What if a friend finds out you're a cuck?

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

I would love to have a friend (in-person) with whom I could talk about the thrills and shortcomings of being a cuck.

My wife’s previous long-term boyfriend was a good friend. We talked a lot about the angst I felt when he fucked her. There was no guilt, just angst. He and I understood very well that despite my angst, he would continue to fuck her in front of me, and did so hundreds of times while I stood there next to them jerking off. All for her pleasure.

Her new boyfriend is more distant and prefers to keep it this way.

I would prefer another fellow since he’d intuitively understand some of the feelings I have, but a gal-pal might be nice since she’d have a better understanding of my wife’s urges and motivations.

Ideally, it would be a couple, I guess. Not sure if I would want them to have fucked my wife….maybe in a threesome…..maybe individually. I don’t think my wife would do it anyway. She prefers fucking her boyfriend from work.

[ucaneffher]

I told a few of my close friends and the reception was different. One of them was intrigued and seemed interested to also share his girlfriend and my other closer friend seemed judgemental. Sadly the judgemental one is the one I exposed to the lifestyle the most because on multiple occasions the gf, myself, and our group of friends (men and women) would be out at a nightclub and my GF would almost always receive text messages from men summoning her. 99% of the those times id leave the club to go drop her off where ever the other man was and my friend would tag along to drop her off and we'd return to meet with the group.

Other times it would be the other way around, really late 2am-4am after the club and our group would be at a diner eating while my gf had spent all evening with another man or men and would call me to pick her up. My buddy would ride with me (designated driver) and he would observe my gf walk out of other mens homes in some low cut /ass almost showing skimpy outfits every time, barefoot with heels in her hands and getting into the car smelling like sex and another man. When we were alone he would often throw indirect jabs that she was a slut and didn't understand why I did it.

Thankfully years later, one of my female friends was intrigued and stuck to me like glue for details. She wanted to know everything and the entire story. She is the only person I personally know who knows as much or more than OHW.

She has been there for the last 8 or so years and supporting me and encouraging me to not give up on my dream of having a shared and promiscuous girlfriend/wife. She motivated me to bring it up to a previous GF when I was done trying. She has also given me tons of support and ideas with my current gf. I tried suggesting her becoming a hot girlfriend herself but she said it wasn't for her but she loved hearing all of the sexy details of my life as a cuckold and how my women were able to act single, available, and free to date. To this day she is waiting for the good news that my GF has started dating or has a boyfriend.

2 years ago when the GF was actively dating a lot of men and dressing very provocative for her men, she would send me pictures from their home in the bathroom. My friend was so happy and telling me that this was likely finally gonna be the moment I had been wanting! Even going as far as saying we'd have to celebrate once my GF started sleeping around but it never happened. My gf doesn't know she knows but we are still celebrating once my gf is away with another man!

[AZPainter]

My wife was pretty well known in her circle of co workers and friends that she enjoyed sex and like a variety of men, before we dated and once we began dating and became engaged. I was vaguely aware of this but not how extensive it was. The circle of my friends was a very different group of people. Her's was the nightclub types and mine more the commercial/business My group was definitely not the "in crowd club" types. Sure the art people would go to the clubs, but it wasn't like the club going folks. Going toa night club was just a once in awhile variation to what we normally did for entertainment. I met her when I did some posters for the owner of several clubs in our city. I briefly met her when I met this owner when he called me asking about making the posters. Then when I delivered them, and she was there to receive them and pay me. I thought she was fun to talk with and being a real looker was a big help in liking her also. I was not aware that she was not just a office assistant for the owner, but she was in charge of scheduling waitress for all his clubs and bars, but also a working waitress herself. All my meetings with her were in the day time late afternoons.

As mentioned we began seeing each other when she was off doing the normal dating things most people do, and eventually married. Sex with her came easy and quickly while dating. Later I found out she was sleeping with other guys while we were dating and it continued after we were married. Eventually I found out about this and confronted he. She admitted she really enjoyed sex with a variety of men. We came to an agreement after some long talks. She could keep doing it but with honest and full communication of who, when and what details with me. I admit it was very arousing knowing what was going on after her work hours were done and she didn't come home until early mornings sometimes and quite often as time went by.

The club group she worked with knew she was playing all the time and of course places and people she worked with and other club friends of hers have a big rumor and tell all thing amongst themselves, so it was known in that group that she was cucking me, before and after I learned about it. Some times guys she fucked would be brought home after our agreement was made. These guys were co-workers, even the club owner and the manager of her club and one other. Some allowed me to watch and a few allowed me to do clean up. All of this became known around the club circles. At first I was upset and humiliated, but eventually saw most accepted I was her cuck. Only a few others thought I was a loser or weak man and did not treat me with any respect when I saw them. The larger accepting group thought it was cool and treated me a little more friendly and openly talked with me about it. It became pretty much the normal with them. Only a very limited amount of the crowd I associated with found out, but Didn't know what some thought and I only was asked by two of my friends who kind of accepted it. Only one of these two ever slept with my wife. The ones that knew over the 12 years this went on grew of course and I became used to others knowing and turned on with some of them knowing.

[Long Lurker 34]

My wife was pretty well known in her circle of co workers and friends that she enjoyed sex and like a variety of men, before we dated and once we began dating and became engaged. I was vaguely aware of this but not how extensive it was. The circle of my friends was a very different group of people. Her's was the nightclub types and mine more the commercial/business My group was definitely not the "in crowd club" types. Sure the art people would go to the clubs, but it wasn't like the club going folks. Going toa night club was just a once in awhile variation to what we normally did for entertainment. I met her when I did some posters for the owner of several clubs in our city. I briefly met her when I met this owner when he called me asking about making the posters. Then when I delivered them, and she was there to receive them and pay me. I thought she was fun to talk with and being a real looker was a big help in liking her also. I was not aware that she was not just a office assistant for the owner, but she was in charge of scheduling waitress for all his clubs and bars, but also a working waitress herself. All my meetings with her were in the day time late afternoons.

As mentioned we began seeing each other when she was off doing the normal dating things most people do, and eventually married. Sex with her came easy and quickly while dating. Later I found out she was sleeping with other guys while we were dating and it continued after we were married. Eventually I found out about this and confronted he. She admitted she really enjoyed sex with a variety of men. We came to an agreement after some long talks. She could keep doing it but with honest and full communication of who, when and what details with me. I admit it was very arousing knowing what was going on after her work hours were done and she didn't come home until early mornings sometimes and quite often as time went by.

The club group she worked with knew she was playing all the time and of course places and people she worked with and other club friends of hers have a big rumor and tell all thing amongst themselves, so it was known in that group that she was cucking me, before and after I learned about it. Some times guys she fucked would be brought home after our agreement was made. These guys were co-workers, even the club owner and the manager of her club and one other. Some allowed me to watch and a few allowed me to do clean up. All of this became known around the club circles. At first I was upset and humiliated, but eventually saw most accepted I was her cuck. Only a few others thought I was a loser or weak man and did not treat me with any respect when I saw them. The larger accepting group thought it was cool and treated me a little more friendly and openly talked with me about it. It became pretty much the normal with them. Only a very limited amount of the crowd I associated with found out, but Didn't know what some thought and I only was asked by two of my friends who kind of accepted it. Only one of these two ever slept with my wife. The ones that knew over the 12 years this went on grew of course and I became used to others knowing and turned on with some of them knowing.

AZP - Is your wife still HWing?

[cucking88]

There is no bigger turn on then someone who is known you all your life finds out that you’re a cuck. Very proud to be one, in an ideal world I would like everyone in the world to know that I’m a cuck but that’s not how the world works.

[AZPainter]

My wife was pretty well known in her circle of co workers and friends that she enjoyed sex and like a variety of men, before we dated and once we began dating and became engaged. I was vaguely aware of this but not how extensive it was. The circle of my friends was a very different group of people. Her's was the nightclub types and mine more the commercial/business My group was definitely not the "in crowd club" types. Sure the art people would go to the clubs, but it wasn't like the club going folks. Going toa night club was just a once in awhile variation to what we normally did for entertainment. I met her when I did some posters for the owner of several clubs in our city. I briefly met her when I met this owner when he called me asking about making the posters. Then when I delivered them, and she was there to receive them and pay me. I thought she was fun to talk with and being a real looker was a big help in liking her also. I was not aware that she was not just a office assistant for the owner, but she was in charge of scheduling waitress for all his clubs and bars, but also a working waitress herself. All my meetings with her were in the day time late afternoons.

As mentioned we began seeing each other when she was off doing the normal dating things most people do, and eventually married. Sex with her came easy and quickly while dating. Later I found out she was sleeping with other guys while we were dating and it continued after we were married. Eventually I found out about this and confronted he. She admitted she really enjoyed sex with a variety of men. We came to an agreement after some long talks. She could keep doing it but with honest and full communication of who, when and what details with me. I admit it was very arousing knowing what was going on after her work hours were done and she didn't come home until early mornings sometimes and quite often as time went by.

The club group she worked with knew she was playing all the time and of course places and people she worked with and other club friends of hers have a big rumor and tell all thing amongst themselves, so it was known in that group that she was cucking me, before and after I learned about it. Some times guys she fucked would be brought home after our agreement was made. These guys were co-workers, even the club owner and the manager of her club and one other. Some allowed me to watch and a few allowed me to do clean up. All of this became known around the club circles. At first I was upset and humiliated, but eventually saw most accepted I was her cuck. Only a few others thought I was a loser or weak man and did not treat me with any respect when I saw them. The larger accepting group thought it was cool and treated me a little more friendly and openly talked with me about it. It became pretty much the normal with them. Only a very limited amount of the crowd I associated with found out, but Didn't know what some thought and I only was asked by two of my friends who kind of accepted it. Only one of these two ever slept with my wife. The ones that knew over the 12 years this went on grew of course and I became used to others knowing and turned on with some of them knowing.

AZP - Is your wife still HWing?

Long Lurker, no we divorced, or I should say I divorced her. She got into drugs through some of the people she worked with and I suspect she was already an alcoholic and it got to the point after she was arrested on some minor drug charges, thanks to a lawyer she had been fucking she knew from the club who got her charges reduced and me having to pay him even though he was screwing her. To some I guess would think it because of our lifestyle, but that was never an issue. After we divorced, I moved away and lost track with her. I think it was 10 years later I heard from her next ex husband. How he found me I don't know, even though I wasn't hiding from anyone being I had a website in my name, advertised in both national and international art publications and galleries from coast to coast here in the US. We, the ex husband after me, never met or even heard of each other. He was asking why we divorced and I old him. He was surprised because he found out she was cheating on him and he was not the cuckold kind. Apparently she cleaned ot his bank account buying drugs right after he confronted her about the cheating. Then several years later I hear from one of her old friends that she remarried a third time.. After that nothing more was heard about her until the same friend that told me she remarried called me and told me she had passed away. Drug over dose in all place St. Paul, Minnesota. I was a little sad how bad her life turned out to be and would never have ever though something like the life she chose would be this tragic. I had always hoped that our divorce would have made her get some help and get clean of drugs and sober from the alcohol. But I guess she made her choices, they just weren't the best one of all she had in choices. Tragic.

[Long Lurker 34]

My wife was pretty well known in her circle of co workers and friends that she enjoyed sex and like a variety of men, before we dated and once we began dating and became engaged. I was vaguely aware of this but not how extensive it was. The circle of my friends was a very different group of people. Her's was the nightclub types and mine more the commercial/business My group was definitely not the "in crowd club" types. Sure the art people would go to the clubs, but it wasn't like the club going folks. Going toa night club was just a once in awhile variation to what we normally did for entertainment. I met her when I did some posters for the owner of several clubs in our city. I briefly met her when I met this owner when he called me asking about making the posters. Then when I delivered them, and she was there to receive them and pay me. I thought she was fun to talk with and being a real looker was a big help in liking her also. I was not aware that she was not just a office assistant for the owner, but she was in charge of scheduling waitress for all his clubs and bars, but also a working waitress herself. All my meetings with her were in the day time late afternoons.

As mentioned we began seeing each other when she was off doing the normal dating things most people do, and eventually married. Sex with her came easy and quickly while dating. Later I found out she was sleeping with other guys while we were dating and it continued after we were married. Eventually I found out about this and confronted he. She admitted she really enjoyed sex with a variety of men. We came to an agreement after some long talks. She could keep doing it but with honest and full communication of who, when and what details with me. I admit it was very arousing knowing what was going on after her work hours were done and she didn't come home until early mornings sometimes and quite often as time went by.

The club group she worked with knew she was playing all the time and of course places and people she worked with and other club friends of hers have a big rumor and tell all thing amongst themselves, so it was known in that group that she was cucking me, before and after I learned about it. Some times guys she fucked would be brought home after our agreement was made. These guys were co-workers, even the club owner and the manager of her club and one other. Some allowed me to watch and a few allowed me to do clean up. All of this became known around the club circles. At first I was upset and humiliated, but eventually saw most accepted I was her cuck. Only a few others thought I was a loser or weak man and did not treat me with any respect when I saw them. The larger accepting group thought it was cool and treated me a little more friendly and openly talked with me about it. It became pretty much the normal with them. Only a very limited amount of the crowd I associated with found out, but Didn't know what some thought and I only was asked by two of my friends who kind of accepted it. Only one of these two ever slept with my wife. The ones that knew over the 12 years this went on grew of course and I became used to others knowing and turned on with some of them knowing.

AZP - Is your wife still HWing?

Long Lurker, no we divorced, or I should say I divorced her. She got into drugs through some of the people she worked with and I suspect she was already an alcoholic and it got to the point after she was arrested on some minor drug charges, thanks to a lawyer she had been fucking she knew from the club who got her charges reduced and me having to pay him even though he was screwing her. To some I guess would think it because of our lifestyle, but that was never an issue. After we divorced, I moved away and lost track with her. I think it was 10 years later I heard from her next ex husband. How he found me I don't know, even though I wasn't hiding from anyone being I had a website in my name, advertised in both national and international art publications and galleries from coast to coast here in the US. We, the ex husband after me, never met or even heard of each other. He was asking why we divorced and I old him. He was surprised because he found out she was cheating on him and he was not the cuckold kind. Apparently she cleaned ot his bank account buying drugs right after he confronted her about the cheating. Then several years later I hear from one of her old friends that she remarried a third time.. After that nothing more was heard about her until the same friend that told me she remarried called me and told me she had passed away. Drug over dose in all place St. Paul, Minnesota. I was a little sad how bad her life turned out to be and would never have ever though something like the life she chose would be this tragic. I had always hoped that our divorce would have made her get some help and get clean of drugs and sober from the alcohol. But I guess she made her choices, they just weren't the best one of all she had in choices. Tragic.

AZP - Yes very unfortunate and tragic. I would guess addiction was an issue and that in of it's self is an illness. Very sorry to learn this of your ex.

[poppagman13]

You should expect that at least some of your friends know that you’re being cuckolded by your wife. They probably don’t understand the dynamics taking place in your relationship but they know your wife is fucking other men. Maybe even some of their friends.

If your wife is like mine she has laid the bread crumbs to follow, if interested. The interested ones will!

And! You and your wife can determine if it’s in your comfort zones to broach the subject.

For instance. Have you ever met someone that you know has fucked your wife and wondered if he knows you know. It’s an incredible moment knowing your wife has had this man inside her.
What a thrill it is!

[kellycuckoldsmark]

It is one of Kelly’s biggest concerns now and it’s why she only dates out of state people who visit here.

My best friend knows but that’s because we deliberately told him and knew was a horny dog all the time and Kelly was intrigued what it would be like to fuck him.

Back when we started out when we were swapping her best friends parents found out but were swingers (hence on AFF) and we swapped with them so a little freaked out at first and then very kinky.

We keep it totally hidden. When she arranges to meet someone it is on our weekly “date night” so the same sitter for the kids, regular schedule and so on. There is a remote chance of being spotted out but there is no PDA and she always a story ready that she has told the guy.

I do like the fantasy especially one of her friends or sisters finding out but like many things in this lifestyle, fantasy is as far as we want it to go!

[stevens4fun]

Assuming one can keep extra-marital relationships secret is wishful thinking, especially these days with social media and cellphone cams, cameras everywhere and so on. My wife works for a big firm and many of her coworkers know she likes to play (with or without me) - after all, she's had sex with 10-15 of them, including a 5 man train she pulled after a meeting out at one of the branches away from the corporate office (the last guy was just finishing in her when I arrived at the suite). I saw these men a couple of times a year for years and our interactions were normal, although they were always keenly interested in what my wife was doing these days. She had long-term relationships during our marriage with two of them who were in our marital bed frequently as our lives would allow. And she traveled a few times with her boss, once internationally. We are still friends with all of them.

This is a bit different but fits this discussion pretty good: my wife's sister was also an overnight guest at our home one night when my wife slept all night in another bedroom with a coworker. When the two of them emerged from the bedroom for breakfast, her coworker had his briefs on, and my wife had a sheer cover up on. Her sister smiled knowingly at me and said: "I told you so." She had told me before my wife and I married that my wife would play around, - that I should be willing to deal with it. The sister's exposure to our lifestyle didn't pose a problem in the family.

I'd say just be cool about it all, keep it on the down low as much as possible but don't freak out over it. We were more concerned about family finding out about our lifestyle than we were about friends knowing. Later, we found that some of our friends had their own thing going......

[Johnann2227]

Assuming one can keep extra-marital relationships secret is wishful thinking, especially these days with social media and cellphone cams, cameras everywhere and so on. My wife works for a big firm and many of her coworkers know she likes to play (with or without me) - after all, she's had sex with 10-15 of them, including a 5 man train she pulled after a meeting out at one of the branches away from the corporate office (the last guy was just finishing in her when I arrived at the suite). I saw these men a couple of times a year for years and our interactions were normal, although they were always keenly interested in what my wife was doing these days. She had long-term relationships during our marriage with two of them who were in our marital bed frequently as our lives would allow. And she traveled a few times with her boss, once internationally. We are still friends with all of them.

This is a bit different but fits this discussion pretty good: my wife's sister was also an overnight guest at our home one night when my wife slept all night in another bedroom with a coworker. When the two of them emerged from the bedroom for breakfast, her coworker had his briefs on, and my wife had a sheer cover up on. Her sister smiled knowingly at me and said: "I told you so." She had told me before my wife and I married that my wife would play around, - that I should be willing to deal with it. The sister's exposure to our lifestyle didn't pose a problem in the family.

I'd say just be cool about it all, keep it on the down low as much as possible but don't freak out over it. We were more concerned about family finding out about our lifestyle than we were about friends knowing. Later, we found that some of our friends had their own thing going......

We agree that it is harder fir family to find out than friends. We have had a number of vanilla friends find out we are swingers and most have been ok with it, once we have explained our lifestyle. A few know about Ann's hotwifing as they have come across her on dates with various boyfriends. When they hsve told me I have explained that she isn't cheating and that I know and support what she is doing. Our swinger friends obviously know and, in our group, all of the wives have boyfriends as well so hotwifing is the norm.
Our families still struggle with the fact that Ann, our kids and myself live daily as nudists. They often make cheap jokes about it so if they knew that we were swingers or that Ann was bi or that she was a hotwife and I fully supported her fucking other men, well that would be the scandal of the century.

[stevens4fun]

Exactly. By this point in time, "swinging" in some form has become so "common" (for lack of a better word) that almost all couples know another couple that is into the L.S. We've always been pretty loose with the way we dress at home, but aren't practicing nudists. I'm sure our families would be amused if we were nudists! Makes my laugh just thinking about it. And if they knew my wife loves DP and small GBs they'd be in an uproar, I'm sure. Some of the uproar would be thinly disguised envy, some would be self-righteous indignation. F 'em! Still, we have to deal with family and you never know how that's going to play.

We agree that it is harder fir family to find out than friends. We have had a number of vanilla friends find out we are swingers and most have been ok with it, once we have explained our lifestyle. A few know about Ann's hotwifing as they have come across her on dates with various boyfriends. When they hsve told me I have explained that she isn't cheating and that I know and support what she is doing. Our swinger friends obviously know and, in our group, all of the wives have boyfriends as well so hotwifing is the norm.
Our families still struggle with the fact that Ann, our kids and myself live daily as nudists. They often make cheap jokes about it so if they knew that we were swingers or that Ann was bi or that she was a hotwife and I fully supported her fucking other men, well that would be the scandal of the century.

[stevens4fun]

Exactly. By this point in time, "swinging" in some form has become so "common" (for lack of a better word) that almost all couples know another couple that is into the L.S. We've always been pretty loose with the way we dress at home, but aren't practicing nudists. I'm sure our families would be amused if we were nudists! Makes me laugh just thinking about it. And if they knew my wife loves DP and small GBs they'd be in an uproar, I'm sure. Some of the uproar would be thinly disguised envy, some would be self-righteous indignation. F 'em! Still, we have to deal with family and you never know how that's going to play. Wife and I have shared many laughs thinking about how family and/or certain friends would react if they'd seen her sandwiched in a sexy DP. Now that we are older, those scenarios are the subject of a lot of laughs for us over cocktails in the evening.

We agree that it is harder fir family to find out than friends. We have had a number of vanilla friends find out we are swingers and most have been ok with it, once we have explained our lifestyle. A few know about Ann's hotwifing as they have come across her on dates with various boyfriends. When they hsve told me I have explained that she isn't cheating and that I know and support what she is doing. Our swinger friends obviously know and, in our group, all of the wives have boyfriends as well so hotwifing is the norm.
Our families still struggle with the fact that Ann, our kids and myself live daily as nudists. They often make cheap jokes about it so if they knew that we were swingers or that Ann was bi or that she was a hotwife and I fully supported her fucking other men, well that would be the scandal of the century.

[gruenberg]

One of my best friends is also my beautiful wife's gynaecologist. When my wife got pregnant he of course heard the story behind it and I don't know if it's his professionalism or if he's just seen so much in his life (which he talks about from time to time and there really are the craziest stories), but it wasn't really a big issue.

It's also interesting that he's a typical single doctor. That is to say, he lives his life very hedonistically with changing female partners and is, from what the ladies say, very attractive and appealing. But nothing ever happened between him and my wife. Although of course he has often seen her naked.

[sudhir2701]

One of my very good friends is a cuck. Me and his wife have been together for a long time now and its not a big deal among us but it can get bad when outsiders know and judge without knowing the whole story.

[PlzFuckMyHotwife]

Since I'm not a cuck that couldn't possibly happen.

But... assuming a friend finds out that my hot cutie with a booty and I have an open relationship where either of us can and do regularly have sex with other people freely, my reaction would largely depend on their reaction.

If they approached me with a judgy attitude, I'd probably be simply telling them that it's our life and our decision to live it any way we see fit. And we have no interest in their opinion and / or judgement.

If they approached me from a curiosity point of view and with an open mind, I would openly and honestly explain how and why it works for us. I would not be encouraging them to take the same path, but I'd be mentioning that this is the perfect lifestyle for us and we wouldn't change a thing.

No, I wouldn't show them pics and / or allow the conversation to become sexual. And I would certainly not tolerate any disrespect towards my wife or myself. This is not license for them to start seeing my wife as a sexual object.

I would also not get into any graphic details. For example, I would not mention what happens when my wife gets together with another male in any level of detail, other than saying she's free to have sex with them, whether at our place, theirs, or elsewhere. And yes, I may be present on occasion and / or engage. Or not. But that's the extent of what I'd divulge.

[Long Lurker 34]

Since I'm not a cuck that couldn't possibly happen.

But... assuming a friend finds out that my hot cutie with a booty and I have an open relationship where either of us can and do regularly have sex with other people freely, my reaction would largely depend on their reaction.

If they approached me with a judgy attitude, I'd probably be simply telling them that it's our life and our decision to live it any way we see fit. And we have no interest in their opinion and / or judgement.

If they approached me from a curiosity point of view and with an open mind, I would openly and honestly explain how and why it works for us. I would not be encouraging them to take the same path, but I'd be mentioning that this is the perfect lifestyle for us and we wouldn't change a thing.

No, I wouldn't show them pics and / or allow the conversation to become sexual. And I would certainly not tolerate any disrespect towards my wife or myself. This is not license for them to start seeing my wife as a sexual object.

I would also not get into any graphic details. For example, I would not mention what happens when my wife gets together with another male in any level of detail, other than saying she's free to have sex with them, whether at our place, theirs, or elsewhere. And yes, I may be present on occasion and / or engage. Or not. But that's the extent of what I'd divulge.

PLMHW - Fuck-O-Meter '24 -

[isinlarsa]

The co-worker who was also a good friend of mine knew, because he was fucking her.

When my wife started dating other men, her best friend knew, and would talk to me about how it was for other men to fuck my wife. She hinted that she and I could get something on, but I thought fucking my wife's best friend was not a good idea.

[Little96Jon]

I recently discussed this issue with my wife. She agreed that she didn't want any family and work mates etc finding out, but during the conversation I discovered that she had told her best friend about our situation and not only that, she has told her why.

[lanceHarden25]

I recently discussed this issue with my wife. She agreed that she didn't want any family and work mates etc finding out, but during the conversation I discovered that she had told her best friend about our situation and not only that, she has told her why.

Once one person knows about it others soon will too. As gossip goes, that’s just about the best there is. Your wife just couldn’t believe her good luck and had to share it with a friend I guess.

[Little96Jon]

I recently discussed this issue with my wife. She agreed that she didn't want any family and work mates etc finding out, but during the conversation I discovered that she had told her best friend about our situation and not only that, she has told her why.

Once one person knows about it others soon will too. As gossip goes, that’s just about the best there is. Your wife just couldn’t believe her good luck and had to share it with a friend I guess.

Her friend is quite trustworthy, I suspect it was done for humiliation reasons.

[lanceHarden25]

I recently discussed this issue with my wife. She agreed that she didn't want any family and work mates etc finding out, but during the conversation I discovered that she had told her best friend about our situation and not only that, she has told her why.

Once one person knows about it others soon will too. As gossip goes, that’s just about the best there is. Your wife just couldn’t believe her good luck and had to share it with a friend I guess.

Her friend is quite trustworthy, I suspect it was done for humiliation reasons.

In that case, that’s the perfect measure of humiliation, in my opinion.

[Long Lurker 34]

I recently discussed this issue with my wife. She agreed that she didn't want any family and work mates etc finding out, but during the conversation I discovered that she had told her best friend about our situation and not only that, she has told her why.

Once one person knows about it others soon will too. As gossip goes, that’s just about the best there is. Your wife just couldn’t believe her good luck and had to share it with a friend I guess.

Her friend is quite trustworthy, I suspect it was done for humiliation reasons.

L96J - Is this friend one that comes to your house frequently?
- Might your wife have her come over, when she has gone out to play, to keep an eye on you?
- Do you think this friend would also want to be into humiliating you to, on some level?

[Little96Jon]

I recently discussed this issue with my wife. She agreed that she didn't want any family and work mates etc finding out, but during the conversation I discovered that she had told her best friend about our situation and not only that, she has told her why.

Once one person knows about it others soon will too. As gossip goes, that’s just about the best there is. Your wife just couldn’t believe her good luck and had to share it with a friend I guess.

Her friend is quite trustworthy, I suspect it was done for humiliation reasons.

L96J - Is this friend one that comes to your house frequently?
- Might your wife have her come over, when she has gone out to play, to keep an eye on you?
- Do you think this friend would also want to be into humiliating you to, on some level?

Her friend does come over quite often. Why would I need to be kept an eye on? As far as I am aware my wife always plays at home. The fact that she knows that I can not satisfy my wife and that she has sex with other guys is humiliation enough.

[Long Lurker 34]

Once one person knows about it others soon will too. As gossip goes, that’s just about the best there is. Your wife just couldn’t believe her good luck and had to share it with a friend I guess.

Her friend is quite trustworthy, I suspect it was done for humiliation reasons.

L96J - Is this friend one that comes to your house frequently?
- Might your wife have her come over, when she has gone out to play, to keep an eye on you?
- Do you think this friend would also want to be into humiliating you to, on some level?

Her friend does come over quite often. Why would I need to be kept an eye on? As far as I am aware my wife always plays at home. The fact that she knows that I can not satisfy my wife and that she has sex with other guys is humiliation enough.

L96J - Ah, I trust you read other threads. If you read enough eventually you will find it's a "thing". Then you will understand what I'm referring too.