a long stony way

[gruenberg]

Still catching up at the moment but I skipped ahead a couple years to check if you were still posting. Glad to see you are.

Sheownsme

I´m still posting and my wife is still attracting men.

[gruenberg]

Gruenberg,

I hope you are having a great time and everybody‘s doing fine! I was wondering: what brought you to this site in the beginning? You told us you were betrayed and I understand you don’t get a lot of pleasure out of your wife‘s debaucheries. Whereas most of us here are eagerly awaiting a news debauchery of our SO so what made you research the cuckold lifestyle?

Best!

Although since my last post about my wife's debauchery with this young boy abroad she didn't play around, everything is fine. The only problem is that our daughter comes to an age that it would be more and more difficult to hide everything. But that is not my problem. I will sit back and watch from the couch how my wife will handle this situation. I'm very interested.

I really don't know anymore how i made my way up to here. The wide field of the internet brought me into this interesting corner. For me it is always very interesting and inspiring how different you can live this lifestyle. I would never let someone put a cage on me, but there are so many here who like this treat. Or i could never image eating creampies. Somemany others do.
As long as everybody is happy and gets what he or she wants, everything is fine.

[thinman]

Wow, amazing. Sounds like it was really wonderful for her and it is great to hear that she showed her deep appreciation to you on her return home. I find it interesting that she can get such powerful sexual satisfaction with two very different types of men - the very dominant type to whom she is submissive, and the young man type whom she teaches.

I don`t know if you followed the whole long stony way or if you remember some past post. Thatswhy let me explain, or try to. My wife grew up without her mother and being the oldest of the children, she always has to take on a lot of responsibility. She was the mother substitute to her younger siblings. My wife always wants everybody to feel comfortable and have a good time. These two characteristics reflect her attidude, i guess.
At one hand she likes to give up every responsibility and gives herself to someone.
The other one, she wants to teach young poeple. That is maybe also a reason to leave her former very well paid job as a lawyer and to switch into the university field.

I remembered about her background, but had forgotten your early post about why she liked the affair with her boss. I went back and re-read the start of the thread, and your explanation there and here makes perfect sense. She is an amazing woman.

After she became pregnant, and you and she went through the difficulties of the situation, I think it took a certain amount of courage on her part to admit to you that she wanted to resume the affair with her boss. I think also that it took courage on your part to support her and agree that she could continue to have sex with him. It is clear that the two of you are very devoted to each other.

Thank you very much for writing - I really enjoy your updates and insights! BTW, I think your English is very good now!!

[gruenberg]

Wow, amazing. Sounds like it was really wonderful for her and it is great to hear that she showed her deep appreciation to you on her return home. I find it interesting that she can get such powerful sexual satisfaction with two very different types of men - the very dominant type to whom she is submissive, and the young man type whom she teaches.

I don`t know if you followed the whole long stony way or if you remember some past post. Thatswhy let me explain, or try to. My wife grew up without her mother and being the oldest of the children, she always has to take on a lot of responsibility. She was the mother substitute to her younger siblings. My wife always wants everybody to feel comfortable and have a good time. These two characteristics reflect her attidude, i guess.
At one hand she likes to give up every responsibility and gives herself to someone.
The other one, she wants to teach young poeple. That is maybe also a reason to leave her former very well paid job as a lawyer and to switch into the university field.

I remembered about her background, but had forgotten your early post about why she liked the affair with her boss. I went back and re-read the start of the thread, and your explanation there and here makes perfect sense. She is an amazing woman.

After she became pregnant, and you and she went through the difficulties of the situation, I think it took a certain amount of courage on her part to admit to you that she wanted to resume the affair with her boss. I think also that it took courage on your part to support her and agree that she could continue to have sex with him. It is clear that the two of you are very devoted to each other.

Thank you very much for writing - I really enjoy your updates and insights! BTW, I think your English is very good now!!

Yes, it was a really tough time back then. Our marriage was hanging in the balance. Now I'm very happy that we made out way and i know so is my wife. Yes, she is amazing.
It was clear that she was craving his attention and she wanted to submit to him in all her feminine way. If i would have resisted back then, we would't be together anymore, i guess.

[gruenberg]

so how it went on.

it was a time since my wife had her last debauchery. this was with a young student abroad. she spend some days with him and enjoyed his hard young body, as she told me. he definitely enjoyed this hot professor milf. it was very taboo for her, having sex with a student of a university she was invited to hold a speech.

this was a while ago and i saw it already coming, that it was time for her to escape again her life as a wife and mother of a teenage girl. even our daughter saw the frustration, of course she doesn`t know anything of her mommy`s second life. our daughter and my wife had some conflicts, but nothing out of the world of a teenager and a mother.

my beautiful wife had one-night-stands in the past. even since we were married. i wrote about it here in detai. one of her one-night-stands was some years ago. she was out with her girlfriends, all of them not knowing about my wife debaucheries, and on her way home she seduced the taxi-driver. he was younger that we and he had a lots of tattoos and was a big guy. the fact what my wife made her horny for him, was that he studied law at the same university. she would never have concluded that based on his appearance. he looked kind of rough with lots of tattoos, big frame but very fit. not the typical law-school student. my wife already worked as a lawyer at that time.

my wife told me about her one-night-stand with him and how she blew him at first and then he bend her over the taxi and she just dropped her jeans and not even undressed her boots as he took her from behind. after that she even blew him in the front yard of our house and he came in her mouth. yes, this is my wife. the typical suburban mom. blowing strangers in the front yard.

this guy came into my wife`s life a few years later again. she met him and he already was working as a lawyer. at first she didn`t recognize him but he did. he is still a big guy and under his lawyer suit with his muscles and tattoos.

my wife started a realtionship with him and he streched a lot of her bounderies during this time. she was very submissive with him. he could nearly do everything he wanted from her and she obeyed. this is nothing new, i just want to recall.

while this guy and my wife had her very weird realtionship going deeper and deeper he started to date one of my wife`s students. that was something my wife could handle. probably the only thing he could do, what she was not up to. thatswhy my wife stopped seeing him.

but i know she is missing the things he was doing to her. according to the signs on her body i saw, when she came home from her dates with him, he played with her petite body a little bit rough. she liked that, let`s face it.

long story short, she contacted him and asked him for a date.

he is still with her student and my wife said to me, it will only be a one time meeting and she can handle it. we will see.

anyway, he picked her up at our house. he knows that i know about them. our daughter wasn`t at home and my wife looked fabulous. the fun part, the date was not to go out for dinner or anything like that, they just went to a hotel for the evening. although my wife dressed for a "normal" date, what ever that means for a hotwife.
she was wearing the famous little black dress, black stockings and of course new black high heels. again a reason to buy a new pair. later i found out, that she wasn`t wearing anything else underneath, as she undressed when she came home a few hours later. her hair was done very beautiful but was wasted when she came home. the next morning in the bathroom i saw again some bruises on her petite body and i guess it was a rough date for her. she didn`t tell me much, but i saw her absentmindedly massaging her wrists. i asked her about it, and she said, that he bound her wrists behind her back while he manhandled her.

we talked about her seeing him now more often again, but she declined and said, no. it was a nice varity of her life, but nothing more. he is fine with it, and told her that she can contact him, when ever she wants.

this happened a few days ago and i have to say, she is more relaxed again. i guess, she just needed it that way with him.

[Tracey52]

Women are incredible

[gruenberg]

So how it went on.

My beautiful wife has been in her special mood again recently. You can tell that she's getting a bit tense and little things are turning into big things. Even our daughter, who is at an age that is not easy for all of our people at home anyway, has noticed it.

It doesn't surprise me after all that some day my wife told me that she is meeting Mr. Tattoo again. She said, she needed him. I guess that wre exactly her words. The only thing that really surprised me was that she contradicts her policy of seeing him again. He was dating a student of hers and my beautiful wife wanted to avoid complications. I asked her about it, of course. She explained it to me. Very easy. It is always easy for my wife to explain something. Her being a brillant lawyer knows how to tell you something and even if it is completely different than what you are thinking, at the end you are agreeing her.
In this case, her explanaition was simple: she won`t be her student anymore in this semester. She finshed her studies and now my beautiful wife can meet her lover again. That makes sense, isn't it?

I packed our daughter and her best friend for the weekend to the beach and let my wife play. If you followed our stony way then you know it was a ritual over the last years. my daughter spend some quality time together at the beach for some nights and my wife used this time alone to express her other life. I love this weekends. Unfortunately my daughter comes into an age that she prefers being with her best friend and not with me. Anyway, my wife asked the mother of her best friend and so i found myself with two teenage girls in my classic car on the way to the sea. Sounds strange. Not the intention, i have.

Anyway, when we came home my wife welcomed us as the perfect mother and happy wife. You would never guessed what happened the nights before. I didn't ask but i got some information. Some by words, some by watching the envirment. When i comes to watching, i saw some marks on my wifes perfect petite body. There were bruises on her thighs. There were small abrasions on her wrists. There was torn black pantyhose in our rubbish bin in the bathroom. I put one and one together which gave a good impression of the events that took place.
When it comes to words, i learned from my wife that he spend only one night at our house and it completed my picture. She welcomed him by cooking for him in only sheer pantyhose and high heels. She said, he asked her for it. No stockings, what i have guessed. She said, she and he like the idea of ripping her pantyhose and taking her from behind.
There was also some bounding going on. My beautiful tiny wife is totally submissive to him and he can do anything with her, like bounding her and taking her the rough way. What he did.
But at the moment she told me, she was the innocent looking wife, mother of a young girl and professional woman nobody would guess what she did recently. Or rather, what has been done with it.

I asked her, if they will meet often in the future. Like the did in the past. And my wife`s answer was something like: she hopes.

[Rogueuser1]

Amazing - do you think he takes your wife anally as well? With her being that submissive it is hard to imagine him not taking such a forbidden treasure - especially if he knows it is denied to you.

[David52]

As I have said before, you are the best husband in the world.

[gruenberg]

Amazing - do you think he takes your wife anally as well? With her being that submissive it is hard to imagine him not taking such a forbidden treasure - especially if he knows it is denied to you.

My wife had anal sex with her lovers in the past but refused to let me do it that way. A while ago we talked about it and she told me, without much of an explaination, that she won`t do it with me. I am rather indifferent how i feel about having anal sex with her. On one hand, she has this incrdible tight butt of a very fit runner, what she is doing regularly. On the other hand, it is not the most important thing for me to persuade her or even ask her do it anymore.
She had anal with various of her lovers, not everyone, but some, and i know she is doing it. So it would be natural do ask her doing it with me, but something holds me back or hold her back. I don't know.

[Rogueuser1]

i know she is doing it

How do you know? does she tell you? do you observe the evidence? both?

I love the idea of my wife giving other men her ass while denying it to me. Based on this board and others I know I am not alone in that!

[coastalkid]

Seeing how you don't want to be caged or eat creampies (I can understand why you wouldn't want that). You must have some feelings about her doing a sexual act with her lovers but not you. I also understand if it's something you never really had before it's hard to miss it and not worth discussing if it doesn't lead anywhere. Has she ever explained further why she said out loud that she "won't"?

[gruenberg]

i know she is doing it

How do you know? does she tell you? do you observe the evidence? both?

I love the idea of my wife giving other men her ass while denying it to me. Based on this board and others I know I am not alone in that!

She told me about it. Of course she knows that i don't have to know everything and i guess she isn't telling me everything what is going on. But she told me some of the things she is doing. Thatswhy i know about the men who took her anally.

[gruenberg]

Seeing how you don't want to be caged or eat creampies (I can understand why you wouldn't want that). You must have some feelings about her doing a sexual act with her lovers but not you. I also understand if it's something you never really had before it's hard to miss it and not worth discussing if it doesn't lead anywhere. Has she ever explained further why she said out loud that she "won't"?

That is tough, indeed. I'm not one of this guys who gets a special kick out of it. I know there are much around here. In our case, it is different. My beautiful wife knows that and doesn't push this buttons very often. Sometimes it happenes, though.

No, she didn't say it in words i could reproduce accurately. And it isn't a big topic anymore. Actually it isn't a topic after all, when i think about it.

[coastalkid]

It's clear that you love your wife and I believe you are an exceptional husband. Since your wife and you have been in this lifestyle for as long as you have has your wife's behavior become an accepted normal? What I really wonder is, if this becomes a predictable behavior does it begin to lose some of the shock and surprise for you over time?

That leads me to thinking if you have been conditioned (as mentioned in an earlier post)? Your wife is obviously very intelligent. She tells you what she wants to to tell you. She knows what will evoke a response from you and she knows what she should avoid telling you. She's a lawyer, right? She knows that you would prefer a traditional marriage and what she wants is different. In ways I feel like from what I've read that she has "normalized" her desire to make it seem more reasonable and acceptable.

The daughter issue is a difficult one. Will she ever be suspicious of you not being her birth father? I can see where telling her a lie would be the path of least resistance when and if this becomes an issue. But more to the present, if she's a teenager now, do you think she will pick up on what your wife is doing? Teenagers are much more perceptive and wise to the ways of the world these days.

At this point is your sex with your wife as good or better than it's ever been?

[ccklvr]

The only problem is that our daughter comes to an age that it would be more and more difficult to hide everything. But that is not my problem. I will sit back and watch from the couch how my wife will handle this situation. I'm very interested.

You went on short holidays in the past with your daughter while you wife had the opportunity to play the field.
Isn't that a way to support her?

[gruenberg]

so how it went on.

In the past times my wife had some flings with different men or boys, i wrote about it. Nothing was and is very satisfactory for her. Not that she didn't like the sex she had, but with all the circumstances around she is seeking from the bottom of her heart something different. Something that fills her up more.

I know this and i can see it on her behaviour. It is the same as it was in the past and i wrote about it sometimes.

Besides that we had an interesting eveing with a friend of ours. It was tom. Maybe some of the readers remember him. Tom was married to steph and while so there was this one situation that tom got a double blowjob from his wife and my wife. I wasn't there, it happened after a family gathering in the neighbourhood. I was leaving earlier this day and the three of them ended up in some oral play. Nothing more happened past then.
Steph and tom got divorced and at that time tom got a little bit more of a friend of ours. At that time my wife started to have an affair with him to comfort him. He wasn't the best lover according to my wife, but my wife always wants everybody to be happy and tom wasn't happy after his divorce. That is when my wife came in in her typical role of the pleaser. Her inner drive is always to make everybody happy and to feel good.

I remember one evening when she went on a date with him, she wore a little black dress with high heeled boots and sheer stockings all with perfect make-up and well done blonde hair. She looked so hot, i still can remember her appearance of classy sex.

At that time my beautiful wife didn't see much future with tom and she suggested to hook him up with various women from her universe. But she still had sex with him from time to time, because not every date went well.

At first, my relationship with tom was that he was a guy you meet once or twice a year at one of the neighbourhood bbqs. Nice guy, but nothing deep. Over the time he was aving the affair with my wife we became a little bit closer. Like he spending some sundays with us and so on. He once thanked me for sharing my wife with him at the time as he was very down from his divorce. This meant a lot to him.

Anyway, he found some girlfriend finally and they are very happy. My wife and he sleeping together stopped.

A few weeks ago tom asked us to come over for a nice double date dinner at his house. It was nice to see him again, because we didn`t meet much over the last years. My wife of course wanted to give him (and probably me too) a good show, bought some new high heels (after all, it is my wife) and dressed up nice for the dinner. Grey dress, black seamed stockings and her blonde hair even glowing in a new blonde colour.

His new girlfriend is very nice and we had a entertaining and relaxing evening. Nothing sexual happened.

On the way home in the cab my wife told me that as i was with tom in another room his girlfriend told her that tom told her about their common past. She was very reserved and my wife felt that she just wanted to make it clear that there shouldn't be any secrets. She is fine with it, because it was in the past and before she met tom. They even giggled about the fact that they both had sex with the man sitting on the table like nothing would have been.

That was at first.
Two three days later my wife informed me that she met tom`s girlfriend, let's call her elisa, for lunch. They had some fun and during that lunch a glas or two were drunk elisa also told her about the double blowjob of steph and my wife.

My wife's guess is now that elisa was checking her out if there is any possibility to start anything.

I know for sure there would now swapping going on. Although i wouldn't mind doing something with elisa, she is attractive and fun, my wife would never ever accept anything. I asked my wife if she wanted to sleep with tom again and her response was if that would make them happy, she could imagine. But i doubt that she wants to do anything with elisa, more of a threesome focused on tom.

We will see.

[trecital]

But i doubt that she wants to do anything with elisa, more of a threesome focused on tom.

We will see.

I hope you aren't going to be left at home, twiddling your thumbs.

Any chance you could join in? Maybe the girls would like to see you and Tom getting it on?

[Lensman2000]

My fear of missing out would kick in about now.

[coastalkid]

My fear of missing out would kick in about now.

FOMO (fear of missing out) is one of my greatest fears! It makes me wonder what good is having a hot wife if you are continuously excluded from the experience?

[gruenberg]

I just reread my last post and found a big mistake.

I know for sure there would now swapping going on. Although i wouldn't mind doing something with elisa, she is attractive and fun, my wife would never ever accept anything. I asked my wife if she wanted to sleep with tom again and her response was if that would make them happy, she could imagine. But i doubt that she wants to do anything with elisa, more of a threesome focused on tom.

It is just a single letter, the "w" but gave my message a absolute wrong content.

I didn't mean: I know for sure there would now swapping going on.
I meant instead: I know for sure there would no swapping going on.

Sorry for that.

The ones that are following my stony way probably noticed immediately. My wife would never swap.

[Vin231]

just finished reading all your great post. WOW.. what an amazing life... You are a Great husband... and she sounds like an Amazing wife and Slut. I love that. So many lucky guys to have enjoyed her amazing body and skills. Love that she is such a sub for her men. Love hearing about her being naked for the weekend in her lovers homes and how they use her body... All holes are open for pleasure.. So looking forward to hearing more as the fun continues. Thanks for sharing

[gruenberg]

My fear of missing out would kick in about now.

My fear of missing out would kick in about now.

FOMO (fear of missing out) is one of my greatest fears! It makes me wonder what good is having a hot wife if you are continuously excluded from the experience?

No, i don`t fear missing out being there. It is something that isn't in my universe. I once witnessed my beautiful wife having sex bend over and it isn't an image i like very much.
I don't mind her having fun on her own. As long as i have my fun.

[coastalkid]

My fear of missing out would kick in about now.

My fear of missing out would kick in about now.

FOMO (fear of missing out) is one of my greatest fears! It makes me wonder what good is having a hot wife if you are continuously excluded from the experience?

No, i don`t fear missing out being there. It is something that isn't in my universe. I once witnessed my beautiful wife having sex bend over and it isn't an image i like very much.
I don't mind her having fun on her own. As long as i have my fun.

I should clarify that I don't mean participating or being there. I've thought a lot about what I want and what I think I could handle and I've come to the conclusion that I believe I would rather her "have her fun" on her own. I just don't want to be excluded from me having fun too. If her experience is like you always read here, that the sex was mind blowing, life changing, best sex of her life type thing then it would be nice for me to have my own mind blowing, life changing, best sex of her life type thing. I'd have to depend on my wife to deliver that for me. That's the FOMO that scares me!

I could never do the denial or "pussy free" things. Nothing against those people that get a thrill from it, everybody has their own kinks and for sure, they do them their own personal way. I don't have the time left in my life to give up anything!

[gruenberg]

My fear of missing out would kick in about now.

My fear of missing out would kick in about now.

FOMO (fear of missing out) is one of my greatest fears! It makes me wonder what good is having a hot wife if you are continuously excluded from the experience?

No, i don`t fear missing out being there. It is something that isn't in my universe. I once witnessed my beautiful wife having sex bend over and it isn't an image i like very much.
I don't mind her having fun on her own. As long as i have my fun.

I should clarify that I don't mean participating or being there. I've thought a lot about what I want and what I think I could handle and I've come to the conclusion that I believe I would rather her "have her fun" on her own. I just don't want to be excluded from me having fun too. If her experience is like you always read here, that the sex was mind blowing, life changing, best sex of her life type thing then it would be nice for me to have my own mind blowing, life changing, best sex of her life type thing. I'd have to depend on my wife to deliver that for me. That's the FOMO that scares me!

I could never do the denial or "pussy free" things. Nothing against those people that get a thrill from it, everybody has their own kinks and for sure, they do them their own personal way. I don't have the time left in my life to give up anything!

You can have fun on so many levels. In a marriage, you don't necessarily have to have the same hobbies. Or even should. A marriage is made up of two different individuals and, in my opinion, they should always remain individual. What I'm saying is, in the case of our marriage, my beautiful wife has her fun with her debaucheries and I have my fun with my classic cars. I let her have her fun and she lets me have mine. Not everything is always comprehensible for the other person.

When it comes to the pussy denial, you are speaking of and you are no fan of too. That's exactly how I see it. It's not my cup of tea either. But if someone enjoys it, then please do it. Why not? Life is too short not to be able to live the way you want. I would say my wife and I have a typical sex life for two working parents after a long period of married life. I think that says it all.
Life-changing sex can (and will) be totally different for two people. For the wife in a hotwife lifestyle it could be the seven BBC gangbang on the beach of a mediterranean ressort in the south of france, For the husband it could be the intimate twosome on a sunday morning after a long week of job indicated sepeartion. Everybody is diffferent.