Women that don't show their pussy to their husband or primary partner

[sana9889]

I've been married for 10 years now. My husband I are really close and all. But more like a BFf or sister.
I do not let him look between my legs. The first few times we had sex, yes.. Beyond that, I had never felt comfortable with it.

With sex, he is nude with his cute little nub all swollen between his legs, and balls hanging off them. I would grind on it till he cums wearing something covering me like a gown or skirt, or panties to a side. Hes be better off with a vagina and clit. His nub would make the most perfect clit. And he has good hips too.

We stopped having sex at all 3 or 4 years ago.

I have has sex with plenty of men and women in this time, and before i married him, but have no problem with nudity and showing my hairy pussy off.
I know its a good one. Especially from behind. I have a round butt. And nice thick full lips and hanging clit. A tempting mound that extends pretty low close to my butt hole.
I love showing it off to other partners that I would have sex with or even potentially.

To other girls here. What makes us like this?
I have had 2 other boyfriends (and one girlfriend) I have been like this with. It was always CFNM. (At least my husband gets to see the rest of me naked- these guys didnt even get tits) They were the perfect guys to come home to after a rough or hot date. They still got plenty of hugs and kisses.

Thinking back to dorms and changerooms. Girls dont mind stripping down to panties and bra. Even talking and walking or sitting around comfortably. But very rarely do we show our bush off. Same with bffs. Wel watch movies together in panties and teeshirt. Even masturbate together. But its either hands in panties or hands on top of panties- not panties off. Panties off raises eyebrows. (in front of me its an invitation.. im into girls more than guys)

I caught my husband looking between my legs few time. Looking at my dark panty mound. I instinctively cross my legs.

What makes us treat these sweet guys like this?

How do guys who experience this feel?
Do you still yearn to see your girls muff?
What do you feel when you are constantly denied visual? Do you find other outlets like porn, hookers or strippers?
Did you become accustomed to it slowly, or you never asked for pussy so you never got it.

Is your dick generally on the smallish side?
How does it feel being naked around a fully clothed women? Do you stay soft in this state?

(Soft naked cocks are my fav when im clothed. Feels like I won)

[slowsteady]

I understand these feelings to be common with the majority of women. It makes sense.

It seems that you have chosen a man with an uninspiring penis and maybe less than average alpha tendencies. That's cool. It works quite nicely in some situations like this. A potential trade off here may be the fact that a more alpha male could possibly become more work for less pleasure.

Sounds like you have a good thing going for yourself.

[submissivedanny]

I see my wife's pussy a lot. We don't have sex because she saves that for her BF but in between she makes me eat her pussy when she doesn't see her BF.

[sana9889]

I understand these feelings to be common with the majority of women. It makes sense.

It seems that you have chosen a man with an uninspiring penis and maybe less than average alpha tendencies. That's cool. It works quite nicely in some situations like this. A potential trade off here may be the fact that a more alpha male could possibly become more work for less pleasure.

Sounds like you have a good thing going for yourself.

I really love his penis. Its perfect for our girly bff marriage. I wish it had a deep hole to go with it instead of those ugly balls.

I honestly think we would be like this even if he had an 8 incher.

Just feels lie it makes sense to be like this with your sisters or bffs. Sisters dont show each other their pussies. Neither do bffs.
Girly talk can be dirty, hot and steamy. Girls even masturbate together while talking but keep it covered up. Its dignity, modesty and self respect. We generally dont just flop it out for a cidcle jerk like guys do.

[slowsteady]

I understand these feelings to be common with the majority of women. It makes sense.

It seems that you have chosen a man with an uninspiring penis and maybe less than average alpha tendencies. That's cool. It works quite nicely in some situations like this. A potential trade off here may be the fact that a more alpha male could possibly become more work for less pleasure.

Sounds like you have a good thing going for yourself.

I really love his penis. Its perfect for our girly bff marriage. I wish it had a deep hole to go with it instead of those ugly balls.

I honestly think we would be like this even if he had an 8 incher.

Just feels lie it makes sense to be like this with your sisters or bffs. Sisters dont show each other their pussies. Neither do bffs.
Girly talk can be dirty, hot and steamy.Girls even masturbate together while talking but keep it covered up. Its dignity, modesty and self respect. We generally dont just flop it out for a cidcle jerk like guys do.

Like I said, I fully understand where you are coming from. What I don't believe is that you understand 90%+ men DO NOT ever play with their pud in the presence of other men! Most guys on sites like this are masturbating losers whose wives won't deign to allow their husbands access to their holes. Women have girl friends and bff's. They generally seek REAL men to complement their relationships.

[Ghalilaeus]

This, plus chastity, would be my ideal relationship. I prefer shaven pussy, even not being able to look at it but knowing Her lovers enjoy the smooth skin.
I had some relationship like this, they didn't last but it is a definite goal.

[sana9889]

I understand these feelings to be common with the majority of women. It makes sense.

It seems that you have chosen a man with an uninspiring penis and maybe less than average alpha tendencies. That's cool. It works quite nicely in some situations like this. A potential trade off here may be the fact that a more alpha male could possibly become more work for less pleasure.

Sounds like you have a good thing going for yourself.

I really love his penis. Its perfect for our girly bff marriage. I wish it had a deep hole to go with it instead of those ugly balls.

I honestly think we would be like this even if he had an 8 incher.

Just feels lie it makes sense to be like this with your sisters or bffs. Sisters dont show each other their pussies. Neither do bffs.
Girly talk can be dirty, hot and steamy.Girls even masturbate together while talking but keep it covered up. Its dignity, modesty and self respect. We generally dont just flop it out for a cidcle jerk like guys do.

Like I said, I fully understand where you are coming from. What I don't believe is that you understand 90%+ men DO NOT ever play with their pud in the presence of other men! Most guys on sites like this are masturbating losers whose wives won't deign to allow their husbands access to their holes. Women have girl friends and bff's. They generally seek REAL men to complement their relationships.

What about at strip shows or bachelor parties? At hens parties there will be a lot of girls with hands on their muffs.
But not pussies out unless she wants to get fucked. That does happen.

[airhorn]

Like I said, I fully understand where you are coming from. What I don't believe is that you understand 90%+ men DO NOT ever play with their pud in the presence of other men! Most guys on sites like this are masturbating losers whose wives won't deign to allow their husbands access to their holes. Women have girl friends and bff's. They generally seek REAL men to complement their relationships.

What about at strip shows or bachelor parties? At hens parties there will be a lot of girls with hands on their muffs.
But not pussies out unless she wants to get fucked. That does happen.

I haven't attended many strip shows or bachelor parties, but the ones I have been at, every man kept it in his pants.

Getting caught wanking at one of these events is even more than being at one of these events.

[Bent_n_Twisted]

How do guys who experience this feel?
Do you still yearn to see your girls muff?

My wife loves to show me everything...especially when she has my cock in the cage and I can't do anything...and have me lick and suck wherever she wants.

Is your dick generally on the smallish side?
How does it feel being naked around a fully clothed women? Do you stay soft in this state?

My cock is on the better end of 'average'.

Although not required to be 'naked' all the time (climate is not conducive to it), when caged she usually requires it to be out and exposed for easy access at all times, so that she can tease it or slap my balls as punishment, and to keep me reminded that she is in control of it. I feel a certain amount of humiliation at being required to have my [caged] cock and balls on display at all times. It does not stay soft, it often gets as erect as it can get in the cage, she enjoys seeing it swollen and straining in its confinement, knowing that I can't do anything with it until and unless she decides otherwise. If it is not already hard and straining she will often tease it a little to make it so, so that she can enjoy my frustration.

[inivisibletwin]

my wife and i have had this type of pussy-denial dynamic for many years. Over the years it has gotten more and more extreme, till now we are at the point were I am only allowed to see or touch my wife's vagina once a year, on our wedding anniversary. it's been that way for the past few years now... meanwhile her boyfriend (who we share an apartment with) has "husband level access" to it, meaning he has it all he wants.

it was my wife's idea, all those years ago, to start denying me. early on we set up a rule, she must always have another guy who gets it more than I do. that's been a fun rule to abide by!

after so many years of being denied access to my wife's vagina, while other guys get it, i have gotten to the point where I am happy with this arrangement, I accept that it's not for me and don't even try to look at it. in fact, I actually get pretty turned on when other guys get what I'm not allowed to have!

my wife and I have a really strong relationship, a normal happy marriage, outside of the bedroom. In every other aspect of our lives! we are happy together, we still cuddle and make out, and are very close. and we do still fool around, but when ever we do she wears panties, because her vagina belongs to her boyfriend, not me.

as far as my cock size, length wise I'm about average (i havent actually measured) but I am thicker than normal, which means I'm less sensitive than normal. it takes a bit more effort to get me off than most. I don't know if this has anything to do with my wife denying me access to her vagina, but i know her boyfriend's cock is not as thick as mine, but is longer... I also know she likes to play with my cock and with his, casually, like they are her favorite fidget toys haha

anyway, I love that I am not allowed to see or touch my wife's vagina, my wife loves it, and her boyfriend loves it! so, regardless of the why, we are just gonna keep enjoying it!

[Long Lurker 34]

my wife and i have had this type of pussy-denial dynamic for many years. Over the years it has gotten more and more extreme, till now we are at the point were I am only allowed to see or touch my wife's vagina once a year, on our wedding anniversary. it's been that way for the past few years now... meanwhile her boyfriend (who we share an apartment with) has "husband level access" to it, meaning he has it all he wants.

it was my wife's idea, all those years ago, to start denying me. early on we set up a rule, she must always have another guy who gets it more than I do. that's been a fun rule to abide by!

after so many years of being denied access to my wife's vagina, while other guys get it, i have gotten to the point where I am happy with this arrangement, I accept that it's not for me and don't even try to look at it. in fact, I actually get pretty turned on when other guys get what I'm not allowed to have!

my wife and I have a really strong relationship, a normal happy marriage, outside of the bedroom. In every other aspect of our lives! we are happy together, we still cuddle and make out, and are very close. and we do still fool around, but when ever we do she wears panties, because her vagina belongs to her boyfriend, not me.

as far as my cock size, length wise I'm about average (i havent actually measured) but I am thicker than normal, which means I'm less sensitive than normal. it takes a bit more effort to get me off than most. I don't know if this has anything to do with my wife denying me access to her vagina, but i know her boyfriend's cock is not as thick as mine, but is longer... I also know she likes to play with my cock and with his, casually, like they are her favorite fidget toys haha

anyway, I love that I am not allowed to see or touch my wife's vagina, my wife loves it, and her boyfriend loves it! so, regardless of the why, we are just gonna keep enjoying it!

IT
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- Now if only more women thought of 'them' like she does.

[sana9889]

Do you her vagina. Its made to give pleasure. And other men are enjoyinf it. How does it make you feel? You csnt even ennoy its beauty.

[sana9889]

You may not realise it, but it actually means he is much closer to you than you realise. Like family sister like.

You may find as you develop and get closer she may be less sexual with you. Are you allowed other outlets for release?

Its important that you encourage her to get plenty of sex and validation outside with other men. Its important for her. Women need cum for chemical balance. Even if she doesnt get an orgasm.

You sound really sweet. Im sure you take great care of her.

[inivisibletwin]

as far as my cock size, length wise I'm about average (i havent actually measured) but I am thicker than normal, which means I'm less sensitive than normal. it takes a bit more effort to get me off than most. I don't know if this has anything to do with my wife denying me access to her vagina, but i know her boyfriend's cock is not as thick as mine, but is longer... I also know she likes to play with my cock and with his, casually, like they are her favorite fidget toys haha

IT
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- Now if only more women thought of 'them' like she does.

haha it's quiet an interesting effect. it's like an idle hands thing. it pretty common for her to be sitting with me, or her boyfriend, either on the couch or laying in bed, and be scrolling with one hand, and casually / mindlessly playing with our dick with the other, for hours on end, without being enough to get us off.

ive gone through entire movies with her mindlessly playing with my dick, without getting off, many times. After which she just goes on to the next thing, like it was nothing. or if we are in bed together and she does it she'll literally fall asleep with my dick in her hand... and same with her boyfriend.

it's surprising how little i actually cum, compared to how often she plays with it. she literally calls it her favorite fidget toy.

that combined with her constant nudity, and regular sexual activity, and im basically always horny haha

[Long Lurker 34]

as far as my cock size, length wise I'm about average (i havent actually measured) but I am thicker than normal, which means I'm less sensitive than normal. it takes a bit more effort to get me off than most. I don't know if this has anything to do with my wife denying me access to her vagina, but i know her boyfriend's cock is not as thick as mine, but is longer... I also know she likes to play with my cock and with his, casually, like they are her favorite fidget toys haha

IT
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- Now if only more women thought of 'them' like she does.

haha it's quiet an interesting effect. it's like an idle hands thing. it pretty common for her to be sitting with me, or her boyfriend, either on the couch or laying in bed, and be scrolling with one hand, and casually / mindlessly playing with our dick with the other, for hours on end, without being enough to get us off.

ive gone through entire movies with her mindlessly playing with my dick, without getting off, many times. After which she just goes on to the next thing, like it was nothing. or if we are in bed together and she does it she'll literally fall asleep with my dick in her hand... and same with her boyfriend.

it's surprising how little i actually cum, compared to how often she plays with it. she literally calls it her favorite fidget toy.

that combined with her constant nudity, and regular sexual activity, and im basically always horny haha

IT
- Ok, now you've got visualizing her at work sitting at her desk reading some document and mindlessly fiddling with a dildo she has for the purpose in her desk drawer.

[HOUSEBOY]

I've been married for 10 years now. My husband I are really close and all. But more like a BFf or sister.
I do not let him look between my legs. The first few times we had sex, yes.. Beyond that, I had never felt comfortable with it.

With sex, he is nude with his cute little nub all swollen between his legs, and balls hanging off them. I would grind on it till he cums wearing something covering me like a gown or skirt, or panties to a side. Hes be better off with a vagina and clit. His nub would make the most perfect clit. And he has good hips too.

We stopped having sex at all 3 or 4 years ago.

I have has sex with plenty of men and women in this time, and before i married him, but have no problem with nudity and showing my hairy pussy off.
I know its a good one. Especially from behind. I have a round butt. And nice thick full lips and hanging clit. A tempting mound that extends pretty low close to my butt hole.
I love showing it off to other partners that I would have sex with or even potentially.

To other girls here. What makes us like this?
I have had 2 other boyfriends (and one girlfriend) I have been like this with. It was always CFNM. (At least my husband gets to see the rest of me naked- these guys didnt even get tits) They were the perfect guys to come home to after a rough or hot date. They still got plenty of hugs and kisses.

Thinking back to dorms and changerooms. Girls dont mind stripping down to panties and bra. Even talking and walking or sitting around comfortably. But very rarely do we show our bush off. Same with bffs. Wel watch movies together in panties and teeshirt. Even masturbate together. But its either hands in panties or hands on top of panties- not panties off. Panties off raises eyebrows. (in front of me its an invitation.. im into girls more than guys)

I caught my husband looking between my legs few time. Looking at my dark panty mound. I instinctively cross my legs.

What makes us treat these sweet guys like this?

How do guys who experience this feel?
Do you still yearn to see your girls muff?
What do you feel when you are constantly denied visual? Do you find other outlets like porn, hookers or strippers?
Did you become accustomed to it slowly, or you never asked for pussy so you never got it.

Is your dick generally on the smallish side?
How does it feel being naked around a fully clothed women? Do you stay soft in this state?

(Soft naked cocks are my fav when im clothed. Feels like I won)

Good job. A well trained cuck is the best kind I love being one. Of course you won he accepts that looking is not allowed.

[sana9889]

I find eventually they dont try to look anymore.
Same way girls at in the changerooms and dorm dont try to look at their friends vaginas.

There are a lot of advantages both from being her man (sexual) or being her gal (sister/bff).
For a feminine woman- being with her man is a lot about pleasing him. You need to give him pussy. The pussy was designed to give pleasure.. not so much to receive pleasure.

The bff shares without taking.
The dynamic is beautiful.

The bf is mostly there only to get pussy. He's there to take. While she wants to be taken deep down.. she still needs someone who is truly her own. Bff/cuck/sister.. thats you.

[sana9889]

Do you guys still want to see her vagina? Or is it just another organ she has, and you respect?

[inivisibletwin]

Do you guys still want to see her vagina? Or is it just another organ she has, and you respect?

I legit want my wife's vagina to be so off limits to me that I forget what it looks like, while her boyfriend has all the access to it that I, her husband, would normally have...

but then again, my biggest turn on is my wife getting laid without me around.

[sherulestherooster]

I have a strong CFNM fetish and my ex wife was one of those women that are always cold. So she would almost never be fully naked plus she preferred sex in the dark. She’d wear some top and I’d pull it up during foreplay to suck her nopples and then pull it back down, not really seeing them since it was dark. Turned me on quite a bit.

Funny story, we were unexpectedly alone on vacation but she was in her period. She gave me a handjob while I was fully naked and she was fully clothed. Man I came so hard from that, very intense.

[isharedmywifein2018]

During her last committed bull relationship the role play went so far that I was no longer allowed to see Sue’s pussy. She let me jack off to her one last time before that happened. Starting new bull relationship now so it will be interesting to see what his rules are if the role play goes that far.

[sana9889]

Its great that you guys respect your wives so much.
Her pussy should be kept for those she submits to.

Notice the kind of men she bends over for instinctively.
Love and intimacy is special. Pussy and sex are a different realm.
It takes a special feminine woman to not give her pussy to just any man.

[thepen]

This is just the hottest subject imaginable for me. Women who deny their nesting partner the sight of their sex are, to me, exercising power and sovereignty over their own bodies. And to the extent that it's a power trip for them to do so, women on a power trip are the hottest!

I especially like your dictum that her pussy should be kept for the man she submits to, not her loving partner.

Thanks for the thread. Would hope to see more feedback from couples who do this!

[Colliercuck]

I haven’t seen my wife’s pussy in just over 4 years, not nude at all, since she started to deny me……….as I asked her, and she made me come to her and spell out my desires.
In a bikini and occasionally by accident in her panties

[Colliercuck]

I haven’t seen my wife’s pussy in just over 4 years, not nude at all, since she started to deny me……….as I asked her, and she made me come to her and spell out my desires.
In a bikini and occasionally by accident in her panties
I know some would judge and have things to say…….but bit is very very powerful and erotic to me
It’s odd to desire her so much, but the denial makes it so much more powerful for me