Should I Try Again?

[spiffysteffy]

So long story as short as I can. Me and my ex are divorcing and I am with someone new and getting re married is only a matter of finishing the divorce process. It's not fair to say that this lifestyle caused the breakup but it was definitely a contributing factor, especially at the end of the relationship.

I have been very open with my new partner about my sexual history. He found it odd at first buy eventually started to ask me to recount my history with other men. Now he has become interesting in getting into this lifestyle.

All that being said. Has anyone here been in a failed relationship who successfully rejoined this lifestyle without complications? Or is this something I should avoid and keep the past in the past? I'd like to hear arguments from both sides.

[Bridget_Joshua]

I have always been outright about this to all the guys i have been with, a usual behaviour is at first they were excited & wanted to explore this later on when they could not handle opening our relationship came up. It became a competition to who gets laid the most, which they lost obviously because of me(hot chick) so the relationship went toxic with frequent fights and much more.
My suggestion would be to have a talk about it a long & deep meaningful conversation of what you both want out of it & a introduction to him in this lifestyle would be great before getting married. Maybe try some flirting with other guys in front of him, gradually increase the sexual intensity of meets with BJs at washrooms/public places, dates where he is just a friend of yours tagging along & finally getting fucked in front of him.
-Bri❤