How many in the first year?

[Hottiemaybe]

My wife was a virgin when I met her, before she was old enough to drive. It took literally decades of fantasizing and pillow talk before she was shared for the first time in January 2022. But boy did she turn out to have a natural talent and inclination for this. By the end of that year, her body count was 17.

I'm curious how many wives jumped right into this, how many space it out as a special treat, and how many were one and done.

[Cdncuck]

My wife was a virgin when we met but she came with a whole bunch of her own fantasies. She didn't tell me about them until we had been in the lifestyle a while. I won't bother all the details. It's sufficient to say many of her fantasies fit very well with my fantasies. Her body count first year was 9. She fucked all of them several times each.

[chard]

Not sure how many men my wife had in the first year but it was more than 10. Anyone who has read my stories (Hunting in pairs) will know that my area was crawling with hundreds of contractors from various parts of the country back in the seventies. My wife Hannah made herself available to these men at a local dance club and she could afford to be choosy because there were so many to pick from. Some she saw on a regular basis and others just once or twice depending how much she liked him or whether they were around for any length of time, such is the contract business. Hannah was a vamp, if she saw a guy she fancied she knew exactly how to lure and snare him. Lucky me, I couldn't have wished for a better wife.

[Pufferfish]

It was 2 other guys in the first 2 weeks lol. But then it slowed to a couple more that first year and her first guy was a regular. 5 if you count oral, 4 if not.

[wildrollercoaster]

My wife was in her 20s and living a pretty hot single life when we began dating a decade ago. I embraced instead of trying to restrain her sexuality, and she continued to have occasional erotic flings. We got married about two years ago and her next non-monogamous tryst happened a couple of months later, with a hot admirer she'd slept with before. She had her first NEW lover, as a married woman, six months after getting married, and her second the day after out first anniversary. Altogether, during first year of marriage she had one new lover and three she'd slept with before.

[Johnann2227]

We started as swingers when I was 21 and my wife was 20. Our close friends got us into swinging. Every week we would play with them and most Saturday nights we would go to a swinger club that we liked. Most weeks we would play with other couples. So in our first year I would estimate at least 30 different cocks had my wife, many more than once. That set the tone for the next 24 years (and counting) of our marriage. Those numbers would be similar to the amount of women my wife was also with as 95% of the couples we played with also had the wife as bi.

[SRKnight]

After my HW had her first experience (that I knew about) with her ex boyfriend from before marriage, the second one was a week later. She was on a billards team and the guy who had been flirting with her few months, quickly became #2.

The first year was 8 new cocks.

[luvwives999]

Just one guy the first year, but multiple times

[LongTermHubby]

My wife often traveled on business. That gave her ample opportunity to see other men.

[Shadnaster]

The first year, she was like a kid in a candy store

[iloanmywife]

The first year, she was like a kid in a candy store

Sort of the same for us. After she broke the seal, so to speak, it was was game-on.

At first we only played together, MFM or me watching. That was more of a slow burn with new partners because it was so difficult to find suitable guys. But after the first time she played with another man alone and we realized we were comfortable with that, she was effectively dating again. Married and actively dating.

Friday night became her date night. If I was out of town for the week it was more often. Pretty much every week she'd have a play date or a meet-and-greet with a new guy. "Just for drinks" or something. But she'd almost always end up getting laid or going down on them. She met many of those guys multiple times, so it's not like she met a thousand guys. But in that first year or two of dating alone I stopped keeping track and so did she. It just became our new normal.

[JaBe]

Just the one. Seemed to scratch her itch

[jrobb]

Three in the first year.

One nearby buddy and two other buddies in distant states.

She was getting laid just about every day between the nearby one and me. Most of the nearby encounters were behind my back. Pity, too. I would've gladly endorsed the trysts but instead it was a breach of trust.

JR

[Aussiem]

My wife started young and had a lot of sex before we married. Her first extra was after we had been married a few years. He was an old boyfriend. Once she started, she had sex with him regularly for years. She tried another at a party but didn't continue with him. Looking back, I realized she was still having sex with others while we were going out. She even dropped a few hints I should fuck one of her friends. As we progressed in the life she has had quite a few others mostly friends that were regulars.

[Very Hot Wife]

Becky already had a string of lovers when we met. On a random basis, she would invite one to her bed 3-4 times a week. I was just one of many guys she had in tow.

She continued to sleep with them for a couple of years after we met until they naturally fell by the wayside. With my encouragement, she took on some new guys to replace them. She had (and still has) a very high sex drive...!

Coupled with our swinging activities, she probably had 50 or 60 different cocks inside her during our first year.

[plzn2ormore]

It all started shortly after we married. I was in the military stationed overseas and we married when I came home on my mid-tour leave. I still had six months to finish on my overseas assignment. Within those six months she fucked 13 guys, some just once but many were regulars.

[zorro]

About 30 our first year. Sorry those days are past, but needs and desires change over time.

[warmnsalty]

Mrs Warm did 8 different guys our first year of playing. I was an experienced single guy when we met, when we started she'd never done any ENM play. Once we started and she saw what a turn on it was for me, she was all on board. We'd met a guy, fuck... then he'd become a regular for a few weeks... then on to a new cock. A few of the guys became regular "on call" guys for a few years. Things slowed during after covid, but for the past 18 mo she's been making up for lost time. Love this lifestyle.

[rogerg]

We are in the 6 to 10 group but that doesn’t tell our whole story. My wife had been eager to get into the lifestyle and I had been holding us back but once I finally agreed, she jumped in with both feet. By the end of the first year she had been with 7 different men and three of them were already regulars who fucked her frequently. Although we didn’t keep track, she was having sex with someone three to five times a week. In addition we were having sex every night.

[Mgcouplemn]

When Laurie and I first met we were both single people going to swinger parties. She was attending them with her married (cheating on his wife) boyfriend, I was attending them with different girlfriends. After our first encounter at a swing party we started going to them as a couple. She moved in with me shortly after that. The next 5 years we attended many swinger parties as a single couple. We got married and continued swinging. At some point I realized that it really excited me to see her fucking someone. I caught myself watching her in action even when I fucking someone else's wife.

The very first time I knew i liked having a Hot-Wife was at a swing party, Laurie and I were taking a break sitting on the sofa with many people around us having sex. We sat there nude and a friend sat next to Laurie joining our conversation, after a short while he was playing with her while we talked. He asked if he could fuck Laurie, of course I said yes. Laurie laid on her back putting her head on my leg, spreading her legs, and Dave slipped his cock into her pussy and started fucking her, we three continued having a conversation. I watched Laurie's nipples get harder than I had ever seen them so I knew she was excited with the situation. My cock was rock hard as her head moved with Dave's thrusts.

Dave was building, I could see he was approaching an orgasm. I could see Laurie on the verge also. Dave asked if he could cum in Laurie, I told him "yes, by all means do". Laurie hearing me say that pushed her over the edge and she exploded with a massive orgasm causing Dave to cum in her. Laurie just touched my purple cock and I sprayed my cum on her. Back then we didn't know of what we discovered was called anything. Swinger parties were once in a while, but we needed more of what we liked so we invited friends, strangers, and even co-workers over for those needs. Laurie and I sat down and listed all those she had sex with the first year we were married, we consider that the first year of Hot-Wifing, we figured, including the two gang bangs we had for her that the count was about 27 guys, with about half of them repeating 1 or more times.

[SammySigns]

If I remember right it was 4. One regular guy and three one night stands

[leo-cpl]

Our first year count would be 5. We don't get an opportunity to play regularly (work n family) but in the close to 4 years we have been active she's played with 9 guys so far and except for 2 of them we have met the other guys multiple times. Also played with 3 couples....Been fun so far

[rogerbaulk]

5

[adamgunnauthor]

I kept records as we got into into it, then I stopped. We swung and she also hotwifed.

In our first eleven weeks she had sixteen different guys, mainly at the swing club we were members of.

My guess in that in the first year, there were around forty.

[NC-hotwife-hubby]

8 month total
Men ( white 5 bbc 10)
Women 3
transgender 1