Baby steps

[BallSpanking]

... Yup, we all make mistakes along the way!
No worries, though, as long as it didn't shut down her curiosity altogether.
The fact he expressed an interest in his response probably secretly pleases her.
Sounds like she is titillated by the idea, unsure of proceeding down that path, and both turned-on and disconcerted by her husband's kink ...
From what little I have seen, she looks very attractive in the tiny avatar thumbnail pic, so, if she ever became 'proactive', that is to say took an overt interest in flirting, and exchanging texts with guys who are sexy to her ... Well, it wouldn't take long, she would be deluged with replies ...
Your main challenge is to have her not only accept your fantasy, nor even agree to act it out, but to actually make it her own, allow herself the delicious thought and possibility of being able to enjoy all the extramarital fruits without the indigestion.

[CuckBar]

... Yup, we all make mistakes along the way!
No worries, though, as long as it didn't shut down her curiosity altogether.
The fact he expressed an interest in his response probably secretly pleases her.
Sounds like she is titillated by the idea, unsure of proceeding down that path, and both turned-on and disconcerted by her husband's kink ...
From what little I have seen, she looks very attractive in the tiny avatar thumbnail pic, so, if she ever became 'proactive', that is to say took an overt interest in flirting, and exchanging texts with guys who are sexy to her ... Well, it wouldn't take long, she would be deluged with replies ...
Your main challenge is to have her not only accept your fantasy, nor even agree to act it out, but to actually make it her own, allow herself the delicious thought and possibility of being able to enjoy all the extramarital fruits without the indigestion.

Thanks BS, you've hit the nail on the head and summed up exactly where we're at!

[CuckBar]

Had a night out with friends last night in our closest city. We had a great time and decided to jump in a taxi to go home. There was six of us so wasn't too expensive.
The interesting thing is the driver was a very good looking 20 year old lad. Upon seeing this my wife volunteered to sit in the front with him. Something she would never usually do!
She flirted with him all the way home ( about 30min journey).
She kept turning around and was absolutely beaming. Smiling at me knowing I was getting turned on.
It wasn't until today she told me she'd got his number winding me up. It was his business card!
I'm not sure if anyone's interested in reading these very minor situations of mine but I loved it and the teasing from her so thought I'd share

[goodtimes2]

Had a night out with friends last night in our closest city. We had a great time and decided to jump in a taxi to go home. There was six of us so wasn't too expensive.
The interesting thing is the driver was a very good looking 20 year old lad. Upon seeing this my wife volunteered to sit in the front with him. Something she would never usually do!
She flirted with him all the way home ( about 30min journey).
She kept turning around and was absolutely beaming. Smiling at me knowing I was getting turned on.
It wasn't until today she told me she'd got his number winding me up. It was his business card!
I'm not sure if anyone's interested in reading these very minor situations of mine but I loved it and the teasing from her so thought I'd share

As a long time follower I think it is safe to say this is a MAJOR update.
Please let us know how things develop.

[FNQLivin]

We are interested.

[RuleEmAll]

Keep em coming!

[KevDi69]

Definitely interested in hearing about your activities and her activities.

[CuckBar]

Hi all. A bit of a development this week. A Facebook friend of my wife poked her about a week ago at 4am( We didn't even know you could still do that!)
She responded last Friday night asking why he poked her. This followed up with quite a few innuendos about poking.
They've chatted for three nights in a row. The second night in which she initiated the chat, he admitted he wanted to fuck her and then last night he told her he wanks over her all the time!
She's played it very coy with him, saying she's married but she's definitely loving the attention and has admitted to me she's turned on by it.
However she's not really attracted to him and doesn't want to lead him on. She knows I'm very turned on by it and we've had some great sex because of it!

[BallSpanking]

Given that your sexy wife admitted this attention turns her on, but not the actual fellow doing the inquiries, you can re-direct her interest to a more sexy or suitable candidate who would also show a similar interest as her FaceBook friend.
Another good idea is to transfer this communication to an SLS chat application like Tinder, or an actual account at a site like Ashley Madison, that would allow her to carry on these conversations with candidates that are more suitable to her liking!

[CuckBar]

Given that your sexy wife admitted this attention turns her on, but not the actual fellow doing the inquiries, you can re-direct her interest to a more sexy or suitable candidate who would also show a similar interest as her FaceBook friend.
Another good idea is to transfer this communication to an SLS chat application like Tinder, or an actual account at a site like Ashley Madison, that would allow her to carry on these conversations with candidates that are more suitable to her liking!

Yes, we're already on a swingers site but getting her on there to chat has been really difficult. I think because this just came out of the blue she took to it alot easier.

[Mumfred]

Yes, we're already on a swingers site but getting her on there to chat has been really difficult. I think because this just came out of the blue she took to it alot easier.

I always had a hard time getting my wife chatting on those sites too. Facebook all day long but very little interest in the dirty sites.

[BallSpanking]

If you would actually post more pics of your sexy wife, she would be thrilled to see how enthusiastically they are received!

[CuckBar]

I was out for the England match last night, but that's another story!
I just happened to be in the same pub as the guy that had been chatting with my wife. I didn't even notice him but he took a pic of me and used it as a chance to start messaging her again.
He then sent a pic of a recent Facebook post of my wife and told her how fit she was. She was definitely fishing for compliments saying she wasn't!
The next message was him apologising for all the naughty dreams he has about her and then told her he was in bed using his hand looking at her pic. She sent a shocked face emoji. Again he apologised and she said it's fine, I don't mind!
That's where the conversation ended.
It was a great surprise this morning when she woke me up and showed me all the messages. Definitely helped with the hangover anyway

[BallSpanking]

Your sexy wife seems to enjoy the thought of men masturbating to the fantasy of being with her ... a perfect entree to posting some sexy pics of her.
She would be very pleasantly surprised by the amount of wood her pics elicit.

[CuckBar]

I think my wife might actually enjoy the thought of men masturbating over her unfortunately she doesn't know I'm on this site so I don't think I could share any public pictures of her here.

[leggysman]

I think my wife might actually enjoy the thought of men masturbating over her unfortunately she doesn't know I'm on this site so I don't think I could share any public pictures of her here.

This sounds like a great opportunity to say: TELL HER

Seriously, finding this site and convincing my wife to engage transformed me from a wannabe to a guy with an awesome hotwife in a matter of a few weeks. If you think she's potentially into this stuff, TELL HER!

[BallSpanking]

If you think she'd enjoy the idea of men masturbating over her pic, you can, with her agreement, post sexy pics of her that do not give away her identity. Just make sure there are no telltale angles of her facial features, or revealing unique tattoos or other identifiable markings. From her avatar she looks as though she would elicit a great response. Moreover, if you did this with her cooperation, it could go a long way to piquing her curiosity and engagement. Who knows? Your intuition could be correct, and it would definitely bring HotWifing closer to her consideration and acceptance.

[CuckBar]

Hi all,
Just thought I'd update you all on the texting situation. My wife and her Facebook friend have been texting quite regularly. He's been showing her Facebook pics of hers, which he admits to wanking over and in some chats has made it very clear he's wanking as they're chatting. She hasn't been deterring him or egging him on that much but one thing is for sure, she gets really turned on from their chats!
Last night was a little different. She started the conversation for the first time. She'd wanted sex from me but I was too tired. I saw her phone light up and knew she was messaging someone but didn't really take any notice. She'd messaged him "Are you missing me?"
He didn't see it until the morning and messaged her back
"Always!"
"Are you missing me?"
She'd sobered up by this point and replied
"No!" "Just haven't heard from you for a bit"
Him "Just admit you wanted me didn't you?"
Laughing face!
Him "I'll take that as a yes then!"
Another laughing face!!
He sent a few more messages about liking her missing him but she didn't reply.

I didn't get shown these messages until I got home. I was instantly hard and we fucked on the couch! She told me she was going to sext with him and ask him for a dick pic. I didn't last long!

[Small]

Very interesting development! She absolutely seems to enjoy the attention from him, even if she isn't really attracted to him.

[CuckBar]

Just thought I'd add a quick catch up.
The wife is still chatting with her friend. He's getting more confident, happily telling her he's stroking to her within minutes of chatting. Although she's teased me by telling me she wants a dick pic off him, she's actually refused one off him and he's offered quite a few times now!

Also when having sex the other day she initiated the fantasy chat telling me I'm her cuck and how she's going to fuck so many men! She's not a massive fan of me cumming inside her and told me I'm not allowed to cum in her anymore. Only other men are allowed to cum inside her from now on! As soon as she said that I lost it and came. Hurriedly pulling out with a ruined orgasm! She wasn't that impressed saying she wanted it harder and I retorted with "That's why we're getting another man in!

In another conversation away from the bedroom.
"Why don't we have a browse on the swinger site?"
"I'm just not quite there yet"
"Well you could pull a man when you're out with your friends in a couple of weeks and just have a kiss!"
"No because then they'd think that I'm cheating and I'm not a cheater. This is our secret and I want to keep it between us because nobody else knows about it"
Which I took as a really positive thought. The way she's talking it's like she's changed her mindset about it and it's only a matter of time before it happens.

What I'm trying to say is I'm full of hope and positively at the minute

[CuckBar]

I talked my wife into letting me go down on her whilst she was texting with her friend the other night. He was telling her how much he wants to eat her pussy whilst I actually was eating her pussy. It was a massive turn on for me but unfortunately I only lasted a few seconds when I entered her as I was so worked up.
In a later conversation he asked her if she's out over Xmas and she said she was out on the 21st. He said he might go out then too.
I still don't think anything might happen but she said she'd definitely flirt with him if she bumps into him!

[Bsod83]

Did she go out on the 21? Sounds like she is taking small steps closer and closer. Very exciting.

My wife have taking a few steps of her own, but unfortunatly her doubts and guilt is probably going to stop her from actually going through.

[CuckBar]

Yes she did go out on the 21st.

She told me she pulled a 25 year old when dancing but rejected his advances and also got bought a bottle of wine from another man, just because it was Xmas, apparently!

The most interesting thing for me though, was that she messaged her friend asking if he was out. Unfortunately he'd gone home because he wasn't feeling too well. It's just the fact that she'd sent the first message that got me a bit riled up lol!

[FNQLivin]

What a great update.

[Wife4Guys]

At long last a proactive move from our heroine. True the action was no doubt made with the lessened inhibitions of a cocktail or two, perhaps some encouragement as well from her party crew, but a line crossed over none the less for her. Shared with you first thing is the best! As you titled this "Baby Steps", this one was I think, a large stride towards your goal.