Challenges

[Bridget_Joshua]

To the ladies who have kids. How did you steer this lifestyle juggling between Sexy Hotwife who loves fucking and a Mother. We are planning to start our family and don't want to giveup this lifestyle ever. Do share what you ladies have gone through, tell those ups & downs which we will be facing. It will be helpful.

[Jimbo7giveher]

we have on little one. the hotwife outings are mommy and daddys date night. our kid never goes to daycare, we are ranchers...kid is with us all the time. but when we have a date night....kid stays with her aunt. its just a couple of evenings a month. and we dont go for the whole long outing with the bull....its meet up at the hotel and get it on. we are gone four hours tops.

[isinlarsa]

we have on little one. the hotwife outings are mommy and daddys date night. our kid never goes to daycare, we are ranchers...kid is with us all the time. but when we have a date night....kid stays with her aunt. its just a couple of evenings a month. and we dont go for the whole long outing with the bull....its meet up at the hotel and get it on. we are gone four hours tops.

So you are always there with your wife?

[Lookingforadventure]

It sounds like you are just at the start of having a family...maybe considering getting pregnant or adopting. I wasn't a hot wife when I was at the stage and someone else who has been through it could probably say more, but I don't think it would have worked for me. Having a baby is a life altering thing that seems to overtake your life for a period of time (the parenting part continues, but eventually you find some balance back). It can be hard to find time to shower or get groceries, lol. I have no idea how I would have found time for sex dates.

Plus, there is a transition for your marriage as you figure out how to not only be lovers and life partners, but also parents. It can take a bit to find the right balance. If you are like me, you might find that you need a temporary break during that phase.

Once you are through that phase, though, I think that good communication and reliable babysitters will be all you need. Just say it is "date night". Or if your wife plays alone, you can watch the kids while she has some "mommy time."

[Tank Turner]

We are extremely cautious about concealing our sexual activities from our two adolescent children. We'd die if they were to find out that their angelic mother is a bedroom porn star. We have never taken a risk that could have exposed our activities to our kids.

Most of you know that my wife has a stratospheric libido caused by an endocrine system abnormality. When her adrenal gland floods her system with testosterone, she could exhaust a football team.

My wife loves MFM sex. We have always played together. She has always wanted me to participate to fulfill her fantasies and to ensure her safety. Since she's met Brad, she has had special privileges with him. She has always asked me before engaging in sex with him. Brad is best friends with her sister's fiancé. They're firefighters at the same fire station. Both of us completely trust him. He's 15 years younger than my wife. My wife and Brad are friends. They know that the sexual component of their relationship has a finite lifespan.

Since my wife has quit her job, she spends a lot of time at her sister's home, which benefits me because I often complete work reports at home. My wife is more excited about her sister's pregnancy than the sister is. She helps her sister a lot. Our kids and my sister-in-law's kids enjoying playing with each other. My wife often spends the night at her sister's home along with our kids when the fiancé is working. When he's not, she almost always comes home.

Yesterday, it was hot in Southern California. My wife called me to ask me to come to her sister's home for swimming. I had too many reports to complete, so I couldn't go. She asked me if she could invite Brad. The second she asked, I knew she was horny. I told her that I was good. The reality is I was never able to keep up with my wife's sex drive, not even when I was good for 5 over the course of a day. Because my sister-in-law is 43 and pregnant, she rarely swims although she can. She avoids all potential risks. She usually chills in the shade on the patio.

My wife and her future brother-in-law always skinny dip in her sister's pool. I've skinny dipped with them. My wife would never have sex with her sister's fiancé. According to my wife, the fiancé has no sexual interest it her. They could lay around naked for hours, and he has always been indifferent about my wife being naked. He has complimented my wife on her scorching hot naked body. I think my sister-in-law told him to compliment her. My wife is in her mid-40s. She worries far too much that she's losing her scorching hot body. She loves it when men compliment her on her sexy body.

They dropped the kids off at a local mall. My wife and the fiancé were in the pool when Brad arrived. The sister had a continual blender of margaritas for them. Brad joined them in the pool. He immediately swam to my wife. According to my wife, he pulled her to him and passionately kissed her. She told me after she got home that Brad was hard when he got to her. My wife does not like fucking in water because she'll often get a bladder infection.

She followed Brad out of the pool. Her sister told my wife to use her bedroom. Her sister and fiancé know that Brad and my wife have sex. My wife said they had sex for about 90 minutes. He fucked her twice and she gave him a blowjob. She told me after getting home that she was horny when she left for her sister's home in the morning. She's always horny.

The point is it was completely safe. Her sister and the fiancé know that Brad is fucking my wife although not as often as they used to fuck. No one was home but them. There was no way for our kids to find out that their angelic mother was Brad's porn star for part of the afternoon. We've never worried about my sister-in-law talking. We completely trust Brad to keep his mouth shut. If he were to talk, it would end his friendship with us and with the fiancé.

My wife assured me that the more sex women have the more sex they want to have. She was horny when she arrived home yesterday evening. She showered after the kids fell asleep and got in bed naked. After long foreplay (she is addicted to receiving oral sex), I fucked her like I was driving pile, the way she loves it.

Never tell anyone about your sexual secrets. Make sure that the people who know about your sexual secrets will never tell them to anyone. Rumors have a way to getting to people who should never hear them. Always have what my wife calls plausible deniability ready. If a guy were to talk, it would be his word against yours and your husband's word. Carefully and thoroughly vet your sexual partners before fucking them.

[Tank Turner]

Hi Lookingforadventure,

My wife has always been horny by nature and as a symptom of an endocrine system abnormality. She became even more horny after having kids, probably as a consequence of hormonal changes caused by pregnancy.

Her abnormality manifested at puberty. Her physicians thinks it might correct itself when she's in menopause which could be 10 years from now.

[adamgunnauthor]

Her abnormality manifested at puberty. Her physicians thinks it might correct itself when she's in menopause which could be 10 years from now.

[adamgunnauthor]

Her abnormality manifested at puberty. Her physicians thinks it might correct itself when she's in menopause which could be 10 years from now.

My wife started screwing around when she was just getting into menopause - she never slowed down either during or after that.

[Tank Turner]

Hi adamgunnauthor,

My wife and I know women who are more sexually active (horny) post-menopause.

I think my mother-in-law is just like my wife: always horny.

Women's hormone systems have to be the most complex systems in nature and man-made.

[isinlarsa]

Hi adamgunnauthor,

My wife and I know women who are more sexually active (horny) post-menopause.

I think my mother-in-law is just like my wife: always horny.

Women's hormone systems have to be the most complex systems in nature and man-made.

LOL! "man-made"?

[Tank Turner]

Software is complete to write.

Hormonal women (nature) are impossible to figure out.

[Kenwolfe]

My wife and I didn't get into the lifestyle until our kids were old enough to watch themselves. When our kids were young I don't know that we could have done it. Having young children takes such a toll on your time and energy that we barely had time for ourselves, much less any interest in the lifestyle.

[Lookingforadventure]

Hi Lookingforadventure,

My wife has always been horny by nature and as a symptom of an endocrine system abnormality. She became even more horny after having kids, probably as a consequence of hormonal changes caused by pregnancy.

Her abnormality manifested at puberty. Her physicians thinks it might correct itself when she's in menopause which could be 10 years from now.

Thanks Tank Turner

I guess I was just speaking for myself and my situation after havign babies. Although I can say that I, like your wife, was still horny after the kids were born. They recommend waiting to have sex for 6 weeks after delivery. I think we maybe made it to 2. LOL. So I definitely still wanted sex. I just don't think I could have managed sex with other people. We were living in a bit of a family bubble at that time and would sneak our opportunities when the baby was sleeping. Getting dressed up, going out, being gone for a few hours...it just wouldn't have happened for me then.

[Lookingforadventure]

My wife and I didn't get into the lifestyle until our kids were old enough to watch themselves. When our kids were young I don't know that we could have done it. Having young children takes such a toll on your time and energy that we barely had time for ourselves, much less any interest in the lifestyle.

Phew. I'm glad I'm not the only one that felt that way

[Tank Turner]

Hi Lookingforadventure,

When we began our journey of expanding our sexual activities, my wife targeted young dudes, especially young military dudes. Her rationale was younger dudes with limited to no sexual experience were least likely to have a disease. She loved fucking young studs because their reminded her of her youth when her boyfriends were able to fuck her five times or more. Their sexual inexperience often caused her frustration. I remember her telling a young stud that he had to be more sexually aggressive with her. Young dudes seemed to want blowjobs more than fucking her. They often wanted to cum on her face. She knew that their sexual knowledge was limited to porn. She never objected to young studs cumming on her face because sex was exciting and fun. If it turned them on to cum on her face, she was good. She assured me that it easily washed off.

She said that she was done fucking young studs. She did not want to be their sex teacher. I know her. Given an opportunity, she'd fuck a young stud in a second assuming he passed her vetting process.

Since my wife met Brad, she has not had interest in finding other dudes. Brad is the definition of a studly firefighter. He's 15 years younger that my wife. He's best friends with my sister-in-law's fiancé. All three of us get along perfectly, although my wife is a lot closer to him than I am. Brad is a complete gentleman, yet he can porn star my wife as well as I can. He knows how to sexually satisfy women. He's in excellent health. He has no diseases. He can fuck her five times in a day. Brad has kept my wife off the dude prowl. The irony is my wife routinely tells him that the sexual component of their relationship is finite. She wants him to find a woman his age, get married, and start a family. On the other side, after she came home a couple days ago after fucking Brad in her sister's bed, she told me while we were fucking that she genuinely liked and appreciated Brad. She emphasized that they had incredibly euphoric sex together. He appreciates her blowjobs, but he has never expected her to give him blowjobs.

Brad, my wife, and I will always be friends because he's best friends with my wife's sister's fiancé. Brad and the fiancé are firefighters at the same fire station. We'll assuredly see him at family and firefighter functions for the rest of our lives.

[Tank Turner]

I forgot to add that Brad has an 8 1/2" thick cock, the biggest my wife has ever had. She loves his huge cock.

[Long Lurker 34]

Hi Lookingforadventure,

When we began our journey of expanding our sexual activities, my wife targeted young dudes, especially young military dudes. Her rationale was younger dudes with limited to no sexual experience were least likely to have a disease. She loved fucking young studs because their reminded her of her youth when her boyfriends were able to fuck her five times or more. Their sexual inexperience often caused her frustration. I remember her telling a young stud that he had to be more sexually aggressive with her. Young dudes seemed to want blowjobs more than fucking her. They often wanted to cum on her face. She knew that their sexual knowledge was limited to porn. She never objected to young studs cumming on her face because sex was exciting and fun. If it turned them on to cum on her face, she was good. She assured me that it easily washed off.

She said that she was done fucking young studs. She did not want to be their sex teacher. I know her. Given an opportunity, she'd fuck a young stud in a second assuming he passed her vetting process.

Since my wife met Brad, she has not had interest in finding other dudes. Brad is the definition of a studly firefighter. He's 15 years younger that my wife. He's best friends with my sister-in-law's fiancé. All three of us get along perfectly, although my wife is a lot closer to him than I am. Brad is a complete gentleman, yet he can porn star my wife as well as I can. He knows how to sexually satisfy women. He's in excellent health. He has no diseases. He can fuck her five times in a day. Brad has kept my wife off the dude prowl. The irony is my wife routinely tells him that the sexual component of their relationship is finite. She wants him to find a woman his age, get married, and start a family. On the other side, after she came home a couple days ago after fucking Brad in her sister's bed, she told me while we were fucking that she genuinely liked and appreciated Brad. She emphasized that they had incredibly euphoric sex together. He appreciates her blowjobs, but he has never expected her to give him blowjobs.

Brad, my wife, and I will always be friends because he's best friends with my wife's sister's fiancé. Brad and the fiancé are firefighters at the same fire station. We'll assuredly see him at family and firefighter functions for the rest of our lives.

TT - I could see your wife being one of those "family Aunties". Brad's family and any future wife would probably always sort of scratching their head going "She's always sort of around why?....."

[Bridget_Joshua]

It sounds like you are just at the start of having a family...maybe considering getting pregnant or adopting. I wasn't a hot wife when I was at the stage and someone else who has been through it could probably say more, but I don't think it would have worked for me. Having a baby is a life altering thing that seems to overtake your life for a period of time (the parenting part continues, but eventually you find some balance back). It can be hard to find time to shower or get groceries, lol. I have no idea how I would have found time for sex dates.

Plus, there is a transition for your marriage as you figure out how to not only be lovers and life partners, but also parents. It can take a bit to find the right balance. If you are like me, you might find that you need a temporary break during that phase.

Once you are through that phase, though, I think that good communication and reliable babysitters will be all you need. Just say it is "date night". Or if your wife plays alone, you can watch the kids while she has some "mommy time."

Yes, we are considering getting pregnant. This is what scares Bri the most the transition, being the hot chick around to a sleepless woman who has not been able to shower or other stuff. A temporary break will do the work until the baby gets adjusted with eating & sleeping then Bri will start fucking other men in that window of time ig

[sudhir2701]

To the ladies who have kids. How did you steer this lifestyle juggling between Sexy Hotwife who loves fucking and a Mother. We are planning to start our family and don't want to giveup this lifestyle ever. Do share what you ladies have gone through, tell those ups & downs which we will be facing. It will be helpful.

I have kids with my lover and it's never easy. Each one has to find a balance and family dynamics matter a lot especially in the marriage. Communication is key.

In our case my lover is married to my best friend who has trouble getting it up and having kids.

After kids, it's always difficult. Most times it's sleep that women seek. Then there are feeding and schedules and lastly once a certain age, you do not want them to know.

We manage because we live as neighbours and my lover gets her husband to babysit and works for us but it's a constant shift.

[Jimbo7giveher]

we have on little one. the hotwife outings are mommy and daddys date night. our kid never goes to daycare, we are ranchers...kid is with us all the time. but when we have a date night....kid stays with her aunt. its just a couple of evenings a month. and we dont go for the whole long outing with the bull....its meet up at the hotel and get it on. we are gone four hours tops.

So you are always there with your wife?

not always. but ususally

[Jimbo7giveher]

we have on little one. the hotwife outings are mommy and daddys date night. our kid never goes to daycare, we are ranchers...kid is with us all the time. but when we have a date night....kid stays with her aunt. its just a couple of evenings a month. and we dont go for the whole long outing with the bull....its meet up at the hotel and get it on. we are gone four hours tops.

So you are always there with your wife?

no. sometimes we cant get a sitter and she takes a wifi camera so i can watch. we have talked about her hooking up with no camera or me but she likes the boundaries as they are.

[isinlarsa]

we have on little one. the hotwife outings are mommy and daddys date night. our kid never goes to daycare, we are ranchers...kid is with us all the time. but when we have a date night....kid stays with her aunt. its just a couple of evenings a month. and we dont go for the whole long outing with the bull....its meet up at the hotel and get it on. we are gone four hours tops.

So you are always there with your wife?

no. sometimes we cant get a sitter and she takes a wifi camera so i can watch. we have talked about her hooking up with no camera or me but she likes the boundaries as they are.

The men she's with don't object to the camera?

[Jimbo7giveher]

if they object they dont get to fuck her...

[Long Lurker 34]

To the ladies who have kids. How did you steer this lifestyle juggling between Sexy Hotwife who loves fucking and a Mother. We are planning to start our family and don't want to giveup this lifestyle ever. Do share what you ladies have gone through, tell those ups & downs which we will be facing. It will be helpful.

I have kids with my lover and it's never easy. Each one has to find a balance and family dynamics matter a lot especially in the marriage. Communication is key.

In our case my lover is married to my best friend who has trouble getting it up and having kids.

After kids, it's always difficult. Most times it's sleep that women seek. Then there are feeding and schedules and lastly once a certain age, you do not want them to know.

We manage because we live as neighbours and my lover gets her husband to babysit and works for us but it's a constant shift.

SH2701 - Interesting situation you are part of. Would you be open to relating how this all came about, in your own thread?