds very hot.

And yes, there were signs.....

[gruenberg]

That is pretty hot that she went out with her friends and still managed to get laid like that... I wonder if any of them realized how much she was into that guy.
Do other folks from your vanilla life know you are a cuckold at this point?

according to this evening, nobody realized something about the meeting afterwards. my wife checked with her friends.

yes, there are some other people who know about our situation. not every detail and not everything, but on the long stony way you sometimes have people go with you.

for example, my parents and my wife`s dad know that im not the biological father of our daughter and that she was conceived while my wife had an affair. my wife`s mother died when my wife was a little girl.
our daughter doesn`t know and we don`t want to talk with her about it. every family has a secret, this is ours. i`m not happy about it, but it is the way we have to deal with it. we will tell our daughter, when the time is due, that we used a sperm donation.
our parents don`t know that my wife still has extramarital sex and they don`t know that my wife went back to her boss, after she got pregnant. they believe it was an affair and ended as i found out.

my wife`s gynecologist knows about the extramarital sex my wife has. he is also a good friend of mine. a lady`s man, but my wife never slept with him. there were times we discussed her sexlife and the medical part of it, while sitting on a sunday lunch while he was visiting us.

there is a very close female friend of my wife who knows and there is a former co-worker of my wife, who knows too. this co-worker worked as an escort while doing college and was engaged at that time.

and there are some of the men, my wife had sex with, of course. not all of them knew that i know, my wife played sometimes the cheating wife.

[gruenberg]

As usual, you're taking your wife's adventures with a stoic resignation. Would you ever try to eroticize her non-monogamous activities so that you too could get pleasure beyond just the comfort of having peace at home with a happy wife?

We're all susceptible to classical (Pavlovian) conditioning and with your wife's help you could learn to actually enjoy and anticipate her playtimes with others. Something as simple as her giving you graphic, juicy details of her trysts while slowly riding you, giving you a hand job, etc. will eventually associate those mental images with your own pleasure and arousal. And, practice makes perfect.

your post made me think about the situation you describe. no, i can`t imagine to eroticize more than i already do by being here on the forum. i can`t say that it does not affect me in any erotic way, i wouldn`t be here, if it was that way.
but i can`t see myself in participating like watching or having threesomes with her. my wife would probably wish to have me more involved. you are right, she is giving me many details. i don`t know if it is everything, but she tells me much about her debaucheries. i don`t know if the pavlovian conditioning already worked? maybe. i have to admit, to never thought about that. my wife is bright, maybe it was her plan.

[gruenberg]

The way she dressed was a typical sign. New high heels, after all, it is my wife, have been bought for this occasion. Black classic high heels like she already has a hundred times. Black and high. With just a very thin heel. Also she wore very thin black expensive stockings with a garter belt. I´m wondering how many women wear this kind of underwear when going out with their female friends for an evening of girlstalk? Black garter belt with matching panties and bra. All of this is covered up by a nice purple coloured dress. Her hair was done and she got her nails in a matching colour as the dress.

Thank you very much for this very visual image. It sounds very hot.

And yes, there were signs.....

Sometimes a man doesn`t see what a woman is to tell him. But looking back, this outfit made it clear, that my wife was on a mission.

[Long Lurker 34]

As usual, you're taking your wife's adventures with a stoic resignation. Would you ever try to eroticize her non-monogamous activities so that you too could get pleasure beyond just the comfort of having peace at home with a happy wife?

We're all susceptible to classical (Pavlovian) conditioning and with your wife's help you could learn to actually enjoy and anticipate her playtimes with others. Something as simple as her giving you graphic, juicy details of her trysts while slowly riding you, giving you a hand job, etc. will eventually associate those mental images with your own pleasure and arousal. And, practice makes perfect.

your post made me think about the situation you describe. no, i can`t imagine to eroticize more than i already do by being here on the forum. i can`t say that it does not affect me in any erotic way, i wouldn`t be here, if it was that way.
but i can`t see myself in participating like watching or having threesomes with her. my wife would probably wish to have me more involved. you are right, she is giving me many details. i don`t know if it is everything, but she tells me much about her debaucheries. i don`t know if the pavlovian conditioning already worked? maybe. i have to admit, to never thought about that. my wife is bright, maybe it was her plan.

G - Word of the day. An oldy not seen to much anymore. Nice revival.

[ccklvr]

The way she dressed was a typical sign. New high heels, after all, it is my wife, have been bought for this occasion. Black classic high heels like she already has a hundred times. Black and high. With just a very thin heel. Also she wore very thin black expensive stockings with a garter belt. I´m wondering how many women wear this kind of underwear when going out with their female friends for an evening of girlstalk? Black garter belt with matching panties and bra. All of this is covered up by a nice purple coloured dress. Her hair was done and she got her nails in a matching colour as the dress.

Thank you very much for this very visual image. It sounds very hot.

And yes, there were signs.....

Sometimes a man doesn`t see what a woman is to tell him. But looking back, this outfit made it clear, that my wife was on a mission.

never hold back a woman on her mission.

by the way, you do a great job as a husband.

[US31]

Thanks for the whole thread G. Your wife is so hot!

[gruenberg]

I don't know who remembers in detail everything that has already happened along the stony way and how the situation has developed. There´ve been one night stands, even during the day, but my wife prefers having a steady realtionship. One night stands are for the release of some peaks, but letting herself fall into the trust and confidence of someone who is knowing her better is the situation my beuatiful wife likes more.
Lately, however, there is no one in sight who would fulfill these criteria. My wife even considered to restart her liason with our pool boy, because she liked his hard young body and his youth, a fact that helped her escape her daily routine. But i´m against it. He studies at the university where my wife teaches and it would only be a matter of time before they found themselves in an inappropriate relationship. My beautiful, but obviously not very good at judging the situation, wife has countered that he hasn't told anyone yet and has been very discreet about their affair. He was of the opinion that she was cheating on me. Normally my wife wins any discussion with me, she has this ability to communicate, but in this case she proved me right and won't seduce him. She confessed to me that she would have liked to seduce him in her office at university. In broad daylight, with students and colleagues around.
She hasn't had any extramarital adventures since her last one night stand, and as those who have been following our story for a while know, my beautiful wife tends to get a little unrelaxed when she doesn't get what she needs sexually. My daughter (without knowing what the reason is) and I already notice it.
I guess, it is only a matter of time and just the right man must come by, and my beautiful wife will seduce him.

[german_gear_2018]

Great to hear from you, gruenberg!
As much as I love following your family and your adventures, maybe this would also be a chance to put an end to your wife‘s trysts? It is not your thing, you tolerate it, but I understand that it does not give you pleasure?

[gruenberg]

Great to hear from you, gruenberg!
As much as I love following your family and your adventures, maybe this would also be a chance to put an end to your wife‘s trysts? It is not your thing, you tolerate it, but I understand that it does not give you pleasure?

I'll throw it in the middle like this. I wrote about it awhile ago. I love my beautiful wife and i know she loves me. This is something you feel. Yes, i made no secret about the fact, that i want to have a "normal" marriage. But the first question, what is normal?
The second part, my wife´s extramarital debaucheries are part of her personality and i love her just the way she is. that is the reason i have to accept it, if i want her to be herself.

There is still nobody in my wife´s world who would fit her criteria for a relationship right now. The one night stand i wrote some weeks ago was the only thing that happened lately and my wife is more than desperate to finally let herself slide into her world of fun with others. My guess, there will be a one-night-stand soon to come.

[gruenberg]

How it went on.

It did not come as a great surprise. My beautiful wife was on needles the last weeks. Her mood went down and i know what that means. I did my best to satisfy her, but she needs her little escapes from being a working mother and this is something i can't give to her.

The surprise for me was that she met with Mr. Tattoo. To remember: Mr. Tattoo who is not only a few years younger, but also has an attidude to which my wife likes to submit. She is very submissive with him. He literally can do everything with her. The only thing, he can`t was having a liason with one of her female students. This was too much for my wife and she quit it.
Till these days.
Mr. Tattoo is a lawyer she met a few years ago as he was a student. Now he is working as a lawyer and i call him Mr. Tattoo for obvious reasons. But they are hidden under his expensive suits.

My wife was very unsatisfied the last weeks and got in contact with him. She wanted to shown herself that she can handle it. Well, it took only one meeting for coffee and she was in his bed again doing things a proper housewife doesn't do.

I knew it, as i saw her that very evening afterwards. Her all-around appearance signalled that she had a satisfying afternoon. As i saw her butt later as she undressed for the night, i saw traces of her being presumably a bad girl. He taught her a lesson that she dumped him because of his relationship with one of her students. and my wife took it.

She told me that she can`t be without him right now and that she has to deal with the fact, with her student. My wife told me, that she has to seperate her life at the university and her life of an unfaithful wife. As long as her student won`t find out that her boyfriend is fucking her teacher, everything is alright, according to my wife. Mr. Tattoo sees it that way too and he promised her, to not risk her reputation. My wife really believes him, and i have to say, i do too. It is funny, but i believe him too.

It seems, my wife is in the saddle again.

[Tracey52]

Happy wife they say

[rascalnvixen]

Or maybe Mr. Tattoo is in your sexy wife's saddle again!!!

Rascal

[gruenberg]

And how it went on.

My wife's reltionship with Mr. Tattoo went on but they aren't seeing each ohter that much. Meeting at our home is out of the question, because our daughter might become sensitive that something is about her mother what isn't that easy to understand.

Mr. Tattoo is still seeing his girlfriend which is taught by my wife at the university. That caused some weird situations, like my wife stopped for a lunch meeting by Mr. Tatto's blowing him (submissively) and a few hours later she is talking to her at the seminar still feeling his penis between her lips. That she told me.
Thatswhy meeting with Mr. Tattoo is mostly a quickey with my beautiful wife on her knees blowing him and maybe getting a spanking and some doggy afterwards. She tells me, that she is seldom naked. He made her mostly just pulling her pantyhose down and leaving the rest of her office/teacher clothing on. I once had to inform her, that her skirt had a spot on the backside when she came home after a long day of work and having sex on her way home. It was a light-coloured skirt and her thin pantyhose didn't absorb much of his sperm.

However, this situation made my wife frustrated somehow, she confessed to me recently. A business trip came at just the right time. As a change of pace. My wife had to go to a university abroad for a few days and because this town she had to go was also a beautiful touristic site, she decided to stay two days longer.
The invitation at the university was because of a speech at a conference and also some exchange with the staff of the department which hosted the congress. At such events it is common that the speakers are invited to an informal dinner the evening before and in this case, the hosting department also invited some students who are working at the department. That is how my wife met one of them. In her words, he was not 20 at all and very good looking kid. The word kid is my artistic freedom. My wife didn't call him. He was not only good looking, but also very bright and although there were others around, my wife found some time to talk to him after the dinner when a few of them went to a nearby bar. The bar was at the hotel my wife stayed.
She said, at some point of the evening, most were already gone, the young student flirted with her and she felt very aroused. Blame it on the wine, but she ended up with him at her room.
According to her he had a very hard body, but not the biggest penis. She even told me, that they made it hardly to her room, she went down on him already in the hallway infront of her room. He came very fast while she blew him, but this is not a problem with young kids. While she undressed, he was already ready for round two. He asked her not to undress her stockings, he likes Milfs wearing stockings. My wife giggled, when she told me, that he called her a Milf in this situation. According to my wife, the sex wasn't the best she had, but his body was very nice.
It wasn't midnight, when she asked him to leave and she kissed him in the door, still wearing only her stockings. She said, a older couple from a room nearby just came home and saw them. This episode caused another giggle of my wife, the exhibitionist.

The next day was the convention and her speech and the day was filled with professional stuff. The evening she spend alone but the next day was her holiday and she wanted to do some sight seeing. This didn't happen.
She met with the young student again for lunch and afterwards they skipped the sight seeing and the only thing my wife saw, was this young guys hard body. After lunch they went to a nearby shop to buy some stockings for her. She said, that she only packed pantyhose and this one pair of stockings she already wore. They went to a shop nearby selling lingerie and stockings and purchased some different. Although my wife looks very young, being this typical petite blonde, if was clear for people wathcing them, that he was way younger. They behaved like lovers and my wife said, she felt some strange looks on them.
The rest of the day was filled with her wearing the stockings for him and he liked to lick and kiss her toes and feet and he even came on her feet, she told me. She left this particular pair of stockings at the hotel room.
At the evening they went to dinner and afterwards again sex. You have to be 19 again.

The next day, my wife had to leave but her flight was in the early evening. He even wanted to accompany her to the airport, but my wife declined. She said, she didn't want anyboy she knew from the conference to see her with him. He came by in the morning after my wife had breakfast at the hotel and she welcomed him in another pair of stockings. Only stockings. Nothing else. My wif ecould arrange a late check out and that gave them some time to have fun till the early afternoon.

She was very happy and relaxed when i picked her up at the airport. On the drive home i played with her pantyhose clad legs and when i came with my hand near her crotch, she was very wet. On the way home, she told me about her debauchery of the days before in detail. Some of the points i already knew from daily calls, we did.

Because she was so happy and relaxed, we joked later that we should flew this young kid in the next time. I wonder, if this was only a joke.

[parmaham55]

Thanks, what a hot update! Good that your wife is happy and satisfied. Everybody wins...including us readers of your adventures!

[thinman]

Academic conferences and visiting colleagues really seem to suit your wife well!

[gruenberg]

and how it went on.

Since her last debauchery abroad my wife was very happy and relaxed. It was her little escape from being a perfect wife and mother. This little escapes are giving much to her and that is the reason why i can handle them. I know, she loves me and would never do a harm to our little family and afterwards she told me, that she is very happy having me as such a understanding husband.

We joked that she liked this kid coming by, but this wasn't going to happen. It surprised me that my beautiful wife had another idea. She was really into that kids body and even as the sex wasn't the best, she told me she could teach him. That being said, she made plans to fly oer to him for a longer weekend. I knew, she liked having this time with this young student but it wasn't clear to me, what effect he had on her.

I was fine with it, because this episode made her neglect Mr Tattoo. I prefer her having affairs with men (or in this case young boys) not being a bigger part of our daily life. It means less opportunity to be exposed. Thatswhy i supported her and we made a story up for our daughter that mommy had to go abroad to this university again.

We took her to the airport and were the classic small family. Nobody would have guessed that this mom and wife with her husband and daughter is flying to her young lover for a weekend. On the ride to the airport, my wife on the passenger seat, i saw a glimpse of her stockings. She looked very business like in her outfit and underneath i noticed that she wore black stockings and no pantyhose. A tribute to her young lover?
I felt the same and it reminded me of the time i drove her to her former boss, as she started her time as a hotwife. Now, a few years later it was the similar situation.

As we said our goodbyes at the boarding gate she wishpered in my ears that i am the best husband of all. Nice words of a wife flying away to get some time with her young lover. She kissed us goodbye and was gone. I watched her wiggling her little tight ass walking away.

I got a message from her that she arrived good, the flight went well and she is on her way to the hotel. A hotel she would not leave much the next three days.

We didn't had much communication, i heard her talking to our daughter twice a day but that was it. No information what was going on, just that everything is fine and "good morning" and "sleep well" messages.

We picked her up at the airport and were the classic family. Nobody would have guessed that this innocent looking mother and wife just came home after a weekend of debauchery with a much younger lover.

In the car we couldn't talk much because of our daughter in the backseat but at home while i watched my wife unpack her luggage we had a little time for ourself. First i noticed that she unpacked very sexy lingerie and stockings and high heeled shoes. She did it so casually, as she put the items away. I learned that she taught her young lover better sex and she said, by the end of the weekend, the sex was better. I mocked her that is the problem with young kids, that they don't know what to do, but she said, his body made it up. And she also could teach him, after all, she is a teacher and he is a student in real life.
I also had been told, that he liked her in stockings and she was wearing different ones over her entire stay. He dared her to open the door for the room service only wearing stockings, which she did. If he only knew, that my wife being an exhibitionist by heart would not need that much persuasion doing something like that. But my wife told me, she felt very nasty doing it, because it was so obvious that he was much younger and the woman bringing in the food looked very amused. It was clear what was going on.

They only left the hotel room for eating dinner and in the reastaurant it was the same. They didn't hide being a couple and my wife said, she liked that relaxed situation being far away from home and behave like that.

Then i got another information. They were talking about things she had done and what he already had done and one thing he had never done was anal. So my wife was pleased to introduce him into that. He couldn't believe his luck, she told me, and was very happy that she let him do it. She said, he even took a picture of his penis in her ass and she guessed that he shared this with his friends.

It was a nonstop sex marathon for her and she was very relaxed and satisfied when she came home. The next days till today are the same and i get my treatment of her gratitude. This is the best part for me.

[thinman]

Wow, amazing. Sounds like it was really wonderful for her and it is great to hear that she showed her deep appreciation to you on her return home. I find it interesting that she can get such powerful sexual satisfaction with two very different types of men - the very dominant type to whom she is submissive, and the young man type whom she teaches.

[Sheownsme]

Still catching up at the moment but I skipped ahead a couple years to check if you were still posting. Glad to see you are.

Sheownsme

[german_gear_2018]

Gruenberg,

I hope you are having a great time and everybody‘s doing fine! I was wondering: what brought you to this site in the beginning? You told us you were betrayed and I understand you don’t get a lot of pleasure out of your wife‘s debaucheries. Whereas most of us here are eagerly awaiting a news debauchery of our SO so what made you research the cuckold lifestyle?

Best!

[gruenberg]

Wow, amazing. Sounds like it was really wonderful for her and it is great to hear that she showed her deep appreciation to you on her return home. I find it interesting that she can get such powerful sexual satisfaction with two very different types of men - the very dominant type to whom she is submissive, and the young man type whom she teaches.

I don`t know if you followed the whole long stony way or if you remember some past post. Thatswhy let me explain, or try to. My wife grew up without her mother and being the oldest of the children, she always has to take on a lot of responsibility. She was the mother substitute to her younger siblings. My wife always wants everybody to feel comfortable and have a good time. These two characteristics reflect her attidude, i guess.
At one hand she likes to give up every responsibility and gives herself to someone.
The other one, she wants to teach young poeple. That is maybe also a reason to leave her former very well paid job as a lawyer and to switch into the university field.