suggestions for a contract limiting my right as the husband?

[inivisibletwin]

So, there's a poll going around this forum, about what kind of humiliation we like. I voted for a written contract limiting my rights as the husband. then I posted on that thread talking about how I would actually love to have such a contract, so that got me thinking I might write one up and present it to my wife and her boyfriend for us all to sign...

does anyone have an suggestions for things to go in the contract?

The dynamic of our relationship currently is, the number 1 rule of my marriage is that my wife, Jen, must always have another guy whom she has sex with more than she has sex with me (if ever she didn't have another guy then her and i would have sex less, as incentive for us to find her another guy!)... for the past few years, while married to me, she has been dating a guy named Chris. Chris owns her vagina, and controls what does and doesn't happen to it. He has "husband level" access to it, and controls whether anyone else gets it or not. If he tells her to show it to someone else, she will. If he tells her not to let someone see it, she wont... meanwhile, I am not allowed to see or touch it at all, except for once a year on our wedding anniversary. (I'm also allowed to see it only if another guy is also seeing it, so it's about him getting it, not me, and i just happen to be there... but i cannot touch it... though, in those situations, I have started to accept my position, and have avoided looking even though I'm allowed to. keeping up the spirit of the rule, which is to prevent me from seeing it).

In my heart of hearts, I KNOW this is the right dynamic for me and my wife, so we have been living by this for a while now... but I like the idea of putting it into writing, and having a signed contract!

so, does anyone have any ideas or suggestions for me to put in the contract?

[Johor]

You are a lucky guy with that beautiful wife. I am sure she attracts as many lovers as she wants.

Why have the BF sign? Isn't the contract really a gift to your wife?

[germancuck-1]

So, there's a poll going around this forum, about what kind of humiliation we like. I voted for a written contract limiting my rights as the husband. then I posted on that thread talking about how I would actually love to have such a contract, so that got me thinking I might write one up and present it to my wife and her boyfriend for us all to sign...

does anyone have an suggestions for things to go in the contract?

The dynamic of our relationship currently is, the number 1 rule of my marriage is that my wife, Jen, must always have another guy whom she has sex with more than she has sex with me (if ever she didn't have another guy then her and i would have sex less, as incentive for us to find her another guy!)... for the past few years, while married to me, she has been dating a guy named Chris. Chris owns her vagina, and controls what does and doesn't happen to it. He has "husband level" access to it, and controls whether anyone else gets it or not. If he tells her to show it to someone else, she will. If he tells her not to let someone see it, she wont... meanwhile, I am not allowed to see or touch it at all, except for once a year on our wedding anniversary. (I'm also allowed to see it only if another guy is also seeing it, so it's about him getting it, not me, and i just happen to be there... but i cannot touch it... though, in those situations, I have started to accept my position, and have avoided looking even though I'm allowed to. keeping up the spirit of the rule, which is to prevent me from seeing it).

In my heart of hearts, I KNOW this is the right dynamic for me and my wife, so we have been living by this for a while now... but I like the idea of putting it into writing, and having a signed contract!

so, does anyone have any ideas or suggestions for me to put in the contract?

Check out this thread here:

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=70363

May not apply 100% to what you´re looking for, but it´s close enough.

[Cdncuck]

Seems like you have already got most things covered

[submissivedanny]

My wife doesn't need a contract limiting my rights as a husband. I have no rights, she is the boss and makes all the decisions. She will ask my opinion on things but she always has the final say.

[NSEW1]

Other possible rules:

1. You are kept in chastity at her will.
2. You dress in panties like a sissy when her man is present.
3. You obey your wife and her lover or else they punish you.
4. You learn to suck her lover’s cock on demand.
5. You sleep in the guest room.
6. You clean up the bedroom after their nights together.
7. You are subject to ass whippings for disobedience.
8. You do not look at your wife with lust or touch her.
9. You call her lover Master or Sir.
10. You relinquish any rights as a husband or man.

[MartasBoy]

Special Privileges for The Boyfriend

A closet full of sexy clothes and shoes reserved for wearing on dates with her boyfriend.

A special restaurant and/or bar reserved for dates with her boyfriend, that you are not allowed to go to.

Are you allowed to kiss her on the mouth?

Like so many of us guys on here, I am a foot fetishist. I love when I am allowed to pamper my wife's feet, bathe them, smooth them, and give her a pedicure. You could be required to ask his permission to tend to her feet, and have to call him to ask what color polish he would like you to apply.

Are you allowed to sleep with her, in their love making bed?

I am allowed to sometimes sniff her panties and masturbate to them, but I must have his permission.

Are you kept in chastity? There are many rules surrounding a cuck kept in chastity.

[gordon921]

Chris owns her vagina, and controls what does and doesn't happen to it.

Really, so your “wife” has no say about her own body?

You have a few threads on here and some seem to contradict each other. I remember one where your “wife” wanted to have sex with you whenever she wanted and was flipping between bedrooms to remain connected to you, intimacy in a marriage is important. That thread was not that old.

[inivisibletwin]

Chris owns her vagina, and controls what does and doesn't happen to it.

Really, so your “wife” has no say about her own body?

You have a few threads on here and some seem to contradict each other. I remember one where your “wife” wanted to have sex with you whenever she wanted and was flipping between bedrooms to remain connected to you, intimacy in a marriage is important. That thread was not that old.

Wow, okay… if you’re going to be so judgey about cuckolding fetish particulars then perhaps you should not be on a cuckolding fetish forum.

My wife enjoys the submissive aspect of having another man, who isn’t her husband, control her vagina. It’s a turn on for her. She gets off on it. So there’s no need to get all “feminist rights” about this. She chooses to relinquish control and enjoys it.


And yeah, there were a few months, last year I think it was, where she didn’t have another FWB, and wanted to go back and forth between me and her boyfriend, so what?

It lasted a few months until she found another FWB, then things went back to me being denied… it’s not contradiction, it’s life on going. Things change as time passes.

And you don’t get to define marriage for every married couple. Not every married couple is intimate with each other. Who are you to say what works for everyone?

Not to mention, my wife does still want to be able to have sex with me, and maintain that marital intimacy, which is why we have our anniversary.

I’m just living my life in a way that works for me and mine, and sharing it with people who might be interested. If you don’t like that then don’t click on my posts.

[trecital]

Chris owns her vagina, and controls what does and doesn't happen to it.

Really, so your “wife” has no say about her own body?

You have a few threads on here and some seem to contradict each other. I remember one where your “wife” wanted to have sex with you whenever she wanted and was flipping between bedrooms to remain connected to you, intimacy in a marriage is important. That thread was not that old.

Wow, okay… if you’re going to be so judgey about cuckolding fetish particulars then perhaps you should not be on a cuckolding fetish forum.

My wife enjoys the submissive aspect of having another man, who isn’t her husband, control her vagina. It’s a turn on for her. She gets off on it. So there’s no need to get all “feminist rights” about this. She chooses to relinquish control and enjoys it.


And yeah, there were a few months, last year I think it was, where she didn’t have another FWB, and wanted to go back and forth between me and her boyfriend, so what?

It lasted a few months until she found another FWB, then things went back to me being denied… it’s not contradiction, it’s life on going. Things change as time passes.

And you don’t get to define marriage for every married couple. Not every married couple is intimate with each other. Who are you to say what works for everyone?

Not to mention, my wife does still want to be able to have sex with me, and maintain that marital intimacy, which is why we have our anniversary.

I’m just living my life in a way that works for me and mine, and sharing it with people who might be interested. If you don’t like that then don’t click on my posts.

"if you’re going to be so judgey about cuckolding fetish particulars then perhaps you should not be on a cuckolding fetish forum." I didn't think he was being particularly "judgey". And, even if he was, that doesn't mean that he can't pass comment. He's got every right to be on this forum.

"And you don’t get to define marriage for every married couple. Not every married couple is intimate with each other. Who are you to say what works for everyone?"
He's not defining marriage for anyone. And he's not saying what works for everyone.

"If you don’t like that then don’t click on my posts." He can click on whatever posts he likes. How is he supposed to know what is in your post, if he doesn't look?

You have had minor criticism before in some of your threads, and have got 'tetchy' about it. Your criticism could be levelled back at you...."If you don't like it, don't read it".

And, for people to have greater clarity about your situation it would surely help if you kept your comments in one single thread. But, you have chosen to start multiple threads on different forums here. Ok, that's your choice. But it doesn't help anyone follow your story.
Perhaps you prefer multiple threads, as you think it gets you extra attention. Just a thought.