Has my hotwife come back?

[michael8401]

I don't have a lot of time, but background is that we were swingers and she has had boyfriends at work before but wow!

She had a BBC BF that traveled with us to adult's only trips and we actually saw him this weekend and she even kissed him (he was on duty though), but I am SHOCKED rn and I had to tell someone! I am not exactly sure how to respond and what I should say. BTW - she tends to not ever want to talk about this stuff and has already been adamant that nothing at all has happened or even really even been flirted at. So, it's very common for her to not want to talk about it and she likes to have the appearance of a super innocent wife that would never ever do anything naughty. However, with a few glasses of wine, she can turn into a total vixen - as we will see.

Background - We were swingers but mostly hotwifing. She had one BF at work about 10 years ago and they would fuck almost every day in her office (it was no windows and sound tight) and I know it was a ton, because there was carpet under her chair and she used to ride him in the chair every day and the cum would, well, leak out. So, there was A LOT of it HAHAHAHA! Some may have just thought she was a messy eater, but I knew better.

After him, we had a guy I found and he became her first regular where I was involved. I would often suck his cock and clean them both up, etc. and then that went on where we saw him regularly for about 5 years until 2019 and she said that wasn't her anymore and she wasn't going to play anymore. Needless to say, I was REALLY bummed about that

Here is what I know. She works out of town every other week and this started about 3-4 months ago. Well, a new guy started and he's single, black, fit, etc. and definitely up her alley 100%. He's kind which is a big factor as well. (She mentioned being kind was critical) I haven't seen any pictures at all of him. I haven't found him on socials at all either which is odd.

Anyway, we have been dancing again with this stuff and a few months ago on a whim, she got a REAL spade tattoo above her pussy. He is the first person beside me and the tattoo guy to see it in person. (She still has admitted nothing yet). So, last week on her last day there, they all went to dinner and had a few drinks there. THEN back at the hotel, apparently 4 more drinks... She only told me she may have over-imbibed that night and was up at 8AM because she had to be at work by 8-8:30. Anyway, I happened to see her texts and he was at the top and I scrolled back because it was really flirty and she has still been like there was a little teasing at work but that was all.

Texts:
Him: Excuses excuses
Nothing but 20 ft between us
Pretty sure you'll be climbing the walls before you know it
Talk is cheap (We will call her A)
Her:
So many things running through my mind right now...
Him:
2 ways this could go... you come to me or i come to you
Her:
Gives room number
Him:
Be there in a few minutes

No texts until 9:25 the next morning with her saying: I am feeling very distracted today and I blame you.
Him:
What could you be possibly be distracted about with a wink face.

Before anyone jumps on her, she has an open hall pass and doesn't need to tell me, etc. and she's had that always. MOST of the times with her previous work guy, she never said a word. It's just part of our game where she won't feel judged by me or anyone even though I have never ever judged her for anything.

She had told me that she didn't want me being a bull anymore for couples either about a year ago, so yeah, there is a lot going on.

I think the best course of action is just patience and letting this play out. I'll talk to my therapist about it for sure though! I will let you all know if anything else happens.

[Cuckcuckgoose1]

Looking forward to your updates.

[michael8401]

Looking forward to your updates.

Me too! Outside of maybe some texts, I don't see any updates until next week.

[St4gC7ck]

Miam, lucky man, I want to know more how slutty and lovely she is!

[michael8401]

She’s the hottest to me. 5”0 120 lbs c cup blonde hair and always shaved is her look

No updates yet, she’s just being extra loving

[elina]

Dear Ohio,

Very happy to hear that Your Wife seems to have found Her groove again and appears to be taking advantage of Her hallpass.
I find it especially hot that She has actually gotten a real spade tattoo, .....

Looking forward to your updates.
Is there anything you can do to encourage your WIfe to be more open with you about what She is doing.
You said She doesn't want you to be a bull for other couples anymore, so maybe you can agree to only focus on Her if She will disclose what She is doing for your mutual enjoyment?... (Just thinking aloud)..

Sincerely
elina

[michael8401]

Hi Elina-

It doesn’t seem to be possible just yet. I’ve given her several opportunities to come clean and tell me. She hasn’t.

I feel like she may slow roll fucking him next week when she travels if he’s there also. I’m not sure if he will be this trip.

One update though is earlier I was talking to her and I said, I’m you’re good cuckold (I brought her lunch) and she just said you are.

I thought she may be about to disclose but she didn’t. I’ve been struggling to sleep because my cuck angst is so high. I’m talking to my counselor on Thursday though.

[michael8401]

Well, idk how many people remember this, but I confronted her and she said she was going to tell me that night.
In short we had a big blow up because I saw all the texts and he was definitely kind of love bombing her etc.
we got past it after she acknowledged what she did was not ok and I need to always know ahead of time, and she insists that none of it was emotional, but I’m sure that’s going to change this week.
So, she’s out of town this weekend with my girls and we’ve now turned this to a hot turn on and she’s being very open and screen shotting texts for me.
He may work on tying her up and we’re going to buy some sexy outfits for her this weekend for her to wear next week.
They are definitely fucking Monday night when she gets there and all week long until she comes home Thursday. My stomach is in knots and I’m loving the feeling and I cum so hard when I think about it.
This is now a thing!

[St4gC7ck]

fucking hot enjoy masterbating to this, Im not even in the lifestyle yet and Im blowing loads thinking about my future we are making. every time!

[michael8401]

Well, we have had her have boyfriends in the past and occasionally we would swing on vacation if it was just us and no kids and the perfect opportunity showed itself.

That said, she shut it all down 5 years ago and I thought it was gone for good. Randomly, she agreed to a spade tat in key west when we were hammered back in April. Idk if this was brewing in her head then but I am guessing maybe haha! Anyway, it was really just for us to tease about and play with.
Well, it’s on now and next week will be massive cuck anxiety for me because I know they are fucking every night all night long although he will have to sneak out of her room so no one sees.
I give this maybe 2-3 times before everyone knows they are fucking though because, well, idk I just think so. I’m just happy she is having fun with it.