Does Your Wife Like Rough Treatment?

[ma2foru]

I think it’s different from woman to woman. I have found after 25+ years of marriage that my Hotwife loves it rough with me and with others. She often tells her favorite BBC to slap her ass and use her. He calls her his fuck toy and she gets louder and more animated. I have been with other hot wives that want to be dominated and asked me to slap and choke them

[leggysman]

Leggysandy likes it rough -- dominance, forcefulness, a bit of BDSM stuff.

Not my forte.

I asked her recently whether she likes a guy sticking his fingers in her mouth (something I've seen frequently in porn) and she said: yes, in the right circumstance. But, she added, I wouldn't want you to do it only other guys

[Jamesparistoo]

Leggysandy likes it rough -- dominance, forcefulness, a bit of BDSM stuff.

Not my forte.

I asked her recently whether she likes a guy sticking his fingers in her mouth (something I've seen frequently in porn) and she said: yes, in the right circumstance. But, she added, I wouldn't want you to do it only other guys

Some mild cucking/humiliation tendencies coming out?

[leggysman]

Some mild cucking/humiliation tendencies coming out?

Ha, no, I don't think so. I don't find it humiliating. It's supremely hot when my wife is a bad girl.

I think I feel silly trying to be that guy in bed -- and maybe she thinks it's silly too -- it feels fake and forced when I try it. Our sex life just hasn't been like that, and our marriage isn't like that.

When she 'steps out', she gets to choose that guy (who is not her husband), and be that girl, and it's probably just more authentic.

[ her first guy, Anthony, claimed to be able to 'dom', but it really wasn't his thing either, and she found it slightly funny instead of hot ]

[frank12]

Over the years I've encountered a significant breadth of interests for play that reaches out on that "kinkier" dimension. As several above have pointed out though, it can be quite important to know just how much and how far the adventurous woman wants things to go, and with whom, and where. Making it even more complicated is that some are not very comfortable in talking it all out in advance and in the MOST complex of situations, one is somewhat expected to intuit just what her secretive kinky fantasies are and to take her just *there* without any of that talked out. Long-held but secret dreams and fantasies of the swashbuckling pirates or any variety of strong, forceful male are parts of the influence for some - there are other root causes less fun to recall.

Taking the time to discover the behaviors and fantasies she likes can be rather rewarding for all concerned because a woman does not always know herself what works for her. I've enjoyed a playmate who stated right up front that spankings were her major turn on, another for whom "strict" immobilizing bondage would bring her to a dream-like descent into an orgasmic "subspace" and have also thoroughly enjoyed the complexities of a playmate who could not bring herself to verbalize her wantings of being very gently but firmly "told" to do "all those things" - careful experimentation and sensing her body language and responses were my guide to her pleasures in submission.

That ability to talk about just what her dreams and fantasies are comes easy for some and more difficult for others. But even when discussions are not difficult it is not rare to find a wife who needs that other man to do those kinky things as she cannot fit those roles into the day to day relationship with her dear husband.

And the negative to all of this is the fact that there is that set of people out there that one might find while searching for playmates who seem to need to take the kinky things to where THEY want to take them rather than to find out (or even care about?) where the adventurous woman or couple wants them to go. Also mentioned above are examples of those sorts and how disconcerting it can be. Risks can be high for an experience that can sour things - and that can be sad if one bad experience makes one choose never to try again.

There are precisely eleventy bajillion different intersections of wants and desires and with all the talk of just HOW kinky ... it is even more important to know that for some "just right" is not even close to kinky in any way shape or form.

Prof Wood

[carolinacuck]

C is naturally submissive with alpha male types, but one encounter really stands out. We met Rick, a married man from out of town on AFF. He was a tall well hung man with a dominant streak. C was very attracted to him and we eventually went back to his hotel room. He took charge and began slowing face fucking her with his long cock, while I teased her very wet pussy with my tongue. He then mounted her aggressively from behind. She was really getting off and he was getting very verbal with her saying "tell us about it baby"...''tell us how much you want that big dick." He began slapping her ass very firmly as well and I almost said something to him about it. But she seemed to be enjoying it so I held back. She eventually told him to stop after a couple of orgasms because she was getting sore, and he told her to finish him off orally. She willingly got between his legs and gave him great head until he flooded her mouth with his cum.

I knew she had a great time when driving back home from his hotel she dreamily said "Boy, that guy REALLY knows how to fuck."

[Magellanic29]

C is naturally submissive with alpha male types, but one encounter really stands out. We met Rick, a married man from out of town on AFF. He was a tall well hung man with a dominant streak. C was very attracted to him and we eventually went back to his hotel room. He took charge and began slowing face fucking her with his long cock, while I teased her very wet pussy with my tongue. He then mounted her aggressively from behind. She was really getting off and he was getting very verbal with her saying "tell us about it baby"...''tell us how much you want that big dick." He began slapping her ass very firmly as well and I almost said something to him about it. But she seemed to be enjoying it so I held back. She eventually told him to stop after a couple of orgasms because she was getting sore, and he told her to finish him off orally. She willingly got between his legs and gave him great head until he flooded her mouth with his cum.

I knew she had a great time when driving back home from his hotel she dreamily said "Boy, that guy REALLY knows how to fuck."

Very hot. How many times did you see this guy?

[bltn1966]

This is something funny that happen to my crazy wife. Marie likes being with an older gentleman name Ric. Marie said he knows how to make love to a woman. She said he could teach young guys a thing or two in bed. He is very passionate and intense in bed. She said he never jackrabbit her like most young guys. I told her deep down all men are the same. Marie kept saying Ric is special. He would never be like that with her.

One night my wife was having slow sensual sex with Ric. Ric was on top of her and started going a little faster than usual. That caused Marie to make a few wisecracks. She said “slow your old ass down before you have a heart attack” “I don’t want you to cum and go at the same time”. Ric said “why do you say that”? Marie said “Because I don’t want you to outpace your pacemaker old man” Ric smiled but had a mean look in his face.

My wife giggled as Ric put her legs on his shoulders. Ric started slamming Marie at steady pace for the next few minutes straight. Marie was cumming nonstop as Ric jackrabbit fucked her harder and faster than any young guy ever had. Gentleman Ric usually stop or slow down whenever Marie has an orgasm. Now he’s pounding as if he’s trying to punish Marie for what she said. When he finally stopped Marie look like a hot mess. Rick, probably feeling sorry for destroying his guess, turned back into a gentleman. He went to the kitchen to get Marie a cold glass of water. Marie still trying to recover looked at me and said “SHUT UP”. She knew she was wrong when she said Ric would NEVER hammer fuck like that. When he returned Ric sheepishly apologized to Marie. Marie laughed and told him she enjoyed it. She said you can do that to me anytime you want.

[Dream Weaver]

My wife has claims she does, but she's like the cuck that freaks out when it happens. I've never seen her actually enjoy it, quite the opposite.

[Tryagain]

I am the OP who described the rough treatment my wife had with a very aggressive guy and whom she said she would never invite back again.

I admit that I was turned on by his treatment of her. After quite some time I asked her how she felt about him. She admitted she was so turned on by his good looks and had a way about him that she felt was exciting and sexy and how good he fucked her.

She eventually said she would like to meet him again but only if he changed his way. She let him know how she did not like his rough way and he promised to be “good.”

Well…he came by again and she was out of her mind having sex with him. He did treat her gently and respectfully. So he sends a text after that a says he really like having his “balls drained” with her. Both of us that was crude.

Then he sends a text to me saying if he cannot have the pics and videos I take, then I can’t have them either. That was a huge turnoff, of course – childish indeed. Next, he sends a text to her asking “are you ready to fuck again”.

So both of us said to each other “fuck him” – how crude he is. My wife sent a text describing how he is not the kind of guy she wants to be with.
The morale of this story? People don’t change who they really are.

[luvymayfly2]

I've been cucked by two women and been the "bull" when not in those relationships.

I think only one of the cuckoldresses I've been with liked it rough. She'd come home and describe a rough encounter to me. I could tell she felt torn about it. She liked it but did not want to admit to me or herself. "Slut shaming" and rough treatment was a big turn on and guilt trip for her. I was so in love with her but I felt like a yoyo and could never develop long term trust. We always seemed to get back together though until she got a breast job despite having the best boobs.

I've been with wives with and without the husband present. Without the husband present, rough has been their definite preference.

[Anonymousrachel]

It does differ from person to person. I for one thoroughly enjoy rough play and being manhandled and tossed around like a rag doll. My last play date involved some impact play as well. It’s a kink just as much as being a cuckhold is a kink. Different strokes for different folks!

[carolinacuck]

C is naturally submissive with alpha male types, but one encounter really stands out. We met Rick, a married man from out of town on AFF. He was a tall well hung man with a dominant streak. C was very attracted to him and we eventually went back to his hotel room. He took charge and began slowing face fucking her with his long cock, while I teased her very wet pussy with my tongue. He then mounted her aggressively from behind. She was really getting off and he was getting very verbal with her saying "tell us about it baby"...''tell us how much you want that big dick." He began slapping her ass very firmly as well and I almost said something to him about it. But she seemed to be enjoying it so I held back. She eventually told him to stop after a couple of orgasms because she was getting sore, and he told her to finish him off orally. She willingly got between his legs and gave him great head until he flooded her mouth with his cum.

I knew she had a great time when driving back home from his hotel she dreamily said "Boy, that guy REALLY knows how to fuck."

Very hot. How many times did you see this guy?

Well, Rick was married and he decided not to continue playing. About a year or so later, he wound up getting divorced and reached out to C about getting "reacquainted." They made a date for him to come over while I was conveniently out and he mounted her with great success for over an hour. They got together a few more times but it never got to the point of him being a regular bull.

[gruenberg]

Yes, but not from me.

[Mgcouplemn]

Rough meaning getting slapped, batted, or beaten, then no she doesn't. My wife does like to banged very hard though, she likes to have the guy fuck her hard. I love watching them doing it.

[ccklvr]

Rough meaning getting slapped, batted, or beaten, then no she doesn't. My wife does like to banged very hard though, she likes to have the guy fuck her hard. I love watching them doing it.

Yes, there are 50 shades of rough treatment out there.

[funkyfitter]

Miss Sue refuses to be treated roughly but she loves to be manhandled.

[Angela Plays]

This is probably going to sound very simplistic, but it’s honestly how I feel.

It all depends on my mood. There are times I want it slow, sensual and loving. Then there are times I want to be just railed and have a back blown out, tough and tumbled fucking.

And ya know what? As a woman….I usually get my way! Hahahaha!

[bltn1966]

This is probably going to sound very simplistic, but it’s honestly how I feel.

It all depends on my mood. There are times I want it slow, sensual and loving. Then there are times I want to be just railed and have a back blown out, tough and tumbled fucking.

And ya know what? As a woman….I usually get my way! Hahahaha!

Haha. You sound like my wife. She swore she never wanted to be treated like a piece of meat. Then she saw a handsome guy, at a swingers party, manhandle and power fuck two ladies. I don’t know what about him turned her on but she couldn’t wait to be his next victim. Afterwards she said she got what she wanted.

[sw6]

Women I find tend to like a confident maybe firm man in bed. There is a spectrum here that definitely goes into rough.

Not in my general nature. I tend to read my bed partner and pursue what they respond to.

However, I find myself being rougher and rougher and If that is what they want, so be it.

I find it fun, situationally, to open with "do you want to be beaten or fucked?" - a great answer is both, but a startling amount of the ladies say the former

I will say that my ex who wanted to be spanked which I could never get the hang of (tiny ass) got together with a self proclaimed rough expert and he really worked her over. She wanted to give him another chance saying she may not have given him proper guidance and usually finds the second time with a guy the best as they have gotten over nerves etc. But I explained to her that what he did was how he enjoyed it so he wouldn't change. He wasn't invited back.

She also indicated that if she was really hard mouth fucked, she peed. When me and my buddy did this with her we took her in the bath. He and I went out to the bed to wait for her to clean up and he (who was generally rough with her) worried that we went too far. She came out and thanked us for taking her in the tub for the mess but it was fine what we did. Whew. LOL

[stubbyhubby]

Lisa LOOOVVEESSS rough treatment. Bondage and rough fucking are her favorite.

She has major orgasms when a guy gets her legs over his shoulders or folds them and traps them under his chest then squeezes her tits and uses them for leverage to powerfuck her.

She loves name-calling and degrading too. Her bull is already dom but on occasion he gets in an "extra dom" mood and while he is fucking her he will cover her face with his hands semi-smothering her and tell her he doesn't need to see her face because her pussy is all that matters and make her call herself a fuckhole and a cumdump and beg for him to cum in her.