You know you're a cuck when...

[jacobmy]

My take on this is probably elsewhere on the list...

You know your a cuck when at the start of a relationship you're having that past partners conversation you get hard at even the mention of a guy, never mind any details...

[Long Lurker 34]

You REALLY know you're a cuckold when you're fucking your wife and you no longer imagine you're fucking someone else...you only ever imagine SHE IS!

Troilus

And SHE is imagining being fucked by someone else.

IIL & T - Double double multiplier posting points for these ones.

[NewtonBlade]

My take on this is probably elsewhere on the list...

You know your a cuck when at the start of a relationship you're having that past partners conversation you get hard at even the mention of a guy, never mind any details...

Knowing that I was a dairy farmer, rather than say that her kids were from two fathers, my future wife said that she'd been bred by two different bulls. I got half hard and pretty much knew I was gonna fall in love with her right then and there.

[uxorious]

This is from a past relationship before I started dating my girlfriend.

YKYACW you match with someone on a dating app who seems like the total package -- early 30s, long brunette hair, 5'6", extremely cute face, outgoing, large tits, small waist, makes good money in tech sales. She lets you take her out but recognizes you've got beta energy before you even tell her your cuckolding desires. Chemistry seems good: lots of laughs, having fun, really getting along. After four dates (one was a progressive dinner at four restaurants that took a lot of planning and a lot of money) she comes back to yours for a steamy make out session. You think you might even get laid but she cuts it early after making out and feeling her tits over her shirt. She feels your dick over your pants. She kind of ghosts after that, later telling you the physical piece wasn't there...

The following summer, you run into her again and are somehow able to convince her to go out with you again. You pay to take her to the pool at a fancy resort in town. You later take her (and her dog, who you can't stand LOL) on a hike and to a brewery. She finally lets you come in and you finally get to fuck her. You finally got to see those big tits. You cum fast and she doesn't cum. She looks visibly disappointed.

She rejects you the next time you ask her out. You think about it -- lots of good laughs, lots of good chemistry, you decide to text her and ask if it was the physical connection. She admits yes -- that you're a really nice guy but that she doesn't feel sexually compatible.

You get horny. You later text her and tell her that you are into cuckolding and SPH ask if she would ever be interested in that kind of relationship. She seems intrigued but tells you "no" -- that she doesn't understand it and could never not have a sexual connection with her partner. She asks some general questions and then tells you good luck finding that (months before you find a girl who is into that). You think almost for sure after some drinks she had to have told her hot girlfriends (who you've met)...

[readerofthings]

You get home from work to find your wife bent over getting fucked in the kitchen, her panties around her shins and her black nightgown hiked way up. One hand on the chair for support and the other gets busy pulling down her nightie top when she sees you so her ample breasts swing free. "You're home early", she says with a grin as her stud continues pounding her. When you ask about it later she remarks that she likes showing you what you're missing.

[ucaneffher]

This is from a past relationship before I started dating my girlfriend.

YKYACW you match with someone on a dating app who seems like the total package -- early 30s, long brunette hair, 5'6", extremely cute face, outgoing, large tits, small waist, makes good money in tech sales. She lets you take her out but recognizes you've got beta energy before you even tell her your cuckolding desires. Chemistry seems good: lots of laughs, having fun, really getting along. After four dates (one was a progressive dinner at four restaurants that took a lot of planning and a lot of money) she comes back to yours for a steamy make out session. You think you might even get laid but she cuts it early after making out and feeling her tits over her shirt. She feels your dick over your pants. She kind of ghosts after that, later telling you the physical piece wasn't there...

The following summer, you run into her again and are somehow able to convince her to go out with you again. You pay to take her to the pool at a fancy resort in town. You later take her (and her dog, who you can't stand LOL) on a hike and to a brewery. She finally lets you come in and you finally get to fuck her. You finally got to see those big tits. You cum fast and she doesn't cum. She looks visibly disappointed.

She rejects you the next time you ask her out. You think about it -- lots of good laughs, lots of good chemistry, you decide to text her and ask if it was the physical connection. She admits yes -- that you're a really nice guy but that she doesn't feel sexually compatible.

You get horny. You later text her and tell her that you are into cuckolding and SPH ask if she would ever be interested in that kind of relationship. She seems intrigued but tells you "no" -- that she doesn't understand it and could never not have a sexual connection with her partner. She asks some general questions and then tells you good luck finding that (months before you find a girl who is into that). You think almost for sure after some drinks she had to have told her hot girlfriends (who you've met)...

That's a neat experience and clearly there was a hot wife reserved for you down the line. Thanks for sharing!

[ucaneffher]

You know that you're a cuck when you're 21 years old and you are seeing your 21 year old girlfriend gradually transitioning from her being your girlfriend to becoming his girlfriend and you not only accept it but are supportive of her choices.

I literally watched as my girlfriend dressed hotter for another man, spent more time with him, had more sex with him, spent more time socializing with his friends, I watched as she made him her full time partner and I was demoted to cuckold side guy option 2. I watched him take priority in everything instead of me. That's when I knew I was a cuckold. When I allowed it and accepted it as my new normal.

[ucaneffher]

You knew you were a cuckold (and she sure as hell knew if too) when you finally accepted and stopped objecting when she would push your boundaries to cuck you harder.

In the beginning I would get so worked up and defiant when she would plan getaway trips with her boyfriend. Or when she started taking him to weddings instead of me, or when when he started taking her home with him for Christmas and she'd open presents with him.

But, after a few weekend getaways, 2 Valentine's days, 2 or 3 birthdays and several holidays... I no longer fought it or opposed it. Instead I would already know that she would be away on valentines this year she was going away with him on a romantic getaway or that on her birthday they would be spending it together. The more I fought it, the more she did it until I accepted it. Eventually I'd be the one making plans around them without her asking but she wanted it that way and knew she had me just where I needed to be as her cuckold.

She proved to me that she was his, just like i fantasized of her being. I accepted but I wish I would have accepted it sooner when she told me that she was his and wanted to be his.

[iwannabecuck]

You know you're a cuck when your wife demands you to call her lover to say thank you for a great time she had with him.

[isinlarsa]

You knew you were a cuckold (and she sure as hell knew if too) when you finally accepted and stopped objecting when she would push your boundaries to cuck you harder.

In the beginning I would get so worked up and defiant when she would plan getaway trips with her boyfriend. Or when she started taking him to weddings instead of me, or when when he started taking her home with him for Christmas and she'd open presents with him.

But, after a few weekend getaways, 2 Valentine's days, 2 or 3 birthdays and several holidays... I no longer fought it or opposed it. Instead I would already know that she would be away on valentines this year she was going away with him on a romantic getaway or that on her birthday they would be spending it together. The more I fought it, the more she did it until I accepted it. Eventually I'd be the one making plans around them without her asking but she wanted it that way and knew she had me just where I needed to be as her cuckold.


She proved to me that she was his, just like i fantasized of her being. I accepted but I wish I would have accepted it sooner when she told me that she was his and wanted to be his.

When you say she took him home for Christmas, does that mean she introduced him to her family as her boyfriend?

[ucaneffher]

You knew you were a cuckold (and she sure as hell knew if too) when you finally accepted and stopped objecting when she would push your boundaries to cuck you harder.

In the beginning I would get so worked up and defiant when she would plan getaway trips with her boyfriend. Or when she started taking him to weddings instead of me, or when when he started taking her home with him for Christmas and she'd open presents with him.

But, after a few weekend getaways, 2 Valentine's days, 2 or 3 birthdays and several holidays... I no longer fought it or opposed it. Instead I would already know that she would be away on valentines this year she was going away with him on a romantic getaway or that on her birthday they would be spending it together. The more I fought it, the more she did it until I accepted it. Eventually I'd be the one making plans around them without her asking but she wanted it that way and knew she had me just where I needed to be as her cuckold.


She proved to me that she was his, just like i fantasized of her being. I accepted but I wish I would have accepted it sooner when she told me that she was his and wanted to be his.

When you say she took him home for Christmas, does that mean she introduced him to her family as her boyfriend?

Yes, which is also when you know you're a cuck. I have probably mentioned that one in past pages of this thread.

We were a young couple, we started dating from our second year of high school all the way until our mis 20s. I initially wanted her to make me feel VERY jealous and encouraged her to let go and push my boundaries very hard with other men. I didn't give it the necessary thought though and failed to account for her introducing the new man to the family.

Her family as a whole also witnessed as their daughter, sister, niece, cousin cucked me by having a boyfriend and eventually they witnessed as she transitioned to her boyfriend as the main partner and made me the side piece that only visited her when the main man wasn't around.

That was likely the single most humiliating thing I've felt in my whole life. Being at her family's home spending time with her and her family and then she gets a phone call and says "hey you have to go "*insert BFs name* is on his way, he wants to take me out dinner and dancing and I have to get ready"

That happened literally every time that i spent time with her, it was no secret to anyone in that house anymore and sometimes her mom would even joke around with the typical "uh oh you better hurry up before he gets here"

Everyone there knew I was a cuckold before I realized or even acknowledged that I was a cuckold.

[isinlarsa]

You knew you were a cuckold (and she sure as hell knew if too) when you finally accepted and stopped objecting when she would push your boundaries to cuck you harder.

In the beginning I would get so worked up and defiant when she would plan getaway trips with her boyfriend. Or when she started taking him to weddings instead of me, or when when he started taking her home with him for Christmas and she'd open presents with him.

But, after a few weekend getaways, 2 Valentine's days, 2 or 3 birthdays and several holidays... I no longer fought it or opposed it. Instead I would already know that she would be away on valentines this year she was going away with him on a romantic getaway or that on her birthday they would be spending it together. The more I fought it, the more she did it until I accepted it. Eventually I'd be the one making plans around them without her asking but she wanted it that way and knew she had me just where I needed to be as her cuckold.


She proved to me that she was his, just like i fantasized of her being. I accepted but I wish I would have accepted it sooner when she told me that she was his and wanted to be his.

When you say she took him home for Christmas, does that mean she introduced him to her family as her boyfriend?

Yes, which is also when you know you're a cuck. I have probably mentioned that one in past pages of this thread.

We were a young couple, we started dating from our second year of high school all the way until our mis 20s. I initially wanted her to make me feel VERY jealous and encouraged her to let go and push my boundaries very hard with other men. I didn't give it the necessary thought though and failed to account for her introducing the new man to the family.

Her family as a whole also witnessed as their daughter, sister, niece, cousin cucked me by having a boyfriend and eventually they witnessed as she transitioned to her boyfriend as the main partner and made me the side piece that only visited her when the main man wasn't around.

That was likely the single most humiliating thing I've felt in my whole life. Being at her family's home spending time with her and her family and then she gets a phone call and says "hey you have to go "*insert BFs name* is on his way, he wants to take me out dinner and dancing and I have to get ready"

That happened literally every time that i spent time with her, it was no secret to anyone in that house anymore and sometimes her mom would even joke around with the typical "uh oh you better hurry up before he gets here"

Everyone there knew I was a cuckold before I realized or even acknowledged that I was a cuckold.

That is pretty hot, even if it is extreme. Have you ever been with her family when he has been around, and saw him act like she belonged to him? Have any of your wife's other relatives made comments about you being a cuck?

You say your wife's boyfriend is now her main partner. It sounds like she lives with him, and you visit her only when he's not around. Is that the living arrangement? When you see her do you and she still have sex?

[trecital]

You knew you were a cuckold (and she sure as hell knew if too) when you finally accepted and stopped objecting when she would push your boundaries to cuck you harder.

In the beginning I would get so worked up and defiant when she would plan getaway trips with her boyfriend. Or when she started taking him to weddings instead of me, or when when he started taking her home with him for Christmas and she'd open presents with him.

But, after a few weekend getaways, 2 Valentine's days, 2 or 3 birthdays and several holidays... I no longer fought it or opposed it. Instead I would already know that she would be away on valentines this year she was going away with him on a romantic getaway or that on her birthday they would be spending it together. The more I fought it, the more she did it until I accepted it. Eventually I'd be the one making plans around them without her asking but she wanted it that way and knew she had me just where I needed to be as her cuckold.


She proved to me that she was his, just like i fantasized of her being. I accepted but I wish I would have accepted it sooner when she told me that she was his and wanted to be his.

When you say she took him home for Christmas, does that mean she introduced him to her family as her boyfriend?

Yes, which is also when you know you're a cuck. I have probably mentioned that one in past pages of this thread.

We were a young couple, we started dating from our second year of high school all the way until our mis 20s. I initially wanted her to make me feel VERY jealous and encouraged her to let go and push my boundaries very hard with other men. I didn't give it the necessary thought though and failed to account for her introducing the new man to the family.

Her family as a whole also witnessed as their daughter, sister, niece, cousin cucked me by having a boyfriend and eventually they witnessed as she transitioned to her boyfriend as the main partner and made me the side piece that only visited her when the main man wasn't around.

That was likely the single most humiliating thing I've felt in my whole life. Being at her family's home spending time with her and her family and then she gets a phone call and says "hey you have to go "*insert BFs name* is on his way, he wants to take me out dinner and dancing and I have to get ready"

That happened literally every time that i spent time with her, it was no secret to anyone in that house anymore and sometimes her mom would even joke around with the typical "uh oh you better hurry up before he gets here"

Everyone there knew I was a cuckold before I realized or even acknowledged that I was a cuckold.

I can't help thinking that your relationship would best be described as being an 'ex', rather than a 'cuck'.

Not being judgemental.....honest.

[Long Lurker 34]

You knew you were a cuckold (and she sure as hell knew if too) when you finally accepted and stopped objecting when she would push your boundaries to cuck you harder.

In the beginning I would get so worked up and defiant when she would plan getaway trips with her boyfriend. Or when she started taking him to weddings instead of me, or when when he started taking her home with him for Christmas and she'd open presents with him.

But, after a few weekend getaways, 2 Valentine's days, 2 or 3 birthdays and several holidays... I no longer fought it or opposed it. Instead I would already know that she would be away on valentines this year she was going away with him on a romantic getaway or that on her birthday they would be spending it together. The more I fought it, the more she did it until I accepted it. Eventually I'd be the one making plans around them without her asking but she wanted it that way and knew she had me just where I needed to be as her cuckold.


She proved to me that she was his, just like i fantasized of her being. I accepted but I wish I would have accepted it sooner when she told me that she was his and wanted to be his.

When you say she took him home for Christmas, does that mean she introduced him to her family as her boyfriend?

Yes, which is also when you know you're a cuck. I have probably mentioned that one in past pages of this thread.

We were a young couple, we started dating from our second year of high school all the way until our mis 20s. I initially wanted her to make me feel VERY jealous and encouraged her to let go and push my boundaries very hard with other men. I didn't give it the necessary thought though and failed to account for her introducing the new man to the family.

Her family as a whole also witnessed as their daughter, sister, niece, cousin cucked me by having a boyfriend and eventually they witnessed as she transitioned to her boyfriend as the main partner and made me the side piece that only visited her when the main man wasn't around.

That was likely the single most humiliating thing I've felt in my whole life. Being at her family's home spending time with her and her family and then she gets a phone call and says "hey you have to go "*insert BFs name* is on his way, he wants to take me out dinner and dancing and I have to get ready"

That happened literally every time that i spent time with her, it was no secret to anyone in that house anymore and sometimes her mom would even joke around with the typical "uh oh you better hurry up before he gets here"

Everyone there knew I was a cuckold before I realized or even acknowledged that I was a cuckold.

That is pretty hot, even if it is extreme. Have you ever been with her family when he has been around, and saw him act like she belonged to him? Have any of your wife's other relatives made comments about you being a cuck?

You say your wife's boyfriend is now her main partner. It sounds like she lives with him, and you visit her only when he's not around. Is that the living arrangement? When you see her do you and she still have sex?

ISL - That was UC's first GF. She went on to someone else, to whom she is married. UC never married this girl.
- UC has another GF now.

[isinlarsa]

When you say she took him home for Christmas, does that mean she introduced him to her family as her boyfriend?

Yes, which is also when you know you're a cuck. I have probably mentioned that one in past pages of this thread.

We were a young couple, we started dating from our second year of high school all the way until our mis 20s. I initially wanted her to make me feel VERY jealous and encouraged her to let go and push my boundaries very hard with other men. I didn't give it the necessary thought though and failed to account for her introducing the new man to the family.

Her family as a whole also witnessed as their daughter, sister, niece, cousin cucked me by having a boyfriend and eventually they witnessed as she transitioned to her boyfriend as the main partner and made me the side piece that only visited her when the main man wasn't around.

That was likely the single most humiliating thing I've felt in my whole life. Being at her family's home spending time with her and her family and then she gets a phone call and says "hey you have to go "*insert BFs name* is on his way, he wants to take me out dinner and dancing and I have to get ready"

That happened literally every time that i spent time with her, it was no secret to anyone in that house anymore and sometimes her mom would even joke around with the typical "uh oh you better hurry up before he gets here"

Everyone there knew I was a cuckold before I realized or even acknowledged that I was a cuckold.

That is pretty hot, even if it is extreme. Have you ever been with her family when he has been around, and saw him act like she belonged to him? Have any of your wife's other relatives made comments about you being a cuck?

You say your wife's boyfriend is now her main partner. It sounds like she lives with him, and you visit her only when he's not around. Is that the living arrangement? When you see her do you and she still have sex?

ISL - That was UC's first GF. She went on to someone else, to whom she is married. UC never married this girl.
- UC has another GF now.

Was UC her boyfriend? Are you saying that your wife (?) is not married to another man? Are you and UC still in touch with each other?

[Long Lurker 34]

Yes, which is also when you know you're a cuck. I have probably mentioned that one in past pages of this thread.

We were a young couple, we started dating from our second year of high school all the way until our mis 20s. I initially wanted her to make me feel VERY jealous and encouraged her to let go and push my boundaries very hard with other men. I didn't give it the necessary thought though and failed to account for her introducing the new man to the family.

Her family as a whole also witnessed as their daughter, sister, niece, cousin cucked me by having a boyfriend and eventually they witnessed as she transitioned to her boyfriend as the main partner and made me the side piece that only visited her when the main man wasn't around.

That was likely the single most humiliating thing I've felt in my whole life. Being at her family's home spending time with her and her family and then she gets a phone call and says "hey you have to go "*insert BFs name* is on his way, he wants to take me out dinner and dancing and I have to get ready"

That happened literally every time that i spent time with her, it was no secret to anyone in that house anymore and sometimes her mom would even joke around with the typical "uh oh you better hurry up before he gets here"

Everyone there knew I was a cuckold before I realized or even acknowledged that I was a cuckold.

That is pretty hot, even if it is extreme. Have you ever been with her family when he has been around, and saw him act like she belonged to him? Have any of your wife's other relatives made comments about you being a cuck?

You say your wife's boyfriend is now her main partner. It sounds like she lives with him, and you visit her only when he's not around. Is that the living arrangement? When you see her do you and she still have sex?

ISL - That was UC's first GF. She went on to someone else, to whom she is married. UC never married this girl.
- UC has another GF now.

Was UC her boyfriend? Are you saying that your wife (?) is not married to another man? Are you and UC still in touch with each other?

ISL - I have followed UC for quite some time on this site only.
- UC was her FIRST BF.
- Not my wife, UC and I have never met.
- My Wife is married to me.

[carolinacuck]

You know you're a cuckold when on vacation with your hotwife, she realizes it's her boyfriend's birthday and instructs you to take a nude picture of her on all fours to send to him.

[ucaneffher]

That is pretty hot, even if it is extreme. Have you ever been with her family when he has been around, and saw him act like she belonged to him? Have any of your wife's other relatives made comments about you being a cuck?

You say your wife's boyfriend is now her main partner. It sounds like she lives with him, and you visit her only when he's not around. Is that the living arrangement? When you see her do you and she still have sex?

Yes, I have been in the same house/room as her, her boyfriend, and her family and it was very brief because he was there to pick up his girlfriend to go to a barbeque or other event, I don't recall exactly. I ended staying at the family's home (extended family type of arrangement) hanging out with her older sister and her boyfriend. Her sister and her boyfriend both said "we don't know how the fuck you do it... Your girlfriend just left with another man for the night and you are so cool and calm just hanging out with us while she is out there being some other guys girlfriend in front of all of his friends.

Ironically her older sisters are the sole reasons why I found myself leaning towards cuckolding in the first year or two if my relationship with their sister. They always tried introducing my gf to other men and encouraged her to cheat on me. I prepared for the worst and I felt her cheating was inevitable especially with the encouragement of two older hot sisters who were mighty promiscuous themselves. Eventually I accepted it and learned to like it and eventually I just wanted it.

She was my high school sweetheart and a few years after sweetheart so she was my gf not wife. He came into the picture later on after we had been dating for a few years. I fact he came into the picture after she was already a hot GF. Once he was in the picture as her regular fuck buddy though, he gained traction with her became her boyfriend. She had two boyfriends but he seduced her enough to take over my role as her main boyfriend. She spent most of her time with him, had the majority of orgasms with him as she became exclusive and cur me off for almost a year but even when I was allowed inside her again, he was still the man she opted to make love with. They never lived together while her and I were still together.

It was the previous boyfriend who took her away to live with him. That was mostly a sexual relationship though while this second boyfriend was the deal. The first one also had sexual exclusivity with her and I only had the opportunity to see her when she was free without him.

As you can see, she conditioned me to become the secondary option and only see her/have her when the primary man is not around. I think that as a result of this arrangement for so many years, it may be why I find myself wanting for my partner to have another man who can also be considered a primary partner.

[ucaneffher]

I can't help thinking that your relationship would best be described as being an 'ex', rather than a 'cuck'.

Not being judgemental.....honest.

While she is definitely my ex now. Back then, you could easily classify me as her ex as well since he had become her primary partner in every aspect. She basically was a girl friend who told me every single detail of being in a relationship with another man. She was a girl friend who was very open with me and sent me the sexy photos that she would take for her man. She was a girl friend who still had sex with me once in a while when her boyfriend was busy. I was a cuck-ex since we both knew he took priority and when she would come by, at the end of the day she would always return to her partner.

[trecital]

I can't help thinking that your relationship would best be described as being an 'ex', rather than a 'cuck'.

Not being judgemental.....honest.

While she is definitely my ex now. Back then, you could easily classify me as her ex as well since he had become her primary partner in every aspect. She basically was a girl friend who told me every single detail of being in a relationship with another man. She was a girl friend who was very open with me and sent me the sexy photos that she would take for her man. She was a girl friend who still had sex with me once in a while when her boyfriend was busy. I was a cuck-ex since we both knew he took priority and when she would come by, at the end of the day she would always return to her partner.

I see. Thanks for clarifying. An 'ex' but still a cuck!

[ucaneffher]

I can't help thinking that your relationship would best be described as being an 'ex', rather than a 'cuck'.

Not being judgemental.....honest.

While she is definitely my ex now. Back then, you could easily classify me as her ex as well since he had become her primary partner in every aspect. She basically was a girl friend who told me every single detail of being in a relationship with another man. She was a girl friend who was very open with me and sent me the sexy photos that she would take for her man. She was a girl friend who still had sex with me once in a while when her boyfriend was busy. I was a cuck-ex since we both knew he took priority and when she would come by, at the end of the day she would always return to her partner.

I see. Thanks for clarifying. An 'ex' but still a cuck!

Correct. She still told me she loved me, I still went over her place to spend time with her, we still went out to lunch/dinner, we still had sex but just not as much sex as she had with him. She essentially had two boyfriends but I liked the feeling of jealousy and having zero control so she took over.

[TonisCuck]

You can tell by the taste who she was with….

[ucaneffher]

You know you're a cuck when your girlfriend not only plays solo but you never met a handful of her regular fuck buddies or even seen pictures of them. All you have is their name and seen her texts with them,.and their description .

Because of that, you'll never know if the man next to you at Target or Starbucks has been in her or has been plowing your girlfriend for the last 3 years.

Side note, in the beginning I wanted her to have dozens and dozens of lovers so the chances of running into her lovers in public increased.

From the men she had on rotation that I had met, I did run into 4 of them randomly in public and it was humbling to make small talk with them when we knew they had been banging my girlfriend for months/years.

[BirdMan]

You know you are a cuck when you come home from work and after your wife suprises you with a deep kiss she says : "can you taste him?"

[ucaneffher]

You know you're a cuck when the reality finally hits you that your once shy and inexperienced girlfriend who lost her virginity to you is now the outgoing fuck-toy for just over a dozen men while you're getting scraps when she's available.

Fuck toy in the sense that not only is she wearing the skimpiest of outfits for her men in public and some super sexy lingerie in the bedroom but these men are choking her, slapping her, pulling her hair, cumming inside of her as she has been waiting.