Are you into hotwifing as you want bigger

[Des 31]

Responding for my wife ~

I don't think she has ever sought bigger (I'm an average size) but has come across a few over the past seven years. We have learned the super-sized guys are in the vast minority. Her boss is an eight-and-a-half-inch exception, but she encounters a moment of fear each time he is about to penetrate her, so I guess that isn't always an advantage for at least some women. (She gets over it once his dick is fully implanted, but the fright is almost always there before that first moment.)

[Farmgirl]

No.

Size is nothing.

I am on the "handsome" side, or so I have been told. I am smart. I have a good sense of humor. I am a great kisser. My penis is just under 4 inches long when hard. The end op my dick fits inside of a toilet paper tube, but the base doesn't. My wife says my dick is useless. Interested?

AZVixen hasn't been on here in quite a while.

If your first four sentences are true, then that is what would interest me. The rest could absolutely be worked with .

[SuzyLovesSex]

No. My husband is by no means a disappointment and in fact other women think he’s the bomb! I’m not always functioning as a Hotwife, though. He plays too when available, so in those cases we are more under the realm of swingers.

[ez456]

No.

Size is nothing. There are several threads on this subject here, and if you read them, the majority of "real" women here say size is NOT important. It's more about looks, skill, and having a connection.

Lots of guys here will say their wife needs big dick. Lots of so called women here will say they need big dick (of course those "women" never seem to get verified lol). Pay attention to what real women say. Pay attention to what your own wife says. Don't assume she's daydreaming about giant dicks.

My last gf cheated with a guy with a smaller dick. Her ex fuck buddy to be exact. It was looks and sexual chemistry. Size didn't come into it.

[PANTIES]

My wife is interested in stamina. I seriously lack stamina there are times I’ve have not been able to stick my little guy in her when I ejaculated all over her. It became a serious issue and remains a serious issue.

Pauline

[PolishHotWife]

I don’t choose a man because of dick size.. it’s not the most important aspect. But I always secretly fantasied about big dick. And not until I met a man I was attracted too who had a big dick, did I realise how important it is. Size does matter. Bulls should be big. To pleasure us wives. My husband has a slightly above average size penis. He was the best from all the men I had Sex with even if they were bigger. It’s really a very thick and big one that changed that.

[Yourfirstbull]

Obviously every experience is unique BUT every hubby of a hotwife that I’ve been with, every one, has asked me my size. Not one wife ever has.

Well...they did not have to ask you since their husband already did ! :-)

Ha--I should mention, a good portion of the time the wife is the one reaching out. There have been couples where I've met the hubby and he's watched (or joined) but I've never really talked to him, only his wife.

[RHotwife1981]

They guy posts his opinion and his story and you all tore into him. I know size matters for my wife.there may be other things that come first but size definitely matters for us. Just my opinion and experience. This is not debate club or a court of law. No one has to “do their research “. Most studies contradict themselves anyway.

[RHotwife1981]

You guys are so insecure. I'm 5.5 inches and never had a complaint. Just read the stuff from the real, verified women here. Ignore the dudes saying "my wife needs huge." I've got a super sexy wife, a full time side girl and a long term chick I fuck a few times a year. And they keep coming back for this 5.5 inches. Its all about skills and personality my friends.

Yesterday I found the dumbest post on this blog, today this must be one of the brightest posts on this blog! WE ARE ALL FOOLED BY PORN! You guys really think those porn actors would have a chance with your wives? Apart from a big dick they are mostly ugly mtf’s.. Size is more important to men than to women, that’s a FACT

Who watch’s porn? The only porn I watch is amateur porn put on by people just like us

[MMAN1]

Wife is not into size, although i kept asking when she was with someone else. Four of her lovers were "about your size" was her response. Of those 4, 2 of them gave her awsome sex, multiple orgasms by cock action some times as well as other stimulation mostly. One had a cock larger than me, she said it actually hurt at first. However he was not good and she just enjoyed being well filled as she took him several times as well as traveled an hour to enjoy his cock.

[Amy0Pete]

I clicked yes however the hotwifing / sex with other men originated with my bf now husband and it was penis size related (or lack of)
I'm not good with measurements but I know my hub is small, actually thin very thin, when I'm excited I can't feel much sometimes I have to imagine as there's zero sensation.
Yes bigger interested me and once sampled, oh yummy
*Bigger is thickness

[leo-cpl]

My wife's not a Size Queen, I am decent size above average myself, I can also tell you when meet new guys casually she doesn't check with me if he's hung etc. For her the criteria of selecting a guy are different, guy has to down to earth, reasonably fit, presentable, hygienic, should have the ability to hold a general conversation too. A whole bunch of aspects go into her n me meeting a guys casually and then deciding on if we want to move ahead.

However, I can tell you one thing, two of the guys she's played with so far were hung 8"+(one of them we still meet once in a few months) the first time he was inside her.....her exact words were "God you are big" LOL.....one of the hottest things I have hear her say and this was almost 3 years ago and she is still not just seeking just guys who are hung!

I'm fairly certain if the woman likes the guys enough to want to fuck him and he happens to be hung its just a big plus if he knows how to use what he has

[sana9889]

Not really about size. I can enjoy them all with the right person.

[Sharemywife1968]

my wife made it clear from start,,if she was going to step out of our marriage,it was gonna be with bigger and better cocks, of the 140 cocks she has had over 18ys of play, 95% of them have been hung and bare, so size is important to a degree,,just seems all
her lovers are hung lol

[Fredposer2017]

Hi Jennifer here. While bigger is usually better, I have fucked many an average man and men smaller than Sean. I have never turned down a man simply because he had a small cock.

[Mgcouplemn]

I admit I enjoy the sex, but what I really enjoy is the sight of how excited my husband is watching and masturbating while I have sex with another man. There are times he wants to watch and I have no interest, but I still do it so he can watch, I just lube up good and let the guy go at it as I lay there looking at my husband jerking off.

[Natatude]

No, grizzly has a big one and I prefer something about 8 inches, he is too big for me and hurts me a lot, you’d think after 38 years it woke be broke in lol so when I start talking to someone that’s the first thing I ask. I don’t want to waste anyone’s time if it’s too bug for my liking.

[zorro]

I have long suspected that the fantasy appeal of a large cock is mostly linked to male competitiveness around power. Classically, a penis symbolizes power and potency. Men (like women) are competitive critters; their cocks become a measuring rod (ha!!) of their implicit power. Men are often caught up in the notion that women desire powerful men (and, as Kissinger said, "Power is the greatest aphrodiasiac!), and for some women that may in fact be true.

Yes, there is something gratifying about witnessing an engorged cock of above average girth and heft. But that doesn't mean it feels good to women. For any given woman, it seems to me that a good fit, hitting the right places, and eliciting pleasure from the innermost places matter a lot. My wife likes having a big cock (and she has had several monster cocks). Her anatomy allows her to take them with ease (I still don't really know where she puts all that meat yet I see them disappear deep inside her allowing them to go balls deep with no visible shaft). Psychologically a big penis piques her interest. But she also tells me, "Any cock is fine as long as it is big enough."

On average, men are average. But what is average?

The published average length of an erect penis, according to several studies, typically ranges between 5 to 6 inches (12.7 to 15.24 cm). A widely cited study published in the British Journal of Urology International (BJUI) in 2015, which analyzed data from over 15,000 men worldwide, found the average erect penis length to be 5.16 inches (13.12 cm).

When measured in a flaccid state, the average length is approximately 3.6 inches (9.16 cm).

And showers can be more arousing than growers. So, the psychological calling card of a shower may help, especially in the context of sex parties (which I have seen: when flaccid, I get fewer interested ladies than when I'am hard).

Those men who think they are inferior because they have a 5.5 inch cock should have another think coming. They are slightly bigger than average and at least average.

I have noted at swing parties that other guys clearly beat the averages. So, the "sampling error" of penis size in these more public settings may bias our perception of normality.

This is a perennially popular topic here. And size does matter to men. I prefer to see long, wide cocks with stunning rigidity when we play with other guys. And not just because my wife also gets turned on by them. I suspect it is the power thing. I also respond to thinking of very physically large men (whole body, not just cock) taking her. And what turns me on most is when I see her reduce a huge man to jello with her sexual power. Finally, if you view any gay porn, the subjects often have monster cocks, way way beyond the norm. So, these are experiences that make me think power is an erotic component for men.

Fun issue.

[Tryagain]

Zorro,

very well said! I agree.

[sana9889]

I don’t choose a man because of dick size.. it’s not the most important aspect. But I always secretly fantasied about big dick. And not until I met a man I was attracted too who had a big dick, did I realise how important it is. Size does matter. Bulls should be big. To pleasure us wives. My husband has a slightly above average size penis. He was the best from all the men I had Sex with even if they were bigger. It’s really a very thick and big one that changed that.

I agree. Its not all about size.
I do enjoy playing with smaller ones too in different ways.
There are certain aspects of size and domination that come into play.
Big ones are great too. I have a thing for big heads regardless of length.

[sana9889]

Hi Jennifer here. While bigger is usually better, I have fucked many an average man and men smaller than Sean. I have never turned down a man simply because he had a small cock.

Its good with small guys sometimes (esp if you are loose like me) cos they need to work harder.

[trecital]

.....for those 8 and under.....

Surely, someone under 8 is a child? Or maybe better described as an infant.

[DavaoMike]

My wife Maricel’s long term boyfriend, Adam, is roughly the same size as me, about 6.5 inches. That’s not a factor for Maricel since she’s quite petite and tight anyway. But she frequently comments on Adam’s amazing stamina and the fact that his cock is “hard like rock,” using her words.

DM

[andrew1]

I have to agree with you DM. Most of my wife's lovers over the years have dicks that are the same size, or just slightly larger, than mine. But I have always had a problem with cumming too fast to satisfy her. She truly enjoys their stamina and ability to get hard again quickly after they cum. (Of course her gently kissing, licking, and sucking their spent penis back to life has something to do with that !).

[jared7577768]

I have a question about something that I don’t think has been addressed in this thread (I didn’t read every single post so I’m not sure). Like most conversations on this topic the “sizes” discussed are either average, “smaller,” or big. And the general response is that size doesn’t really matter as far as feeling good…there are many variables, most of which are more important than size. But what about size small enough to be classified as “micro”? Buried when flaccid and 3” when erect. Not looking for humiliation or anything, I’m just pointing out the difference between low-average and diagnosed “smallness.” A man can be handsome, intelligent, charismatic, funny, and sexually skilled in other ways. How much of a difference would it make if he had a micro penis?