Female led relationship ultimatum

[isinlarsa]

Avidly awaiting the next chapter.

[elina]

Dear Kurt.

Thanks for this section.

The fact that Lana decided to marry you after only six months does show that She saw the potential in you as Her long term partner. Clearly you have been infatuated with Her from the very beginning.

At the beginning of this centuary, there was a webpage called www.femalesuperiority.com, it was run by an incredible Lady called Elise Sutton and Her associates. All of these Ladies were practicing Female domination and typically referred to their husbands as their "slave"s. That word seemed to be more accepted 20 years ago than today, allthough they allways emphasized that all of these males were free to leave the relationship at any time. Even if the site is no longer operating, Elise Sutton's books; Female Domination and The Femdom experience are still available at amazon. She would publish articles as well as letters sent in by Her following with Her comments. The objective was to explore Female Domination and male submission in loving relationships.

What you are describing so far very much sounds like a reflection of some of Her key hypothesis. In particular the dynamics whereby when a man submits to a Lady, this will encourage the Lady to step up Her dominance. When the man experiences this, he assumes an even more submissive role in the relationship. Hence, when She at first asks you to bring Her coffee, and you immediately obey, it will stimulate Her to, gently at first perhaps, shift this to more issuing orders than requests. And you will increasingly shift you understanding of anything She says as an order and comply.

Hence it would be natural for Her to keep increasing Her demands, and you would gladly wash Her car and take on all of the Domestic chores She decided since you accepted that this was your natural role in the relationship.

Similarly, when you react by cumming on Her legs when She describes Her previous sexual adventures with males who have bigger cocks and who were able to please Her sexually in ways you are unable to, while I assume you were continuously trained to worship Her Wonderful pussy with your mouth and tongue the way She liked this, it is telling Her that you will submit to Her sexually.

Interestingly, one of Elise Sutton's key lessons was that the most important, but often the most difficult part to implement, to establish a true Female Dominated relationship was that the Dominant Female needed to be in complete control of the couples finances. And as you say; "Later She took care of the financial investments, accounts and bills". And then "Now years later my salary goes directly into her account and she makes sure I don’t spend too much. .... I do have a card for groceries and one for gas so I can still do my chores". So gradually, She increased Her dominance... and you accepted and became more and more submissive.

To me, Lana is a natually dominant Superior Female. Her desire to dominate you may have grown gradually as you submitted to Her requests as She stepped up Her demands. You appear to me to clearly have had latent submissive tendencies from the start. It appears to me that what you are describing is how both of you gradually grew into a relationship where Lana's control continues to increase. I suspect that the "Ultimatum" you will soon get to, is simply another step in this direction; allthough it may very well be a larger step than those that you have described so far.

Sincerely
elina

[subbieCuck]

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Hi, that is now a dead link, sadly.

[Hima]

Looking forward to this thread continueing.
I was cucked by an xgf and Im not in a FLR, but my wife has her DOM moments. Always requires full body massage b4 sex. Expects full body kissing, licking, sucking for nearly an hour while using her toy and pulling my stretchy ball leash with her foot.
I get very limited penis sucking, but she loves to suck hard on, slap and squeeze my balls. Its a pain/pleasure Ive grown acustom to. During piv Im expected to hold back until she instructs me to "CUM NOW AND CUM HARD"
Outside of bed Im very domesticated too. Dont want to hijack this thread so Ill stop there.
Please continue this thread soon. Thanks!

[FLRultimatum]

Part 4

After a golden first period of our relationship we started to experience problems.

Lana had a very hot temper and did not hesitate to go with an impulse to slap me in the face or beat me whatever she had available. She used wooden spoons, a metal shoehorn, electrical cords and d her hair brush. One of her most common moves when she was irritated was to grab me by the balls , really hard, and spit in my face. She always mentioned what I did wrong and that I should start to listen to her. Don’t get me wrong. I loved that she was so assertive and clear with what she wanted. But I realised that it was not sustainable 5hat she was so angry.

One time we got into an argument in the bus on this. She talked with a voice so half the bus we were on noticed:
“You have a serious problem. You need to go see a doctor for premature ejaculation issues.”
“Keep it down please, but yes I know”
“You need to think of something at least. I talked to all my friends about this and it is not normal.”
I was totally ashamed that people heard about this on the bus and even her lady friends! What would the think about me.

Later when we came home I cooked her a good dinner, gave her a shoulder rub in her favourite chair in front of a tv game show. We talked about it again and she said we have to adopt and get real about our sexlife. I promised to go see a doctor. She asked me what was my dreams in sex.
I been thinking about this a lot. And I wanted to be completely honest.
- “just like you I would love if a woman went down on me and gave me a blowjob”.
- “You know I am a low job virgin”. Lana just looked at me and said:
- “With your current condition that is not just possible. You would go off directly as always. You don’t need foreplay. Anything else, Maybe more realistic?”
- “I always fantasise about being dominated. You have become the center of my fantasies. I really loved when you were so assertive the first time we had sex. I feel most comfortable to go along with whatever comes my way” I said.
- “Kurt” she said and took my hands and looked me in the eyes “why do you think I liked you in the first place? You are so obviously submissive and I find this sexy actually. We need to develop that more. You know deep down I have a big sexual appetite”
- “I am so happy you feel that way” I said.

I went to three different doctors to try to fix my problem and the only real solution was a cock ring to hold it back but that was not enough. I was pretty tough on me the whole situation. It was tough for her too. She loved sex and she did whatever she could to enjoy sex with me. Most of the time she had me on the bed lying on my back sitting on my face and have me lick her. Usually while having some porn going on the small shel above the bed. I could tell when she was getting pleased because then she usually started to ride and grind my face. It required a lot of concentration from me to manage not to accidentally hurt her with my teeth. I think that concentration allowed me not to cum but as soon as I touched my cock I came so I always waited until she was satisfied. To my great happiest she started to have longer lovemaking sessions like this where she also came multiple times while fingering the pornIpad. She mentioned that she was chatting on forums that made here really hot as well.

I could also see how much attention other guys where giving here and that made me a bit jealous. She got no less than 12 cards with gifts on Valentine’s Day. I never got anything. She put all of the gifts, including mine, flowers (I did not buy flowers which she commented) and cards on a table and posted on social media:
“I still got it!”. With an image on all the stuff. She also wrote a personal letter to all of the guys with thank you and opening up to meet and have coffee or a glass of wine some day. I really couldn’t understand this. We were married
“You would not mind right? It would only be a couple of glasses of wine. Nothing sexual. “
I was super jealous and thoughts racing inside but I still said:
“No of course not; I am totally cool”
She got me good because she said:
“Good but I would never allow the same for you, on the other hand, would anyone be interested? On the dating market you are a bit of a looser” she said and giggled.

[FLRultimatum]

Looking forward to this thread continueing.
I was cucked by an xgf and Im not in a FLR, but my wife has her DOM moments. Always requires full body massage b4 sex. Expects full body kissing, licking, sucking for nearly an hour while using her toy and pulling my stretchy ball leash with her foot.
I get very limited penis sucking, but she loves to suck hard on, slap and squeeze my balls. Its a pain/pleasure Ive grown acustom to. During piv Im expected to hold back until she instructs me to "CUM NOW AND CUM HARD"
Outside of bed Im very domesticated too. Dont want to hijack this thread so Ill stop there.
Please continue this thread soon. Thanks!

You are very lucky to experience sucking and that she wants you to cum. What would be good ways for her to be more Dom?

[Hima]

Since you asked, sometimes she ll don her thigh high boots, leather gloves & corset then have me get on all 4s as she "walks me" by pulling my stretchy ball leash from behind and whipping my rear with a leather belt. She ll tell me things like " your going to do what I say today, undetstand"!!. We have another routine. If youd like to know, Ill pm you.
One time my beautiful & sexy xgf got mad at me for looking at her Victorias Secret mag. She told me to get naked and sit on floor. 15 mins or so later she came out of bedroom dressed in her leather outfit, big boots and a chain.
She put chain around my neck and demanded! " which model turns you on"? I hesitated but choice one who looked alot like her. She ripped out that page, shoved it in my mouth and said " eat the bitch" while pulling the chain and twisting my nipples.
It really hurt and the ink from page tasted terrible.
Like you said Kurt thats not sustainable. She backed off on that kind of thing, but cucked me which I did submit too. Again, more crazy stuff with her, but Ill pm if your interested.
I hope the bdsm stuff is not out of line for this forum.

[brieflover_2000]

oh wow! what a great read so far. please continue. can't wait to read more.

[LongTermHubby]

Dear Kurt.

Thanks for this section.

The fact that Lana decided to marry you after only six months does show that She saw the potential in you as Her long term partner. Clearly you have been infatuated with Her from the very beginning.

At the beginning of this centuary, there was a webpage called www.femalesuperiority.com, it was run by an incredible Lady called Elise Sutton and Her associates. All of these Ladies were practicing Female domination and typically referred to their husbands as their "slave"s. That word seemed to be more accepted 20 years ago than today, allthough they allways emphasized that all of these males were free to leave the relationship at any time. Even if the site is no longer operating, Elise Sutton's books; Female Domination and The Femdom experience are still available at amazon. She would publish articles as well as letters sent in by Her following with Her comments. The objective was to explore Female Domination and male submission in loving relationships.

What you are describing so far very much sounds like a reflection of some of Her key hypothesis. In particular the dynamics whereby when a man submits to a Lady, this will encourage the Lady to step up Her dominance. When the man experiences this, he assumes an even more submissive role in the relationship. Hence, when She at first asks you to bring Her coffee, and you immediately obey, it will stimulate Her to, gently at first perhaps, shift this to more issuing orders than requests. And you will increasingly shift you understanding of anything She says as an order and comply.

Hence it would be natural for Her to keep increasing Her demands, and you would gladly wash Her car and take on all of the Domestic chores She decided since you accepted that this was your natural role in the relationship.

Similarly, when you react by cumming on Her legs when She describes Her previous sexual adventures with males who have bigger cocks and who were able to please Her sexually in ways you are unable to, while I assume you were continuously trained to worship Her Wonderful pussy with your mouth and tongue the way She liked this, it is telling Her that you will submit to Her sexually.

Interestingly, one of Elise Sutton's key lessons was that the most important, but often the most difficult part to implement, to establish a true Female Dominated relationship was that the Dominant Female needed to be in complete control of the couples finances. And as you say; "Later She took care of the financial investments, accounts and bills". And then "Now years later my salary goes directly into her account and she makes sure I don’t spend too much. .... I do have a card for groceries and one for gas so I can still do my chores". So gradually, She increased Her dominance... and you accepted and became more and more submissive.

To me, Lana is a natually dominant Superior Female. Her desire to dominate you may have grown gradually as you submitted to Her requests as She stepped up Her demands. You appear to me to clearly have had latent submissive tendencies from the start. It appears to me that what you are describing is how both of you gradually grew into a relationship where Lana's control continues to increase. I suspect that the "Ultimatum" you will soon get to, is simply another step in this direction; allthough it may very well be a larger step than those that you have described so far.

Sincerely
elina

My wife bought a copy of Elise Sutton's book many years ago and found it very instructive, particularly the discussion of how the husband's submission feeds the wife's dominance which in turn feeds the husband's submission.

[FLRultimatum]

Dear Kurt.

Thanks for this section.

The fact that Lana decided to marry you after only six months does show that She saw the potential in you as Her long term partner. Clearly you have been infatuated with Her from the very beginning.

At the beginning of this centuary, there was a webpage called www.femalesuperiority.com, it was run by an incredible Lady called Elise Sutton and Her associates. All of these Ladies were practicing Female domination and typically referred to their husbands as their "slave"s. That word seemed to be more accepted 20 years ago than today, allthough they allways emphasized that all of these males were free to leave the relationship at any time. Even if the site is no longer operating, Elise Sutton's books; Female Domination and The Femdom experience are still available at amazon. She would publish articles as well as letters sent in by Her following with Her comments. The objective was to explore Female Domination and male submission in loving relationships.

What you are describing so far very much sounds like a reflection of some of Her key hypothesis. In particular the dynamics whereby when a man submits to a Lady, this will encourage the Lady to step up Her dominance. When the man experiences this, he assumes an even more submissive role in the relationship. Hence, when She at first asks you to bring Her coffee, and you immediately obey, it will stimulate Her to, gently at first perhaps, shift this to more issuing orders than requests. And you will increasingly shift you understanding of anything She says as an order and comply.

Hence it would be natural for Her to keep increasing Her demands, and you would gladly wash Her car and take on all of the Domestic chores She decided since you accepted that this was your natural role in the relationship.

Similarly, when you react by cumming on Her legs when She describes Her previous sexual adventures with males who have bigger cocks and who were able to please Her sexually in ways you are unable to, while I assume you were continuously trained to worship Her Wonderful pussy with your mouth and tongue the way She liked this, it is telling Her that you will submit to Her sexually.

Interestingly, one of Elise Sutton's key lessons was that the most important, but often the most difficult part to implement, to establish a true Female Dominated relationship was that the Dominant Female needed to be in complete control of the couples finances. And as you say; "Later She took care of the financial investments, accounts and bills". And then "Now years later my salary goes directly into her account and she makes sure I don’t spend too much. .... I do have a card for groceries and one for gas so I can still do my chores". So gradually, She increased Her dominance... and you accepted and became more and more submissive.

To me, Lana is a natually dominant Superior Female. Her desire to dominate you may have grown gradually as you submitted to Her requests as She stepped up Her demands. You appear to me to clearly have had latent submissive tendencies from the start. It appears to me that what you are describing is how both of you gradually grew into a relationship where Lana's control continues to increase. I suspect that the "Ultimatum" you will soon get to, is simply another step in this direction; allthough it may very well be a larger step than those that you have described so far.

Sincerely
elina

Dear Elina

Thank you for that analysis. You are clearly superior to me in the ways of relationships and how to understand woman. As I said somewhere, the journey is sort of logical but I did not realize at first how deep either of would go. As mentioned I am really fortunate to have a very sexual wife. She is actually much more sexual than me and expresses frustration (like I hear that men do) when nor getting sex. I honk that was the key to me just following her demands and falling deeper in love. And also becoming more obedient. I did not do this before but as you say the whole journey was very natural. And I would not have it any other way. I guess I don’t have a choice to be cuckold or not. I just need to adapt like any other step. But Lana told me yesterday that she also don’t have a choice. We started this path and now there is no other way.

And your assumption about me submitting to her sexually. I would say that she actually expects me to go down on her every time we have sex but have never done that for me. On the other hand I love to please Lana both in daily life and sex. She says I should feel honoured to lick her pussy and I truly am. It is our normal and I am not that comfortable trying to perform intercourse with her. Should I tell her that I would like to worship her? Maybe she would find that hot.

So yes, her demands have increased but it was just small steps every time. Maybe cuckolding me is not such a big step after all.

Btw thanks for not judging Lana like some of my friends. She is as you say Elina, natural dominant. I actually searched for that when hoocking up online. I did get more than expected.

[FLRultimatum]

Dear Kurt.

Thanks for this section.

The fact that Lana decided to marry you after only six months does show that She saw the potential in you as Her long term partner. Clearly you have been infatuated with Her from the very beginning.

At the beginning of this centuary, there was a webpage called www.femalesuperiority.com, it was run by an incredible Lady called Elise Sutton and Her associates. All of these Ladies were practicing Female domination and typically referred to their husbands as their "slave"s. That word seemed to be more accepted 20 years ago than today, allthough they allways emphasized that all of these males were free to leave the relationship at any time. Even if the site is no longer operating, Elise Sutton's books; Female Domination and The Femdom experience are still available at amazon. She would publish articles as well as letters sent in by Her following with Her comments. The objective was to explore Female Domination and male submission in loving relationships.

What you are describing so far very much sounds like a reflection of some of Her key hypothesis. In particular the dynamics whereby when a man submits to a Lady, this will encourage the Lady to step up Her dominance. When the man experiences this, he assumes an even more submissive role in the relationship. Hence, when She at first asks you to bring Her coffee, and you immediately obey, it will stimulate Her to, gently at first perhaps, shift this to more issuing orders than requests. And you will increasingly shift you understanding of anything She says as an order and comply.

Hence it would be natural for Her to keep increasing Her demands, and you would gladly wash Her car and take on all of the Domestic chores She decided since you accepted that this was your natural role in the relationship.

Similarly, when you react by cumming on Her legs when She describes Her previous sexual adventures with males who have bigger cocks and who were able to please Her sexually in ways you are unable to, while I assume you were continuously trained to worship Her Wonderful pussy with your mouth and tongue the way She liked this, it is telling Her that you will submit to Her sexually.

Interestingly, one of Elise Sutton's key lessons was that the most important, but often the most difficult part to implement, to establish a true Female Dominated relationship was that the Dominant Female needed to be in complete control of the couples finances. And as you say; "Later She took care of the financial investments, accounts and bills". And then "Now years later my salary goes directly into her account and she makes sure I don’t spend too much. .... I do have a card for groceries and one for gas so I can still do my chores". So gradually, She increased Her dominance... and you accepted and became more and more submissive.

To me, Lana is a natually dominant Superior Female. Her desire to dominate you may have grown gradually as you submitted to Her requests as She stepped up Her demands. You appear to me to clearly have had latent submissive tendencies from the start. It appears to me that what you are describing is how both of you gradually grew into a relationship where Lana's control continues to increase. I suspect that the "Ultimatum" you will soon get to, is simply another step in this direction; allthough it may very well be a larger step than those that you have described so far.

Sincerely
elina

My wife bought a copy of Elise Sutton's book many years ago and found it very instructive, particularly the discussion of how the husband's submission feeds the wife's dominance which in turn feeds the husband's submission.

Thanks for confirming. I see that as a reading suggestion. Should I get one copy for my wife only or should we read together?

[FLRultimatum]

Part 5

She also talked about her business trips. She had one guy reporting to her that she needed to have late vending meeting with and on those they usually stepped out for some dinner. He was younger but handsome, she told me looks is a criteria to get hired or a hike. That goes for men as well when reporting to female superiors. Beautiful people are more successful. She old me that they are very casual when going out and he is a real gentleman to pull out her chair and open doors for her but also that they talk about their favourite porn clips. That seemed very odd to me. You don’t talk about porn at work. Even I did not know all of her taste in porn. It seemed like both are equally porn addicted. She told me she is a free spirited woman and that I should be happy the she is soo sexual. She also teased me being jealous about it. I could help being aroused.

One of those porn categories she confessed to her colleague is “monster cocks with high stamina”. Needless to say I felt both jealous and ashamed of my manhood, or should I say boyhood. But at the same time it helped her sexlife. I started using a really big black monster dildo as well as kissing her feet as foreplay. I felt that was kind of safe from a performance perspective since my dick was not involved.

I was also really desperate to do something about my premature ejaculation because Lana was cristal clear, sex had been better with all other guys but one and he turned gay later on. I talked to my friend Lennart and he was very supportive and told me in the meantime (while you fix your problem ) you need to compensate on other areas. Not only sex.

The business trips was also a booster for our sexlife. For example she told me when coming back from Madrid once:
“I am preparing dinner tonight so no need to cook! Just set the table”
Then we she came home she was all worked up kissing me passionately directly when coming in to the house (that very not very common). Then she sat on the table and pulled her squirt, got a bottle of spray cream from her purse and sprayed across her pussy.
“Dinner is served pussyboi, hihi”, she said in a very playful way. The cream was all salty from her pussy juices.
We both came at the same time as I was jerking off. that was the first time for us, coming at the same time. I don’t remember it ever happening afterwards as well.
“Good pussyboi” was the final comment.

It turned out she already had a meal at the lounge with the CEO of a big customer and thought she would play me a bit. She asked me to sleep in the floor beside the bed since was tired after the trip and wanted to get a good night sleep.

[LongTermHubby]

Dear Kurt.

Thanks for this section.

The fact that Lana decided to marry you after only six months does show that She saw the potential in you as Her long term partner. Clearly you have been infatuated with Her from the very beginning.

At the beginning of this centuary, there was a webpage called www.femalesuperiority.com, it was run by an incredible Lady called Elise Sutton and Her associates. All of these Ladies were practicing Female domination and typically referred to their husbands as their "slave"s. That word seemed to be more accepted 20 years ago than today, allthough they allways emphasized that all of these males were free to leave the relationship at any time. Even if the site is no longer operating, Elise Sutton's books; Female Domination and The Femdom experience are still available at amazon. She would publish articles as well as letters sent in by Her following with Her comments. The objective was to explore Female Domination and male submission in loving relationships.

What you are describing so far very much sounds like a reflection of some of Her key hypothesis. In particular the dynamics whereby when a man submits to a Lady, this will encourage the Lady to step up Her dominance. When the man experiences this, he assumes an even more submissive role in the relationship. Hence, when She at first asks you to bring Her coffee, and you immediately obey, it will stimulate Her to, gently at first perhaps, shift this to more issuing orders than requests. And you will increasingly shift you understanding of anything She says as an order and comply.

Hence it would be natural for Her to keep increasing Her demands, and you would gladly wash Her car and take on all of the Domestic chores She decided since you accepted that this was your natural role in the relationship.

Similarly, when you react by cumming on Her legs when She describes Her previous sexual adventures with males who have bigger cocks and who were able to please Her sexually in ways you are unable to, while I assume you were continuously trained to worship Her Wonderful pussy with your mouth and tongue the way She liked this, it is telling Her that you will submit to Her sexually.

Interestingly, one of Elise Sutton's key lessons was that the most important, but often the most difficult part to implement, to establish a true Female Dominated relationship was that the Dominant Female needed to be in complete control of the couples finances. And as you say; "Later She took care of the financial investments, accounts and bills". And then "Now years later my salary goes directly into her account and she makes sure I don’t spend too much. .... I do have a card for groceries and one for gas so I can still do my chores". So gradually, She increased Her dominance... and you accepted and became more and more submissive.

To me, Lana is a natually dominant Superior Female. Her desire to dominate you may have grown gradually as you submitted to Her requests as She stepped up Her demands. You appear to me to clearly have had latent submissive tendencies from the start. It appears to me that what you are describing is how both of you gradually grew into a relationship where Lana's control continues to increase. I suspect that the "Ultimatum" you will soon get to, is simply another step in this direction; allthough it may very well be a larger step than those that you have described so far.

Sincerely
elina

My wife bought a copy of Elise Sutton's book many years ago and found it very instructive, particularly the discussion of how the husband's submission feeds the wife's dominance which in turn feeds the husband's submission.

Thanks for confirming. I see that as a reading suggestion. Should I get one copy for my wife only or should we read together?

I would suggest you read it together.

[MartasBoy]

Female led relationship ultimatum

I have a fairly long story to tell before I come to the point. I hope that some of you will be patient enough to read. I need to put down the context first and then ask a bit for advice. I currently live in a female led relationship, with many BDSM aspects to it. My wife has set an ultimatum for me. Basically it boils down to a semi open relationship where she will meet other men. I have the full register of emotions and I have I have been given a month to accept, embrace and support ger choice to cuckold me. It is all very logical and deep down I fully support her already and I am very grateful for being allowed sometime to adapt. Hence I come here to get some advice. I divide this into different part because in order to get advice I need to tell about our journey. Thanks in advance anyone who reads and help me out.


I Will be a cuckold before August begins.

What other choice do you have? She knows what she wants and intends to have it. You can cooperate with it, or possibly lose her. Enjoy the journey.

[elina]

Dear Kurt.

Thanks for this section.

The fact that Lana decided to marry you after only six months does show that She saw the potential in you as Her long term partner. Clearly you have been infatuated with Her from the very beginning.

At the beginning of this centuary, there was a webpage called www.femalesuperiority.com, it was run by an incredible Lady called Elise Sutton and Her associates. All of these Ladies were practicing Female domination and typically referred to their husbands as their "slave"s. That word seemed to be more accepted 20 years ago than today, allthough they allways emphasized that all of these males were free to leave the relationship at any time. Even if the site is no longer operating, Elise Sutton's books; Female Domination and The Femdom experience are still available at amazon. She would publish articles as well as letters sent in by Her following with Her comments. The objective was to explore Female Domination and male submission in loving relationships.

What you are describing so far very much sounds like a reflection of some of Her key hypothesis. In particular the dynamics whereby when a man submits to a Lady, this will encourage the Lady to step up Her dominance. When the man experiences this, he assumes an even more submissive role in the relationship. Hence, when She at first asks you to bring Her coffee, and you immediately obey, it will stimulate Her to, gently at first perhaps, shift this to more issuing orders than requests. And you will increasingly shift you understanding of anything She says as an order and comply.

Hence it would be natural for Her to keep increasing Her demands, and you would gladly wash Her car and take on all of the Domestic chores She decided since you accepted that this was your natural role in the relationship.

Similarly, when you react by cumming on Her legs when She describes Her previous sexual adventures with males who have bigger cocks and who were able to please Her sexually in ways you are unable to, while I assume you were continuously trained to worship Her Wonderful pussy with your mouth and tongue the way She liked this, it is telling Her that you will submit to Her sexually.

Interestingly, one of Elise Sutton's key lessons was that the most important, but often the most difficult part to implement, to establish a true Female Dominated relationship was that the Dominant Female needed to be in complete control of the couples finances. And as you say; "Later She took care of the financial investments, accounts and bills". And then "Now years later my salary goes directly into her account and she makes sure I don’t spend too much. .... I do have a card for groceries and one for gas so I can still do my chores". So gradually, She increased Her dominance... and you accepted and became more and more submissive.

To me, Lana is a natually dominant Superior Female. Her desire to dominate you may have grown gradually as you submitted to Her requests as She stepped up Her demands. You appear to me to clearly have had latent submissive tendencies from the start. It appears to me that what you are describing is how both of you gradually grew into a relationship where Lana's control continues to increase. I suspect that the "Ultimatum" you will soon get to, is simply another step in this direction; allthough it may very well be a larger step than those that you have described so far.

Sincerely
elina

My wife bought a copy of Elise Sutton's book many years ago and found it very instructive, particularly the discussion of how the husband's submission feeds the wife's dominance which in turn feeds the husband's submission.

Thanks for confirming. I see that as a reading suggestion. Should I get one copy for my wife only or should we read together?

I would propose that Your Mistress selects in which order to read the chapters, you each read that chapter on your own but Mistress Lana should instruct you before reading that you need to inform Her after each chapter what you learned from that chapter with respect to how you can serve Her better.

You should be nude on your knees in front of Her when you make your report.
I suspect She is already familiar with the saying; "The boy may lie but his dick will not".
It should be fun for both of you and I think it will make you bond even more as Mistresss and slave through such an exercise than simply reading it together.

Sincerely
elina

[LongTermHubby]

The book is called "Female Domination" and is 298 pages. It covers a wide variety of topics. Only one chapter deals explictly with cuckolding although that chapter ties in cuckolding with other aspects of female domination.

[Tank Turner]

Hi FLRUltimatum,

You're a very lucky man. Many men are married to women who view sex as an obligation.

As I've matured, I have come to believe that women's sexuality is comprised of many facets with hormones being the dominant facet.

Women who have experienced the magical elation of sexual euphoria caused by orgasm crave sex at least as much as men if not more. Women in their sexual primes have an enviable advantage over men. My wife does not know how many orgasms she could have during a 24 hour period. I know she can get 12 over an afternoon of sex. She's addicted to oral sex orgasms. Women's orgasms have proven medical and psychological benefits. Women who orgasm a lot later in their lives live longer and are healthier.

Women having varying libidos, which is probably due to hormones but environmental factors could influence sexual desire. Women who were raised in homes where sex was repressed and hidden might permit their formative years environments rule their sexual activity.

My wife knows woman and has known women who did not like sex. Some tried to excuse their way out of having sex with their husbands. Some might have had physical infirmities. My guess most had irrational psychological phobias to sex.

My wife loves sex. But she is not dominant. In fact, she is and has always been sexually submissive. She believes men should be sexually dominant.

My wife and I had sex on the evening of our first date. It was obvious that she was extremely sexually confident and experienced. I was immediately enamored of her sexual confidence and mind-blowing sexual skills and talents. She told me that sex was as normal and natural a human function as any other human function. She told me she loved sex and craved sex for physical euphoria. She said she determined when she had sex, not society. She did not hide that she was far beyond normally sexually active. During our early conversations I knew that she was the most sexually enlightened woman I had ever been with. She would never comport her sexual desires to imposed beliefs.

The first month or so of our relationship was strictly booty calling. After another incredible sexual romp with her, we got into an extremely deep philosophical and intellectual conversation. I was as impressed with her intelligence as I was with her exquisite sexual skills and talents. We agreed to become exclusive. During that conversation, she told me that I was obligated as her boyfriend to keep her in sexual euphoria.

Around the same time, she revealed that she had an endocrine system abnormality that is fairly common with girls in puberty. Her adrenal gland would release excess testosterone into her system causing her to crave sex. Her physician thinks her endocrine system abnormality might cure itself when she reaches menopause. Until then, she can hit phases where she'll crave sex for a week or longer. Hence, she always had a boyfriend or a male friend who helped her through periods of unrestrained sexual desire. It was also around that time that she told me that she had very high IQ. She said that most men she dated were intimidated by her intelligence, so she rarely revealed it.

My mother-in-law noticed symptoms in my wife's appearance and behavior during puberty that caused her to be concerned. She took my wife to her pediatrician who had my wife tested for everything. The diagnosis was an endocrine system abnormality. Fortunately for my wife's parents, she was prescribed birth control as treatment which didn't treat her condition. It did prevent her from becoming pregnant.

Your posts indicate that your wife and my wife are two of a kind except my wife is sexually submissive. Love and support her, even enjoy her elevated sexuality. As we know, there are many husbands who wish they were married to our wives.

[Tank Turner]

Some interesting info: my wife has 2 girlfriends who've done gang bangs. One is married. Her and her husband are swingers. My wife is closest to the married one. She's the only person my wife has told that she fucks men besides me. Both women have told my wife that she should experience at least one gang bang.

My wife has had a gang bang fantasy longer than she can remember. Her girlfriends did not create her gang bang fantasy. They influenced her. She wants to try at least one gang bang. It's a fantasy that she'll probably never experience.

For a while, we watched gang bang porn when we could. My wife could see the attraction. She told me that women love being the center of attention.

While watching gang bang porn, she told me she'd want six dudes to gang bang her, including me. She always wants me involved. I asked how she came up with six dudes. She said that six dudes would be the most she could manage at one time. Curious, I asked her how many men she thought she could keep in sexual ecstasy at one time. She thought for about a minute before finally replying, "I don't know."

I know my wife when she's hyper-horny and can't be fucked enough. When her endocrine system is imbalanced and because she's in her sexual prime, I know that she was honest when she told me she didn't know how many men she could gang bang.

I'd rather be married to a woman like my wife is than a woman who is closed to expanded sexual experiences.

[FLRultimatum]

Ok so would you be ok Wien she fulfills ger fantasy? It would be a shake not to pursue ber dreams

[FLRultimatum]

Hi FLRUltimatum,

You're a very lucky man. Many men are married to women who view sex as an obligation.

As I've matured, I have come to believe that women's sexuality is comprised of many facets with hormones being the dominant facet.

Women who have experienced the magical elation of sexual euphoria caused by orgasm crave sex at least as much as men if not more. Women in their sexual primes have an enviable advantage over men. My wife does not know how many orgasms she could have during a 24 hour period. I know she can get 12 over an afternoon of sex. She's addicted to oral sex orgasms. Women's orgasms have proven medical and psychological benefits. Women who orgasm a lot later in their lives live longer and are healthier.

Women having varying libidos, which is probably due to hormones but environmental factors could influence sexual desire. Women who were raised in homes where sex was repressed and hidden might permit their formative years environments rule their sexual activity.

My wife knows woman and has known women who did not like sex. Some tried to excuse their way out of having sex with their husbands. Some might have had physical infirmities. My guess most had irrational psychological phobias to sex.

My wife loves sex. But she is not dominant. In fact, she is and has always been sexually submissive. She believes men should be sexually dominant.

My wife and I had sex on the evening of our first date. It was obvious that she was extremely sexually confident and experienced. I was immediately enamored of her sexual confidence and mind-blowing sexual skills and talents. She told me that sex was as normal and natural a human function as any other human function. She told me she loved sex and craved sex for physical euphoria. She said she determined when she had sex, not society. She did not hide that she was far beyond normally sexually active. During our early conversations I knew that she was the most sexually enlightened woman I had ever been with. She would never comport her sexual desires to imposed beliefs.

The first month or so of our relationship was strictly booty calling. After another incredible sexual romp with her, we got into an extremely deep philosophical and intellectual conversation. I was as impressed with her intelligence as I was with her exquisite sexual skills and talents. We agreed to become exclusive. During that conversation, she told me that I was obligated as her boyfriend to keep her in sexual euphoria.

Around the same time, she revealed that she had an endocrine system abnormality that is fairly common with girls in puberty. Her adrenal gland would release excess testosterone into her system causing her to crave sex. Her physician thinks her endocrine system abnormality might cure itself when she reaches menopause. Until then, she can hit phases where she'll crave sex for a week or longer. Hence, she always had a boyfriend or a male friend who helped her through periods of unrestrained sexual desire. It was also around that time that she told me that she had very high IQ. She said that most men she dated were intimidated by her intelligence, so she rarely revealed it.

My mother-in-law noticed symptoms in my wife's appearance and behavior during puberty that caused her to be concerned. She took my wife to her pediatrician who had my wife tested for everything. The diagnosis was an endocrine system abnormality. Fortunately for my wife's parents, she was prescribed birth control as treatment which didn't treat her condition. It did prevent her from becoming pregnant.

Your posts indicate that your wife and my wife are two of a kind except my wife is sexually submissive. Love and support her, even enjoy her elevated sexuality. As we know, there are many husbands who wish they were married to our wives.

Hi and thanks for sharing. Yes it is a virtue to have a sexual wife. My wife is much more into sex than I am. Actually my wife also loves to submit (as you Will leran morse about) but not to me. She nerver did and nerver Will. Is there and way to Measure libido?

One comment Aldo is the culture in Sweden. The sexual freedom for woken gas Been politcal since the 60ties and Female are taught in Scholes and by parentes to go for their own wishes

[FLRultimatum]

I did not finish the context on time but I Will tell you the ultimatum

I had to embrace the facit that she would cuckold me, entourage ger and be creative. Come up with ideal and wirte dating profiles that also way humiliating. I have Done that and Lanais happy with me now.

I Can post the Adidasbyxor someone isintrested

[elina]

......... I have Done that and Lana is happy with me now.

Good for you!!!

I Can post the Adidasbyxor someone isintrested

I did not understand that?
Can you explain please?

elina

[Tank Turner]

Hi FLRultimatum,

When it comes to sex, my wife considers herself more European than American. My wife thinks Americans have anachronistic beliefs about sex and nudity. She loves to be naked. There are no legal nude beaches in California. However, there are a few where public nudity laws are not enforced. She did a nude beach a lot during the summer of her 19th year with her then boyfriend. She loved it. She said it's natural to be naked on beaches that are reserved for adults. She'd be in paradise on a European nude beach. She loves Europe's open sexuality. She thinks it's immature and not natural for adults to hide their sexuality. Like most American women, she loves European men's accents.

Most Americans don't know that our culture is an extension of European culture. But for some reason, we left out Europe's realistic sexual culture.

Scandinavian men are studs, and Scandinavian women are the gold standard of beautiful women.

Vikings were in North America long before Columbus was born. Hence, the USA could have been claimed by Scandinavians long before the British claimed it.

[Tank Turner]

Good for you!!!


elina

I complete agree. Happy wife, happy marriage...

[Tank Turner]

BTW FLRultamatium,

Women in their sexual primes who've experienced body-trembling, earth-shattering, incredibly intensive orgasmic euphoria crave sex at least as much as men if not more. Women in their sexual primes have a huge biological sexual advantage over men. They can orgasm all night long and orgasms give them medically proven benefits. Women who orgasm a lot every day live longer, are healthier, and happier than less fortunate women and men. Oxytocin is a life enhancing chemical that women's brains release upon orgasm. Men do not produce that wonder chemical.