Wife recently found a new partner.

[Hillcountry66]

Haven’t posted in a very long time. Just sharing update that my wife has recently found a partner and seems to be long term. Although it’s rather secretive I won’t be present to witness the sexual experience but possibly watch recordings later if it goes well. This is the first time she has experienced BBC but she seems to drop everything she is doing when he calls so I’m guessing she is loving it. She says it’s really big and heavy. And they have sex for over an hour. She says she has never been fucked like this before in her life and she is now 40 years old. Should I have any concerns or just let her enjoy her time?

[adamgunnauthor]

What concerns do you think you should have? She's doing with it your okay and knowledge, right? She's been with white guys before, right?

It's probably just New Relationship Energy, and it's a wonderful feeling for her. Unless you believe for some reason that it's getting out of hand, let her go. If you have any worries, discuss it with her.

[skoot1958]

Yes there will be lots of NRE flooding her

[Hillcountry66]

Ok thanks. Was worried she would be overwhelmed with the long sex because she is only used to quick 5 minute activity with me. And the thought does run through my mind what if she enjoys that longer sex time and wants to stay put. Just lots of thoughts.

[snoogaloo82]

Haven’t posted in a very long time. Just sharing update that my wife has recently found a partner and seems to be long term. Although it’s rather secretive I won’t be present to witness the sexual experience but possibly watch recordings later if it goes well. This is the first time she has experienced BBC but she seems to drop everything she is doing when he calls so I’m guessing she is loving it. She says it’s really big and heavy. And they have sex for over an hour. She says she has never been fucked like this before in her life and she is now 40 years old. Should I have any concerns or just let her enjoy her time?

As long as you've set the rules and she seems comfortable following them then I see no worry at all. In fact I encourage you to have her experience BBC more often because then she'll have something to look forward to.

[Her number1]

What concerns do you think you should have? She's doing with it your okay and knowledge, right? She's been with white guys before, right?

It's probably just New Relationship Energy, and it's a wonderful feeling for her. Unless you believe for some reason that it's getting out of hand, let her go. If you have any worries, discuss it with her.

[Her number1]

Ok thanks. Was worried she would be overwhelmed with the long sex because she is only used to quick 5 minute activity with me. And the thought does run through my mind what if she enjoys that longer sex time and wants to stay put. Just lots of thoughts.

Your worries make it sound like sex is the only link you and your wife have, that she would rather have him than you. Hopefully, you two have much more that holds you together.

[Hillcountry66]

Oh no doubt we are stitched together. Guess it’s just emotions that run through my mind. Will work on that.

And she does look forward to his call. She seems to drop what she is doing to go. Not sure if there has to be some kind of advance heads-up in the future? Or take it when you get the call? Appreciate the responses.

[snoogaloo82]

Oh no doubt we are stitched together. Guess it’s just emotions that run through my mind. Will work on that.

And she does look forward to his call. She seems to drop what she is doing to go. Not sure if there has to be some kind of advance heads-up in the future? Or take it when you get the call? Appreciate the responses.

I would do whatever feels best in the moment. Let her take the lead in everything you guys do and that will result in a happy wife and you know what it means to have a happy wife, right? It means a happy life!!

[Hillcountry66]

Oh no doubt we are stitched together. Guess it’s just emotions that run through my mind. Will work on that.

And she does look forward to his call. She seems to drop what she is doing to go. Not sure if there has to be some kind of advance heads-up in the future? Or take it when you get the call? Appreciate the responses.

I would do whatever feels best in the moment. Let her take the lead in everything you guys do and that will result in a happy wife and you know what it means to have a happy wife, right? It means a happy life!!

Ok thanks. He asked my wife to come in a dress without panties to meet him. She said he made her squirt and then stuck it in her butt. She has never had it in her butt. He had to walk her to her vehicle.

[Shiphead]

Yes there will be lots of NRE flooding her

Not just NRE will be flooding her. I think you'll find evidence left behind inside of her still flooding out. That's pretty hot my friend!

[isinlarsa]

She had cum oozing from her cunt and her asshole. without panties the back of her dress would have a revealing stain as she walked.

[Hillcountry66]

He cleaned her up before she left but she said she bled like a virgin from her butthole because he wouldn’t stop. Her pussy was very red and used when she got home. Needless to say she couldn’t feel mine. But I still told her to drop her panties. My turn.

[isinlarsa]

He cleaned her up before she left but she said she bled like a virgin from her butthole because he wouldn’t stop. Her pussy was very red and used when she got home. Needless to say she couldn’t feel mine. But I still told her to drop her panties. My turn.

Nothing hotter that sticking your cock is your wife's just-fucked pussy; even if it still is stretched.

[leggysman]

she said she bled like a virgin from her butthole because he wouldn’t stop.

That's disturbing. That's not how a good guy treats a woman.

[Magellanic29]

Very hot that the first guy in her ass is a BBC. How many times has she gone to see him so far? How do you feel about it all?

[Hillcountry66]

she said she bled like a virgin from her butthole because he wouldn’t stop.

That's disturbing. That's not how a good guy treats a woman.

That’s kind of what I was thinking. I’m not sure if she is falling for this guy that she would let him try that on her or what? But she has never let me mess with it.

And this would probably be maybe 7-10 time she has seen him. Every time they have sex she can barely walk out from it just being so rough.

[snoogaloo82]

she said she bled like a virgin from her butthole because he wouldn’t stop.

That's disturbing. That's not how a good guy treats a woman.

That’s kind of what I was thinking. I’m not sure if she is falling for this guy that she would let him try that on her or what? But she has never let me mess with it.

And this would probably be maybe 7-10 time she has seen him. Every time they have sex she can barely walk out from it just being so rough.

I have to agree this isn't how a man should treat a woman in my mind. She should be relished.

[Hillcountry66]

Thanks. So if she goes back then does that mean she likes it and I should let it happen? Or how would you address the situation?

[Long Lurker 34]

Thanks. So if she goes back then does that mean she likes it and I should let it happen? Or how would you address the situation?

HC66 - The way this guy treats her seems more like abuse, especially has she has ended up bleeding.
- Now it could be she actually, in some manor, likes being manhandled and "feeling it" for a few days after ward, but there is a limit and this guy either doesn't care or is just stupid.
- It might be one of those things where your wife/GF?, if she had the opportunity to experience a real Dom who understands how to achieve what she might be desiring manhandling/pain/orgasm wise, what have you, while respecting limits, she might get more enjoyment out of it over all.
- As has been said here many times, I think you and her need to have serious sit down, alcohol, drug free cloths on conversation and discuss what has been going on and what it is she is really seeking from this situation.

[Hillcountry66]

We have talked and wife surprisingly said she likes it big and rough now? Of course we didn’t know this because this is her first time experiencing it. I don’t think I can pry her away now. I’ve told her I am looking out for her best interest but she says she can handle it. I’m not sure if I need to put a limit on the amount of times she should go. Seems like the visits are picking up.

[venus-can99]

Not being in the LS I cant offer any "advice" but my suggestion would be to talk to her about what she likes with her BF and discuss abuse vs rough play. All 3 of you may want to meet and chat as well. Just my thoughts...

[mundyman]

We have talked and wife surprisingly said she likes it big and rough now? Of course we didn’t know this because this is her first time experiencing it. I don’t think I can pry her away now. I’ve told her I am looking out for her best interest but she says she can handle it. I’m not sure if I need to put a limit on the amount of times she should go. Seems like the visits are picking up.

This thread is just short of two weeks old which I’m guessing means that your fucking this new man has been going on for about a month.
It sounds like the NRE, the newness and enjoyment with a large cock used my a man who gives it to her hard and rough is at its peak. No doubt a lot of the attraction right now is that she has never had this before and certainly isn’t getting this type of treatment at home.
I think now would be a good time to have a sit down with your wife and have a very honest and straight forward talk with her about your concerns. You’re at the point now where you want to set some boundaries especially on frequency since this is developing into more of a relationship than a short time frame hook up.
Voice what YOU. Are seeing and how YOU are feeling and what YOU'RE worried about, and then listen to your wife.
Hopefully you can come to a mutually agreeable solution as to frequency and timing of her meetups as well as any concerns you have with the way she is being treated.
Good luck!!

[Hillcountry66]

Ok. Appreciate the input Mundy. We talked and wife says this guy was a wake up for her. She now says she is horny every day and would like to have sex with me or him if we can every day. I have to admit this may be more than I can handle. Not sure if any of you have this much sex? How much sex is healthy? Or in range?

Also asked wife if she had any suggestions to strengthen our sex life. She did say that I didn’t give it to her enough. And sometimes size is an issue. She says sometimes she can feel it and sometimes she can’t. Not sure what do do about this? Any advice?

[Tap]

Ripping a woman's rectum is no Joke. She should get to a proctologist for an examination and a frank discussion. Making her bleed like that should have ended the relationship.