My wife has a new situation.

[SweDic]

Me and my wife have been married since 2015. It has been ups and downs, as in any relationship, but we are very much in love and don't see us ever leaving each other permanently.

My wife is a Hotwife, she loves going to clubs to dance and she has been know to follow guys home. It was more when we were younger but it still happens. I enjoy very much to listen to her stories when she comes back home to our house.
She has a friend that is the same way and they usually go out together.

My wife works as a guidance counselor at a school in the area, we live in Sweden, the students are between 16 and 19. She helps them with what classes would fit what they want to become and what to apply for next and things like that.

Last August, there was a new kid that started at the school, he had mixed up a few choices for the semester so she helped him a lot when school started. They got on and they exchanged snaps. It got to the point where they would message each other most days and mostly on the evenings. She showed them to me, it was mostly harmless "what are you doing" and things like that, but a few pictures. He sent one where he had come out from the shower after soccer-practice and she had sent him one of her sitting in bed in just her underwear.

In the end of September my wife and her friend had decided that they should go out for some wine on a friday. Apparently the other people out that day were kind of boring and "no fun" so somehow my wife decided to start sending snaps to her new friend.

He had been out with his friends also and was about to head home, but the ladies persuaded him to come to where they were to "hang out"
They met him at the bus stop, he could not go to the bar where they had been, so instead they went to my wife's friend's apartment.

They sat on the sofa and had some wine and some homemade cocktails and talked, the friend started to question them both on their "relationship", what they liked about each other and things like that.
Apparently the guy thought that my wife had very cute feet, so she placed them in his lap.

After some more questions the friend asked them if they had ever kissed, when they both said "NO" she suggested that they should.
Being drunk and horny they did, and the kissing led to clothes being removed and soon they were in the bedroom.

When she came home the next morning she woke me up and confessed to everything. She still had some of him in her as they had not used a condom.

We talked about it there and she asked if she could continue to see him, as a friend with benefits, and I agreed after some thinking.
They continued their relationship until a bit in January.

Two weeks ago my wife gave birth to a healthy baby boy.

[isinlarsa]

You say she guidance counselor for kids from 16 to 19. The obvious question is how old was he. A highly inappropriate relationship, but pretty hot to read about. Did all three of them lose their clothes, giving this young teenager a threesome?

So they fucked bareback. Is the baby his?

[leggysman]

You seem to be telling us - reading between the lines here - that your wife has been sending suggestive social media pics to a boy, a student at her school, and had sex with her friend and this minor (child) who was too young to go to a bar, and she's just given birth to his baby.

Have I got that right, mate?

[Johnann2227]

You seem to be telling us - reading between the lines here - that your wife has been sending suggestive social media pics to a boy, a student at her school, and had sex with her friend and this minor (child) who was too young to go to a bar, and she's just given birth to his baby.

Have I got that right, mate?

I agree that this is totally inappropriate. Your wife is lucky to still have her job and not be in prison. Do a role reverse. Imagine you have a teenage daughter and she is being preyed upon by a much older male teacher. How would you feel? Me personally? I would be at the police station asap wanting charges pressed.

[ugcp]

Wtf?

We have a rule around here that folks aren't allowed to question the legitimacy/truth of posts. So, if I'm not allowed to assume this is some type of fantasy, you are describing a relationship that is extremely problematic with regards to age and power dynamic. This young man has been implied to be potentially underage (possibly under 18), and the connection with your wife is in an educational/teacher environment.

Maybe it's just me, but this is really, really not cool. 0/10, would not recommend.

[zorro]

Does it matter to anyone here at the age of consent in Sweden is 15? The OP says the age at the school is 16 to 19. Maybe there is some assuming going on.

[Shiphead]

I agree with Zorro 100%. Don't read it. Move on if it troubles you. Making assumptions about his story and pretending you know the young man's age isn't appropriate because he didn't say anything that absolutely makes the case it was illegal. So leave the man alone and move on rather than idicting him. Remember it is innocent until PROVEN guilty.

[Bsod83]

Im swedish. The minimum age limit at places that serve alcohol is 18, but many places have an agelimit of 20 or even higher limit to enter the bar. So the fact that he was not allowed to enter the bar is not really a good indication of his age.

Im sweden its indeed legal to have sex with persons that are older than 15 year, in general. If the person is between 15 and <18 its not legal if the person is in a "exposed" position, such as step-daughter and "dad", or teacher-student.

Im not sure if guidance counselor - student is close enough to be considered illegal in sweden, but im 100% sure she would be fired from her position if this gets out. Its 100% not allowed according to the school policy.

Its not clear if the student moved into the area and switched school/ started on the last year of school, or if he started at the school of the age of 16. He was probably in the range of 16-18 when they had sex.

[David3State]

Most important: What did he do with your wife' feet?????

[ucaneffher]

Me and my wife have been married since 2015. It has been ups and downs, as in any relationship, but we are very much in love and don't see us ever leaving each other permanently.

My wife is a Hotwife, she loves going to clubs to dance and she has been know to follow guys home. It was more when we were younger but it still happens. I enjoy very much to listen to her stories when she comes back home to our house.
She has a friend that is the same way and they usually go out together.

My wife works as a guidance counselor at a school in the area, we live in Sweden, the students are between 16 and 19. She helps them with what classes would fit what they want to become and what to apply for next and things like that.

Last August, there was a new kid that started at the school, he had mixed up a few choices for the semester so she helped him a lot when school started. They got on and they exchanged snaps. It got to the point where they would message each other most days and mostly on the evenings. She showed them to me, it was mostly harmless "what are you doing" and things like that, but a few pictures. He sent one where he had come out from the shower after soccer-practice and she had sent him one of her sitting in bed in just her underwear.

In the end of September my wife and her friend had decided that they should go out for some wine on a friday. Apparently the other people out that day were kind of boring and "no fun" so somehow my wife decided to start sending snaps to her new friend.

He had been out with his friends also and was about to head home, but the ladies persuaded him to come to where they were to "hang out"
They met him at the bus stop, he could not go to the bar where they had been, so instead they went to my wife's friend's apartment.

They sat on the sofa and had some wine and some homemade cocktails and talked, the friend started to question them both on their "relationship", what they liked about each other and things like that.
Apparently the guy thought that my wife had very cute feet, so she placed them in his lap.

After some more questions the friend asked them if they had ever kissed, when they both said "NO" she suggested that they should.
Being drunk and horny they did, and the kissing led to clothes being removed and soon they were in the bedroom.

When she came home the next morning she woke me up and confessed to everything. She still had some of him in her as they had not used a condom.

We talked about it there and she asked if she could continue to see him, as a friend with benefits, and I agreed after some thinking.
They continued their relationship until a bit in January.

Two weeks ago my wife gave birth to a healthy baby boy.

Interesting post, would you mind sharing more details of this new situation? -What are your ages?

-Is he the father of the child?

-If so, does he know he got her pregnant and had his baby?

-How did it make you feel to see your wife get pregnant from one drunk adventure? (Assuming he got her drunk and on that day)

Did she continue to play with him after that first time?

[sandy691196]

Im swedish. The minimum age limit at places that serve alcohol is 18, but many places have an agelimit of 20 or even higher limit to enter the bar. So the fact that he was not allowed to enter the bar is not really a good indication of his age.

Im sweden its indeed legal to have sex with persons that are older than 15 year, in general. If the person is between 15 and <18 its not legal if the person is in a "exposed" position, such as step-daughter and "dad", or teacher-student.

I am not sure if guidance counselor - student is close enough to be considered illegal in sweden, but im 100% sure she would be fired from her position if this gets out. Its 100% not allowed according to the school policy.

Its not clear if the student moved into the area and switched school/ started on the last year of school, or if he started at the school of the age of 16. He was probably in the range of 16-18 when they had sex.

She is a teacher guide in a fiduciary position of trust.

However in Sweden, or any Scandinavian country, does any woman ever go to jail if there is a male involved in the equation (underage or not)? Seriously? If the child's mom made a massive issue and made it a woman to woman thing, then I don't know what would happen. But otherwise NOTHING would happen to the OP's wife. She has carte blanche as a woman in Scandinavia.

Story is hot. Lets leave it at that. And 99% of 16-18 year old boys would give their right hands to nail a cougar if she is half way decent looking! And here it was the stuff from every teen's fantasies! Nailing the hot (assuming) teacher!

Lord! What I wouldn't have given to be in his shoes, when I was his age!

Amen.

[Pufferfish]

Does it matter to anyone here at the age of consent in Sweden is 15? The OP says the age at the school is 16 to 19. Maybe there is some assuming going on.

Agreed. Most people either have little or no comprehension when it comes to anything outside their tiny little bubbles. If this was located in the US, it would be highly illegal, but that doesn't mean that is the case in Sweden. They can have an opinion on the matter, but still have to follow the rules in regards to shutting their mouths before letting their opinions out of their mouths. If it's illegal, it will be removed. If it's not removed, simply move along if it bothers you. Either way quit being Karens.

Back on Topic to the OP: Did she ever fantasize about something like this happening? Or was she resisting the urge to give in?

[SweDic]

Back on Topic to the OP: Did she ever fantasize about something like this happening? Or was she resisting the urge to give in?

Depends on what you mean with "something".

Finding a man to have some fun with, that she has done before so that is that is an urge.

Getting pregnant was an "accident" (happily non the less), she was as surprised as anyone when it happened.

Its not clear if the student moved into the area and switched school/ started on the last year of school, or if he started at the school of the age of 16. He was probably in the range of 16-18 when they had sex.

She is a teacher guide in a fiduciary position of trust.

He switched into the school for second year (I think it was the second). That is one of the reasons that they had so much contact, there was some issues between classes he had already taken at his previous school so they had to figure that out. Thats when they realized that they had a good chemistry.

She is not a teacher, she has an advisory role.

Interesting post, would you mind sharing more details of this new situation? -What are your ages?

-Is he the father of the child?

-If so, does he know he got her pregnant and had his baby?

-How did it make you feel to see your wife get pregnant from one drunk adventure? (Assuming he got her drunk and on that day)

Did she continue to play with him after that first time?

Im 36 and my wife is 32.

It is his child. He knows that it is his.
They continued to meet for about 4 months after this first meet.

Most important: What did he do with your wife' feet?????

From what I understand she placed them there and he just had his hands on them and caressed them

[Shiphead]

Im swedish. The minimum age limit at places that serve alcohol is 18, but many places have an agelimit of 20 or even higher limit to enter the bar. So the fact that he was not allowed to enter the bar is not really a good indication of his age.

Im sweden its indeed legal to have sex with persons that are older than 15 year, in general. If the person is between 15 and <18 its not legal if the person is in a "exposed" position, such as step-daughter and "dad", or teacher-student.

I am not sure if guidance counselor - student is close enough to be considered illegal in sweden, but im 100% sure she would be fired from her position if this gets out. Its 100% not allowed according to the school policy.

Its not clear if the student moved into the area and switched school/ started on the last year of school, or if he started at the school of the age of 16. He was probably in the range of 16-18 when they had sex.

She is a teacher guide in a fiduciary position of trust.

However in Sweden, or any Scandinavian country, does any woman ever go to jail if there is a male involved in the equation (underage or not)? Seriously? If the child's mom made a massive issue and made it a woman to woman thing, then I don't know what would happen. But otherwise NOTHING would happen to the OP's wife. She has carte blanche as a woman in Scandinavia.

Story is hot. Lets leave it at that. And 99% of 16-18 year old boys would give their right hands to nail a cougar if she is half way decent looking! And here it was the stuff from every teen's fantasies! Nailing the hot (assuming) teacher!

Lord! What I wouldn't have given to be in his shoes, when I was his age!

Amen.

I would have given my right nut to have one of the teachers who look like the ones getting busted to fuck me silly from 15yo on.
Boys and girls are different. Most boys are not messed up by sex at 15. That's when I started having sex with my 15yr old girlfriend. She had previous experience, I did not. She nor I were harmed or felt violated by the experience. In fact we stayed together for 15 years with no ill effects. With girls, I think differently with a male teacher. It is a different experience for a girl and can really cause her problems immediately and in the future. They are having their vaginas violated and probably hurt by an adult male. Us boys would screw a tree if we found the right size knothole.
It's the mom's who fuck up a good experience for most boys.
Isn't the age of consent, 16 yr old in most states? I know it's a teacher but just saying boys are all up for it. Girls think their male teachers love them.
I don't really know what I'm talking about. Just speaking off the top of my head.

[sandy691196]

Society assumes way too much about girls. "Benevolent Sexism"?
Girls are just like boys as human beings.

[Shiphead]

I actually think it's different though I hear you. Young girls fall in love or think they're in love with guys, performers, teachers, etc. So they get their hearts broken pretty easily. Boys just want to fuck as many girls as possible without falling in love or puppy love more actually. I also think having something inserted into girls body, tearing their hymen, stretching out their vaginas, which usually isn't enjoyable the first time and usually hurts from what I understand. Boys don't have any pain except thinking about baseball to keep from Cummings to soon. And maybe zipping their junk in their steel zippers. It only takes once to never do that again.

[sandy691196]

I grew up with cousins .. girls. Got stuff straight from them. Their version of things.

[Shiphead]

What was their version of things?