Types of cuckold involvement and participation

[NSEW1]

I am interested to know what level of involvement you want for the cuckold. It would be helpful to know if women and bulls answer differently from cuckolds so please share what perspective you are answering from.

[Butler]

Hi NSEW1-great post and questionaire, can easily check the first two boxes with us. My third checked box would be one that isn't listed here. That is " HW fucks Bull while out, comes home and has Cuck clean her up"

[Andrew]

I've selected the second and third answer, as that's what's applicable for my situation. My wife fucks her lover at his place, I've never been present when they had sex. After sex, she comes home and I get to clean up her creampie while she tells me some/most details about the sex.

[Des 31]

I checked three. My 33-year-old wife has sex with others either at our home or their place, often overnight. There have been exceptions, but she prefers me to not be in the room when they're fucking; her reason is that it's better for the guys if I'm not watching and jerking off in the same room; and if it's better for them, it's better for her. At times they're having sex at our home, she leaves the bedroom door ajar and I watch from the dark hallway by peering around the door jamb or listen outside the door. If she closes and sometimes locks the door, we also have surveillance cams in our bedroom allowing me to watch on our laptop or desktop. I prefer watching out of their sight more than watching on a computer. Jerking off is my favorite activity at those times. She always tells me the details of her hookups while we're having sex.

If she is about to go out on a date or expecting a guy to come to our place, she prefers she and I not have sex before that. Most often we're fucking afterward, either that night or a following night, as she tells me about it. Over time, she has become very good with her narratives, and I'm always cumming hard at those times. Our hottest sex is when she is telling me how much she enjoyed another dick and all they had done when having sex. She has been a hotwife since she was age 28 (or age 27 if you count the year before she was fully in agreement).

~ Des

[cpeater]

I had a couple of experiences being present early on but for several years now it's been her seeing him on her own. We both enjoy the excitement of keeping it secret some of the time, and sharing details other times. Sometimes she will journal the experience and share it with me a month or two later.

[ErikaPeter]

At the beginning, my husband was involved in finding partners for me, and nominally participating in or at least observing my sexual adventures. As I gained confidence, his involvement diminished. Before long, I would be with my close friends at their home or mine (without the husband) and with newer friends alone at hotels. I find it better not to have an audience. I usually do not offer a lot of details to my husband after the fact, and he does not ask. He seems to be happy just knowing that I am being fulfilled.

[tractorman2]

Since my wife was in her 20s i have located potencial lovers. She prefers long term lovers rather than one nighters. We have a mature relationship and i present potencial lovers for her approval. We meet, she knows, he knows and if suitable we seek for her to become his. My role is made clear i am her husband and cuck. This is for their sexual pleasure physically and mine mentally.

It is actually very difficult to find a suitable man, it can be rather off putting to some that "her husband" is aware and has no issues.

Most men unless experienced in this type of relationship struggle to come to terms that her husband wants to watch and that a wife would want this too.

It would be so much easier if she would pick up a man on a night out or from work but she refuses.Her view is she wants me involved from the start.

They never know certainly until we know them well that i am a feminised cuck and under my jeans are knickers and a CB and increasingly those jeans are actually female jeans too.

[stevens4fun]

We need to add some alternatives to the list:

*wife fucks bull at home in the marital bed, husband participates or operates camera.

*wife fucks bull at home in the marital bed, husband only allowed to watch. Husband cannot speak unless spoken to.

*wife fucks bull at home in the marital bed, husband is elsewhere. Not allowed in marital bedroom.

*wife fucks bull anywhere in the house, anytime.... etc. etc.

[desertsub]

I voted #3 because back when my wife first started cuckolding me she always left me at home while she went out with her girlfriends and almost always ended up getting fucked before coming home and making me clean her well fucked pussy while she told me who fucked her and how good it was. Her girlfriends all knew I was a cuckold.

I voted #4 because on several occasions, since she started cuckolding me again, she has had guys over to our house and has tied me to the bed in the guest room and left the doors open so I could hear her fucking them in our bed. She hasn't done this very often but it's really intense for me when she does!

I also voted #7 because when she started back cuckolding me she decided she wanted me there to see her get fucked, as opposed to the first time around when I never got to watch. Now, she has me kneel next to the bed naked except for my chastity cage, and watch and do whatever I'm told to help out. I almost always suck the bull's cock and get him hard for her and usually have to clean them both when they are finished.

I could have also checked #9 if it wasn't limited to 3 votes. Since I am always locked in chastity I can never fuck my wife, only clean her up afterwards. I HAVE been fucked twice anally by one of her bulls and a couple of them have literally fucked my mouth!

[Smit_hd]

She can do anything she wants but I want to either see/hear it happen, or be told every last detail after if I'm not there.

[warmnsalty]

My favorite is fluffing him while she watches, then he fucks her while I watch. There's nothing hotter than watching a stranger fuck her and watching as hit cock pulses and pumps his load into her. He pulls out, I clean him then go down on Mrs Warms delicious cream pie. Then he goes again. Usually after a guy goes twice then I'll fuck her. After that, if he's still up for it he can take another turn. I've yet to get fucked by a bull while she's watching, we're both looking forward to that. I've had husbands fuck me while their wives watched as a third - it's so hot looking into a woman's eyes while he man is fucking me.

[St4gC7ck]

Wife fucks bull away from home but tells cuck all the details

Cuck gets to fuck wife after bull has his turn

Cuck gets fucked by bull (orally or anally) but does not participate with wife.


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[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

In the past, I was invited to watch. They liked to watch me masturbating at about arm’s length. I would have to cup my left hand beneath my dickhead to try to catch my jizz, making sure not to get any on his sheets or his comforter.

Sometimes he would finish in her before I would finish myself into my cupped left hand. Occasionally, he’d pull out and move to the side, suggesting I should “take a stab at it.” I would look to her for approval. She always loved the idea of getting “double-stuffed” with cum for the night, so I would oblige.

Best lube on the planet!

I never lasted more than a minute or so.

These days, her new BF is incredibly self-conscious. Doesn’t feel comfortable with me watching. That hasn’t stopped her from coming home and leading me to our bedroom where she sits on my face and recounts every last detail about what he did to her just an hour or so prior. I GLADLY clean her up!

[submissivedanny]

I'm never allowed to watch my wife making love to her BF. She feels that's private between them. I can hear them when I'm in my room and it sounds incredible.

[AZPainter]

I also checked three boxes as mine was a progression from my wife cuckolding me without my knowledge, pretty much from the start of our relationship. I suspected she was pretty promiscuous when dating but figure she would stop, if she was with other guys once we became a couple and then engaged. After we were married for maybe a year I started wondering. I knew she worked most nights and sometimes during the day at a second part time job, modeling for a department store and a couple of other local women's clothing stores. At night was her full time job as a cocktail waitress in a very popular night club. I worked at home as a commercial artist, sometimes illustrator and doing fine art for a gallery on the side and wanting to just paint for a living.

When she started coming home later and later than usual is when I began wondering and finally after a little while I confronted her when she got home a little after 8am with her hair and makeup a mess and a definite the smell of sex on her. We talked a little but she was so tired she was not making much sense, so I let her get some sleep. She woke up (Came to, basically) late that afternoon, had some coffee and something to eat and was pretty much able to communicate sensibly. We talked until she had to get ready for work and then more talk and confessions the next day. We came to an agreement that she could continue but she had to tell me everything afterwards. I realized I was getting turned on listening to her confessions and some of who she was mostly playing with. This was with mainly male co-workers, band members and like the all nighter, I mentioned and occasionally a club customer she knew. There were 4 of these but one only came into town every three months and come in the club when he was in town. The other three were guys that hit all the clubs and would show up now and then in hers. This began working for both of us and she would even call when she would be home later than usual

As time went by she started bring a guy home with her. I agreed to this and would listen to them as best I could in the spare bedroom next to the master bedroom where I was in bed. I could not hear much of course other when the moans and grunts got a little louder, but I knew she would fill in the blanks after both were satisfied. She seemed to really enjoy telling me all . I did as well very much.

She was aware that I had some bi sexual leaning and had even sucked a few cocks over the years off and on before we met. Mainly as a teen and with a friend of pretty much the same age. This came out before this new situation with her. It came out as a fantasy during our husband and wife love making. She asked one night if I would like doing that again. I said I would. Again, I was thinking "fantasy" but it did appeal to me. It wasn't long before she would invite me in when the other man was okay with that. Over 2 or 3 months she asked me to clean her up orally, that progressed into guiding her lovers cock into her, then laying under her as they did doggy style and licking her while doing this position which obviously meant my tongue often would licked the underside of her lovers cock. From there it was a natural progression to fluffing and/or sucking the lover in a way of cleaning him up as well as her.

So my votes in this questionnaire is fairly easy to see. Our marriage lasted a total of 12 years 10.5 to maybe 11 years as a cuck. It ended not because of our lifestyle but because she got deeper and deeper in alcohol and then drugs to the point I just would not deal with it anymore, Sorry this was so long of a post.

[tosaintsfan]

We have done a little of everything except the last two. Depending on the guy, I usually just watch or watch and take pics. Marla has been with over 40 guys (mostly just bj) and I think I have prepped 8 or 9. I would love to prepped and clean up both of them, but that hasn't happened yet, although the last guy she fucked, was with a condom, but he pulled it off and blew on her ties which I cleaned. As he was cleaning himself I almost knelt down to finish him orally, but was unsure. I would like to take the load directly from the tap, but hasn't happened yet. Marla knows this and is trying to arrange.

TO

[Bull4Oldrwives]

As a Bull, I guess I have to say "all of the above". I think that it is incumbent upon me as a Bull to (for lack of a better word) "honor" the invitation into the marriage of a cuck and wife. I prefer LTRs and a deep connection with the wife's pleasure being always the priority. However, this lifestyle creates a unique opportunity for incredible eroticism and sexual excitement within the triad relationship, especially long term ones, and I believe that it is my responsibility to always seek to create as much of that excitement as possible.
In a long term relationship there will be evolution based on needs and creating new avenues for her excitement and pleasure. Caging, denial, sloppy seconds, cleaning, fluffing, snowballs, etc are all part of the mix. I happen to believe that the cuck and I are partners in her pleasure and I believe constant communication between the cuck and I before and after intimacy begins is very important. It is only because cuckolds are courageous enough to embrace complete sexual and emotional freedom for their wives that the opportunity for incredible pleasure has been made available to me.
I want him to feel that rush of blood to his head from the excitement and shame, if appropriate as well as feel that explosion from sloppy seconds that occurs after two-three thrusts into her swollen full love nest. Within, the rubric of her pleasure and preferences I want the cuck to also have a fulfilling experience. The Bull who thinks he can just barge into a marriage and become the dictator will usually not stay long, though there are those couples who prefer it. I think of it all as a smorgasbord of pleasure of sexual delights that are chosen to increase the eroticism and pleasure of all concerned. Just my opinion

[isinlarsa]

My favorite is fluffing him while she watches, then he fucks her while I watch. There's nothing hotter than watching a stranger fuck her and watching as hit cock pulses and pumps his load into her. He pulls out, I clean him then go down on Mrs Warms delicious cream pie. Then he goes again. Usually after a guy goes twice then I'll fuck her. After that, if he's still up for it he can take another turn. I've yet to get fucked by a bull while she's watching, we're both looking forward to that. I've had husbands fuck me while their wives watched as a third - it's so hot looking into a woman's eyes while he man is fucking me.

Was it difficult to find couples where the husband wanted to fuck you while his wife watched? Did you fuck the wife?

[isinlarsa]

I'm actually surprised by the number of men who responded that they would want to be fucked either orally or anally, with the wife not participating. Would love to see some responses from those men. Is the wife present, or have these husbands met her stud alone?

[warmnsalty]

My first bi experience with a f present was with a couple i met on CL. I answered their ad looking for a guy for MFM. No mention for bi. Wasn’t after we’d all started playing and her buddy had fucked her that it came up. She was suckng me / looked up at me and asked if her husband could help her. I said sure. In my case it was always the couple brouggt it up. When answering a couples ad I’d never mention bi play, if they weren’t into it I didn’t want to miss out of pussy LOL. i’d post ads stating I was bi and it was an option. Opened my eyes to how many DL bi husbands and BFs were out there.