Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[ncranger51]

Currently my wife of 37 years and I are not engaged in "hotwifing" or swinging. Indeed we are currently exclusive to one another, and have been for several years. That being stated, we have explored various aspects in the past over a period of nearly 25 years. Presently, I would like to see her approached at some level, and continue to have fantasies relating to her having sex with younger men. She still is very sexy, and looks much younger than her actual age. That thought leads me to the point I am about to make. For a couple's relationship to remain intact, the needs and wishes of ones partner MUST NOT be ignored. For example I know that I need to avoid too much "encouragement" in trying to get my wife involved again. Over the years, I have known folks that pushed their partner too hard, and ended up getting more than they bargained for. On a cautionary note, all need to remember this: When what you are doing quits being "FUN" for BOTH halves of a COUPLE, serious relationship issues are sure to follow. I don't doubt that there are several here who can attest to that fact. This life style is much like skydiving or rock climbing. The thrills can be intense, but the possibility of injury always lurks in the background.

[mrs_reese]

ncranger51, well said/ thanks for posting.

To all my loyal readers, BS, Mrbear, bubbajack, jrg and aynsley.

I want to express my 2cents:

Aynsley, you are correct, I have a hunch that Marques cucking both my baby and Michael will be exciting to everyone involved. You are the one pushing my buttons with that suggestion and I am feeling more comfortable with the thought of it.

Now my opinion. Mr.Bear is correct, my bottom line loyalty will forever be to my husband. I am truly his slave and I love the thought of being that way for him. It is amazing when I can have all the freedom in the world as a married woman; to meet other men and to make love to others including my sexy L. But at the end of the day, I am my hubby's slave. I will do anything for him. It is because I am so hot for hubby and his manliness, his cockiness, his manner of controlling my sexuality as he continues to encourage me to let go of my inhibitions and embrace sex like he does, with freedom and kinkiness. Hubby is my emotional love. Hubby is my physical love. I may be having sex with Michael, and I feel so much love for him, but I keep that love sheltered from reality. I love Michael as my lover, as a hotwife, not as a wife and not in actual reality! Michael is a fantasy that I live with as he continues to make hubby and I erotically happy!
Marques is a challenge> a man I am persuing to allow me to let go on an inhibition of my taste in men.

Hubby wants to post later, as I encouraged him to write about his feelings about all the stuff discussed lately.

BS as always, thanks honey, for being u!

[BallSpanking]

Sweet Ms Reese...
I know your ultimate 'loyalty' is to Mr Reese, as Mr Bear implied, 130 pages later that much should be beyond question...
I was referring to your protection of Michael's feelings, that's all.
Have a lovely time in Toronto, sweetie, and please don'
t forget us.

[reese]

Hello everyone!
My wife has taken over this thread. I feel like a visitor at times. LOL!
Here are my thoughts about her with Michael and Marques:
She is really into Michael. When she is around him or getting ready for a date with him, she is on fire and filled with excitement and horniness. I am so overwhelmed with her ability to juggle marriage, my constant demand for sex and her attention as well as being a girlfriend and steady lover for Michael.

I have to admit, it gets me off when she calls herself my slave. But she is free to choose for herself.
We constantly discuss possible fantasies and hotwife scenarios and with each passing day, my wife becomes more brazen and confident.

About Marques, I want her to be his lover. WE have discussed many options and one that is very exciting for her is to slowly gain confidence in him where he becomes controlling to her, where she is his toy, where he controls our sex and where he is in charge. That is the only way for Marques to enter into her life, where is ultimately controls her sexuality.
My wife and Marques are talking about all of this and had informed her that he wants that type of relationship with us.
But Michael is the only thing stopping my wife right now. She is undecided whether to bring him aboard as her cuckold along with me or keeping him out of the loop and keeping him all to herself.

I believe that my wife will keep Michael away from our aggressive lifestyle. I really believe that she enjoys having Michael as her lover and friend, without all the hardcore sex and hotwife play.

At the end of the day though, my wife will always keep me in check, she is the ultimate hotwife to me.
Our love and trust will never be destroyed by anyone.

[BallSpanking]

Mr Reese,

I think everything you said above, is completely correct.
You know her very well, and knew she would really grow as a hotwife.

And I think your insight into her feelings is consistent with her tenderness for Michael.

Have a great weekend

[mrs_reese]

Ok,
My complicated life is about to become more complicated.
Michael and I had a long talk on Saturday afternoon, of course it was after we shared lovemaking for a quickie.
I told him that I need to continue to be a hotwife and that I have run from men in the past once love developed.
I told him that Hubby and I have a fantasy of me being with a bbc and that I have found a man who I am very interested in. I told Michael that I love him and he understands the depth of my love. He is amazing in that he realizes that hubby and I have THE love of marriage, but Michael and I share the love of dating.
So after a long honest talk with MIchael, he agreed that as long as I continue to spend time with him as his gf, he thinks it will be kind of hot having a bbc in my life. I told him that I want to see if Marques will take on a roll as my dominant lover and that he is willing to cuckold hubby. I asked Michael if he would get turned on watching me with marques in a roll similar to hubby. TO my suprise, Michael told me that he thinks it is very exciting and that at times he wishes hubby and he could trade roles.
This is going to happen everyone!
Marques and I talked Sunday night, his role will be a my main lover with hubby and Michael cuckolded. I want to do this.
I told both hubby and Michael that once I start playing with Marques, that he demands that I am his alone. That I will try to be dedicated to Marques and keep my body for him only. We have to define the roles of Michael and hubby and so far, I am not sure what Marques will agree to.
Marques wants to be my dominant lover and I am willing to see how it goes.
Hubby is crazy excited.'
MY heart is racing at this crazy turn of events unfolding in my life. But I am eager to see how it all plays out.

[Aynsley]

Congrats, Mrs. R. !!
I'm sure fun will be had by all.

[BallSpanking]

Interesting..
So, if Marques "owns" you, does that limityour freedom as a hotwife?
That is something you and he will have to work-out, but so far Marques is an unproven element, I don't know he is in a position yet to start claiming exclusivity over you.

Moreover, this is a game you (Ms Reese) are playing voluntarily... surely, in true hotwife fashion, if you are terminally attracted to some new guy, you are well within your right to fuck him... I think.

Either way, once you and Marques bond more, you can revisit this question, and you can decide if you can stay faithful to your Domme...

I have my doubts..lol!

Kisses, Baby

[bubbajack]

Will Marques' rights to dominate your body include sharing you with his friends?

This is way HOT!!

[reese]

My turn to chip in................Marques understands our fantasies..and will be gentle but direct in being the bull in this scenario. My wife is not going to go in this head over heels...so in our minds, we want to make this fantasy as real as possible. I am absolutely positive that once my hotwife experiences the submissive side of being with a bbc and cucking me and her lover Michael, I believe that she will back off and Marques' wont be in the picture.
He is fully aware of this being a one time thing or more...but it is all up to my sexy wife.

[reese]

MrBear...I never worry about her coming back. I do know that phrase about bbc....lol!

Seriously, I am blessed with a tool that mrs.r loves...we all know how men love to boast that they possess a huge penis that drives women crazy...but I am go oing to be humble and state that I fit in my wife well...and she loves the way I handle it in her...

that confidence allows me to let go of her...to be cucked...and to be controlled at times.
There is not a sexual kink that needs gratifying more than my need to urgently reclaim my wife after she has been slutting it up with a guy or making love to her bf Michael.

I know that there is a luckydog that uses this forum....I should change my name to luckydog2

[Aynsley]

Obviously, I'm not working with a lot of information here, but I'm guessing that
Marques could be the perfect addition to Mr. R., Mrs. R., and Michael, as
I'll bet he's not looking for a GF (like Michael has),
so much as a willing white wife who's his FB/sub...on an occassional basis.

In other words, Marques may be the perfect guy to vent a 'naughty streak',
when Mrs. R. has one. While she likes him, she won't have a need (nor will he)
to 'date', go out, call each other, see other, etc.
But, when Mrs. R. gets that 'need-to-be-naughty', he will be more than happy to oblige,
and 'take' what's offered, when it's offered.

Have fun, guys.

[BallSpanking]

One of the most important duties of an intelligent "Bull" (for lack of a better term), is NOT alienating your Sub so much that she will be spooked...
My guess, and I fully concede I might be wrong, is that Ms Reese will learn to love sex with Marques, and over time, learn to love being HIS submissive.

You are likely correct in assuming she may back away, once she has a bite of the apple, but I think if Marques plays hiscards right, this could go long term and expose Ms Reese to BBC mfm experiences, and other situations she would be interested in knowing.

Cheers !

[mrs_reese]

BS, thanks for your post again. You are so correct.
We are planning on saturday. Just marques and my hubby for now. Marques wants to direct hubby on his demands for me when he is with me. Hubby will be told his duties and how to perform. Marques told me to be ready for our first session of complete sex. Myonly demand is protected sex. Marques understands.
I am so nervous and wildly excited about this moment.
Michael will be spending the night with me tomorrow, I plan on having a nice late night of drinks and sex and then telling him that Marques will be over on Saturday. Marques and I decided that once hubby is out in his cuckolded place, then Michael will be introduced to Marques.
I think i can handle all of this activity.

[BallSpanking]

Sounds like a great time, Ms Reese!

When you say "protected sex", does that mean a condom, or will an "All Clear" medical certificate would suffice?

After all, sex without condoms is much more enjoyable, but there can be legitimate reasons to require them, for sure!

[BallSpanking]

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[BallSpanking]

My apologies Ms Reese.

Your thread is not the place to hold an argument
I will abstain from doing so.

[BallSpanking]

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[BallSpanking]

Thx Bear, I'm just trying to minimize the pollution to Ms Reese's thread, I sent you a PM likely resolving the matter.

[BallSpanking]

I apologize to Mr Bear for misreading his words, and evidently misjudging his intention.

Sorry Mrs R, I didn't intend to foul-up your thread.

[dinoo]

Dear Mrs. Reese,

You wrote:
Marques wants to direct hubby on his demands for me when he is with me. Hubby will be told his duties and how to perform.

How exciting the coming days must be for you and your husband.
And I...., I can't wait to hear all the details afterwards.
I hope you will share them with us as much as possible.

Regards,
Dinoo

[mrs_reese]

Boys, please, let's all get along. I luv you both!
Dinoo, I am both nervous and overwhelmingly excited.
First, I need to spend a night with Michael.
Hubby is already in his cuck mode as I have shut him down with all contact from me, as he is only allowed to masterbate to my hot spots as I stay fresh for Michael first, then for Marques this weekend.
Hubby is so wild, he must jack off 3 times a day when he is in his cuck mode, I have never seen a person like this.
Just quick hand motions on is gorgeous penis, and soon he is cumming for me.
Of course I do not waste his cum. I usually tell him as I lick it off his hands that I will be tasting my lovers real soon.
This time is different for me though, I dont want to take charge. I am very curious on how Marques will direct the events that will soon be unfolding right before my eyes.

[bubbajack]

Ooooooh - (groaning with desire and anticipation!)

This is sooo fucking HOTT!! :

I love you, Mrs. R.

[mrs_reese]

I am not sure what i will wear, Marques sent me a text yesterday telling me that he will tell me what HE wants to see on me. I am very excited by his aggressive bull behavior. I told him that I want to be controlled- i want him to own me for the night. Hubby has NO voice in this matter. He will be cucked and I cant wait to see what happens.

i am very nervous but wont back out this time.

[mrs_reese]

mr Ballspanking and Bear.

Thank-you both for being so classy.