What's your partner's biggest disappointment in your sexual performance?

[kort677]

ever since my wife met a very well endowed guy she is a size queen, that with my inability to get an erection means that we rarely have sex. I usually just jerk off and sometimes she'll toss me a BJ

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

I answered several (5) choices, but not for the usual reasons.

Let me explain.

My length: normal
My girth: a tad bigger than normal

So that leaves endurance, impotence, stroke game, and other. And here are the unusual reasons those are a problem:

First, let me say that my wife LOVES sex with me WHEN EVERYTHING WORKS RIGHT. (Major emphasis on those last four words.

Eighty, maybe ninety percent of the time, everything DOESN’T work right.

She enjoys ALL parts of sex…..fingering, pussy eating, masturbating, fucking, cumming……but her favorite part BY FAR is feeling her man cum inside her. Cumming is a close second, but making her man cum has always been at the top of her list. I think it’s a “power” thing. She loves getting eye-contact, as if to say, “Look how my pussy makes you feel! Worship my pussy.”

Of course, whether it’s me or her boyfriends…we’re obviously blowing our respective wads in that moment…giving her our “O-face.” She absolutely LOVES knowing that her pussy controls the whole game.

WHEN EVERYTHING WORKS RIGHT, it’s pure heaven!

Where I fail is in going for too long. She wants me to cum, but I become too self-conscious and can’t give her my wad…..and that just makes me MORE self-conscious, and….well, you see where this is going.

I have no problem staying hard……I just go for too long. She, believe it or not, starts losing interest…..as evidenced by her pussy that’s getting drier and drier. At some point, it’s just no fun. She’s not wet anymore. I’m entirely too self-conscious. I can feel my load retreating. I then faulter and find myself getting distracted…..a barking dog (Focus!)…a neighbor walking by as we can see her outside the window (Focus!)…a car drives by (Focus!)….fuck, she’s getting dry (Focus!). Before long, I’ve completely ruined the mood.

Eventually, I have to give up.

She doesn’t like to finish me off with a blowjob, either. My wife, a petite Filipina, says my “tad bigger than normal girth” makes her jaw hurt.

We’ve tried KY gel for the fucking, but my wife complains that she often gets UT infections whenever we use it. She has become “anti-KY” because of it. (Same with spit, by the way. She has a very sensitive urinary tract!)

So…..I go for too long. I’m “impotent” in the strict definition that I’m not potent.

And then, to make matters worse, I’m often so horny and worked up afterward that I jack myself off the moment she leaves the room disappointed. (“Stroke game”? LOL!). I’m pathetic….a blob of cum on my belly. I think I need to cage myself immediately!

Fortunately, her boyfriend has no such problems. His dick may be a tad smaller, but she really enjoys the fuck out of it. LOVES keeping eye-contact with him as he spurts into her at just the right time.

Fortunately, she brings those creampies home for me to clean from her. She KNOWS I love clean-up duty, even if it doesn’t culminate with me fucking her and giving her my own wad. Heck! Most of the time, it’s just understood that I’ll be cleaning her up, and then, when she feels sufficiently “clean,” her stuffing her cum-soaked panties into my mouth (his cum, that is) to suck on while she hops in the shower.

[4incheslong]

I think its mostly a need to be with other men, boredom. She has said that I am not a good lover but I think a lot of that is my need to hear about her sexploits and past promiscuity.

[luvymayfly2]

Not in the lifestyle now but in the past the only disappointment with my performance is that I have a hard time coming due to a surgery. Coming through intercourse alone is very hard since then. The two women who cucked me missed having cum pumped into their pussy. I don't blame them. I'd want that too.

[Caribwaters]

When we met my wife was a virgin and I had very limited sexual experience with just one other girlfriend. During our years of dating there was no one else ever involved, even though for her there were a number of opportunities, but she never crossed the line.
So when we married, that's all we really knew. Throughout our relationship, she was always a 1 and done girl. Never could cum twice. As I got into my 50s started losing my stamina, eventually to the point I was finished in less than 2 minutes.

After 6 years married, she had her 1st affair with an older man who was her boss. Their intimacy was limited to oral, primarily from him to her, as he had trouble due to his age of getting and keeping (no viagra then). Apparently her was exceptional with his oral technique, which gave her much different satisfaction at least 3 days week. They maintained a 2 year relationship.

Over the years, there were a couple of other short term lovers, but according to my wife, though they were nice, none really performed better than me. Then she reconnected with an old high school friend and our whole intimate world changed. He had been involved with quite a few woman over the intervening years and was very capable of giving her a level of satisfaction far superior than anything I was capable of. She was also attracted to his assertive personality, which was pretty much in contrast to mine.
He was longer than me, could last for "hours", edge her to the point she felt she was losing her mind, begging him to let her cum (and often not really wanting to yet), make her cum multiple times and to top it off reportedly also had a magic tongue, unequal to any other man she had been with.
I believe as a result of being with him, she lost her ability to cum when having intercourse or oral with me. Explained that after having full sex with him, though she loves me I had become somewhat of a disappointment, having never realizing how inadequate I had always been in bed. When she was with him her sexual activities were far more expansive, satisfying and lasted much longer than ever with me. There was no way I could compete with this sexual athlete, so I let her enjoy his attention whenever he called to meet up.

[kinkyfun]

Same topic, different perspective: The wife that I fuck has a hubby with a small cock and no stamina. He also had no idea how to pleasure a woman. After a couple years she began fucking me exclusively and he is no longer sexual with her.

[CoupleFun555]

Length.

[Bent_n_Twisted]

She isn't disappointed, she loves my cock and my talented tongue. She says I'm the biggest she's had, and if I were any bigger she wouldn't let me near her.

But, she has been a cock-tease since her school-girl days, and she also loves teasing and denying me, keeping me caged, hard and horny for months at a time, with an eye towards getting cock from others when she's keeping mine locked up. She wants to see my [caged] cock swollen and dripping while I watch others getting what I can't have.

[BiGalBrklyn]

I do not even try anymore. I am tired of disappointing my dear wife. She gets really frustrated because I am not big enough and finish way too early. Last time was about 5 strokes and I was done. I get more pleasure watching her with her lovers and playing with myself. Sometimes I get to edge her lovers and taste their cum.

[HB3133]

Definitely Stamina. Samantha likes 1-2 hour sessions with her two regular guys; one a true DOM/sub relationship and the other a young bull. I am lucky to go more than five minutes with my sexy wife. She always cums and enjoys our time together but I know how much she would rather be fucking Josh or James. She used to be very hesitant about any type of humiliation towards me but over the last year, she is growing very comfortable with telling me the truth about her needs and desires.