she has feelings?

[hwc]

I so hope we haven't reached the end of the line with this one...

[Guhunkadorn]

Bump.

[Brute]

I suspect that shesmypornsta got what he wanted but was told he has to stop posting.

[sandy691196]

I couldnt make total sense of some parts of it. if she had kissed the guy once.. then-

1. Why did she have to agree "never again"!? She could have straight away confessed that she was sexually unsatisfied in her marriage. Thats the standard gag in the feigned cheating wife scenario.
2. Later, when it became absolutely clear that the OP was up for it seriously, she could have messaged him that she has something important to discuss. Given the kiss in the backdrop, the curiosity would have got him to meet her or talk to her on the phone. She then could have spun a yarn on "no sex at home" theme and reassured him that the OP had agreed to give her "space" while staying married and otherwise comfortable as a couple. She could have then summed up saying that this made her a lot more relieved about that kiss in the past and.. she would like to meet up and discuss further.

That would have done it, I guess..

[shesmypornstar]

Sorry for the lack of updates. Its been a very busy last few months with not much to report. Thanks to those who have checked in via PM expressing interest in our journey, and showing concern for our relationship. It is appreciated and everything is still good between the Mrs and I.

Her and I have had some really hot talks over the past few months. We hit a road block (which we won't discuss) that stopped any active pursuit on our part. But it looks as if things are getting back to normal and a window of opportunity might be opening for us. Despite not making any progress in regard to them actually hooking up, or him knowing that she is interested, the last few months have established the fact that she is 100% sincere in her interest in pursuing him both sexually and romantically. Her biggest concern continues to be the potential of rejection or judgement from him or anyone who might find out.

That aside, I think we're both ready for this and looking to move things forward. Shes continued to think about him when we have sex, shes been consistent in her messaging that she is interested in him and only him, and she revels in the fact that I can't last more than 30 seconds once she starts talking about him in bed.I think the only thing left is for her to take that final step and see where this thing goes.

[FNQLivin]

So if she were to have a relationship with him, where does that leave you?

[sandy691196]

Sorry for the lack of updates. Its been a very busy last few months with not much to report. Thanks to those who have checked in via PM expressing interest in our journey, and showing concern for our relationship. It is appreciated and everything is still good between the Mrs and I.

Her and I have had some really hot talks over the past few months. We hit a road block (which we won't discuss) that stopped any active pursuit on our part. But it looks as if things are getting back to normal and a window of opportunity might be opening for us. Despite not making any progress in regard to them actually hooking up, or him knowing that she is interested, the last few months have established the fact that she is 100% sincere in her interest in pursuing him both sexually and romantically. Her biggest concern continues to be the potential of rejection or judgement from him or anyone who might find out.

That aside, I think we're both ready for this and looking to move things forward. Shes continued to think about him when we have sex, shes been consistent in her messaging that she is interested in him and only him, and she revels in the fact that I can't last more than 30 seconds once she starts talking about him in bed.I think the only thing left is for her to take that final step and see where this thing goes.

and you are comfortable with the exclusive romantic relationship?

[shesmypornstar]

Where does that leave me and am I comfortable with them having a romantic relationship? Well, we've talked about that quite a bit, different scenarios, how it might play out, how I want it to work, how she wants it to work, etc. And with the many talks behind us, and many possibilities ahead, she has my full support to explore this however she sees necessary.

The two things that are certain at this point is that she 100% does not want him to know that I know, and that she will 100% tell me once its happening. As much as I want to know beforehand that shes ready to make her move, shes made it clear that I may or may not get the heads up, but once its started, she'll be sure to let me know.

Where does that leave me? Well regardless of if it becomes romantic or not, we've talked this over a few times and both agree that we think it'll end up like this. Once it starts and the excitement of it all is fresh we'll be using this to energize our sex life with me reclaiming her and making her mine anytime the mood is right. Over time as she becomes more excited by him than she is by me, she'll take a more dominant stance with me, denying me more and providing only hand relief when needed. Ultimately, she'll cut me off completely and lock me in chastity, only allowing me to cum by use of my own hand while she watches. She'll still be a loving and caring partner, but when it comes to sex, she'll be his.

Where does this go if they get serious romantically? Thats really hard to say. It'd be a really really tall task for her to leave our relationship and what we have, unlikely is an understatement. But, we have talked about that possibility, its hot, yet scary, but something neither of us are putting a lot of weight into. We'll see what happens once things start.

[sandy691196]

1. I agree that the cheating wife scenario is the best bet here since she is seeking an exclusive romantic scenario. Otherwise it will just spook him out knowing that a cuck husband is keeping tabs on him.

2. You say that you two have discussed the possibility of her leaving you when they get exclusive and that you 2 have found that "hot". Scary too. Help us understand this part please. What is hot about it? The ultimate taboo? The last frontier to cross, into a state of total negation of your relationship? If you find it hot now then when things progress in real time, you both could be playing into that scenario through actions and suggestions.

Have you considered the other guy's motivations? If he is getting romantically involved in a cheating wife scenario then he may see no reason to not go all the way and get into marriage / LTR with her.

So it will help if you two get clarity amongst yourselves early in the game.

3. So did you two get to sort out that kissing episode from two years back?

[Guhunkadorn]

It's good to hear from you and that your marriage and family life are solid.

Your wife is right to be wary of his rejection as he simply may not be the type to want to have an affair with a married neighbor and be know potentially as a home wrecker.

IF a relationship develops it's inevitable that he'll figure out that you know.

It sounds as though you two are ready for whatever plays out.

Best.

[Zangze]

I'm glad you guys seem to be getting onto the same page. It sounds like all is going well, though I do think it'd be wise to spend more time discussing and really feeling out the long term. She says now that there's little chance of her leaving for him, but in the past she explicitly told you that she's a one man kind of woman, and if she started down this path she'd end up wanting only him.

When you said "shes been consistent in her messaging that she is interested in him and only him", is that referring to her being interested in him rather than you? Or that she's not interested in being a hotwife with any other guy but him?

If she was saying before that she would only want him once this got started, and that has stayed consistent, I don't see how the end game can be that she'll stay happily between the two of you.

Regardless, you know her better than we do. Just trying to clarify and figure out her position. Good luck!

[shesmypornstar]

1. I agree that the cheating wife scenario is the best bet here since she is seeking an exclusive romantic scenario. Otherwise it will just spook him out knowing that a cuck husband is keeping tabs on him.

2. You say that you two have discussed the possibility of her leaving you when they get exclusive and that you 2 have found that "hot". Scary too. Help us understand this part please. What is hot about it? The ultimate taboo? The last frontier to cross, into a state of total negation of your relationship? If you find it hot now then when things progress in real time, you both could be playing into that scenario through actions and suggestions.

Have you considered the other guy's motivations? If he is getting romantically involved in a cheating wife scenario then he may see no reason to not go all the way and get into marriage / LTR with her.

So it will help if you two get clarity amongst yourselves early in the game.

3. So did you two get to sort out that kissing episode from two years back?

I can't exactly pin point what it is that makes the idea of her leaving me so hot, but I"m sure its a combination of it all. For starters, its the idea that she's so into him, physically and emotionally that she'd even consider the idea. Second, once we're at that point, shes in full control. I think thats a big part of it, her having control. The kicker of it, is that she can pursue her desire to be with him guilt free because she knows its getting me off.

What happens once we actually get to that spot is a great question, but I do agree with your idea that our mutual excitement over the thought may in fact push us there.

[shesmypornstar]

I'm glad you guys seem to be getting onto the same page. It sounds like all is going well, though I do think it'd be wise to spend more time discussing and really feeling out the long term. She says now that there's little chance of her leaving for him, but in the past she explicitly told you that she's a one man kind of woman, and if she started down this path she'd end up wanting only him.

When you said "shes been consistent in her messaging that she is interested in him and only him", is that referring to her being interested in him rather than you? Or that she's not interested in being a hotwife with any other guy but him?

If she was saying before that she would only want him once this got started, and that has stayed consistent, I don't see how the end game can be that she'll stay happily between the two of you.

Regardless, you know her better than we do. Just trying to clarify and figure out her position. Good luck!

Her messaging has been consistent in that she's only interested in him, and me, but no other guys. If its between me and him romantically, its me, if its between me and him sexually, its him.

We're at the point where her interest and intrigue of the romantic possibility is strong enough that given the chance she's 100% going to explore it. But even she admits that its deserved exploration, not a defined preference for him romantically. Given our situation and her past comments, its a given that she'll become a 1 man kind of girl sexually with him, but not necessarily romantically. We'll see

[FNQLivin]

I think we’re just all concerned that an internet friend would allow a kink to ruin a relationship, in the full knowledge that that is the most likely outcome.

It can happen to any relationship but when she explicitly says what would happen, I don’t know how I could do that.

[sandy691196]

I'm glad you guys seem to be getting onto the same page. It sounds like all is going well, though I do think it'd be wise to spend more time discussing and really feeling out the long term. She says now that there's little chance of her leaving for him, but in the past she explicitly told you that she's a one man kind of woman, and if she started down this path she'd end up wanting only him.

When you said "shes been consistent in her messaging that she is interested in him and only him", is that referring to her being interested in him rather than you? Or that she's not interested in being a hotwife with any other guy but him?

If she was saying before that she would only want him once this got started, and that has stayed consistent, I don't see how the end game can be that she'll stay happily between the two of you.

Regardless, you know her better than we do. Just trying to clarify and figure out her position. Good luck!

Her messaging has been consistent in that she's only interested in him, and me, but no other guys. If its between me and him romantically, its me, if its between me and him sexually, its him.

We're at the point where her interest and intrigue of the romantic possibility is strong enough that given the chance she's 100% going to explore it. But even she admits that its deserved exploration, not a defined preference for him romantically. Given our situation and her past comments, its a given that she'll become a 1 man kind of girl sexually with him, but not necessarily romantically. We'll see

For perspective, you may wanna go through this thread and the outcome. Its a hot thread but sad at the end.

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=70727

[Zangze]

She's said in the past she's a one woman kind of guy, and has made comments about "Why would I need you then?", talked about having his baby, and you've both apparently said it would be hot if she left you. I don't mean to doom post about it, or bring you down, just feels like something that is far more likely than she's making it sound.

I know personally I'd rather discuss it and know that either it's not a possibility (Which is never a guarantee, but then at least I know that her intention is to actively avoid it happening so long as she can) so that I can focus on what is happening, or that it's likely and I could prepare myself for it. Most of the other posts where it was a possibility, or ended up happening, it seems the guy in question was blindsided by it or it started snowballing and it was too late to do anything about it. If you're okay with it or even actively want it to happen, then perhaps a surprise would be more fun, but, at least for those who have posted about it elsewhere on these forums, it seems as if not being able to prepare and plan for it definitely made it a much harder time for them.

[hwc]

So then, since you find the idea of her having a strong, serious romantic relationship with him compelling, do you think once a physical relationship is well under way, do you think you will:

1. encourage them to spend more quality time together, with the express intention of them building a romantic relationship together?
2. and if a romantic relationship starts to develop, would you push them further into each other's arms, in the hope that you are replaced, romantically as well as physically?
3. Would you be upfront with her that these are your intentions and that you want her to do these things for you?

[hwc]

Would love an update as it has been a few months now!

definately want to hear of conversations you have had!

[shesmypornstar]

This will be my last post for a while. Thanks to everyone for following, offering advice and showing support. I've enjoyed learning about some of your past experiences and I hope you've enjoyed our journey to this point. However, we've come to the point in which I don't see this happening anytime soon. Everything is good between the Mrs and I, this just hasn't been a priority of ours lately and I don't see a path forward at the moment.

If anything changes I'll be sure to jump back on and give you an update. But until then, its safe to assume that nothing is happening on our end. I hope you all continue to enjoy this lifestyle with your significant others, and that I'll someday officially join you as a fellow cuck.

[FNQLivin]

Thank you for taking the time to update.

[Brute]

I think for a lot of people the fantasy is better than reality, and you two seem to have (are) played the fantasy part well.

[sandy691196]

This will be my last post for a while. Thanks to everyone for following, offering advice and showing support. I've enjoyed learning about some of your past experiences and I hope you've enjoyed our journey to this point. However, we've come to the point in which I don't see this happening anytime soon. Everything is good between the Mrs and I, this just hasn't been a priority of ours lately and I don't see a path forward at the moment.

If anything changes I'll be sure to jump back on and give you an update. But until then, its safe to assume that nothing is happening on our end. I hope you all continue to enjoy this lifestyle with your significant others, and that I'll someday officially join you as a fellow cuck.

It's been great having you around. You have run a great thread and your path was exciting and intriguing to read about.

I for one am very happy that you two have put your marriage and relationship first while fantasizing and exploring the idea.

It's always great to see a loving couple put their real relationship above all other transient kicks and distractions.

Have fun!

[troilusand]

Best of luck, SMP...as long as you're happy, I'm happy!!

Troy

[Watchinu69]

Best of luck, SMP...as long as you're happy, I'm happy!!

Troy

Bahahahahah

[AspiringLurker]

Sometimes no update is the best update. Wishing you the best in your marriage!