Can a pussy free marriage work long-term?

[vmb69]

We have been pussy free since October 12 2022 and are not looking back. Saturday getting a PA to make the cock cage more permanent.

what is a PA?

Prince Albert, had to cancel the appointment due to family event. But already re-scheduled.

[danman71]

Ive only been married since May but have been with my wife since 2019 and havent had PIV since Feb of 2020 and only 3 times total.

That being said we are very intimate sexually and I consider us to have a fantastic sex life regardless of the fact that its not me thats actually penetrating her.

[unclecuck]

i'm sure that you will get different answers from different men.
Personally, I don't think it will work if there is 100% denial.

Can you live without eating?
you will be allowed to smell the food and maybe touch it, but not eating it.

[Bnc63]

Just past the 2 year mark and still find it hotter than a conventional sex life…. But like you say…. Different strokes for different folks!

[Wooster]

It’s been working for us for a couple of years, and neither of us have any desire to change it. Just one data point, but there it is.

[funkyfitter]

In the relationship 33yrs, married for 29 and pussy free for 7 with no complaints or plans to stop.

[little sissy Benita]

I was pussy free from begin on - only real men have the right of intercourse with wifes - and make them pregnant with they superior seed

I am grateful that she realized that i am not a man - i am a little baby girl - she have a real african man as new husband and as father of the kids

I am now impotent and always limp - my genitals shrinked much 0,31 inch - how it should be

little Benita

[sana9889]

Its actually really common. A lot of couples had sex to have children Then no more sex.

[ucaneffher]

Can a pussy free marriage work long-term while your partner is actively dating someone else? I ask because my wife is aroused by the idea of longer-term denial. In my previous relationships, this was always a bad choice. I cannot say it precipitated the end of those relationships but it definitely felt like pivotal moment in all of them.

I have never been interested in being in a pussy free relationship, ever, despite my ex having made the decision to cut me off twice for a cumulative period of 12 months while she had two different boyfriends who she went fully exclusive with.

I agree that her teasing and keeping me on edge made it more bearable and erotic.
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After living 12 months pussy free in my early 20s, I think that a pussy free relationship can work but only under the right circumstances.

In my case and my opinion, the only way I would ever agree to go fully pussy free is if I'm included 100% up-close in person. My girlfriend would need to move her boyfriend in our home and id want to be cucked 24/7/365. If I'm not getting pussy, then I want to be kept on edge every second of every day. Watching her belong to him. I want to see her with him, I want to hear her with him, I want to fall asleep to them going at it in their bedroom, I want to wake up in the middle of the night hearing them, I want to come home from work to find them together.

There literally has to be a reason why she has me pussy free and it's because her boyfriend spends more time inside of her than outside, otherwise there's no reason for being cut off and I'll want to have some myself[/url].


That said, none of those women ever presented it like it was something that turned them on, it more kinda just happened as they became more entangled with their lovers. My current partner on the other hand thinks it is sexy to have that much power over me.

Like your current partner, my ex gf also seemed turned on by enforcing who got the pussy and who didn't. She likes teasing about who it belonged to and who had full privileges to it whenever, wherever, however, and for whatever duration they chose to have it.

We have been together for 6 years now and things have been amazing, communication amazing, and she is turned on by having a sub cuck. I want to be able to give her what she wants but I am feeling a little gun shy.

We had been together for 5 years (2 in the lifestyle) when she gave me the news that I was officially cut off and that the last time we had sex was officially my last time having sex with her because she was now going exclusive with the boyfriend. I didn't get a chance to feel gun shy as it was just told to me after I had been cut off.

That's my opinion ^

[ohtobecucked]

Yeah, I’m particularly lucky because not only have I had no pussy for 10 years now, but I’m also not allowed to see my wife naked or to touch her breasts or ass… and I love my wife and my marriage.

Used to love sucking on her breasts everyday before work. Since we went for a female led relationship I’ve been completely cut off from. It drives me crazy but it also makes me rock hard .

Our only ‘sexual’ activity now is her squeezing my balls as hard as she can while I try and ride out the pain.

She’s amazing at it and I love her doing it and tbh (not sure everyone would want this) she’s been trying her best to cause some sort of real damage to at least one of them - just as a reminder of who is boss

[Loserpaul]

I see no reason why a pussy free marriage cannot work. I am pussy free going on 5 years now I think (I have lost count). For over two years I have not been allowed to have any sexual contact with my other half or even to touch her naked body. Only her bulls are allowed to do that. I can see her naked and, occasionally, watch her fuck but no touching. I am allowed to jerk off whilst I watch only. That gives me all the sexual release I need.

It is very frustrating, humiliating and emasculating. It also gives me many frustrated hard-ons. When I finally achieve hand relief I have incredibly powerful orgasms. I am quite sure things won't change. I have accepted my fate as a pussy free cuck & am perfectly happy to carry on as things are.

[ohtobecucked]

LP - awesome, congrats on the 5 years! Sounds like you both got what you wanted.

[Long Lurker 34]

Yeah, I’m particularly lucky because not only have I had no pussy for 10 years now, but I’m also not allowed to see my wife naked or to touch her breasts or ass… and I love my wife and my marriage.

Used to love sucking on her breasts everyday before work. Since we went for a female led relationship I’ve been completely cut off from. It drives me crazy but it also makes me rock hard .

Our only ‘sexual’ activity now is her squeezing my balls as hard as she can while I try and ride out the pain.

She’s amazing at it and I love her doing it and tbh (not sure everyone would want this) she’s been trying her best to cause some sort of real damage to at least one of them - just as a reminder of who is boss

OTBC - So is your wife a HW or has/gets sex in some other way?

[Ghalilaeus]

There are some threads on here where it is active denial with no contact whatsoever, not just caged so no PIV but nothing at all other than a friendly kiss on the cheek and possibly the odd hug, of course we can't comment on it's veracity and so I won't, but shared intimacy looks the far better bet to me.

Chris

I don't understand how relationships with absolutely no intimacy work. Why keep the hubby around and what does he get out of it anyway?

I had such a relationship for many months and it was mind blowing. I was in chastity. All she allowed was sniffing her pussy and kissing her shoes. She took me with a strapon often, though, and there was cuckolding plus other ways of service I am probably not allowed to write about on this forum. I would have married her but it didn't happen

[ohtobecucked]

LL34 - a fair question! We have a young daughter and my wife is not currently looking for anything beyond torturing me .

However, we have agreed (mentioned here before) that the next time she has PIV or any sexual contact it’ll be with someone else. For now, I’m happy in the knowledge that we’re both on the same page and will just wait patiently for her to be comfortable with moving forward.

Cheers

[Bnc63]

I’ve been friendzoned. We’ve been pussyfree for almost 3 years now. I used to get bjs and hjs too but about 2 years ago those were taken off the table! Several months ago she began teasing me about removing our final intimate act of kissing. We’ve gone weeks and even months with no kissing….

She loves being able to tease me by flashing me her oh so sexy pussy, coming up to me to kiss me and turning her head at the last minute and telling me that certain restaurants/bars are off limit for us because she doesn’t want the men in those establishment to think she’s taken. She hasn’t worn her wedding ring for nearly 2 year so she looks like a sexy available woman!

To give you a picture of what she looks like she’s a 5’-6 brunette weighing 112# with an hour glass figure. Her legs and booty are to die for!

The ride has been scary, erotic and sexy beyond imagination.

[ohtobecucked]

BNC - wow, sounds awesome! I take it you’re enjoying it?

Funny thing is, we suggest all this and hope they partake but once they’ve made their mind up, there’s basically no way back. I know for a fact my wife will never sleep with me again and being unable to even see her naked cuts me off completely. I can’t see me changing my mind on this, but it almost doesn’t matter - she won’t

[SubSnuggler]

I'm permanently locked but not pussy free. Just really, really, pussy limited. I got my last BJ from her years ago - I'm never getting one of those again.

She has no care or concerns about how often I cum or whether I enjoy it, she's is strict in that she controls it completely. I'm not allowed to masturbate, even with permission. I can ask for it, once, but never ever beg. The most often answer is no, without a care in the world.

Last night I was grinding my locked cock against her back, my waxed legs and mini skirt sliding against her, and the only thing she said was she was planning to fuck her bull this weekend. I was left to suffer.

But is it suffering, really? This kind of thing is what cucks crave, and once a Wife figures it all out, there is no coming back for cuck boy. He gets what he gets and thats it. And for many of us, it ends up being pussy free. I don't see any harm in this at all, you are just getting what you asked for. Don't let the genie out of the bottle and complain later.

[Bnc63]

BNC - wow, sounds awesome! I take it you’re enjoying it?

Funny thing is, we suggest all this and hope they partake but once they’ve made their mind up, there’s basically no way back. I know for a fact my wife will never sleep with me again and being unable to even see her naked cuts me off completely. I can’t see me changing my mind on this, but it almost doesn’t matter - she won’t

I am enjoying it most of the time OTBC…. The only time it gets to be much is after I cum. She doesn’t help with that anymore. She told me she doesn’t want to see that poor excuse of a peen anymore. It’s when I’m by myself thinking about her with a boyfriend that post release I have some dread but it doesn’t last more than 15 mins and the thoughts creep back in of how hot I find our lives with me being in the friendzone and her on the prowl!

It’s what she wants and I NEED!

[ohtobecucked]

I hear ya - sounds like she’s enjoying herself and you’re enjoying the suffering and the fun bit too.

I’m sure she’ll be grateful to you for letting her live this wonderful way and if she’s like my wife, knowing how much I’m suffering or hurting really turns her on / makes her happy, so knowing you’re filled with regret, even in the short term can be fun for both parties. And if nothing else, her lovers will be VERY grateful to you for living this way, too .

Have fun!!

[MartasBoy]

My wife often points out that some husbands are good at home repairs and do-it-yourself projects. Others hire the jobs out to home repair professionals. Some men are good at yard work and landscaping. Others hire the work out to lawn care professionals. Some men are mechanically inclined and work on their own car. Others take their cars to a mechanic.

My wife says that some husbands do not know how to pleasure a woman and a wife must find a man who can. My wife also says she's not willing to let me continually try to clumsley perform a job that I don't know how to do.

[vmb69]

Will officially be pussy free 2 years in October. We believe there is no reason a marriage can't work this way.

[sana9889]

Nothing wrong with it. I know lot of couples like this. They dont even swing or have other partners. Just no sex.

Some are monogamous but only use strapons. Its different for everyone.

My bf and I are anal only for 6 months now.

[vmb69]

Nothing wrong with it. I know lot of couples like this. They dont even swing or have other partners. Just no sex.

Some are monogamous but only use strapons. Its different for everyone.

My bf and I are anal only for 6 months now.

Are you reserving your pussy for someone else?

[sana9889]

Nope... its just a dynamic we r trying. Enjoying it so far. Still getting sex daily frm my bf and others too sometimes.