She might be starting up finally

[HamburgerChef]

Long time lurker, first time poster here. I'm gonna try and keep it short. We have been together since high school. My dream might soon come true, as my wife of 23 years has finally warmed up to the idea of becoming a Hotwife. She's known about my attraction to this fetish for about 4 years now but has always been the typical hot then cold about it. About three weeks ago that all changed.

I take a few meds that make it difficult for me to achieve orgasm lately. After a long session of trying everything to make me cum, and me begging her to be slutty, she finally said "here let me do this". She got up from me masturbating after an hour of sex and oral, furiously trying to cum, and got the large dildo I bought for her about 5 years ago. It is about twice my size and very realistic. I am above average on a good day but struggle with erections and orgasm. Anyhow, she gets the dildo, puts it on the side of the bed and starts to moan intensely immediately. I tell her to lay down and enjoy herself, and for the first time ever she actually starts to allow me to talk about the fantasy without recoiling.

I will post more later if you want to hear about it. I think she will go on a date soon.

[PaNic]

Please tell more...

[Gearup]

please share it all!!!!

[Flint]

Would definitely love to hear more.

[brutay2]

Long time lurker, first time poster here. I'm gonna try and keep it short. We have been together since high school. My dream might soon come true, as my wife of 23 years has finally warmed up to the idea of becoming a Hotwife. She's known about my attraction to this fetish for about 4 years now but has always been the typical hot then cold about it. About three weeks ago that all changed.

I take a few meds that make it difficult for me to achieve orgasm lately. After a long session of trying everything to make me cum, and me begging her to be slutty, she finally said "here let me do this". She got up from me masturbating after an hour of sex and oral, furiously trying to cum, and got the large dildo I bought for her about 5 years ago. It is about twice my size and very realistic. I am above average on a good day but struggle with erections and orgasm. Anyhow, she gets the dildo, puts it on the side of the bed and starts to moan intensely immediately. I tell her to lay down and enjoy herself, and for the first time ever she actually starts to allow me to talk about the fantasy without recoiling.

I will post more later if you want to hear about it. I think she will go on a date soon.

We definitely would like to know about your progress.

[philxxo]

Definitely want to hear more. For us wannabes success is hard to come by, so we want to hear any tips for success!

[HamburgerChef]

It's been awhile. Sorry it took so long to update.

We made great strides toward making her a Hotwife. I was doing all the cleaning, laundry, etc. I was being the most perfect husband that I could muster. She had downloaded a few swinger apps. I was super anxious/excited and would ask her to talk about her progress constantly.

We got very close to begin the process of looking for someone for her, but then she went cold again. We had a few very long emotional talks, and both decided to put things on hold. She says that she really doesn't want to make my fantasy real, and only plays along to make me happy. She says that it makes her really uncomfortable when I try to make the fantasy too real. I got pretty depressed, but over the past six months I've gotten better. I am pretty much accepting that she will never be a Hotwife, and I've learned come to terms with it. That is until today...

Kinda out of the blue. I mean she will sometimes say something taboo to me in the bedroom, but a few days ago, during her enjoying the large dildo she says, "I could go out of town. I took the next four days off work". Sometimes she will say things like that, if I ask her to, to help me finish. Like always it immediately made me cum so I thanked her for helping me.

Jump to today. We were having sex in the pool and I ask, "Are you still going out of town?" She said that she plans to go to a club that she's been to before with her friends. All of her girlfriends are out of the country right now, so I guess she is feeling free. I start pounding her more vigorously. I say, "I hope you really do it. I can start doing all the cleaning again and be a good husband. Wouldn't you like that?". She nods yes. I ask her where will you stay? She says I think there is a hotel nearby, I'll have to look it up. I keep pounding her for few more minutes, but I can't finish. I tell her thank you, that was really exciting. We hug and kiss. I tell her I love her. Whenever we talk dirty like this, I don't press her afterwards, since it makes her uncomfortable. But I was feeling a bit daring so I continued...

We cuddled near the pool heater inlet for a few minutes. I kinda jokingly start asking what she's got planned tomorrow. She says she's getting her nails done. I say cool, cool. What are you doing after that. She says I don't know and smirks at me. We cuddle some more. Then she says she's getting cold and wants to make some coffee. I tell her I can make some coffee. You can drink coffee and look up that hotel. She smiles and says okay.

I still don't think much about it though, since she has made it clear to me in the past, that this is only a fantasy. We get dried off indoors. I am still hard. She is naked in the bedroom now. I tell her that she really has me horny, I want to have sex some more. She laughs and says okay. I pound her for about ten more minutes, but still can't finish. So I stop and ask her can you please use your dildo? She says, "but I want you to come too!", I say "I'm trying, but this is all about you. Don't you know this is what makes me happy? I don't always need to cum as long as you have". So she agrees and starts with the big dildo. I encourage her a little bit by saying a few things about how many new sensations she could feel if she goes out of town. She doesn't say anything, but has several really good orgasms.

I clean up, and go into the kitchen to make her coffee. I start cleaning up the kitchen a bit and she exclaims, "darn it!" She is looking at her cell phone so I ask what's wrong? She says the price just jumped $5 in a minute. I ask what price? She says the room price. I exclaim, "You are actually getting a room?!", she says "yeah". I remember our daughter and her friend are in the other room, so I whisper "I don't care if it's a million dollars if you're getting a room!". She rolls her eyes at me.

She actually did it. She is going out of town tomorrow night, alone and plans to go to a club to look for a guy. I'm really hoping she tries to explore things. Doubt she will though. She will probably just read a book. But at least she's trying again.

Jump to right now... She said she booked a massage! She gets horny after a massage, and I won't be there! Here's hoping.

[hwfanatic]

So excited for you! Can’t wait to read the outcum.

[Shiphead]

Pretty exciting for us.. Excited to hear what happens. Please don't keep us waiting too long.

[PaNic]

HamburgerChef, it’s great she’s up for playing with you. My advice is not to get hung up on what happens in real life but focus on the play and enjoying that play together.
Sure, let her know that you’d love her to welcome fresh cock into her pussy but don’t pressure her to make it real. Let her know you love the play and she can take that as far as she likes, let her feel and glory in the power she has to excite you…

[PaNic]

And let your imagination run riot on her night away: whether she sits and reads a book or picks up a stud and gets fucked sideways you might never know for sure.
Given she’s up for playing with the idea and has booked a night away the odds are good that she is starting to enjoy the opportunities…

[Shiphead]

Is she out of town now?

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[HamburgerChef]

Here is the progress update. She did go out of town on her own, and stayed overnight at the hotel. Went to the hotel bar and had a few drinks. She didn't feel safe alone in the city so she didn't end up going to any clubs. Said she had fun at the bar though, acted flirty with the bartender, and afterwards went back to her room and enjoyed herself. She used the big dildo and fantasized, but that's all she felt comfortable with. I'm proud of her for it, even if also disappointed.

This is the first time that she has ever actually went out with the intention to meet guys, so it's great progress! We talked about me tagging along next time to give her encouragement and protection. So although the trip didn't include another fella, it was another step toward making the fantasy come true.

Two days later I took her to a local sports bar. She had about 10 shots! It was lots of fun. She hardly ever drinks, and I quit years ago. She was ready to flirt more, but no suitable guys were there.

Wish I had a better story for you guys. I'm doing pretty well in the stock market so hopefully more out of town trips will happen soon. She certainly seems to be getting more comfortable with the idea of at least flirting. So maybe on the next wave of this journey she will be ready to take a bigger step. I'm trying really hard not to push it and ruin her progress.

[Fearlesspain]

Congrats. Progress is still progress and it sounds like she's having fun at her pace. Keep up the great work. It's paying off!

[bbarnsworth]

Actually I think it's quite a bit of progress! She's really translating this fantasy into reality now, taking concrete steps towards making it happen. This is a big step! Sometimes the biggest step of all is taking that first step beyond fantasy and doing something that is actually not just a fantasy! So, I think this is a huge step.

You're right; don't push. Support, but don't push. I like the idea of escorting her to provide backup and protection. This will probably embolden her a bit.