Needing advice for a decision

[motivated hubby]

Thanks for the update! How often is your wife pegging you these days? Are you still using the same strap on or have you changed to something different? Is her lover living with you or just visiting a lot?

Thank you for the interest. Yes everything is going very well. My wife is still pegging me usually about once a week. We still have the same harness set up, but have changed the dong. She wanted one that was a little bit thicker and longer. She says that she likes it being a bit bigger because it gives her a bit more of a powerful, feeling, looking at herself in the mirror, wearing it and using it with me.

Her lover does not live with us. He has had his house for 30 years and would never give it up but he is either at our house or my wife or sometimes go to his every week.

[Long Lurker 34]

Thanks for the update! How often is your wife pegging you these days? Are you still using the same strap on or have you changed to something different? Is her lover living with you or just visiting a lot?

Thank you for the interest. Yes everything is going very well. My wife is still pegging me usually about once a week. We still have the same harness set up, but have changed the dong. She wanted one that was a little bit thicker and longer. She says that she likes it being a bit bigger because it gives her a bit more of a powerful, feeling, looking at herself in the mirror, wearing it and using it with me.

Her lover does not live with us. He has had his house for 30 years and would never give it up but he is either at our house or my wife or sometimes go to his every week.

MH - Does she ever strap it on and just wear it around the house because she likes the look?

[motivated hubby]

Thanks for the update! How often is your wife pegging you these days? Are you still using the same strap on or have you changed to something different? Is her lover living with you or just visiting a lot?

Thank you for the interest. Yes everything is going very well. My wife is still pegging me usually about once a week. We still have the same harness set up, but have changed the dong. She wanted one that was a little bit thicker and longer. She says that she likes it being a bit bigger because it gives her a bit more of a powerful, feeling, looking at herself in the mirror, wearing it and using it with me.

Her lover does not live with us. He has had his house for 30 years and would never give it up but he is either at our house or my wife or sometimes go to his every week.

MH - Does she ever strap it on and just wear it around the house because she likes the look?

Oh yes. She absolutely loves doing that.

[Long Lurker 34]

Thanks for the update! How often is your wife pegging you these days? Are you still using the same strap on or have you changed to something different? Is her lover living with you or just visiting a lot?

Thank you for the interest. Yes everything is going very well. My wife is still pegging me usually about once a week. We still have the same harness set up, but have changed the dong. She wanted one that was a little bit thicker and longer. She says that she likes it being a bit bigger because it gives her a bit more of a powerful, feeling, looking at herself in the mirror, wearing it and using it with me.

Her lover does not live with us. He has had his house for 30 years and would never give it up but he is either at our house or my wife or sometimes go to his every week.

MH - Does she ever strap it on and just wear it around the house because she likes the look?

Oh yes. She absolutely loves doing that.

MH - You should surprise her with a properly fitted pair of both boxer shorts and tighty whitey's. She can have her 'hard on' poking out and you can mention you "can relate to that". Then wearing those plus either one of her robes or one of your button down shirts.

[elina]

Dear Motivated hubby,

I think I lost track of this thread more than a year ago when my account was affected by the inadvertend shutdown that happened to many users.

I am so glad to have rediscovered it today and to see that you are doing well. Apart from the fact that this really belongs more in the Poly than in the cuckold section now (don't you agree?) it is just an amazing read.

I love to see how all three of you have found the perfect way and in particular how you have accepted to become a fully cuckolded, denied PIV, but still being allowed to service your Wife's pussy and that She will peg you.

I in particularly loved that She recently got a thicker, bigger Dildo to use on you as it makes Her feel more powerful. What a Lady!!!
Are you thinking about demonstrating your submission to Her in other ways to?

Sincerely
elina
(submissive male)

[JaesCuck]

I’d also be curious to know if your wife has suggested other ways for you to show your submission to her ?

[wannabecUKold]

Thanks for the update

A few questions, if I may:
Do you (still) get a frisson of excitement at being denied intercourse? Do you talk erotically with your wife about your agreement not to fuck her? Do you show her your erotic frustration / arousal at not being allowed to? Do you fantasise about his cock entering her, and not yours?
You mentioned that his wife passed away just before your wife and he became intimate (I assume that means before you agreed they could be exclusively intimate?). Did that influence your decision? In one sense it made it more risky. Perhaps you enjoyed taking the risk.
You three are obviously open about sex but have you ever had any thought of having threesomes together? (This might happen on a shared holiday.)
With the now weekly routine is your arrangement more open knowledge amongst friends and neighbours?

[motivated hubby]

Thanks for the update

A few questions, if I may:
Do you (still) get a frisson of excitement at being denied intercourse? Do you talk erotically with your wife about your agreement not to fuck her? Do you show her your erotic frustration / arousal at not being allowed to? Do you fantasise about his cock entering her, and not yours?
You mentioned that his wife passed away just before your wife and he became intimate (I assume that means before you agreed they could be exclusively intimate?). Did that influence your decision? In one sense it made it more risky. Perhaps you enjoyed taking the risk.
You three are obviously open about sex but have you ever had any thought of having threesomes together? (This might happen on a shared holiday.)
With the now weekly routine is your arrangement more open knowledge amongst friends and neighbours?

Yes I still get that excitement from being denied.

Yes we talk very in depth in detail erotically about not penetrating her especially when we are intimate.

She sees all the time my extreme arousal from not penetrating her.

Yes I fantasize all the time of his cock entering her and their intimacy of them making love.

Yes, his wife passed away before anything occurred.

That didn’t necessarily influence my decision to let them be exclusive and monogamous. But I suppose it influenced me for the two of them to become lovers. His wife was a wonderful lady and I know that she would’ve never gone along with this arrangement/relationship. So I would have had a problem if, it had resulted by him cheating on her.


We have never had a threesome in the traditional sense. As I do not penetrate her. They typically prefer their intimacy alone. So I afford them their privacy. Not that they have ever told me to get out of the room or anything along those lines. But on occasion, they will tell me to stay and be a part of things, even though I will just lie there on the bed next to them, touching myself, and watching as they make love together, typically on top of her with her legs around his waist as they hold each other, kissing and loving deeply while they make love . When he climax is the most beautiful thing when I hear them exchange, I love you tell him to come inside. Then after they hold each other for a little while, he will slowly pull out and she will have me lie on my back and straddle my face and , tell me to feed on the love that they just made as she lowers herself down onto my open mouth. She says this time with me is the most intimate time she has ever had with anyone. She says that she feels closer to me at that time than she has ever felt with anyone .

Open knowledge to others: being in California, neighbors don’t typically interact or or as close as other regions. Everyone just kind of keeps to themselves. However, our next-door neighbor knows about the arrangement. She is a divorced woman in her 50s who lives alone and my wife is close with her and has told her everything over the years. my parents passed away quite some time ago and I am an only child so I really have no family to speak of. My wife’s father passed away when she was very young. Her mother and sister know about everything now. They have both been exceptionally accepting and encouraging For the relationship. My mother-in-law always comes up and hugs me and says what an amazing husband I am and how much she loves me for how much I love her daughter and give so very much to her. Her sister is very happy for us as well, and even lovingly teases me once in a while About the relationship, but it is in good taste. They come over to our house periodically for barbecues and of course holidays. Steve, my wife’s lover also comes over and all of us and enjoy each other’s company. They all get along exceptionally well.

If there are any other questions or comments, Please feel free to ask anything. It’s nice to know that so many people have an interest in our life.

[venus-can99]

MH - I just found this very interesting thread. I was particualry impressed by the fact that by asking for advice you also bravely put your thoughts out there giving everyone a brief glimpse into your lives.
I am glad to hear that things are going well between the three of you and that your MIL and SIL are very accepting of your relationships.

I was wondering if your wife uses the strapon on you in front of her "co-husband" ? Are you caged when the 3 of you are together?

[Scias]

Does your wife's lover ever tease you about being denied intercourse while he gets to feel and cum inside her daily? Is ever dominant toward you about anything?

Do you sleep in a guestroom while they have the master bedroom? I know you said that you lay on the bed and watch/participate but wanted to ask if you've at least been in that sort of situation where you had to hear your wife making love to another man in your bed.

[edgedndenied]

any updates